Kinky women in Kent

READ THE PROFILE Nice to meet you, lol. little about me: I am 38, curvy, cuddly. I like to play PC games, I also love erotica Audiobooks.. . if you wanna know more, ask questions. I want to make some friends in the world of kink, people I can chat to about vanilla things and ....non vanilla things 😏. I'm in a relationship. I have been with him for 12 years! He knows I'm on here he knows I like to talk to people, so yes, it's fine to be on here! Have Snapchat. You get that only when I've got to know you a bit... I am a Switch. But I lean more towards sub. I have a dominant side it doesn't come out too often, but does when she has too.... FEW GROUND RULES!!: * Don't ask to see Body Parts!! ..... I'm not yours!!! I'm not going to show you intimate parts! * Treat me with respect!! I think you'd want me to respect you too. Respect is earned, not just given!! * I have a partner been with him for 12 years, so I'm not going to run away with you or be yours and show you bits and pieces or meet up for play dates...!! * If you can be a gentleman, please act like one. I like the bad boy thing, but i do like a gentleman/Daddy. * If you have made it this far and read this, please give me the code word, which is Pegs... THINGS I DONT LIKE ABOUT SOME PEOPLE!!:- * I don't like it when ppl talk to me, build up a friendship, and then drop me like a stone....... Just don't talk to me if that's wat you plan to do!! THINGS I'VE LEARNT !: *I have learned I do like ***s/caregivers tho there arent alot on here that i can call proper ***s..... *I definitely have a praise kink and do like to be taken care of, I like my Daddy to check on me and make sure I'm OK, that I'm happy and had a good day and if I haven't help cheer me up in some way. (Adding more later)

Hi, I'm a 49yr old submissive female. White, professional, newly single. 5'4, larger than I'd like but Couch to 5k running to correct that (size 18 currently). I'm curvy and soft, dark hair, dark eyes, very pale (and mark beautifully). I'm a book lover, inept but enthusiastic crafter, horror film afficionado. I'm a geek and a nerd. If the chubby, geeky girl at the back of the library ever intrigued you, maybe I'm for you. Looking for: Strict Dominant Male who doesn't think vetting and aftercare are optional, and wants me in rope. If you've read this far and want to chat, please include the word tulip in your message

I’m super new to kink but it’s been playing on my mind a lot recently so here I am. Looking to chat to like minded people and to discover and learn other people’s kinks. I’m sure there’s so many out there that I just don’t know about. I can definitely say in a voyeur. I get so turned on by watching guys cum for me so if you liked being watched let me know 😉 (just to be clear, I don’t like being watched over live so won’t have my camera on)

Curious, openminded, and grounded. I’m here to connect with genuine people and explore at my own pace. I value kindness, clear communication, and a calm, respectful vibe. I’m still discovering my own interests, so patience and authenticity mean a lot to me. If you’re sincere, thoughtful, and treat others with care, we’ll get along beautifully. i don’t use this site very much but will respond to messages when I can. If I don’t message you back at all I’m sorry I’m not interested but good luck and stay safe in your search.

Come say hi! Submissive babygirl with limited experience... just having a little look around! Predominantly looking for a Dom/Daddy with a bit of experience... someone who can show me the way :p There are many things I would like to try such as, Wax play, Bondage and restraints, Impact play i.e Flogging, Spanking, Crops! Orgasm control and denial... these are just a few things!! Super into cute names... yes I want to be called Princess :p Other turn ons include dominance, firm but fair (don't be a pushy dick ha!), hair pulling, choking, rough handling, teasing, some aspects of ***, sensory deprivation, being a little bratty (I'm a total smart mouth when i want to be lol) and ohhh i loveee communication and dirty talk within a scene... tease me with your words... please? :p I think that's me pretty much summed up! I feel like I should put a disclaimer out there I'm not looking for abusive Doms and those who think my submission is their right because they give themselves a Dominant title... Please be respectful because despite being a babygirl princess, I am fiesty and I will tell you to go fuck yourself! Ha!

