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Hello!! I absolutely LOVE being put in my place, tease me, edge me, tie me up and make me beg for my orgasm. Yes, I’m a brat who will push your buttons from time to time😉 Need someone who can give me cute kisses but also ruin my life🤭
A captivating and confident Mistress, she exudes both elegance and warmth. Beneath her commanding presence lies a heart that desires depth, loyalty, and lasting connection. She believes in a relationship built on trust, devotion, and shared growth, where submission is cherished and intimacy is deeply nurtured. With a soft touch and a knowing gaze, she draws her submissive into a world where romance and discipline blend seamlessly. Enchanting yet grounded, she seeks not just obedience, but companionship, an enduring bond that unfolds over time. For the right submissive, she offers more than guidance, she offers a home for the heart.
I'm Dominant, here to reconnect with kink after a break. Since rejoining I've found an amazing man i am exploring kink with. We're building a beautiful connection and that's my priority at the moment. I'm interested in friendship and community and if anyone piques my interest I'll be discussing you with my partner. 💜🔥🧙‍♀️🔥💜
Female (47) Newark, Nottinghamshire
Any gender or gender non-conforming, and dom/sub/switch welcome but would like someone willing to explore at least lightly both sides of the dynamic but also looking for friends, as long as you aren't boring I'm happy to chat lol Pretty new to the scene and just testing the waters to see what I like I can be a little shy and honestly kinda nervous to be on here so forgive me for slow/no replies and I might take a little bit of work to get through to, hope you'll think its worth it though! And anything but shy once I'm comfortable My BDSM test results: == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Switch 96% Rope bunny 94% Brat 93% Submissive 82% Degradee 75% Experimentalist 72% Masochist 62% Brat tamer 62% Degrader 62% Rigger 59% Dominant 58% Primal (Prey) 52% Voyeur 50% Sadist 48% Vanilla 32% Primal (Hunter) 20% Non-monogamist 18% Master/Mistress 15% Owner 9% Slave 6% Daddy/Mommy 1% Exhibitionist 1% Pet 0% Boy/Girl 0% Ageplayer
Got some experience and I just want to find interesting like minded people. Lived here for a few years but still getting to know the area.
I should finally put something here. I’ve been involved in the scene for 15 years both in the states and here in the U.K. I absolutely love my kink community and friends. I do attend local and not so local events and munches. I’m seeking a monogamous D/s relationship that will hopefully last long term. I am submissive but have been known to top at times, if asked nicely and the right connection and energy is there.
Female (53) Newark, Nottinghamshire
? looking for her Dom. I'm a Masochist, sub, little but most of all a Princess. I am not looking for NSA or one offs but believe true submission can only be given in a trusting relationship with communication and consent. I am look for a male who is fairly local so that we can have regular contact and build something real. I love dongens and munches. I am a little exhibitionist. I have a massive lingerie and basque collection just needing someone to appreciate it fully. I am sure that I will add to this as time goes on.
Hey I have been in the lifestyle for a good while. Don't be shy, drop me a message if you would like to know something, and I'll get back to you. If you don't approve of tattoos and piercing, there is no point messaging me as I have both so saves the time. I have a very busy 'vanilla' life also. I am close to my immediate family, and my niece & nephew are my world. I have both a dog, a cat, and a gerbil. I like the simple things in life and also love the countryside. I know what I want in life, and I'm not afraid of saying that. I'm not here for hookups or kinky dates. If I do not have mental connections with the person, it's a waste of my time and theirs. I'm at the point in my life where I want to settle down. If I don't reply straight away, don't worry. It becomes flooded occasionally, and I work full time. I also may be doing a hobby to clear my mind. whether this be diamond ***tings or colouring, which are both the***utic or gaming. CPAP user 😷 and Chronic *** Warrior 💪
Just a very open minded girl trying to navigate her way through the kink world. I have a soft spot for femboys, let’s play dress up together and take pretty pictures? My littlespace is non-sexual and wholesome asf - don’t like that, LEAVE. You don’t have to be into CG/l for us to connect, there’s a lot more to me if you’d like to find out. Fellow subby friends are more than encouraged, two subs could get up to a lot of mischief… I will add to this over time, I promise!
