Switch in Tonbridge and Malling

Women seeking men

I would like to meet a respectful but dominant man for kinky dating and play. I’m happy to travel an hour or so for the right person if they were also happy to travel to me sometimes. This was something I discovered and enjoyed in a past relationship but I haven’t explored it much so pretty new to it all! I’ve not really tried switching but may be up for giving that a go in time!! I’m not interested in anyone older than early 30s because I’m only 28. Please respect this, Im getting loads of msgs from men in their 40s and older recently.

I am looking for an obedient puppy (sub/m) who loves being dominated, controlled, and owned 24/7.
You should gain pleasure from pleasing me, receiving , and being humiliated. You should trust me and succumb to me completely.
Principles: My pleasure is your pleasure. I make the rules.

I am 24 years old, Asian, 155cm, female and can be very controlling.

STRICT REQUIREMENTS:
-See me twice a month in London
-Loyal
-Single in every sense
-In good shape ( I have a thing for tits and butts)
-Work out regularly
-Good personal hygiene, healthy and cleanly shaved (including all body hairs)
-Financially independent and comfortable (able to afford hotels, toys, and costumes)
-Well-educated decent person

NO BRATS
NO SWITCH
NO SEX (pegging only)

PLAYS THAT I LOVE:
Spanking, CBT, Sissification (I expect you to wear cute lingerie all the time), Pegging, Toys, Public,Tit , Post-orgasm , Edging, Puppy, Wax, Role-play, , Bondage etc

PLAYS THAT I AM NOT INTERESTED IN:
Scat, Switch, NTR, Gangbang, Permanent damage etc

IF YOU (1)MEET ALL THE REQUIREMENTS, (2)UNDERSTAND WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR, (3)BELIEVE THAT I WILL BE A GOOD DOM/S FOR YOU, message me and introduce yourself, including, but not limited to：[Age/Height/Weight/Location/Hobby/Strength/Occupation/Relationship status/BDSM related experience/ Your kinks and hates/ Views on D/S relationship / Your ideal D/S relationship/ Your expectations of your Dom] (Pictures of you must be attached)
TREAT THIS AS IF YOU ARE SENDING A RESUME, BUT DO NOT LIE.
IF YOU LIE, GAME OVER.

78% Switch
77% Degrader
72% Daddy/Mommy
69% Ageplayer
67% Voyeur
67% Dominant
62% Degradee
62% Rigger
61% Primal (Hunter)
57% Sadist
55% Submissive
54% Owner
49% Experimentalist
47% Brat tamer
43% Primal (Prey)
43% Master/Mistress
43% Brat
39% Rope bunny
34% Masochist
27% Slave
27% Non-monogamist
25% Vanilla
23% Boy/Girl
13% Pet
2% Exhibitionist

Hi lovelies,
Been off the scene for a few years, but most looking forward to getting back into it, head first...
I’m a bi girl living in London. Always looking to be friend like minded sexuals.
Definitely looking more for female playmates at this time, or couples..
I am a switch.

Alpha by nature, beta by choice..

Looking for connections w dominant or switch men, especially rope afficianados for friends, play partners or ltr possible.

I am pretty cautious though so please understand that I want to chat, connect etc and do not do pick up play, online sexting.

Not into ***/alcohol. If you call me a pet name or try to sext/initiate a kink dynamic immediately I'm out 😅

Same UN on you-know-where.

SG

⭐This is me. I don't conform to any "stereotype beauty".⭐⭐⭐ I AM SUBMISSIVE ONLY AND INVOLVE MYSELF WITH 100% DOM TITLES ONLY⭐⭐⭐
🪝👉WHILE I APPRECIATE ALL VIEWS TO MY PROFILE,I AM NOT ALWAYS ABLE TO REPLY TO ALL MESSAGES TO MY INBOX.THANK YOU FOR UNDERSTANDING THIS🙏

images and videos are suggestive, this is purely for creatively expressive and visual means only. Most of my images portray erotic and Submissive themes.This should NOT be mistaken /misled for Dominatrix/Domme. Please do not be mislead for "porn". This is not what i represent. Please dont request sexual images from me. Before i accept any private gallery request and /or accept any unshown images, please contact me prior via message first. (verified user with pic) .My work is my own creativity and expression,which I don't adapt to feel like I must "fit into a certain stereotype", this feels restricting to me as I am spontaneous in my expression and creativity .This includes my videography.

BORN ARTIST:
📸 I am an Artist and I am Open Minded. This is displayed in my images⭐⭐⭐ I am not "your average woman" or "stereotyped". ⭐⭐⭐I often create a different persona depending on my mood.... always keep it erotic . I can describe myself as Avant Garde and express myself as such.One of my main inspirations is Vintage Bondage/Kink/Helmut Newton photography - "you get the picture"? So if you dont appreciate this, i may not be what you want.🌠🌠🌠🌠
Please request to see my private gallery /Artistry due to respects of the site's image policies 📸
ALL PHOTOGRAPHY IS MY OWN WORK APART FROM A FEW INSPIRED IMAGES IN MY PRIVATE GALLERY. ALL PERSONAL PHOTOS ARE ONLY ON HERE FOR VIEWING PURPOSES UNLESS I KNOW YOU(accepted friends request) /HAVE AGREED FOR MY IMAGES TO BE GIVEN TO YOU BY MYSELF. PLEASE DO NOT TAKE ANY PHOTOS WITHOUT MY CONSENT THANK YOU.
Due to the site policy, not all of my images and videos can be published /and or be viewed publicly.
Please do not request to do photoshoots of me, as well as requesting to be in a photoshoot with /alongside me. I am an Individual Artist only unless I have shown you my interest in a Collaboration shoot.
🎥 My Videography Production 🎥
Erotic inspired videos are here to view of myself.This is another erotic version of my expression. I try to add a sexy "erotic twist" to them.... an innuendo .
Due to the erotic "theme content " of my video work, 9/10 these are a members 18 age plus check.