Im looking to learn from a safe knowledgeable dominate male. Looking to safely explore the softer side of kink and progress when comfortable **Desires and Fantasies** Being restained

I like to meet first to see if we connect. Ladies - I'd like friends as well as a potential lover. I want someone to go to kinky events with and just connect with on a kinky level. I'm happy to share a face picture once we connect and seem serious.

Im weird. im looking for a relationship with a guy who dominate. who knows himself. must be able to stimulate my mind and soul not just my body? i will push boundaries in the bedroom and out of it.

Hi i am a Switch. A little and also a Mommy Domme. Tho my little side plays more often. I age play as well as agree. My biggest pet ***ve is the miss use of honorifics. I am not your princess/ little one/babygirl /kitten/Mummy/Mistress etc. I've not given you permission to call me with these titles. So unless You are my Dom or sub/little. Then I'm just rara to you. Thank you

I am looking for a sir or madam that I can have some fun with. Please be patient with me as I have been through some stuff and I am not quick to trust. My last LTR was emotionaly abusive and I am still recovering from that (vanilla 11yr marriage). And some much more recently, so yeah, I find my trust is very hard to give as I always end up the one hurt and losing out in the long run. And my last Sir just vanished off the face of the earth and has left me feeling very *** and unwanted... Another got all upset because my username is not the same as my real name, but they didn't ask... I've been offline for a good couple of years and only just starting to dip my toes back in so to speak and did not have the app installed. I needed the break from everything for my own mental health, so sorry if I have not replied to anyone. I need to feel at least a bit of an attraction to you so please make sure I can see what you look like in your photos? I am a shallow bratty sub basically hahaha. Also, I get that you might want to be 'private' but let us also not forget this is a dating site first and foremost, and if you are are embarrassed by who you are, maybe this is not the place for you... I really don't care if you say, oh, but people would judge me where I work if I show my face... You do realise that sexual orientation is a protected characteristic - so don't be ashamed of being who you are, online or off. You Do You. If your are significantly younger than me that really puts me off, while I am very open minded I would prefer someone around my age or older :) Also as everyone seems to think that all subs like and want it: anal, ***, swallowing. Hard limits. I do not have to explain myself, you should respect the fact I have them and that should be enough. **Desires and Fantasies** I need to trust you before I can share these.

talking about myself is hard, but I'll answer any questions

Playful, bratty sub with a soft side once you know how to handle me. I’ve got a teasing streak and a tendency to push boundaries just enough to be kept in check… I like a man who knows how to take control without needing to shout about it. I’m drawn to a dominant who enjoys leading with confidence, patience, and a bit of a smirk—someone who finds pleasure in the dynamic as much as I do. A caregiver type who can balance firmness with warmth, guidance with understanding, and knows the value of praise just as much as discipline. I’m here to explore, learn, and deepen the right dynamic with someone genuine. If you’re the kind of man who can handle a little chaos and turn it into something beautiful, we’ll get along just fine.

So I am a worthless piece of meat and need to b treated like one now owned but if you ask you can follow my journey also master now wants a local women to me to use as a sub but she needs to be switch to dominate me **Desires and Fantasies** *** play, pet play, slave up to try anything until I find something I do not like

Hey beautiful people. Thanks for stopping by. I am a real person and I am not a keyboard warrior, so please dont be sad if you hit my messaging filters. If you do, it's probably just because you are too young or too far... I like to smile and I like to be around people who make me smile, so it helps if you do too:) And if you have a deep strong voice, you will make me and my auditory fetish very happy :bite: If you think we may have same interests... Hit me up?

Hiya, im sort of new to the BDSM and kink scene and im looking to learn and explore this world and go to different places and learn new things im shy at first but i end up opening up after a while

I have some experience in the whole bdsm world but always struggled finding anyone i can explore it more with. Im looking for someone i can meet in person and not looking for online fun or exchanging pictures etc.

