Kinky women in Kent

What I’m truly looking for isn’t something I expect to just stumble across on an app, because chemistry, energy, and connection are things you really feel when you’re facetoface with someone. I’m a big believer in communication — real, open, honest communication about feelings, worries, emotions, everything. I want someone who isn’t afraid to be *** and who understands the value of simply checking in. A quick “I’m busy but I’ll message later” goes a long way with me. I’m very independent and make my own choices, but I also appreciate a man who can take the lead when I’m laidback about decisions. If I say “you choose,” I want someone confident enough to actually choose. And if I ever do feel strongly about something, I’ll say it — I’m very straightup like that. Chemistry matters to me, both emotionally and physically. I want someone who can stimulate my mind as well as everything else. I’m naturally more on the submissive side sexually, so I’m drawn to a man who’s comfortable taking charge in that area, but I’m open to softer, more vanilla moments too. I just want a dynamic that lets me rest in my feminine energy instead of always being in my “doing everything myself” mode. I appreciate kindness, humour, affection, small gestures, and someone who pays attention to the little things. I’m not materialistic — *** doesn’t impress me or buy my time. Respect, affection, touch, and thoughtfulness do. A few practical things: I’m not interested in anyone who smokes, uses ***, or doesn’t put their *** first if they have them. I have *** myself and I’m very busy, but I still make time for the right person — so I expect the same effort back. And I’m not planning on having any more ***, so if you want your own, I’m not the right match. Overall, I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone who communicates, respects me, makes me feel safe in both the soft and intimate ways, and who values the same things I do. I don’t check this site often, but I reply when I can. If you don’t hear back, please don’t take it personal — it just means we’re not a match. No hard feelings. Wishing you luck in your search… and maybe a little luck with me, too.

*polite request - please do not message me if you have no intention of actually speaking with me properly. I am looking for a genuine connection and I am not interested in being anything 'cheap'. I believe a good Dom should want to know and understand his submissive (and respect her, even within his dominance) - as she should strive to know him and his desires, as well as how to best fulfill them.* I am brand new to the scene. I have always wanted to explore having a Dom... being a submissive (and perhaps a little playful and being good). I'm 20 though and quite young and I don't have tonnes of experience - really I would be hoping for someone who *does* and is able to be a little patient with me as I learn the ropes. (perhaps literally as well hehe 😌). I learn fast and once I do, I genuinely want to try to make it work! I just need someone to help get me there. I think respect is important and a big thing - even if someone is a Dom or Submissive I think above that: we are all adults and humans and we should treat each other **kindly**. If that's not how you operate, that's fair, but I'm probably not for you. I do have standards - in the sense that *I am looking for a high quality man who takes care of himself as well as his submissive*. If you do not value ethics, manners (when called for VS agreed upon kinky moments), or being a genuine person - unfortunately, this is something which will be highly incompatible with me. (so for both of our sakes it would be better to move onto the next person 😊 no judgment). I also value an *intellectual* connection, not just purely physical (although of course that is wonderful as well!). If not intellectual then there needs to be something that is going to genuinely engage both of us, whether that's humour, a good sense of character, or just being genuinely kind (outside the moments that might call for a bit more discipline 😉). I don't want to waste anyone's time and equally I feel it's only fair if the same is done back. I'm a pretty nice person overall... I just want to meet someone with similar values who genuinely wants to be a Dom. If you are an **intentional person**, there is a high chance we will get along. I am open-minded to exploring dynamics once a deeper level of trust and effort is established. I'm a firm believer that you get back what you give, so if you put in the work, I will match you - the results will be better overall for both of us. If that interests you - I would love to talk. 😊 happy to answer any questions. **please note: I am not looking for immediate meetups or hookups.** --- I do not wish to be viewed as an object nor simply as means of one-sided gratification. Thank you 🤍 **languages spoken: English (Native), Spanish (advanced), French (intermediate), Mandarin (basic).** notes: I have had certain users be abusive simply because I have not replied within an 8 hour period. (of sleeping!) they have been harsh, degrading and genuinely unkind. This is a polite reminder that the person you are speaking to is still a human and does have feelings. True, not everyone processes the same, but for those who do care about other's unkind words - such as myself - please understand that even in a position as a submissive, I will not accept unfair treatment that is unjustified and is simply a reflection of poor character. Calling someone agreed upon degrading names is extremely different from what could actually read as bullying. The line is a hard stop for me - I value people who actually care.