Please understand that.......
I am on here for social connections, friends and inspiration for my creativeness and individuality, which influences me to be the person that I am.

⭐⭐⭐Please notel⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
I AM NOT A SWITCH OR DOMINATRIX
SUBMISSIVENESS ONLY. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

A Connection is A MUST with a Likeminded Dom. This must feel genuine to me, which includes a Mental Connection(strong emotional and intellectual) , not Physical only. I need to "feel" an overall Connection with a Dom. Physical Connection alone is incomplete. My interpretation of D/S dynamic involves a high level of mutual trust as core foundation.
Being a Creative myself , I prefer someone who is the same for a stronger Connection -
RELATIONSHIP STATUS: 👉NOT SINGLE, therefore not seeking any/other relationships , social only 👈
I AM NOT iNTO:
👇 👇

⭐⭐⭐fun"(sexual basis) .This is EXCLUSIVE only with the "right person" in a D/S Dynamic.⭐⭐⭐
pic exchange(sexual nature).
loads of sexting stuff - Don't send "nudes" unless/until the interest is "mutual" first/
not unless I show you "my interest".
"play partner" or NSA (True Submissive needs LTR)
I never at any point want to "feel intimidated" in a dynamic relationship,however, I am not looking for a "Softie" type. I like a challenge with a Dominant man.
Sorry, NO Sub/Male Switches(⭐Dom only title⭐)
BE GENUINE....not into men who have "hot and cold traits.






L x

I'm interested in having my nipples and breasts fondled, caressed, licked, played with and perved over. I am keen to plumpen/enlarge my nipples and would love someone who knows how to do this.

I like relaxed situations like watching a movie. I do not host so you must.

East London. Men aged 30 upwards but keen on those older than me. No doms. No switches. No women. Non smoker.

I'm looking for a submissive man who is based in or very close to East London for my comfort and pleasure.

Non-smoker, can host, disease free and preferably pet free too.

As much as I enjoy kinky things I also want someone I can enjoy vanilla things with too.

No females. No switches. No dominants saying that being submissive is what they really want to be.

Hello there dirty minds. Let's see if you can help me make this fantasy of mine come true.
I'm looking for 2 bi-guys preferably dom/switch and fairly good looking in London area (25-40). Extremely kinky and willing to take turns on each other.
Recent STI is not optional.
Message me if interested.
🔥😈🖤

I'm a fun switch (mainly sub) looking for a playmate.

Please note that I am only replying to locals, if you are not in London I would ask you not to message.

If you are a sub, I'm looking for someone who orders well, wouldn't mind playing with others and likes a little ! I don't do (as a domme or sub) and prefer praise and punishment. I don't domme often and then it has to be with the right person and in the right mood!

On the flip side if you are a Dom or Mistress, I can be a bossy sub (bratty really) and need a firm hand, I do love praise though! Again I don't do (I know this is a broad topic but it's something that would need to be discussed). I don't mind a little and age gaps!

I'm newish to the scen but I know what I want and need, I want someone to play and explore with.

A good date would be something that's been thought about, it doesn't have to be outrageous or original as long as the person has thought about it and it's something we will both enjoy!

I like doing things like art galleries and unusual attractions. I'd also like a bit of kink in my dates to get a flavour of what the person wants and is like.

I also expect the person who is asking to arrange the date esp if they are a Dom.

Location: Around Folkestone

Me: Dashing witty woman who works too much and doesn't play enough

You: Proud owner of a penis. Swings left. Domestic. Bonus points if you can juggle.

Together: Hot dates and hot nights. Games and physical activity.

Kinks: I'm a sub leaning switch. Brat. You can mostly Dom but sometimes I want to have my way with you. Wrestling. I will win. And I will lose. Optional: I make our costumes and we can brainstorm catchphrases together.

Message me if interested. If I don't reply, then I'm probably not interested in your profile. Or I already got a man.

I am new to this and would like to find a switch.
I am a confident women and confident with my sexual abilities but definitely open to trying new things. I have tried regularly dating sites but most of the men on there are all month and I think they're a little intimidated by me🤷🏾‍♀️

I am a BBW in need of some serious worshipping but I occasionally enjoy switching.
I love giving and receiving ***, I've a nosehook waiting for my human piggy-snort for me and i might let you cum and lick it all up xx

Switchy open minded men who want to explore their kinks as things develop within an LTR.

Inexperienced BBW Lady, currently exploring.

I want to meet a mature, patient man, who is an experienced Switch. 

I want to try my Domme and Sub fantasies. 

You must be articulate, clean and tidy. 

You must get to know me first as I will get to know you, before any meet is possible.

I cannot accommodate.

If you try to dominate me online I will block you.  This isn't one of my fantasies.

I do not accept penetrative sex.

Honesty and trust imperative.

If you want to find out more- please ask.

Hello! I am a total newbie to all this. Last year a long-distance friendship turned into something rarher more special when he somehow rooted out my long-hidden, never-before-shared desires. I loved every moment of ***, pleasure and aftercare he gave me when we finally met up.

My greatest craving at the moment is to be a sub, though I can see that further down the line I will be knowledgeable enough to confidently become a switch. My Sir is enjoying my submission and eagerness to learn, though he has not trained anyone before. He is truly bi and a switch: I am bi-curious (and totally turned on by watching him with a man) and I'm not yet ready to take the role of Domme for him. We are keen to find a community more local than London, to meet and chat face-to-face, make friends, attend events, and we hope to find other couples or singles to play with.

That's all I can think to write about now...and more than I've ever dared share in my life. Damn, but it feels good!