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What I'm after?.. little cute creatures. Ones I can train. Ones that would worship my existence. Ones I can use and ***. Ones I can improve.
looking to explore BDSM in a submissive role. Not much experience in this area so I'm here hoping to explore my kinks. Down for casual connections or more if the right thing comes along, feel free to ask me any questions. Hoping for real life encounters, not pen pals.
I'm a cheeky, eager-to-please submissive who thrives on structure, correction, and being put in my place by someone confident enough to take control. I crave firm guidance, discipline, and a dynamic where power is felt, not just talked about. I’ve explored D/s deeply over the last 10 years, including caregiver/dom dynamics, and absolutely love the emotional depth that comes with it. I’m an open-minded, non-judgmental soul who enjoys connecting with like-minded kink-positive people and building genuine trust and chemistry before anything physical. I’m plus-sized, curvy, and very flexible (don’t let the softness fool you — I can be bent however you want me). Hair pulling, restraints, breath control, being handled and claimed… all those intense, primal touches make me melt. I adore sadistic, masculine energy paired with emotional intelligence and dominance rooted in mutual respect. At my happiest, I am restrained, exposed, and fully surrendered — waiting to be guided, teased, and owned in a way that reminds me exactly who I belong too. At the moment I’m not open to meets for my own reasons but I never say never!
Submissive heart (used to switch but no longer interested in that), 57 but have ***agers at home still (half the time). I should add that I do have a Little side that pops out every so often. She is a suppressed part of me I believe, and she’s a lot of fun. Looking for an in-person local-ish relationship (I’m in North Northamptonshire and honestly don’t have the time for anything farther than 30-45 minutes away by car). I’m open to what that looks like, but I’m NOT interested in hook-ups or sex-only connections. BDSM is not always about sex! Prefer intelligent, respectful, professional people who are able to host sometimes and get away for a weekend. I’m financially stable and you should be too. Don’t worry though, I can certainly pay my way and not looking for a handout. No smokers or drug users. Not even if you vape as I’m sensitive to it. **Desires and Fantasies** Going to have to think up some new ones!
Hey I'm charlie (I have a good personality I swear) I'm really shy and awkward. I spent most of my time reading and listening to music. Like Masked men cnc breeding
Female (27) Daventry, Northamptonshire
I have ADHD and I'm very depressed, so my communication hasn't been the greatest but I'm getting better...sex is a great motivator 😅 There's only so much negative shit you can think about while you're fucking :crazy: I smoke 🍃 and I drink and I love to talk. I tell stupid jokes and I'm obsessed with the alphabet. Sometimes I do crafty shit, sometimes I play with my Barbies. Because why the fuck not. I'm still very new to BDSM, so would love to talk to and meet experienced women to connect with 😉 I am single, but have a FWB I drive, so I'm always willing to visit, but no more that 80 miles probably 🚗⛽
If you are here visiting my profile, Hi and thanks for popping by. An honest, loving LTR, a connection with the right man, vanilla dates, kink time, and to journey together. I like cuddles and affection. I came across bdsm a few years ago and have been spending time understanding this new world and about myself. I've not been involved in a dynamic, so it would be new for me. We've all been at the beginning of something we don't have experience with. Communication, honesty, trust are important to me. I have a few hobbies and interests, music, cooking, baking, crafts, and reading, and I love ***s. The sky fascinates me, the moon, planets, the universe. I love the sun and to feel the warmth on my skin. ❤️ Lazy Sunday's
Female (51) Brackley, Northamptonshire
I’m submissive. I want to serve and want to be degraded for enjoying it, but praised when I do it well… Open minded but not a switcher…I can’t dominate.
I’m a bubbly little bratty girl who is lonely and wants to find her mommy and/or a daddy (but daddy has to be fine with no sex with me)…..I regress very little - 0-3 kind! my little has had to be kept on a very tight leash with big me always around to keep an eye. she’s dying to get out and wants to be looked after and cared for.
I am a submissive soul at heart, curious about this messy beautiful & exhilarating world of kinks. I haven't yet had any actual physical experience due to being a widow of 3 years (haven't been touched since), after being married for 18 years which was very vanilla. I am approachable & love chatting to new people & getting to know them xx If your kind, authentic & curious, I am always happy to have connection & see where conversations goes xx
Hi! I'm relatively new to this but I have had some great partners from here helping me explore what I enjoy. I'm interested in exploring tie and tease. What to play?
