Find kinky women in Oxfordshire

Hi there I am not new to the scene but not incredibly experienced. I am wanting to see if I can find the right person for a mix of vanilla and Ds...so that I can explore further with someone I trust.... I have a strong character and am 5.9 and would appreciate someone taller ? #aimingforthestars
Female (55) Curbridge, Oxfordshire
27yo bi fem with a huge sex drive likes her men VWE blacks especially welcome. I love oral and foreplay
Female (28) Thame, Oxfordshire
I'm a bigger women. I'm not small or Petite except in height. I have a tummy, I have scars and stretch marks. I'm not thin or model like at all. I have thick thighs and a big chest. I need someone who is dominant, someone to take control in the bedroom. My sexual encounters have all been very vanilla and I need more than that. I am a bit of a Nympho so I need a man who can keep up with me, someone who will worship me and my pleasure as well as their own. I have a praise Kink so I love being told I'm a good girl, I need someone who is vocal in bed, dirty talk, praise, directing what is happening ect.
Female (32) Banbury, Oxfordshire
I’ve been out of the dating scene for a little while so I thought it was time for an update (Jan 2026). I’m very much all or nothing. My ideal relationship would be a monogamous, TPE Male-led relationship. I am into traditional gender role relationships and really appreciate the values and benefits it has to both sides. I think both sides compliment each other very well. The lifestyle is more than just kink to me, it’s a comfort blanket and I feel safer with the rules, boundaries and structure around me. Im not here for casual hook ups, to find a play partner, or just for the kinky chats. Consistency is very important to me. I don’t work well with rules that are put in place just for the sake of it. If they don’t mean anything to you, and are not beneficial to the dynamic we are building, then they don’t mean anything to me either. Honesty and communication is also very important to me (as I am sure it is for most people). But if I don’t feel I can communicate with my partner, or that they aren’t communicating with me properly, this absolutely will not work. If you have got this far and feel as though the above resonates with you and what you are looking for, then by all means send a message and let’s see if we are compatible. Before exchanging personal details and arranging to meet, I prefer to vet through Fetlife as I find seeing people’s activity and how they interact with others says a lot about them. If you message and I don’t respond - please don’t be offended. It is nothing personal, just that I have read your profile and for one reason or another don’t believe we will be a good match. Just as I am not for everyone, everyone is not for me either. Thank you for taking the time to read 🌷🌸🧸
Female (38) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I am hmm who am I used to be a very out going now rather reserved outwardly. I am a large human lumps bumps and rolls but still human so be nice or move on . normally like walks bedroom exploring not always in the bedroom ect I'm pretty boring unless you are the right one to unlock and awaken parts of me size 16 ish have two kids needed to add that as sone seem shocked when I cant answer msgs ASAP ok so I met one fellow human im not cut out for this im supppppper awkward im shy can't don't know how to make first move this ain't the movies please don't ask who I am what I'm after I have no ***y clue I live 8n country side dobt see many humans im a nerd
Female (42) Wardington, Oxfordshire
Hi I'm Krissy. I'm a 24/7 Submissive, I don't lable as a pet/lg/brat as I sit somewhere in between. I have a FT Dom/Hub and joined to make friends with simular interests and conversation and getting to know others in the lifestyle as my local area appears to be very Vanilla (no judgement, just not my life)
Female (36) Didcot, Oxfordshire
im submissive, but its not my entire personality. im an enfp personality type, i talk alot. I like photography, writing poems, art, music,travel. ive lived and travelled abroad. im looking for an adventurous experienced Dom who is willing to explore.
Female (35) Banbury, Oxfordshire
Have explored a few things and not keen to explore more about being a sub… Also bi curious and looking to have NSA with experienced woman and tick off my sexy bucket list.