Orange hair , 8 tattoos, 5’1, size 16 Great humour , love to laugh, very open and honest , very caring, like to please Miss that sub/ Dom relationship , I’d love that trust , that bond and that feeling when I know my Dom is pleased with me Sorry but only play with my age range **Desires and Fantasies** Love to be tied and made to cum Love toys used on me Understand I might need to be spanked sometimes ( do seem to bring that out in men) Want to explore my sub side Sorry , I don’t see likes PLEASE know I’m not a hook ups girl , nothing wrong if that’s your thing but don’t waste your time cause it’s not mine
Hi! I'm pretty inexperienced in this world, but very eager and open to learning! I'm curious about so many things, really most things.. I just need someone to hold my hand and guide the way. I'll try add more as I go, please bare with me.. I have no clue what I'm doing!
I am really looking for a genuine connection, possibly leading to a LTR and within that I would like a man who would want to spank me. I'm 57, live in Nottingham and only want to meet local men who are a similar age to myself. I am fairly alternative, enjoy gigs, goth music, punk, theatre, walking, outdoor swimming, dance, travel and Nottingham Forest. I am interested in a man who knows how to treat a woman. I like to have fun. I'm not a Domestic Goddess. If you're looking for a cook or a cleaner, that's not me! I want lots of sex and some of it kinky. I did click on NSA as well as LTR as that's sometimes how it all starts. Casual fun that develops to something more, but in truth I have absolutely no interest in hopping from man to man and I don't want an open relationship. I am strictly one man at a time. I'm happy for a Sex fest night in a hotel or a tent! I really like the outdoors and enjoy sex in the countryside. I don't want anyone to actually see me, I just enjoy being outside (in summer!). Once I'm in touch with someone, I enjoy receiving their messages and calls, and value good regular communication. I don't string people along, I would be honest with someone rather than ghost them, and I expect the same respect. I definitely do not appreciate unsolicited dick pics- I know what a cock looks like! I'm up for sex talk and video chat, just not the photos. I'd like to meet someone who is available to meet up locally, not just endless text messages with no physical contact. Must be relatively left wing: no flag flying, right wing Reform types or Tories please. Basically I'd love to meet a kind, generous hearted, articulate and literate bloke with a good sense of humour who is up for a few gigs, nights out, country walks, chatting and some kinky stuff. Not posted a photo of my face, simply as I don't want work clients or colleagues to spot me here.
I am a sadistic Mistress looking for play partners .. **Desires and Fantasies** Ultimate fantasy is to stay at BDSM hotel for the night with a favourite slave. I would like to explore different roles as a Domme e.g. Teacher nurse/dr etc. Finding out what my limits are and exploring how far I want to go with BDSM. To be adored by others limited by my health as to what I can do these days Joined Fetish as Khadi58 now MistressK_CAE
Looking for life long kinky weirdo for fun maybe more. I'm Ginger well rounded kinky pervert looking for. decent easy going people for mutual masturbation, respect and kinky adventures. I'm not interested in younger men please stop messaging me. I'm not interested in overly dominant people. you have zero chance of controlling me. Really submissive people sorry but you're not for me either. All round switchy filth bags is what I require. I don't want to exchange pictures and talk endless nonsense. I prefer real life meetings and decent conversation.
Hi, welcome to my little corner, I'm insanity, perfectly sane but this is the username I've harboured since my kink journey began way back in 2008. I'm a long term kinkster with lots of experience both in private and public. I am active on the Public play scene and even host events. I'm independent but looking for a partner in crime. I'm ENM with a long term playmate. I know my limits, my desires and my mind set. If the below is you, thank you for your time but I'm not interested, it's not personal it's just my own preferences Cross dresser, sissy, wearer of female underwear Under 38 Over 55 Unhygienic Not within 50km of Nottingham/Nottinghamshire After just a quick fuck See, now I've been brutally honest let's get to the ice part. I'm a switch, I have a passion for impact, wax and knives. I'm looking for a life partner, who is kinky... I'd like all the thrills of nilla life but with a healthy serving of pure filth. I've explored the public fetish scene for over 17 years and consider myself to be experienced, yet I still believe there is so much more to learn. I am open to talking to well mannered men who are either Dominant or submissive, I have no preference, you just need to stimulate my mind. I'm more aroused by stimulating conversation, good manners and honesty than a cock shot.