Seeing what happens

Looking for a male submissive for a committed, monogamous dynamic. Must be between the ages of 40 and 60. Any messages from anyone requesting play outside of these parameters will be ignored/blocked.NO SMOKERS OR VAPERS Please note I'm currently unable to host and not willing to have a purely online relationship or travel more than 20 miles from the Maidstone area. The ability to **communicate** effectively is extremely important to me. Whilst experience isnt a necessity, please be **honest** about your desires, wants and needs. I will **respect** and honour your limitations, and build the **trust** needed to build a special connection. I absolutely love to peg and make an arse nice and red with a good paddle. I also have soft spot for watching a sub drink my ***. ***, ***, sissification and being caged are also some of my favourite things. I will never participate in catheterisation. Likewise needles whilst im mentioning hard limits. Despite being on the hunt for a sub, I would really like to chat with likeminded individuals looking for friendship. One question, one chance, one honest answer. You can ask me one question (TO MY INBOX ONLY!). Any question, anything, no matter how crazy, dirty or wrong it is. No catch. But I dare you to post this on your about me and see what people ask you.

READ THE PROFILE Nice to meet you, lol. little about me: I am 38, curvy, cuddly. I like to play PC games, I also love erotica Audiobooks.. . if you wanna know more, ask questions. I want to make some friends in the world of kink, people I can chat to about vanilla things and ....non vanilla things 😏. I'm in a relationship. I have been with him for 12 years! He knows I'm on here he knows I like to talk to people, so yes, it's fine to be on here! Have Snapchat. You get that only when I've got to know you a bit... I am a Switch. But I lean more towards sub. I have a dominant side it doesn't come out too often, but does when she has too.... FEW GROUND RULES!!: * Don't ask to see Body Parts!! ..... I'm not yours!!! I'm not going to show you intimate parts! * Treat me with respect!! I think you'd want me to respect you too. Respect is earned, not just given!! * I have a partner been with him for 12 years, so I'm not going to run away with you or be yours and show you bits and pieces or meet up for play dates...!! * If you can be a gentleman, please act like one. I like the bad boy thing, but i do like a gentleman/Daddy. * If you have made it this far and read this, please give me the code word, which is Pegs... THINGS I DONT LIKE ABOUT SOME PEOPLE!!:- * I don't like it when ppl talk to me, build up a friendship, and then drop me like a stone....... Just don't talk to me if that's wat you plan to do!! THINGS I'VE LEARNT !: *I have learned I do like Daddy Doms/caregivers tho there arent alot on here that i can call proper Daddy Doms..... *I definitely have a praise kink and do like to be taken care of, I like my Daddy to check on me and make sure I'm OK, that I'm happy and had a good day and if I haven't help cheer me up in some way. (Adding more later)

Switch; fairly new to the scene looking to connect with others and see what happens. Demisexual and grey romantic so not always easy to meet people, but would love a pretty even dynamic. Lover of dress up and exploring new things. Alas, not a real redhead 😉

Hi i am a Switch. A little and also a Mommy Domme. Tho my little side plays more often. I age play as well as agree. My biggest pet ***ve is the miss use of honorifics. I am not your princess/ little one/babygirl /kitten/Mummy/Mistress etc. I've not given you permission to call me with these titles. So unless You are my Dom or sub/little. Then I'm just rara to you. Thank you

Hi, I'm a 49yr old submissive female. White, professional, newly single. 5'4, larger than I'd like but Couch to 5k running to correct that (size 18 currently). I'm curvy and soft, dark hair, dark eyes, very pale (and mark beautifully). I'm a book lover, inept but enthusiastic crafter, horror film afficionado. I'm a geek and a nerd. If the chubby, geeky girl at the back of the library ever intrigued you, maybe I'm for you. Looking for: Strict Dominant Male who doesn't think vetting and aftercare are optional, and wants me in rope. If you've read this far and want to chat, please include the word tulip in your message

Come say hi! Submissive babygirl with limited experience... just having a little look around! Predominantly looking for a Dom/Daddy with a bit of experience... someone who can show me the way :p There are many things I would like to try such as, Wax play, Bondage and restraints, Impact play i.e Flogging, Spanking, Crops! Orgasm control and denial... these are just a few things!! Super into cute names... yes I want to be called Princess :p Other turn ons include dominance, firm but fair (don't be a pushy dick ha!), hair pulling, choking, rough handling, teasing, some aspects of ***, sensory deprivation, being a little bratty (I'm a total smart mouth when i want to be lol) and ohhh i loveee communication and dirty talk within a scene... tease me with your words... please? :p I think that's me pretty much summed up! I feel like I should put a disclaimer out there I'm not looking for abusive Doms and those who think my submission is their right because they give themselves a Dominant title... Please be respectful because despite being a babygirl princess, I am fiesty and I will tell you to go fuck yourself! Ha!