Peachy Chelle 🍑 Curvy, confident, and deliciously curious… I’m new to this world, but far from innocent. I’m drawn to surrender, to the thrill of giving myself over to the right dominant—one who leads with patience, confidence, and trust. I lean submissive, craving guidance and control, but there’s a fiery switch inside me too. In my vanilla life, I’m confident and strong… and sometimes that power likes to come out and play. I’m not suited to sadistic dynamics—I thrive in pleasure, chemistry, and connection. A pleasure-focused or daddy-style dominant who enjoys teasing, guiding, and looking after what’s his really gets my attention. Handcuffs, blindfolds, light spanking, slow hair pulling, and being touched by someone I feel safe with make my body melt. I crave that spark where I can fully let go, breathe deeper, and feel everything. If you’re dominant, attentive, and know how to make a woman feel both protected and wanted… you might just be exactly what I’m looking for. 💕
Female (58) Daventry, Northamptonshire
I do have pictures on my profile, but I work in a VERY public setting so they are on private. have to make sure I don't know someone work wise first because that would be mortifying ? what's with all these topless body pics? its all i see popping up, it's your face we want to see if we think is hot, then the body ?
Female (35) Corby, Northamptonshire
Relatively new to all of this, and keen to keep learning. I’ve read a lot and have now a much clearer idea of what I’m looking for. Not into ONS - looking for ENM D/s or play partner arrangements. Also not in a hurry - I’ll be getting out to munches and enjoying the vibe.
Currently single, quite outgoing, happy to chat about most things. Some experience in the world of kink but hoping to delve into it more. Have a slight brat side but also I do like the caring, soft side to a dom (who isn't afraid to discipline when I'm bratty) so I wouldn't disregard the '***' straight off if the person fits. Appreciate this is a kink site but don't just message with 'wanna f**k', because I will just ignore you. I prefer getting to know people before I cross the kink line
sfw !! I’m a regressor looking for a caregiver ! I’m not completely faceless I have no issue showing you what I look like once we message ! >.<
just few of many dynamics I’m willing to provide out of submission. I don’t want to belong to myself anymore something I’ve been needing released. There’s something in me that aches to be taken in broken down and submerged into your discretion. To be someone’s pretty little quiet thing. Someone’s good girl. Someone who doesn’t have to decide, only obey. I’m still new. Still fragile. Still learning why being owned feels like the only place I might finally feel whole and seen.
I’m really into bondage, restraint and sensory deprivation. but i like to be naughty, fight back and be made to submit, punished
Here because its hard to find ***s on other dating apps :P BE WARNED: i am autistic and have BPD, please be kind
I’ve been in the lifestyle for a while, but the past year I’ve been navigating it on my own. It gave me space to really understand what I want and what I enjoy. I’m confident, playful, and I enjoy teasing the right person. I can take control when I want to, but I’m naturally drawn to someone more dominant, someone who knows how to lead without forcing it. I’m into sensory play, impact play, and wax play. I enjoy the build up, the tension, the way things are felt rather than rushed. I’m not into anything dirty or extreme when it comes to ***. Connection is everything for me. If the energy isn’t there, nothing else really works. Outside of this, I’m a photographer. I love hikes, live music, and deep conversations that go beyond the surface.
I’m a bit of a soft soul with a strong core. I’m the kind of person who checks in on people and makes sure everyone around me is okay. Looking after people comes naturally to me, but it would be nice to meet someone who wants to look after me a little too. I’m kind, chubby, nerdy, a little sarcastic, and I’ve got a dark sense of humour that comes out at the most unexpected times. I don’t take myself too seriously and I would love to find someone who can make me laugh. I’m independent and have my life together. I like affection and feeling safe with someone. I want a proper gentleman.. someone kind, respectful, and consistent. Just to be clear, I’m not interested in one night stands. I’m looking for something real, with someone who actually wants to build something meaningful. I appreciate gentlemen, full sentences, proper dates over casual meets, single people, calm energy over chaos, and definitely no FWB or man***.
I'm looking to explore and have fun with MEN ONLY!! no boys no couples and if you don't have a profile picture of your face then don't message me but apart from that feel free to message and we will see where it goes 😜
Female (31) Rushden, Northamptonshire
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Female (32) Daventry, Northamptonshire
I am a mature, assertive, confident, educated, dominant woman who knows what she wants and goes for it. My unconventional feet have taken me on an incredible journey through life that is reflected in their shape, taste and smell. They will appeal to a more acquired and discerning preference amongst our beloved foot fetish community. Let our exploration begin together and make it a memorable experience for both of us. Electrasupreme is willing to share with you should you reach out and ask oh so very very politely.

