Hi there, may i extend a warm welcome and thankyou for taking the time to look at my profile and pictures.

Dominance isn’t about sex.
Dominance is being there for your sub.
Dominance is working through their meltdowns.
Dominance is accepting your sub especially when they won’t accept themself.
Dominance is being asked for the millionth time if you love them.
Dominance is tucking your sub in at night.
Dominance is telling your sub no.
Dominance is quieting their demons.
Dominance is being their bastion of strength.
Dominance is shrugging off your subs anger and frustration when you do things for their own good.
Dominance is encouraging them.
Dominance is comforting them in the middle of the night when they've had a nightmare.
Dominance is guiding.
Dominance is building your sub.
Dominance is love.

ON TH FLIP SIDE
On the flip side, submission is so much more than getting spanked and having orgasms.
Submission is about being there for your Dom/Domme.
Submission is about being that consistent person.
Submission is building your Dom/Domme up and letting them know their loved and valued.
Submission is about listening when you want to speak.
Submission is about running to the pharmacy when you're Dom/Domme is under the weather.
Submission is helping them get ready for work when their is running late.
Submission is letting them lead, even when it’s hardest.
Submission is being his cheerleader.
Submission is honest, open communication because that’s what you're Dom/Domme deserves.
Submission is having their back.
Submission is being the hand that reaches for them in the middle of the night.
Submission is so much more than sex and submitting can come in the smallest, simplest ways
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Here is a little about me, i love the outdoors and nature enjoying the tranquil surroundings and watching nice sunsets, im equally as happy at home snuggling with a good book or film of which i have a broad taste as i do with music. Talking of taste i love Italian and Indian food (to be honest just food in general lol). I discovered kink a number of years ago and I've learnt alot during those years, i love pretty things in life and this filters into my kink and I love experiencing new things. I am a very caring soul and willing to be guided through my kinks with a like minded individual. It would be lovely to have a lasting relationship with the right person but i understand this takes time to develop. Having a connection with someone is really what im seeking. If you like what you're read or my pictures send a message

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Kinky Date30 to 50 years ● 150km around UK, Blackburn 4 months ago

To me the "turn-on" capacity of D/s is in creating an arena of Total Control.

My first meeting is more vanilla in style and called "Coffee & Cream" - , a fact finding and FAQ session, lasts 1hr exactly.

The second and subsequent meetings are entirely D/s whether in a vanilla setting or not.

For the D/s meeting I ask that I am greeted by a sexy and feminine looking woman. Sometimes I ask that she wear black bra, white blouse, pencil skirt, black stockings, stillettos, strong red lipstick, mascara, limited foundation (prefer none), nice jacket if it's cold. (Trousers of any sort/leggings are not advised).

During play I am to be addressed as Master, she is only to speak when spoken to and she's to keep her eyes lowered in my presence.

The formalities of what will/will not occur and safe word are discussed/agreed.

Play Session Starts:

I sit lounged in a comfy chair looking up at her standing in the room. To formally start the play session, when she is ready and in her own time, she removes and hands me her knickers.

I command her without getting totally undressed, to feed into my mouth her left nipple. As she comes to my mouth with it, I reach up to finger and feel her pussy. I want to check out the goods right from the outset.

She utters a sound and is told to remain silent until allowed to make a noise.

After enjoying my fill of nipple, sucking and chewing it gently and maybe not so gently I tell her to make me a cup of tea.

She makes the mistake of assuming I want her to put her tit away. She will pay the price for this mistake later. I tell her to leave the tit hanging out.

My Domination is all about having total, free and ready access to her body within pre-discussed and agreed parameters and limitations.

If she indicates a desire for waterworks I may require her to squat before me and pee into a bowl...surprisingly few women manage to do this I have noticed!!

Other times, I will have her kneel on all fours before me and act as a table for my tea or feet.

Other times I will bring her a cream cake and require her to eat it out of my hand as I push it into her mouth and across her face.

My choices are endless and are all catered to the information I gleamed at Coffee & Cream, plus in the formalities chat immediately before this session began.

At any stage she can say YELLOW & I will instantly pull back to ensure she is alright, needs to adjust herself, needs to stop. After saying YELLOW, whatever she wants, she instantly gets.

Elements of controlled ***, caressing, binding, petting, kissing, fingering are given and taken to turn the sub on. I'm constantly aware of her hip movements, trembling inner thighs/buttocks, breathing rate, heart rate...she is constantly monitored as I take her to the edge of her cliff time and again but pull back before her cataclysmic urges take over and she rides the wave of orgasm.

Toys are used, postures, poses, stress positions, sensory deprivations, touches, smells, sounds.

I don't want to give the game away. I don't want you to know what will happen to you. Suffice to say....you will enjoy the experience.

I am AN EXPERIENCE.

I am a CONTROLLING INFLUENCE in your LIFE.

I can control FACE-TO-FACE or ONLINE....just ASK.

I'm a DOM seeking a SUB for NSA or to Train (single or couple)

Kinky Date20 to 70 years ● 50km around UK, Blackburn 5 years ago

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