I’m a strong woman who know what she wants and how she wants it. I travel a lot for work so location doesn’t matter me to. my dream is to have two slave that are friends with other that I can control at the same time while I’m away. yes, I’m real. I’m verified…

Chubby single girl looking for fun💋 My name isn’t actually Lyn or Lee 21+ please

Ali | Kent. Apologies in advance for slow/late responses, please be patient with me. At this point the likelihood of me finding a ltr I can manage is slim, so just here for fun now and if something develops on both sides, awesome. if not at least we got a few good shags in. Interests: - music definitely on the heavy side but I can appreciate most genres - DnD, I am a DM but also started as a player recently and having the best time - Spend a lot of my time crafting gifts for people I care about - creative writing/art in general - nature, hiking, generally being outdoors My kinks are varied, most extreme it gets is knife play and cnc. Enquire within 😘

creator of chaos in an adorable way I have been shown the beauty in kink respect honesty

Deepest, most sincere apologies if you newbies can't see all my pics, 30+ pics😏 I am here looking for some genuine fun and no connections:) Follow me on x, same name😋

Plus size and slightly tatted 💉 I natually fall into the sub role, I enjoy the shut off this gives my brain, but I can Switch with the right person. P.s. I am a brat! Vanilla life - 👩🏼‍⚕️ Slave to the NHS ⚽️ I can explain the offside rule🔴⚪ 🏐 Good at catching balls ⚡Harry Potter (but not Rowling) 🎞 Classic Disney films 🐈‍Free kitten pictures Side note: if my cat doesn't like you, you're not the one 🐈‍️

Domme, but also open to good old fashioned kinky sex if there's a connection. Creative. Tattooed. Deep thinker. Cheeky. Sarcastic. Will make you laugh, and also whimper (and groan when it comes to puns...). My domme style is largely focused on pleasure rather than ouchies, but with plenty of frustration, edging, chastity, and orgasm denial for lucky subs. I love pegging. I have a very high sex drive and obviously my pleasure is the priority. Vaxxed. If you're under 30 and/or are a hefty distance away chances are I won't reply.

Hello :) My Name is Elena. I am submissive. i consider myself a masochist. I was a slave for a Master a few years ago. Ideally my potential date would be interested in or have experience as a Master and is also a Sadist. i look forward to chatting :)

Hi, I'm a 49yr old submissive female. White, professional, newly single. 5'4, larger than I'd like but Couch to 5k running to correct that (size 18 currently). I'm curvy and soft, dark hair, dark eyes, very pale (and mark beautifully). I'm a book lover, inept but enthusiastic crafter, horror film afficionado. I'm a geek and a nerd. If the chubby, geeky girl at the back of the library ever intrigued you, maybe I'm for you. Looking for: Strict Dominant Male who doesn't think vetting and aftercare are optional, and wants me in rope. If you've read this far and want to chat, please include the word tulip in your message

I’m super new to kink but it’s been playing on my mind a lot recently so here I am. Looking to chat to like minded people and to discover and learn other people’s kinks. I’m sure there’s so many out there that I just don’t know about. I can definitely say in a voyeur. I get so turned on by watching guys cum for me so if you liked being watched let me know 😉 (just to be clear, I don’t like being watched over live so won’t have my camera on)

I like to meet first to see if we connect. Ladies - I'd like friends as well as a potential lover. I want someone to go to kinky events with and just connect with on a kinky level. I'm happy to share a face picture once we connect and seem serious.

Curious, openminded, and grounded. I’m here to connect with genuine people and explore at my own pace. I value kindness, clear communication, and a calm, respectful vibe. I’m still discovering my own interests, so patience and authenticity mean a lot to me. If you’re sincere, thoughtful, and treat others with care, we’ll get along beautifully. i don’t use this site very much but will respond to messages when I can. If I don’t message you back at all I’m sorry I’m not interested but good luck and stay safe in your search.

Playful, bratty sub with a soft side once you know how to handle me. I’ve got a teasing streak and a tendency to push boundaries just enough to be kept in check… I like a man who knows how to take control without needing to shout about it. I’m drawn to a dominant who enjoys leading with confidence, patience, and a bit of a smirk—someone who finds pleasure in the dynamic as much as I do. A caregiver type who can balance firmness with warmth, guidance with understanding, and knows the value of praise just as much as discipline. I’m here to explore, learn, and deepen the right dynamic with someone genuine. If you’re the kind of man who can handle a little chaos and turn it into something beautiful, we’ll get along just fine.