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I’m submissive. I want to serve and want to be degraded for enjoying it, but praised when I do it well… Open minded but not a switcher…I can’t dominate.
What I'm after?.. little cute creatures. Ones I can train. Ones that would worship my existence. Ones I can use and ***. Ones I can improve.
Peachy Chelle 🍑 Curvy, confident, and deliciously curious… I’m new to this world, but far from innocent. I’m drawn to surrender, to the thrill of giving myself over to the right dominant—one who leads with patience, confidence, and trust. I lean submissive, craving guidance and control, but there’s a fiery switch inside me too. In my vanilla life, I’m confident and strong… and sometimes that power likes to come out and play. I’m not suited to sadistic dynamics—I thrive in pleasure, chemistry, and connection. A pleasure-focused or daddy-style dominant who enjoys teasing, guiding, and looking after what’s his really gets my attention. Handcuffs, blindfolds, light spanking, slow hair pulling, and being touched by someone I feel safe with make my body melt. I crave that spark where I can fully let go, breathe deeper, and feel everything. If you’re dominant, attentive, and know how to make a woman feel both protected and wanted… you might just be exactly what I’m looking for. 💕
Female (58) Daventry, Northamptonshire
I have ADHD and I'm very depressed, so my communication hasn't been the greatest but I'm getting better...sex is a great motivator 😅 There's only so much negative shit you can think about while you're fucking :crazy: I smoke 🍃 and I drink and I love to talk. I tell stupid jokes and I'm obsessed with the alphabet. Sometimes I do crafty shit, sometimes I play with my Barbies. Because why the fuck not. I'm still very new to BDSM, so would love to talk to and meet experienced women to connect with 😉 I am single, but have a FWB I drive, so I'm always willing to visit, but no more that 80 miles probably 🚗⛽
looking to explore BDSM in a submissive role. Not much experience in this area so I'm here hoping to explore my kinks. Down for casual connections or more if the right thing comes along, feel free to ask me any questions. Hoping for real life encounters, not pen pals.
I'm a cheeky, eager-to-please submissive who thrives on structure, correction, and being put in my place by someone confident enough to take control. I crave firm guidance, discipline, and a dynamic where power is felt, not just talked about. I’ve explored D/s deeply over the last 10 years, including caregiver/dom dynamics, and absolutely love the emotional depth that comes with it. I’m an open-minded, non-judgmental soul who enjoys connecting with like-minded kink-positive people and building genuine trust and chemistry before anything physical. I’m plus-sized, curvy, and very flexible (don’t let the softness fool you — I can be bent however you want me). Hair pulling, restraints, breath control, being handled and claimed… all those intense, primal touches make me melt. I adore sadistic, masculine energy paired with emotional intelligence and dominance rooted in mutual respect. At my happiest, I am restrained, exposed, and fully surrendered — waiting to be guided, teased, and owned in a way that reminds me exactly who I belong too. At the moment I’m not open to meets for my own reasons but I never say never!
I’m a bubbly little bratty girl who is lonely and wants to find her mommy and/or a daddy (but daddy has to be fine with no sex with me)…..I regress very little - 0-3 kind! my little has had to be kept on a very tight leash with big me always around to keep an eye. she’s dying to get out and wants to be looked after and cared for.
I am a submissive soul at heart, curious about this messy beautiful & exhilarating world of kinks. I haven't yet had any actual physical experience due to being a widow of 3 years (haven't been touched since), after being married for 18 years which was very vanilla. I am approachable & love chatting to new people & getting to know them xx If your kind, authentic & curious, I am always happy to have connection & see where conversations goes xx
Hi! I'm relatively new to this but I have had some great partners from here helping me explore what I enjoy. I'm interested in exploring tie and tease. What to play?
I do have pictures on my profile, but I work in a VERY public setting so they are on private. have to make sure I don't know someone work wise first because that would be mortifying ? what's with all these topless body pics? its all i see popping up, it's your face we want to see if we think is hot, then the body ?
Female (35) Corby, Northamptonshire
If you are here visiting my profile, Hi and thanks for popping by. An honest, loving LTR, a connection with the right man, vanilla dates, kink time, and to journey together. I like cuddles and affection. I came across bdsm a few years ago and have been spending time understanding this new world and about myself. I've not been involved in a dynamic, so it would be new for me. We've all been at the beginning of something we don't have experience with. Communication, honesty, trust are important to me. I have a few hobbies and interests, music, cooking, baking, crafts, and reading, and I love ***s. The sky fascinates me, the moon, planets, the universe. I love the sun and to feel the warmth on my skin. ❤️ Lazy Sunday's
Female (51) Brackley, Northamptonshire
Relatively new to all of this, and keen to keep learning. I’ve read a lot and have now a much clearer idea of what I’m looking for. Not into ONS - looking for ENM D/s or play partner arrangements. Also not in a hurry - I’ll be getting out to munches and enjoying the vibe.