I’m super new to kink but it’s been playing on my mind a lot recently so here I am. Looking to chat to like minded people and to discover and learn other people’s kinks. I’m sure there’s so many out there that I just don’t know about. I can definitely say in a voyeur. I get so turned on by watching guys cum for me so if you liked being watched let me know 😉 (just to be clear, I don’t like being watched over live so won’t have my camera on)

Naturally submissive lady looking for experienced Master to can serve with her mind, body and soul. Her pleasure is derived from serving her Master. Her place at his feet waiting on his every word. I'm looking for someone to be my world. Someone to worship and obey behind closed doors but who'll treat me with respect and dignity in public. For me a true D/s relationship has to have a connection, an understand that we both desire and need the same thing.

I like to meet first to see if we connect. Ladies - I'd like friends as well as a potential lover. I want someone to go to kinky events with and just connect with on a kinky level. I'm happy to share a face picture once we connect and seem serious.

talking about myself is hard, but I'll answer any questions

Im weird. im looking for a relationship with a guy who dominate. who knows himself. must be able to stimulate my mind and soul not just my body? i will push boundaries in the bedroom and out of it.

Im looking to learn from a safe knowledgeable dominate male. Looking to safely explore the softer side of kink and progress when comfortable **Desires and Fantasies** Being restained

So I am a worthless piece of meat and need to b treated like one now owned but if you ask you can follow my journey also master now wants a local women to me to use as a sub but she needs to be switch to dominate me **Desires and Fantasies** *** play, pet play, slave up to try anything until I find something I do not like

Looking for a slave that I can dominate and humiliate. Where are my dirty dogs that I can parade around on a lead? Let me mock you and treat you like a piece of shit and while you are down there you can clean my feet!

Hey beautiful people. Thanks for stopping by. I am a real person and I am not a keyboard warrior, so please dont be sad if you hit my messaging filters. If you do, it's probably just because you are too young or too far... I like to smile and I like to be around people who make me smile, so it helps if you do too:) And if you have a deep strong voice, you will make me and my auditory fetish very happy :bite: If you think we may have same interests... Hit me up?

I'm 19, shy and quite inexperienced sexually and romantically, but eager to learn more! I'm submissive and would like to be guided by a dom I can trust, whether that's vanilla or rough. I'm open-minded and happy to see where things go, so I'm looking for someone patient and confident. :)

NON SEXUAL little I enjoy watching movies, colouring, baking, going on fun trips out, buying more stuffies than necessary and playing minecraft ______ ______ ______ ______ 👀💕 Looking for someone (male or female) WHO will understand that, take things slowly and not *** the trust that we will build together I’m mainly a little above everything and looking for anyone who knows ANYTHING about looking after someone like me or even if you just want to be little friends!! looking for a man/woman thats roughly my height ______ ______ ______ ______

I’m very kinky but discerning with it. We won’t match if: -You’re bored and just want to have anonymous “NSA fun” -You have no intention of meeting in person - I’m not looking for a penpal Interests: Golf (love it but I’m rubbish), Adult Breast Feeding (no lactation though), binge watching action series in Netflix, good food, a warm cuddling session, eye contact and being with someone who doesn’t use kink as a form of escapism

BBW, neurospicy, and 5'6" of flirtation, humour, and good intentions. I’m the girl who’ll hype you up, make you laugh, and then tease you just enough to keep things interesting. People say I’m kind, fun, and a little addictive… I’ll let you decide if they’re right. I'd want something substantial. Connection, consistency, and someone who actually shows up. I’m looking for someone open minded, genuine, and ready for something that feels exciting but grounded. Bring your best energy, I’ll bring mine. If you have a beard, a hairy chest, and big arms, you’re already halfway to winning me over 😘 Have tried and liked •aftercare •facefucking •spanking •praising •sensory deprivation •edging •restrains •breath play •toys •temperature play •creampies •nipples play •control •orgasm control Want to try •blind folded •gagging •bondage •free use