Female (45) Abingdon, Oxfordshire
I DO, IN FACT, HAVE A PARTNER😭 i am learning that no one ever scrolls that far, if you do not wish to talk with taken people, there is a filter you can turn on for that☺️ ——— 🖍️sfw likes: music, vintage fashion, gaming, ‘childish’ items, ikea plastic cutlery, tartan pattern, ducks, kitties, owls and pigeons. 📌nsfw likes: collaring (shocker ik), ddlg, infantilisation, dacryphilia, marking, breath play/control, physical *** (not verbal), grovelling, zelophilia, pet play, cgl, dollification, lingerie… ect
Female (22) Carterton, Oxfordshire
Hi! You can call me BRB ☺️ I’m part hobbit, part gym rat, part asshole. Vanilla me I have a lot of plants and pets… and hayfever and a pet hair allergy. I like reading, whether an actual book or audiobook and I love exploring nature. I am a complete gym junkie and happily take part in everything from yoga to lifting. The dark side I am equal parts service sub and masochist. I enjoy kink and believe it should be fun for everyone. I can absolutely be a sarcastic cunt if the mood takes me, but I need to feel very safe with someone before they see that side. The serious stuff I don’t care what you want to do to me, random internet stranger. Sorrynotsorry. I don’t often engage in casual play, that tends to be a privilege for a select few close friends. Casual play is strictly non-sexual. I wont play with anyone who doesn’t have my phone number. If I don’t trust you with that, why would I trust you with my body?
Female (38) Bicester, Oxfordshire
sweet shy loyal goth 😳 daddy travel partner who would like to travel together lonng term partner
Female (39) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Curvy/chubby spontaneous exhibitionist werido, who loves nature, adrenaline, I'm very outgoing, bubbly, and I always want to please. I do ride motorbikes so i love to get my adrenaline going. 🥵😏 I can travel, I can't host. Im a size 14/16 and my bra size is 34H When you spicy photo shoot photos are finally here from 2 years ago and fet say they are to spicy for the app. 😂
Female (28) Steeple Aston, Oxfordshire
hiii I’m zarr I’m a little and puppyyyy. I’m 18 and am a bbw so don’t think I’m skinny! In a dynamic first And foremost communication is key!!!! From telling me If youre uncomfortable, want to try out new stuff and talking to me just in general. I’m looking for someone who doesnt JUST care about sex but vanilla stuff aswell as quality time is a big thing for me and someone who I can just vibe with. Kink wise I’m into A LOT but the main things would be impact play, S/M, *** this is the same for dom or sub. but I can also be soft and want to just get taken care of. Vanilla life I love walks and picnics, movies (I’m a little bit of a nerd), a drive (love a road trip) and I am a big fan of history so if anyone wants to go on a museum date hit a girl up!!!!
Female (18) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Submissive, cheeky, and a little bit naughty. I’m here for something real, not a one-time thing. I’m laid-back, love a good laugh, and I’m a sucker for someone who can communicate honestly (bonus points if you’re direct — I prefer truth over sugarcoating). Outside of kink, I’m into gaming, cocktails, and a good movie night. Music taste is all over the place — pop, rock, country… if it’s good, I’m in. Curvy girl, so you’ve got to be into that 😉
Female (25) Didcot, Oxfordshire
***New to Fetlife: diaperbabybunny Hey, just a little girl hoping to find her Daddy/CG I’m an avid ddlg fan and highly into age play. I like everything that comes with being a little baby. I want to be pampered, put in a nappy, dummy in my mouth, head pats and cuddles. But to be disciplined when needed. I’m hoping to find a kind, caring, nurturing daddy who enjoys that side just as much as the sexual side because I’m not always a sexual little. On the whole I’m a good little girl but can sometimes be a little bit bratty. I have a busy, “normal” every day life with responsibilities (like most) so this isn’t something I practice everyday. I’m looking for a good connection with someone so when we are together, we can be in a ddlg dynamic. I’m not here for “cyber fun”. Btw I’ve been in this lifestyle for many years now and can spot fakes from a mile off so please, let’s not waste each others time. Happy to send photo of my face once we’ve started chatting, thank you for reading.
Female (35) Oxford, Oxfordshire
cute alt girl looking to explore her submissive side and have a dom to take care of her
Female (36) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I am single. Non monogamous. I work hard so I value my free time incredibly and enjoy fitting in lots of playtime. I can host on certain days and also Happy to travel.