Submissive heart (used to switch but no longer interested in that), 57 but have ***agers at home still (half the time). I should add that I do have a Little side that pops out every so often. She is a suppressed part of me I believe, and she’s a lot of fun. Looking for an in-person local-ish relationship (I’m in North Northamptonshire and honestly don’t have the time for anything farther than 30-45 minutes away by car). I’m open to what that looks like, but I’m NOT interested in hook-ups or sex-only connections. BDSM is not always about sex! Prefer intelligent, respectful, professional people who are able to host sometimes and get away for a weekend. I’m financially stable and you should be too. Don’t worry though, I can certainly pay my way and not looking for a handout. No smokers or drug users. Not even if you vape as I’m sensitive to it. **Desires and Fantasies** Going to have to think up some new ones!
Hey I'm charlie (I have a good personality I swear) I'm really shy and awkward. I spent most of my time reading and listening to music. Like Masked men cnc breeding
Female (27) Daventry, Northamptonshire
Currently single, quite outgoing, happy to chat about most things. Some experience in the world of kink but hoping to delve into it more. Have a slight brat side but also I do like the caring, soft side to a dom (who isn't afraid to discipline when I'm bratty) so I wouldn't disregard the '***' straight off if the person fits. Appreciate this is a kink site but don't just message with 'wanna f**k', because I will just ignore you. I prefer getting to know people before I cross the kink line
I’ve been in the lifestyle for a while, but the past year I’ve been navigating it on my own. It gave me space to really understand what I want and what I enjoy. I’m confident, playful, and I enjoy teasing the right person. I can take control when I want to, but I’m naturally drawn to someone more dominant, someone who knows how to lead without forcing it. I’m into sensory play, impact play, and wax play. I enjoy the build up, the tension, the way things are felt rather than rushed. I’m not into anything dirty or extreme when it comes to ***. Connection is everything for me. If the energy isn’t there, nothing else really works. Outside of this, I’m a photographer. I love hikes, live music, and deep conversations that go beyond the surface.
Here because its hard to find ***s on other dating apps :P BE WARNED: i am autistic and have BPD, please be kind
sfw !! I’m a regressor looking for a caregiver ! I’m not completely faceless I have no issue showing you what I look like once we message ! >.<
"A sub can’t teach their own potential to be a Dom. You’re teaching him how to dominate you in ways you want. Not the way He wants to. Which isn’t D/s. The s submits to the Dom’s wishes in negotiated areas." If you do not know what SSC, PRICK, RACK & CCC are, DO NOT MESSAGE ME! if we have only started talking, do not request pics from me or request my private pics. You will be shut down! I am more than just my pictures! Have a good day now 🙂
I am a Domme, iam the owner and mistress to Erotes-72 we aee a closed dynamic. I am seeking like minded individuals who like to chat about the role of being dominant be it a fellow Domme or Dom I believe we all are continuously learning in our roles and can always learn something new .
hey! I am pretty shy, i have recently just gotten out of an abusive relationship and i just want to be taken care of and find someone who can handle my BPD and Autism. I love heavy metal and fashion, I love ***s, and I am really loving! just a little damaged at the moment.
Third Time a charm…, I’m looking for fun, hopefully ongoing but I do enjoy first times. new experiences and making new friends. I’m awesome, of course, come say Hi x
Perfectly packaged, petite and feisty, sadistic Beauty - with a weakness for heels and latex 🤤 A love for Trampling and BallBusting, with a dark little foot fetish 😈 Although I am quite the Bitch, I’m also friendly, and have an awesome sense of humour - time with me is never boring! Modesty is also a trait I possess 😉 However, of the many things I am! I’m not submissive, easy, or stupid - please approach with respect, or not at all
I am a mature, assertive, confident, educated, dominant woman who knows what she wants and goes for it. My unconventional feet have taken me on an incredible journey through life that is reflected in their shape, taste and smell. They will appeal to a more acquired and discerning preference amongst our beloved foot fetish community. Let our exploration begin together and make it a memorable experience for both of us. Electrasupreme is willing to share with you should you reach out and ask oh so very very politely.

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