I'm a cheeky, flirty, sexy curvy older lady but comfortable with my body 😁 looking to have some discreet fun as I am married. I have been in a long distant Master/slave relationship before, but I felt that i was missing out on something real and by not having any physical contact. So this time, I'm looking for someone closer so I can have a physical relationship with. But you never know what the future holds, so look out...lol ? When his gentle side makes you weak and his dominant side makes you wet...how lovely 💋 I'm currently owned by an AMAZING MASTER ❤️

hello! I’m a curvy bbw domme looking for a subby girl to play with. I have lots of kinks and very open minded. I don’t mind switching with the right person. ideally not ONS also up for online sessions and pic exchanges. IG: Grecianqueenxo

*polite request - please do not message me if you have no intention of actually speaking with me properly. I am looking for a genuine connection and I am not interested in being anything 'cheap'. I believe a good Dom should want to know and understand his submissive (and respect her, even within his dominance) - as she should strive to know him and his desires, as well as how to best fulfill them.* I am brand new to the scene. I have always wanted to explore having a Dom... being a submissive (and perhaps a little playful and being good). I'm 20 though and quite young and I don't have tonnes of experience - really I would be hoping for someone who *does* and is able to be a little patient with me as I learn the ropes. (perhaps literally as well hehe 😌). I learn fast and once I do, I genuinely want to try to make it work! I just need someone to help get me there. I think respect is important and a big thing - even if someone is a Dom or Submissive I think above that: we are all adults and humans and we should treat each other **kindly**. If that's not how you operate, that's fair, but I'm probably not for you. I do have standards - in the sense that *I am looking for a high quality man who takes care of himself as well as his submissive*. If you do not value ethics, manners (when called for VS agreed upon kinky moments), or being a genuine person - unfortunately, this is something which will be highly incompatible with me. (so for both of our sakes it would be better to move onto the next person 😊 no judgment). I also value an *intellectual* connection, not just purely physical (although of course that is wonderful as well!). If not intellectual then there needs to be something that is going to genuinely engage both of us, whether that's humour, a good sense of character, or just being genuinely kind (outside the moments that might call for a bit more discipline 😉). I don't want to waste anyone's time and equally I feel it's only fair if the same is done back. I'm a pretty nice person overall... I just want to meet someone with similar values who genuinely wants to be a Dom. If you are an **intentional person**, there is a high chance we will get along. I am open-minded to exploring dynamics once a deeper level of trust and effort is established. I'm a firm believer that you get back what you give, so if you put in the work, I will match you - the results will be better overall for both of us. If that interests you - I would love to talk. 😊 happy to answer any questions. **please note: I am not looking for immediate meetups or hookups.** --- I do not wish to be viewed as an object nor simply as means of one-sided gratification. Thank you 🤍 **languages spoken: English (Native), Spanish (advanced), French (intermediate), Mandarin (basic).** notes: I have had certain users be abusive simply because I have not replied within an 8 hour period. (of sleeping!) they have been harsh, degrading and genuinely unkind. This is a polite reminder that the person you are speaking to is still a human and does have feelings. True, not everyone processes the same, but for those who do care about other's unkind words - such as myself - please understand that even in a position as a submissive, I will not accept unfair treatment that is unjustified and is simply a reflection of poor character. Calling someone agreed upon degrading names is extremely different from what could actually read as bullying. The line is a hard stop for me - I value people who actually care.

Hi, I'm a 49yr old submissive female. White, professional, newly single. 5'4, larger than I'd like but Couch to 5k running to correct that (size 18 currently). I'm curvy and soft, dark hair, dark eyes, very pale (and mark beautifully). I'm a book lover, inept but enthusiastic crafter, horror film afficionado. I'm a geek and a nerd. If the chubby, geeky girl at the back of the library ever intrigued you, maybe I'm for you. Looking for: Strict Dominant Male who doesn't think vetting and aftercare are optional, and wants me in rope. If you've read this far and want to chat, please include the word tulip in your message

I’m super new to kink but it’s been playing on my mind a lot recently so here I am. Looking to chat to like minded people and to discover and learn other people’s kinks. I’m sure there’s so many out there that I just don’t know about. I can definitely say in a voyeur. I get so turned on by watching guys cum for me so if you liked being watched let me know 😉 (just to be clear, I don’t like being watched over live so won’t have my camera on)

Looking for a slave that I can dominate and humiliate. Where are my dirty dogs that I can parade around on a lead? Let me mock you and treat you like a piece of shit and while you are down there you can clean my feet!