If you must refer to me, it's Vixx. I'm a sadomasochist, not a sub, not a Mistress, If you're under 28 please leave me alone If you're over 55 also respect my wishes and leave me alone This boundary used to be at the end of my profile but it made no difference so, do not expect a positive response if you get in touch and you're not 28-55 😊 I'm headstrong, confident and sarcastic. I'm important in my professional life and I have great friends and relationships, I don't _need_ someone in my life, I _want_ them. I'm not looking for pen pals or online connections and don't have endless time or *** to travel vast distances and want ongoing tangible connections so I am likely to tell you that you're too far away. I don't drive and refuse to accommodate so, unless you're within 10-15 miles of Nottingham I'm not interested. I'm really not a visual person, I don't care if you're 7 foot 2 with a 12 pack abs and look like (popular celeb crush) I wanna know if you're intelligent enough to have a conversation about more than sex. I want to know if you think with your brain not your genitals. What excites you in life? What happens in your head when you see a beautiful sunset? What's your favorite song? I don't think many will get this far, but if you do... I've been in the kink and BDSM world for 12 years, I'm neither naive or inexperienced. I'm happy to help others explore but do not assume my age means inexperience. I'm also not a kink dispenser. I'm not here to tick boxes and fulfill fantasies. Seek a professional if that's what you're looking for. I'm a brat, I'm a princess, i will be in charge and i take no compromise. I generally get my own way because it's just usually better that way and I'm good at making it feel like your idea. You're going to message me anyway, so just be respectful?
Looking to widen my knowledge of the whole BDSM scene and make some like-minded friends. I want to explore a learn about new kinks and ideas especially shibari, CNC, ***d orgasm, Dom/Sub roles. Always happy to chat and learn a few things.
Female (37) Mansfield, Nottinghamshire
Hi, pleased to "meet" you! I'm an independent, confident, and broad-minded woman with a decent level of emotional intelligence who enjoys a pretty happy and sociable life. Outside of work, I foster cats and volunteer with a radical social centre. I'm very left-leaning, respectful, spontaneous - and I am childfree by choice. 100% LGBTQI+ Ally 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 It would be great to meet folks who share similar values. Currently I've had some experience with kink, but I would like to explore much more. I am open to most types of connections, other than one night stands. However - I am very much my own person. I'm most definitely not looking for a 24/7 D/s relationship or TPE. Vegan, vaxxed to the max, and responsible about my sexual health. I'm not into sexting people I don't know - I'm genuinely looking to meet. No right-wingers or conspiracy theorists, please! I'm based in Nottingham, and I'm happy to send face pics on matching. It would be pretty awesome if your first message isn't "Hi how are you". Also, if your first message isn't respectful, I will block you.
hi I'm Amy not much really to tell I'm married relatively new to this scene would definitely like to be dominated.
Female (35) Ashfield, Nottinghamshire
Submissive masochist. Looking for a kind, thoughtful dom who can also be morally grey with consent. Consent, safe words and aftercare are important to me!
