BDSM Dating in Brackley

I'm a bi-curious submissive man, and one half of a happily married couple exploring the world of ethical non-manogomy. We're getting into a cuckold dynamic right now, and looking for a play partner along those lines.

Our dream scenario is to find a bi or bi-curious man we can meet on a regular basis to play the part of our bull. Someone to satisfy my wife's strong sex drive who can strike a balance between being assertive with her but not overly dominant (she is neither dominant or submissive), but who is dominant with me. Someone to take control in the bedroom, fuck her assertively, whilst humiliating and punishing me is what we both crave. I'd also serve our bull sexually too. We'd ideally like to play on a regular basis, to build a relationship, spend nights together, and see our bull as being in control of me.

My wife has certain criteria for our bull. He needs to be well endowed, caring yet assertive, imaginative, an imposing form, and at least reasonably intelligent. She also needs to find him attractive to really make it work. He also needs to be reasonably local to us for regular meets.

We're new to this, and ethical non-manogomy in general, so let's see where this takes us!