Hi, I am an active, submissive male seeking a long term, female led relationship. I'm looking for a partner, not a playmate. I have a strong desire to serve and very much crave the control that comes from a Domme / sub relationship. I continue to feel lost without that special someone; a Lady to serve as Her loving, devoted and obedient slave.

I am not looking for a leather clad Dominatrix, simply a Lady, my Goddess / Soulmate who I can serve, love, honour, cherish, worship (not least) obey as Her permanent slave on a daily basis.

I am a single, genuine lifestyle submissive living in Leicester city centre. I seek to offer a lifetime commitment of accepting the will of my Mistress rather than simple fantasy play and hope to find someone who wants a LTR with bdsm as part of the whole relationship not separate to it. BDSM to me is more about obedience, control and servitude rather than theatrics and play scenarios and I am looking for a relationship where the power exchange extends well beyond the bedroom. What I really seek is a domestic discipline arrangement where rules, structure and punishment play a significant part. Above all I am looking for someone with whom I have common interests, a friend as well as a Mistress /Owner.

I would love to have the opportunity of a 24/7 position (or as near as normal day to day activities will allow) with a Mistress who is happy with taking control of the relationship and who genuinely enjoys owning a slave. I accept that 24/7 D/s is possible but 24/7 play is not. I am caring, tactile (when allowed to be), can hold a conversation (again when allowed) enjoy the sea, sand sun and a glass (or two) of red wine. I am single, reasonably successful, intelligent, loyal, deeply submissive and willing to become the lifetime property of my Mistress.

I recognise that we are all different and that individual Mistress' have their own desires, needs and expectations in terms of service delivery and obedience. I am very willing to receive training in order to be taught to please to the best of my abilities and to Your complete satisfaction.

Whilst I am seeking my Mistress / soulmate, it may be that She does not live alone. I am willing to serve within a poly type environment under my owners control and guidance and to serve others or in front of others if required.

I understand the concept of end chastity and orgasm control / tease denial. For me, being locked in chastity with my sexual release being determined by my owner is a very intimate form of control. I would, therefore, wholeheartedly and without reservation, submit to wearing a secure locking chastity device on a permanent basis as a condition of my service / ownership.

I am willing also to accept
d feminization / sissification and to be cuckolded if required. I also accept that it is the right of my Mistress to place me in bondage, chain cage me should She so desire. I have little experience of cages/caging/imprisonment, but this is an area I would be interested in exploring.

I am not a slut (perhaps more experienced in the area of ), but I fully accept the right of my owner to inflict physical discipline either for corrective purposes or simply for Her pleasure and amusement and at Her whim.

I am domestically trained, cleaning, washing, ironing etc. and seek a Lady who understands that my obedience will come from her control. A Lady that will turn my natural submission into my total devotion to her by owning my mind soul as well as my body. I recognise that such feelings are developed over time and that is why i would prefer a long term Mistress / slave relationship.

I hope that i am not being too idealistic and that there is a Lady out there who i can love, adore, serve, honour, worship, cherish and obey as Her permanent slave.

Kinky Date28 to 65 years ● 10km around UK, Leicester 5 years ago

Fakes and goldiggas, there's nothing for you here, so kindly jog on

Always find writing these profiles difficult, as they don't really convey the sort of person you are....that's what conversation is for.
Soooooo, without further ado, this is my attempt to write a meaningful profile, that illicit's emotional and psychological stability, my life's wants and needs and possibly a shopping lust at the end, so I can remember what to buy from Morrisons later.

Been in love with latex all my life, want to be owned by a like-minded Mistress who appreciates this lifestyle. Am open, honest, loyal and need to rebuild my *** levels as part of the fun is getting there again.
Ideally looking for LTR, as I'm not the type of person to go hopping from one situation to another.
I sometimes question if I'm doing the right thing and if I'll actually find somebody genuine. As we all know, the web is filled with scammers and fakes, so finding that one person who isn't, really is a struggle.
Due to my discretion, pictures are available on request.
It's harder for submissive males, as we're seen to be nothing more than cash cows that should be milked and discarded, that I fully disagree with, but it still prevails.
Anyways, I'm always happy to have a good chat and you never know, a spark may ignite!!

1xCucumber
5xCarrots
1xJar of Jam (to empty)
Half a pound of offal (for jar)
1×Jumbo can of Swarfega (prefs w/beads)
1xCopper based brake grease
1xMakita Super hammer action drill w/100mj torque
1xHotline to A&E if brake grease fails.

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Courtesy of Willow75

Dominance isn’t about sex.
Dominance is being there for your sub.
Dominance is working through their meltdowns.
Dominance is accepting your sub especially when they won’t accept themself.
Dominance is being asked for the millionth time if you love them.
Dominance is tucking your sub in at night.
Dominance is telling your sub no.
Dominance is quieting their demons.
Dominance is being their bastion of strength.
Dominance is shrugging off your subs anger and frustration when you do things for their own good.
Dominance is encouraging them.
Dominance is comforting them in the middle of the night when they've had a nightmare.
Dominance is guiding.
Dominance is building your sub.
Dominance is love.

ON THE FLIP SIDE
On the flip side, submission is so much more than getting spanked and having orgasms.
Submission is about being there for your Dom/Domme.
Submission is about being that consistent person.
Submission is building your Dom/Domme up and letting them know their loved and valued.
Submission is about listening when you want to speak.
Submission is about running to the pharmacy when you're Dom/Domme is under the weather.
Submission is helping them get ready for work when their is running late.
Submission is letting them lead, even when it’s hardest.
Submission is being his cheerleader.
Submission is honest, open communication because that’s what you're Dom/Domme deserves.
Submission is having their back.
Submission is being the hand that reaches for them in the middle of the night.
Submission is so much more than sex and submitting can come in the smallest, simplest ways

Kinky Date28 to 60 years ● 300km around UK, Banbury 2 years ago
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