Female (26) Mansfield, Nottinghamshire
Well hello there and welcome to my profile 😜 Here’s a little about me! I go by B and I’m new to the lifestyle! I have always known I’ve been into the spicier side of life however for all of my adult life I have been in a committed albeit very vanilla 12 year long relationship. Since that relationship has come to an end I thought now was the perfect time to find myself and what I want/what I’m into! It’s safe to say I am VERY inexperienced in all things kink however I am very open and down to try anything (how else will I ever find what I’m actually into!) With that being said I would need somebody to show me the ropes 😏,be patient, kind, understanding and have open communication throughout (I will probably have a million and one questions!) Thank you for reading this far and I look forward to chatting and getting to know you! Stay kinky, B x
Female (32) Mansfield, Nottinghamshire
Submissive I need a daddy I’d like to meet someone who’s dominant and caring. I Cant have a profile picture but happy to send them over chat
Hey all , I am a sub looking for someone to put me in my place I’m definitely a brat who loves to tease and. Push boundaries to see what happens . I like rope play, gags, collars
So I’m new to the full blown kink world, it’s something that I’m discovering about myself… Exploring all shades of pleasure and inner self, not linear and open to most things. Can alternate from long sensual massages and touch to BDSM and kinks

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Hello!! I absolutely LOVE being put in my place, tease me, edge me, tie me up and make me beg for my orgasm. Yes, I’m a brat who will push your buttons from time to time😉 Need someone who can give me cute kisses but also ruin my life🤭
Hi, pleased to "meet" you! I'm an independent, confident, and broad-minded woman with a decent level of emotional intelligence who enjoys a pretty happy and sociable life. Outside of work, I foster cats and volunteer with a radical social centre. I'm very left-leaning, respectful, spontaneous - and I am childfree by choice. 100% LGBTQI+ Ally 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 It would be great to meet folks who share similar values. Currently I've had some experience with kink, but I would like to explore much more. I am open to most types of connections, other than one night stands. However - I am very much my own person. I'm most definitely not looking for a 24/7 D/s relationship or TPE. Vegan, vaxxed to the max, and responsible about my sexual health. I'm not into sexting people I don't know - I'm genuinely looking to meet. No right-wingers or conspiracy theorists, please! I'm based in Nottingham, and I'm happy to send face pics on matching. It would be pretty awesome if your first message isn't "Hi how are you". Also, if your first message isn't respectful, I will block you.
Got some experience and I just want to find interesting like minded people. Lived here for a few years but still getting to know the area.
Hey all , I am a sub looking for someone to put me in my place I’m definitely a brat who loves to tease and. Push boundaries to see what happens . I like rope play, gags, collars
So I’m new to the full blown kink world, it’s something that I’m discovering about myself… Exploring all shades of pleasure and inner self, not linear and open to most things. Can alternate from long sensual massages and touch to BDSM and kinks
A captivating and confident Mistress, she exudes both elegance and warmth. Beneath her commanding presence lies a heart that desires depth, loyalty, and lasting connection. She believes in a relationship built on trust, devotion, and shared growth, where submission is cherished and intimacy is deeply nurtured. With a soft touch and a knowing gaze, she draws her submissive into a world where romance and discipline blend seamlessly. Enchanting yet grounded, she seeks not just obedience, but companionship, an enduring bond that unfolds over time. For the right submissive, she offers more than guidance, she offers a home for the heart.
Submissive masochist. Looking for a kind, thoughtful dom who can also be morally grey with consent. Consent, safe words and aftercare are important to me!
Female (26) Mansfield, Nottinghamshire
I'm Dominant, here to reconnect with kink after a break. Since rejoining I've found an amazing man i am exploring kink with. We're building a beautiful connection and that's my priority at the moment. I'm interested in friendship and community and if anyone piques my interest I'll be discussing you with my partner. 💜🔥🧙‍♀️🔥💜
Female (47) Newark, Nottinghamshire
I am really looking for a genuine connection, possibly leading to a LTR and within that I would like a man who would want to spank me. I'm 57, live in Nottingham and only want to meet local men who are a similar age to myself. I am fairly alternative, enjoy gigs, goth music, punk, theatre, walking, outdoor swimming, dance, travel and Nottingham Forest. I am interested in a man who knows how to treat a woman. I like to have fun. I'm not a Domestic Goddess. If you're looking for a cook or a cleaner, that's not me! I want lots of sex and some of it kinky. I did click on NSA as well as LTR as that's sometimes how it all starts. Casual fun that develops to something more, but in truth I have absolutely no interest in hopping from man to man and I don't want an open relationship. I am strictly one man at a time. I'm happy for a Sex fest night in a hotel or a tent! I really like the outdoors and enjoy sex in the countryside. I don't want anyone to actually see me, I just enjoy being outside (in summer!). Once I'm in touch with someone, I enjoy receiving their messages and calls, and value good regular communication. I don't string people along, I would be honest with someone rather than ghost them, and I expect the same respect. I definitely do not appreciate unsolicited dick pics- I know what a cock looks like! I'm up for sex talk and video chat, just not the photos. I'd like to meet someone who is available to meet up locally, not just endless text messages with no physical contact. Must be relatively left wing: no flag flying, right wing Reform types or Tories please. Basically I'd love to meet a kind, generous hearted, articulate and literate bloke with a good sense of humour who is up for a few gigs, nights out, country walks, chatting and some kinky stuff. Not posted a photo of my face, simply as I don't want work clients or colleagues to spot me here.