I like to meet first to see if we connect. Ladies - I'd like friends as well as a potential lover. I want someone to go to kinky events with and just connect with on a kinky level. I'm happy to share a face picture once we connect and seem serious.

What I’m truly looking for isn’t something I expect to just stumble across on an app, because chemistry, energy, and connection are things you really feel when you’re facetoface with someone. I’m a big believer in communication — real, open, honest communication about feelings, worries, emotions, everything. I want someone who isn’t afraid to be *** and who understands the value of simply checking in. A quick “I’m busy but I’ll message later” goes a long way with me. I’m very independent and make my own choices, but I also appreciate a man who can take the lead when I’m laidback about decisions. If I say “you choose,” I want someone confident enough to actually choose. And if I ever do feel strongly about something, I’ll say it — I’m very straightup like that. Chemistry matters to me, both emotionally and physically. I want someone who can stimulate my mind as well as everything else. I’m naturally more on the submissive side sexually, so I’m drawn to a man who’s comfortable taking charge in that area, but I’m open to softer, more vanilla moments too. I just want a dynamic that lets me rest in my feminine energy instead of always being in my “doing everything myself” mode. I appreciate kindness, humour, affection, small gestures, and someone who pays attention to the little things. I’m not materialistic — *** doesn’t impress me or buy my time. Respect, affection, touch, and thoughtfulness do. A few practical things: I’m not interested in anyone who smokes, uses ***, or doesn’t put their *** first if they have them. I have *** myself and I’m very busy, but I still make time for the right person — so I expect the same effort back. And I’m not planning on having any more ***, so if you want your own, I’m not the right match. Overall, I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone who communicates, respects me, makes me feel safe in both the soft and intimate ways, and who values the same things I do. I don’t check this site often, but I reply when I can. If you don’t hear back, please don’t take it personal — it just means we’re not a match. No hard feelings. Wishing you luck in your search… and maybe a little luck with me, too.

Looking for a male submissive for a committed, monogamous dynamic. Must be between the ages of 40 and 60. Any messages from anyone requesting play outside of these parameters will be ignored/blocked.NO SMOKERS OR VAPERS Please note I'm currently unable to host and not willing to have a purely online relationship or travel more than 20 miles from the Maidstone area. The ability to **communicate** effectively is extremely important to me. Whilst experience isnt a necessity, please be **honest** about your desires, wants and needs. I will **respect** and honour your limitations, and build the **trust** needed to build a special connection. I absolutely love to peg and make an arse nice and red with a good paddle. I also have soft spot for watching a sub drink my ***. ***, ***, sissification and being caged are also some of my favourite things. I will never participate in catheterisation. Likewise needles whilst im mentioning hard limits. Despite being on the hunt for a sub, I would really like to chat with likeminded individuals looking for friendship. One question, one chance, one honest answer. You can ask me one question (TO MY INBOX ONLY!). Any question, anything, no matter how crazy, dirty or wrong it is. No catch. But I dare you to post this on your about me and see what people ask you.

READ THE PROFILE Nice to meet you, lol. little about me: I am 38, curvy, cuddly. I like to play PC games, I also love erotica Audiobooks.. . if you wanna know more, ask questions. I want to make some friends in the world of kink, people I can chat to about vanilla things and ....non vanilla things 😏. I'm in a relationship. I have been with him for 12 years! He knows I'm on here he knows I like to talk to people, so yes, it's fine to be on here! Have Snapchat. You get that only when I've got to know you a bit... I am a Switch. But I lean more towards sub. I have a dominant side it doesn't come out too often, but does when she has too.... FEW GROUND RULES!!: * Don't ask to see Body Parts!! ..... I'm not yours!!! I'm not going to show you intimate parts! * Treat me with respect!! I think you'd want me to respect you too. Respect is earned, not just given!! * I have a partner been with him for 12 years, so I'm not going to run away with you or be yours and show you bits and pieces or meet up for play dates...!! * If you can be a gentleman, please act like one. I like the bad boy thing, but i do like a gentleman/Daddy. * If you have made it this far and read this, please give me the code word, which is Pegs... THINGS I DONT LIKE ABOUT SOME PEOPLE!!:- * I don't like it when ppl talk to me, build up a friendship, and then drop me like a stone....... Just don't talk to me if that's wat you plan to do!! THINGS I'VE LEARNT !: *I have learned I do like Daddy Doms/caregivers tho there arent alot on here that i can call proper Daddy Doms..... *I definitely have a praise kink and do like to be taken care of, I like my Daddy to check on me and make sure I'm OK, that I'm happy and had a good day and if I haven't help cheer me up in some way. (Adding more later)