READ THE PROFILE Nice to meet you, lol. little about me: I am 38, curvy, cuddly. I like to play PC games, I also love erotica Audiobooks.. . if you wanna know more, ask questions. I want to make some friends in the world of kink, people I can chat to about vanilla things and ....non vanilla things 😏. I'm in a relationship. I have been with him for 12 years! He knows I'm on here he knows I like to talk to people, so yes, it's fine to be on here! Have Snapchat. You get that only when I've got to know you a bit... I am a Switch. But I lean more towards sub. I have a dominant side it doesn't come out too often, but does when she has too.... FEW GROUND RULES!!: * Don't ask to see Body Parts!! ..... I'm not yours!!! I'm not going to show you intimate parts! * Treat me with respect!! I think you'd want me to respect you too. Respect is earned, not just given!! * I have a partner been with him for 12 years, so I'm not going to run away with you or be yours and show you bits and pieces or meet up for play dates...!! * If you can be a gentleman, please act like one. I like the bad boy thing, but i do like a gentleman/Daddy. * If you have made it this far and read this, please give me the code word, which is Pegs... THINGS I DONT LIKE ABOUT SOME PEOPLE!!:- * I don't like it when ppl talk to me, build up a friendship, and then drop me like a stone....... Just don't talk to me if that's wat you plan to do!! THINGS I'VE LEARNT !: *I have learned I do like ***s/caregivers tho there arent alot on here that i can call proper ***s..... *I definitely have a praise kink and do like to be taken care of, I like my Daddy to check on me and make sure I'm OK, that I'm happy and had a good day and if I haven't help cheer me up in some way. (Adding more later)

Im weird. im looking for a relationship with a guy who dominate. who knows himself. must be able to stimulate my mind and soul not just my body? i will push boundaries in the bedroom and out of it.

talking about myself is hard, but I'll answer any questions

I am looking for a sir or madam that I can have some fun with. Please be patient with me as I have been through some stuff and I am not quick to trust. My last LTR was emotionaly abusive and I am still recovering from that (vanilla 11yr marriage). And some much more recently, so yeah, I find my trust is very hard to give as I always end up the one hurt and losing out in the long run. And my last Sir just vanished off the face of the earth and has left me feeling very *** and unwanted... Another got all upset because my username is not the same as my real name, but they didn't ask... I've been offline for a good couple of years and only just starting to dip my toes back in so to speak and did not have the app installed. I needed the break from everything for my own mental health, so sorry if I have not replied to anyone. I need to feel at least a bit of an attraction to you so please make sure I can see what you look like in your photos? I am a shallow bratty sub basically hahaha. Also, I get that you might want to be 'private' but let us also not forget this is a dating site first and foremost, and if you are are embarrassed by who you are, maybe this is not the place for you... I really don't care if you say, oh, but people would judge me where I work if I show my face... You do realise that sexual orientation is a protected characteristic - so don't be ashamed of being who you are, online or off. You Do You. If your are significantly younger than me that really puts me off, while I am very open minded I would prefer someone around my age or older :) Also as everyone seems to think that all subs like and want it: anal, ***, swallowing. Hard limits. I do not have to explain myself, you should respect the fact I have them and that should be enough. **Desires and Fantasies** I need to trust you before I can share these.

Hi i am a Switch. A little and also a Mommy Domme. Tho my little side plays more often. I age play as well as agree. My biggest pet ***ve is the miss use of honorifics. I am not your princess/ little one/babygirl /kitten/Mummy/Mistress etc. I've not given you permission to call me with these titles. So unless You are my Dom or sub/little. Then I'm just rara to you. Thank you

Im looking to learn from a safe knowledgeable dominate male. Looking to safely explore the softer side of kink and progress when comfortable **Desires and Fantasies** Being restained