Well hello there and welcome to my profile 😜 Here’s a little about me! I go by B and I’m new to the lifestyle! I have always known I’ve been into the spicier side of life however for all of my adult life I have been in a committed albeit very vanilla 12 year long relationship. Since that relationship has come to an end I thought now was the perfect time to find myself and what I want/what I’m into! It’s safe to say I am VERY inexperienced in all things kink however I am very open and down to try anything (how else will I ever find what I’m actually into!) With that being said I would need somebody to show me the ropes 😏,be patient, kind, understanding and have open communication throughout (I will probably have a million and one questions!) Thank you for reading this far and I look forward to chatting and getting to know you! Stay kinky, B x
Female (32) Mansfield, Nottinghamshire
Just a very open minded girl trying to navigate her way through the kink world. I have a soft spot for femboys, let’s play dress up together and take pretty pictures? My littlespace is non-sexual and wholesome asf - don’t like that, LEAVE. You don’t have to be into CG/l for us to connect, there’s a lot more to me if you’d like to find out. Fellow subby friends are more than encouraged, two subs could get up to a lot of mischief… I will add to this over time, I promise!
Any gender or gender non-conforming, and dom/sub/switch welcome but would like someone willing to explore at least lightly both sides of the dynamic but also looking for friends, as long as you aren't boring I'm happy to chat lol Pretty new to the scene and just testing the waters to see what I like I can be a little shy and honestly kinda nervous to be on here so forgive me for slow/no replies and I might take a little bit of work to get through to, hope you'll think its worth it though! And anything but shy once I'm comfortable My BDSM test results: == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Switch 96% Rope bunny 94% Brat 93% Submissive 82% Degradee 75% Experimentalist 72% Masochist 62% Brat tamer 62% Degrader 62% Rigger 59% Dominant 58% Primal (Prey) 52% Voyeur 50% Sadist 48% Vanilla 32% Primal (Hunter) 20% Non-monogamist 18% Master/Mistress 15% Owner 9% Slave 6% Daddy/Mommy 1% Exhibitionist 1% Pet 0% Boy/Girl 0% Ageplayer
Hey I have been in the lifestyle for a good while. Don't be shy, drop me a message if you would like to know something, and I'll get back to you. If you don't approve of tattoos and piercing, there is no point messaging me as I have both so saves the time. I have a very busy 'vanilla' life also. I am close to my immediate family, and my niece & nephew are my world. I have both a dog, a cat, and a gerbil. I like the simple things in life and also love the countryside. I know what I want in life, and I'm not afraid of saying that. I'm not here for hookups or kinky dates. If I do not have mental connections with the person, it's a waste of my time and theirs. I'm at the point in my life where I want to settle down. If I don't reply straight away, don't worry. It becomes flooded occasionally, and I work full time. I also may be doing a hobby to clear my mind. whether this be diamond ***tings or colouring, which are both the***utic or gaming. CPAP user 😷 and Chronic *** Warrior 💪
I should finally put something here. I’ve been involved in the scene for 15 years both in the states and here in the U.K. I absolutely love my kink community and friends. I do attend local and not so local events and munches. I’m seeking a monogamous D/s relationship that will hopefully last long term. I am submissive but have been known to top at times, if asked nicely and the right connection and energy is there.
Female (53) Newark, Nottinghamshire
Looking to widen my knowledge of the whole BDSM scene and make some like-minded friends. I want to explore a learn about new kinks and ideas especially shibari, CNC, ***d orgasm, Dom/Sub roles. Always happy to chat and learn a few things.
Female (37) Mansfield, Nottinghamshire
hi I'm Amy not much really to tell I'm married relatively new to this scene would definitely like to be dominated.