Naturally submissive lady looking for experienced Master to can serve with her mind, body and soul. Her pleasure is derived from serving her Master. Her place at his feet waiting on his every word. I'm looking for someone to be my world. Someone to worship and obey behind closed doors but who'll treat me with respect and dignity in public. For me a true D/s relationship has to have a connection, an understand that we both desire and need the same thing.

Im weird. im looking for a relationship with a guy who dominate. who knows himself. must be able to stimulate my mind and soul not just my body? i will push boundaries in the bedroom and out of it.

talking about myself is hard, but I'll answer any questions

Switch; fairly new to the scene looking to connect with others and see what happens. Demisexual and grey romantic so not always easy to meet people, but would love a pretty even dynamic. Lover of dress up and exploring new things. Alas, not a real redhead 😉

Hi i am a Switch. A little and also a Mommy Domme. Tho my little side plays more often. I age play as well as agree. My biggest pet ***ve is the miss use of honorifics. I am not your princess/ little one/babygirl /kitten/Mummy/Mistress etc. I've not given you permission to call me with these titles. So unless You are my Dom or sub/little. Then I'm just rara to you. Thank you

Im looking to learn from a safe knowledgeable dominate male. Looking to safely explore the softer side of kink and progress when comfortable **Desires and Fantasies** Being restained

Seeing what happens

Come say hi! Submissive babygirl with limited experience... just having a little look around! Predominantly looking for a Dom/Daddy with a bit of experience... someone who can show me the way :p There are many things I would like to try such as, Wax play, Bondage and restraints, Impact play i.e Flogging, Spanking, Crops! Orgasm control and denial... these are just a few things!! Super into cute names... yes I want to be called Princess :p Other turn ons include dominance, firm but fair (don't be a pushy dick ha!), hair pulling, choking, rough handling, teasing, some aspects of ***, sensory deprivation, being a little bratty (I'm a total smart mouth when i want to be lol) and ohhh i loveee communication and dirty talk within a scene... tease me with your words... please? :p I think that's me pretty much summed up! I feel like I should put a disclaimer out there I'm not looking for abusive Doms and those who think my submission is their right because they give themselves a Dominant title... Please be respectful because despite being a babygirl princess, I am fiesty and I will tell you to go fuck yourself! Ha!

So I am a worthless piece of meat and need to b treated like one now owned but if you ask you can follow my journey also master now wants a local women to me to use as a sub but she needs to be switch to dominate me **Desires and Fantasies** *** play, pet play, slave up to try anything until I find something I do not like

Hey beautiful people. Thanks for stopping by. I am a real person and I am not a keyboard warrior, so please dont be sad if you hit my messaging filters. If you do, it's probably just because you are too young or too far... I like to smile and I like to be around people who make me smile, so it helps if you do too:) And if you have a deep strong voice, you will make me and my auditory fetish very happy :bite: If you think we may have same interests... Hit me up?

I'm 19, shy and quite inexperienced sexually and romantically, but eager to learn more! I'm submissive and would like to be guided by a dom I can trust, whether that's vanilla or rough. I'm open-minded and happy to see where things go, so I'm looking for someone patient and confident. :)

completely new to this but would love to explore my submissive side. like the idea of cnc. older guys tickle my fancy.

-Looking for a dom who’s also a brat tamer -you have all the control but I get to have a say in some situations -have to respect my boundaries and communicate clearly with me -don’t waste my time as I’m also looking for a long term relationship aswell -I have adhd but don’t let that put you off! :)

Plus size and slightly tatted 💉 I natually fall into the sub role, I enjoy the shut off this gives my brain, but I can Switch with the right person. P.s. I am a brat! Vanilla life - 👩🏼‍⚕️ Slave to the NHS ⚽️ I can explain the offside rule🔴⚪ 🏐 Good at catching balls ⚡Harry Potter (but not Rowling) 🎞 Classic Disney films 🐈‍Free kitten pictures Side note: if my cat doesn't like you, you're not the one 🐈‍️