Come say hi! Submissive babygirl with limited experience... just having a little look around! Predominantly looking for a Dom/Daddy with a bit of experience... someone who can show me the way :p There are many things I would like to try such as, Wax play, Bondage and restraints, Impact play i.e Flogging, Spanking, Crops! Orgasm control and denial... these are just a few things!! Super into cute names... yes I want to be called Princess :p Other turn ons include dominance, firm but fair (don't be a pushy dick ha!), hair pulling, choking, rough handling, teasing, some aspects of ***, sensory deprivation, being a little bratty (I'm a total smart mouth when i want to be lol) and ohhh i loveee communication and dirty talk within a scene... tease me with your words... please? :p I think that's me pretty much summed up! I feel like I should put a disclaimer out there I'm not looking for abusive Doms and those who think my submission is their right because they give themselves a Dominant title... Please be respectful because despite being a babygirl princess, I am fiesty and I will tell you to go fuck yourself! Ha!

So I am a worthless piece of meat and need to b treated like one now owned but if you ask you can follow my journey also master now wants a local women to me to use as a sub but she needs to be switch to dominate me **Desires and Fantasies** *** play, pet play, slave up to try anything until I find something I do not like

Hey beautiful people. Thanks for stopping by. I am a real person and I am not a keyboard warrior, so please dont be sad if you hit my messaging filters. If you do, it's probably just because you are too young or too far... I like to smile and I like to be around people who make me smile, so it helps if you do too:) And if you have a deep strong voice, you will make me and my auditory fetish very happy :bite: If you think we may have same interests... Hit me up?

I have some experience in the whole bdsm world but always struggled finding anyone i can explore it more with. Im looking for someone i can meet in person and not looking for online fun or exchanging pictures etc.

Plus size and slightly tatted 💉 I natually fall into the sub role, I enjoy the shut off this gives my brain, but I can Switch with the right person. P.s. I am a brat! Vanilla life - 👩🏼‍⚕️ Slave to the NHS ⚽️ I can explain the offside rule🔴⚪ 🏐 Good at catching balls ⚡Harry Potter (but not Rowling) 🎞 Classic Disney films 🐈‍Free kitten pictures Side note: if my cat doesn't like you, you're not the one 🐈‍️

Just another sub brat cliche… Masochistic with slutty tendency’s. Cock worship, praise kink. Generic good girl… but I’m not really looking anyway

After 24 hours on here, I have come to the conclusion dating apps aren’t for me. If you are genuinely interested, I’m on the other Fet. I will not be replying to any messages here. I’m submissive and my interests are eclectic, extensive and varied. I’m confident with my submission and this is an important pillar of my personality. I’m open minded and keen to explore. The list of my interests is quite long so I am sure we will have many mutual passions. I am on FetLife if you wish to see more photos and a summary of my kinks. Fully embracing being a sparkly pink princess. My submission is completely intertwined with princess energy, I know my worth and my submission is a gift. I’m not interested in random fucks, nor anyone who can’t be bothered to sting a coherent sentence together. If you don’t think I’m worth the effort to write a decent opening message to, then do not expect a response. “hi how r u” will get you no where. If you do not have a profile picture or you are not verified, you will not be getting a response. I’ve been on the scene a while now, I attend events and munches and I run a munch. I don’t expect everyone to have the same levels of local engagement, but I also am only interested in people who have a genuine connection with their kink. I don’t mind what your experience levels are, what matters is respect, attitude, compassion and kindness. I’m a princess with a touch of playful brattiness, not a full on brat but the right people light that fire and make my eyes sparkle. I may be a princess but I’m not your princess, that is an honorific and only to be used within established dynamics. I love to dress up and feel pretty, effort and intention are hot. I love shiny pretty sparkly things. Toys should be aesthetically pleasing as well as feeling good. Neurospicy and the cliche that in the vanilla world, I’ve got my shit together and I adult hard most of the time. This world balances me and brings me a sense of peace. My kink friendships and community are vastly important to me and blend into my vanilla world. Kink is a pillar of my identity and where I feel authentically me. Treat me as your princess and I will make you my King. I need softness alongside Dominance, adore me, give me attention and make sure I know you care for me, that you’ve got hold of the world and I’m safe. Thoughtful gestures and little things to make me feel special will go a very long way. I want to be treasured, protected and at the centre of your world. Give me enough space to play and push but be able to give me one look that quietens my mind and all I can see is you. As for my vanilla side, I have an active social life but do enjoy a cosy night in. I’m a cliche millennial in that my dog is my world, I work in employment and mental health services. I like to think I am well functioning adult who has their life together. I flit between hobbies, usually craft related. I am told I’m a good cook. I absolutely love the seaside, even with the British weather, a trip to the coast with a flask of tea and a blanket would be my perfect day out.