Female (35) Ashfield, Nottinghamshire
If you must refer to me, it's Vixx. I'm a sadomasochist, not a sub, not a Mistress, If you're under 28 please leave me alone If you're over 55 also respect my wishes and leave me alone This boundary used to be at the end of my profile but it made no difference so, do not expect a positive response if you get in touch and you're not 28-55 😊 I'm headstrong, confident and sarcastic. I'm important in my professional life and I have great friends and relationships, I don't _need_ someone in my life, I _want_ them. I'm not looking for pen pals or online connections and don't have endless time or *** to travel vast distances and want ongoing tangible connections so I am likely to tell you that you're too far away. I don't drive and refuse to accommodate so, unless you're within 10-15 miles of Nottingham I'm not interested. I'm really not a visual person, I don't care if you're 7 foot 2 with a 12 pack abs and look like (popular celeb crush) I wanna know if you're intelligent enough to have a conversation about more than sex. I want to know if you think with your brain not your genitals. What excites you in life? What happens in your head when you see a beautiful sunset? What's your favorite song? I don't think many will get this far, but if you do... I've been in the kink and BDSM world for 12 years, I'm neither naive or inexperienced. I'm happy to help others explore but do not assume my age means inexperience. I'm also not a kink dispenser. I'm not here to tick boxes and fulfill fantasies. Seek a professional if that's what you're looking for. I'm a brat, I'm a princess, i will be in charge and i take no compromise. I generally get my own way because it's just usually better that way and I'm good at making it feel like your idea. You're going to message me anyway, so just be respectful?
? looking for her Dom. I'm a Masochist, sub, little but most of all a Princess. I am not looking for NSA or one offs but believe true submission can only be given in a trusting relationship with communication and consent. I am look for a male who is fairly local so that we can have regular contact and build something real. I love dongens and munches. I am a little exhibitionist. I have a massive lingerie and basque collection just needing someone to appreciate it fully. I am sure that I will add to this as time goes on.
Hi! I'm pretty inexperienced in this world, but very eager and open to learning! I'm curious about so many things, really most things.. I just need someone to hold my hand and guide the way. I'll try add more as I go, please bare with me.. I have no clue what I'm doing!
Looking for life long kinky weirdo for fun maybe more. I'm Ginger well rounded kinky pervert looking for. decent easy going people for mutual masturbation, respect and kinky adventures. I'm not interested in younger men please stop messaging me. I'm not interested in overly dominant people. you have zero chance of controlling me. Really submissive people sorry but you're not for me either. All round switchy filth bags is what I require. I don't want to exchange pictures and talk endless nonsense. I prefer real life meetings and decent conversation.
Not looking, I have all my needs met. Poly bi sadist. I have MS, I wobble, hopefully I don’t fall down, it doesn’t stop me. Not tall, not thin, not wearing latex or heels.
Hi, welcome to my little corner, I'm insanity, perfectly sane but this is the username I've harboured since my kink journey began way back in 2008. I'm a long term kinkster with lots of experience both in private and public. I am active on the Public play scene and even host events. I'm independent but looking for a partner in crime. I'm ENM with a long term playmate. I know my limits, my desires and my mind set. If the below is you, thank you for your time but I'm not interested, it's not personal it's just my own preferences Cross dresser, sissy, wearer of female underwear Under 38 Over 55 Unhygienic Not within 50km of Nottingham/Nottinghamshire After just a quick fuck See, now I've been brutally honest let's get to the ice part. I'm a switch, I have a passion for impact, wax and knives. I'm looking for a life partner, who is kinky... I'd like all the thrills of nilla life but with a healthy serving of pure filth. I've explored the public fetish scene for over 17 years and consider myself to be experienced, yet I still believe there is so much more to learn. I am open to talking to well mannered men who are either Dominant or submissive, I have no preference, you just need to stimulate my mind. I'm more aroused by stimulating conversation, good manners and honesty than a cock shot.
Orange hair , 8 tattoos, 5’1, size 16 Great humour , love to laugh, very open and honest , very caring, like to please Miss that sub/ Dom relationship , I’d love that trust , that bond and that feeling when I know my Dom is pleased with me Sorry but only play with my age range **Desires and Fantasies** Love to be tied and made to cum Love toys used on me Understand I might need to be spanked sometimes ( do seem to bring that out in men) Want to explore my sub side Sorry , I don’t see likes PLEASE know I’m not a hook ups girl , nothing wrong if that’s your thing but don’t waste your time cause it’s not mine
Submissive I need a daddy I’d like to meet someone who’s dominant and caring. I Cant have a profile picture but happy to send them over chat

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