After 24 hours on here, I have come to the conclusion dating apps aren’t for me. If you are genuinely interested, I’m on the other Fet. I will not be replying to any messages here. I’m submissive and my interests are eclectic, extensive and varied. I’m confident with my submission and this is an important pillar of my personality. I’m open minded and keen to explore. The list of my interests is quite long so I am sure we will have many mutual passions. I am on FetLife if you wish to see more photos and a summary of my kinks. Fully embracing being a sparkly pink princess. My submission is completely intertwined with princess energy, I know my worth and my submission is a gift. I’m not interested in random fucks, nor anyone who can’t be bothered to sting a coherent sentence together. If you don’t think I’m worth the effort to write a decent opening message to, then do not expect a response. “hi how r u” will get you no where. If you do not have a profile picture or you are not verified, you will not be getting a response. I’ve been on the scene a while now, I attend events and munches and I run a munch. I don’t expect everyone to have the same levels of local engagement, but I also am only interested in people who have a genuine connection with their kink. I don’t mind what your experience levels are, what matters is respect, attitude, compassion and kindness. I’m a princess with a touch of playful brattiness, not a full on brat but the right people light that fire and make my eyes sparkle. I may be a princess but I’m not your princess, that is an honorific and only to be used within established dynamics. I love to dress up and feel pretty, effort and intention are hot. I love shiny pretty sparkly things. Toys should be aesthetically pleasing as well as feeling good. Neurospicy and the cliche that in the vanilla world, I’ve got my shit together and I adult hard most of the time. This world balances me and brings me a sense of peace. My kink friendships and community are vastly important to me and blend into my vanilla world. Kink is a pillar of my identity and where I feel authentically me. Treat me as your princess and I will make you my King. I need softness alongside Dominance, adore me, give me attention and make sure I know you care for me, that you’ve got hold of the world and I’m safe. Thoughtful gestures and little things to make me feel special will go a very long way. I want to be treasured, protected and at the centre of your world. Give me enough space to play and push but be able to give me one look that quietens my mind and all I can see is you. As for my vanilla side, I have an active social life but do enjoy a cosy night in. I’m a cliche millennial in that my dog is my world, I work in employment and mental health services. I like to think I am well functioning adult who has their life together. I flit between hobbies, usually craft related. I am told I’m a good cook. I absolutely love the seaside, even with the British weather, a trip to the coast with a flask of tea and a blanket would be my perfect day out.

Please read my profile clearful. Good Morning and Hello. i am a black plus size women who is looking for a relationship that is mixed with bdsm. So it would be like a girlfriend/sub and Boyfriend/dom kind of relationship. So to the outside world it would be a usual typically simple basic vanilla normal relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend. But behind closed door, when it just the two of us, alone, on the indside and when we are in the mood. It would be sub and dom relationship. Completely private. I would say that i am more like a bedroom submissive. For example vanilla - would be like sitting on the sofa like normal around other people or just the two of us. Then kink/ bdsm - it would be me sitting on the floor wearing a collar with a lead attached to it. And you holding on to the lead. I am looking for some one who has a job, can drive and has a car, independant, strong minded, determinded, ambitious, brave, has is own views and opinons and not afraid to share them, leader, not afraid to stand up for what is right, kind, funny, caring, dominated. I do have a lists of questions that i like to asks as it create topics of disscussions and make it easier to talk to people and finding out what we have in common beside from BDSM and sex. plus talking about sex is boring. Talking about sex as you can see by my bdsm lists of do's and dont. I dont do sex and have no intent on having sex outside of marriage. that includes vaginal sex and anal sex. This is due to my religious belief that sex is for marriage and i am still a virgin. So NO VAGINAL SEX and NO ANAL SEX. And have no plans on changing that. However i do have a lot of sex toys. My sex toy collection is growing continulous. Currently have over 70 items so far. I also have a lists of them as well but have no pictures. However i do have pictures of bdsm pic collages that i make in my free time. I want to make this clear i am not looking for friends with benefits, one night stands or anything like that if you are intrested in that kind of thing. Please dont start a conversation with me i am looking for local people to medway for example chatham, gillingham, rochester, strood, rainham, cuxton, maidstone, barming, ashford. I have no intention in traveling anywhere near london as it is too far. I cant host or accomadate. Thank you taking the time for reading profile. incase i dont see you - Good Afternoon, Good Evening and Good Night.