Please read my profile clearful. Good Morning and Hello. i am a black plus size women who is looking for a relationship that is mixed with bdsm. So it would be like a girlfriend/sub and Boyfriend/dom kind of relationship. So to the outside world it would be a usual typically simple basic vanilla normal relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend. But behind closed door, when it just the two of us, alone, on the indside and when we are in the mood. It would be sub and dom relationship. Completely private. I would say that i am more like a bedroom submissive. For example vanilla - would be like sitting on the sofa like normal around other people or just the two of us. Then kink/ bdsm - it would be me sitting on the floor wearing a collar with a lead attached to it. And you holding on to the lead. I am looking for some one who has a job, can drive and has a car, independant, strong minded, determinded, ambitious, brave, has is own views and opinons and not afraid to share them, leader, not afraid to stand up for what is right, kind, funny, caring, dominated. I do have a lists of questions that i like to asks as it create topics of disscussions and make it easier to talk to people and finding out what we have in common beside from BDSM and sex. plus talking about sex is boring. Talking about sex as you can see by my bdsm lists of do's and dont. I dont do sex and have no intent on having sex outside of marriage. that includes vaginal sex and anal sex. This is due to my religious belief that sex is for marriage and i am still a virgin. So NO VAGINAL SEX and NO ANAL SEX. And have no plans on changing that. However i do have a lot of sex toys. My sex toy collection is growing continulous. Currently have over 70 items so far. I also have a lists of them as well but have no pictures. However i do have pictures of bdsm pic collages that i make in my free time. I want to make this clear i am not looking for friends with benefits, one night stands or anything like that if you are intrested in that kind of thing. Please dont start a conversation with me i am looking for local people to medway for example chatham, gillingham, rochester, strood, rainham, cuxton, maidstone, barming, ashford. I have no intention in traveling anywhere near london as it is too far. I cant host or accomadate. Thank you taking the time for reading profile. incase i dont see you - Good Afternoon, Good Evening and Good Night.

I am a very open minded person. I just came out of a long relationship and now I want to explore and enjoy my life. hit me up :) ❤️

im looking for casual fun, someone to dominate me on occasion and teach me more about bdsm. happy to have horny conversations and good chats, would prefer to meet if possible. looking for people close by.

I’m hoping to explore a genuine, long-term power exchange dynamic that flows into everyday life. Something grounded in patience, communication, and mutual respect. I’m still learning and would love to grow alongside someone experienced and understanding. I’m not in a rush, I’d rather build trust and connection naturally. I value the emotional side of a dynamic just as much as the structure. Outside of that, I’m someone who enjoys meaningful conversation, shared laughter, and a bit of playful cheekiness. I believe connection should feel steady but also light hearted and human. Please don’t message me if you are looking for ‘quick fun’.

plus size girlie up for pics and messages. I’d love to be a couples online 3rd watching, obeying, instructing.

**Please bear with me if you actually have taken the time to read this, I'm finding this app quite overwhelming so aren't checking it regularly** Looking for someone who actually has a backbone and can take the lead without mindlessly taking control. I'm a fiercely independent person who's not afraid to be on my own and if something isn't working I will tell you. I'd rather talk and get to know someone over a drink so if you are looking for a ons or instant hook up please keep moving. An avid reader and theatre fan. I know this sounds suited to a different site but I mostly read smut and theatre is always a good talking point. I'm a submissive who enjoys *** and has a little side I can be playful but I'm not a brat. I value protocol and find calm in the rituals and stillness it provides. I know that might sound conflicting with a little side but the two can and do work together to balance out.