Female (53) Oxford, Oxfordshire
5ft 2 and curvy ⏳🍑 Sass and sarcasm 💁🏻‍♀️ Best friend assessment: “bubbly, charismatic, dangerous, addictive” I love someone who can challenge me and match my energy. Give it a go 😈 ✨ Lady by day, feral by night ✨ Open to all kinds of connections currently but just be upfront about your intentions please. Honesty, communication, respect and boundaries are essential for me. I’m not likely to message first, I like a gentleman who can assert his dominance so prove it by starting a conversation. Very open to exploring connections with women but it’s a relatively new area for me so guidance is always encouraged 💕
Female (29) Fewcott, Oxfordshire
hey guys! new to the site. I’m a naturally dominant curvy female that loves to put her man in his place. I’m hugely into foot worship, I use to dance so have always had to take extra care of my feet, love getting pedicures and massages and spoiled rotten. love how feminine I feel when wearing stockings, heels and pretty lingerie. I do have a soft spot for a cheeky smile and strong arms💋
Female (47) Ambrosden, Oxfordshire
A submissive soul who runs on praise and loves being of service. I’m fascinated by TPE and 24/7 dynamics, but I’m looking for a human connection first, not just a role to fill. If we click, we click. I’m old school in the sense that I want to meet up. I’m not looking for a texting pen pal, online-only play, or trading nudes. Let's keep it in the real world. I am particularly excited to explore this side of myself with women and dominant women. I’m also very open to non-monogamy and connecting with couples. If you know how to command a room (and a sub), say hi
Female (25) Dry Sandford, Oxfordshire
Unfortunately my boyfriend isn’t quite satisfying me so I’m looking for someone who can do his job. Also open to 3ways: MMF and FFM
Female (31) Banbury, Oxfordshire
I’m an owned submissive into BDSM and latex. Have played with other couples and single females. Looking to make friends with likeminded people and attend clubs and parties. As a couple we are keen to meet both male and female bi-sexual people for fun times.
Female (48) Blewbury, Oxfordshire
recently entered a relationship with a very kinky person and as a kink noob they have opened my eyes to a whole new world of pleasure and fun as well as structure and communication, openness and trust in relationships. he has brought me here to learn more about the community, find people I can talk to about different kinks and finding out about dom sub relationships. not looking for dick pics, ons, fwb just looking to make friends
Female (53) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Submissive and can be bratty. Forming a connection and building trust is important, whilst having a sense of humour and being playful too. ideally seeking a long term partner however happy to explore and see where things go too.
Female (33) Oxford, Oxfordshire

New members in Oxfordshire

Hi I'm Krissy. I'm a 24/7 Submissive, I don't lable as a pet/lg/brat as I sit somewhere in between. I have a FT Dom/Hub and joined to make friends with simular interests and conversation and getting to know others in the lifestyle as my local area appears to be very Vanilla (no judgement, just not my life)
Female (36) Didcot, Oxfordshire
27yo bi fem with a huge sex drive likes her men VWE blacks especially welcome. I love oral and foreplay
Female (28) Thame, Oxfordshire
im submissive, but its not my entire personality. im an enfp personality type, i talk alot. I like photography, writing poems, art, music,travel. ive lived and travelled abroad. im looking for an adventurous experienced Dom who is willing to explore.
Female (35) Banbury, Oxfordshire
I'm a bigger women. I'm not small or Petite except in height. I have a tummy, I have scars and stretch marks. I'm not thin or model like at all. I have thick thighs and a big chest. I need someone who is dominant, someone to take control in the bedroom. My sexual encounters have all been very vanilla and I need more than that. I am a bit of a Nympho so I need a man who can keep up with me, someone who will worship me and my pleasure as well as their own. I have a praise Kink so I love being told I'm a good girl, I need someone who is vocal in bed, dirty talk, praise, directing what is happening ect.
Female (32) Banbury, Oxfordshire
Have explored a few things and not keen to explore more about being a sub… Also bi curious and looking to have NSA with experienced woman and tick off my sexy bucket list.
Female (45) Abingdon, Oxfordshire
I’ve been out of the dating scene for a little while so I thought it was time for an update (Jan 2026). I’m very much all or nothing. My ideal relationship would be a monogamous, TPE Male-led relationship. I am into traditional gender role relationships and really appreciate the values and benefits it has to both sides. I think both sides compliment each other very well. The lifestyle is more than just kink to me, it’s a comfort blanket and I feel safer with the rules, boundaries and structure around me. Im not here for casual hook ups, to find a play partner, or just for the kinky chats. Consistency is very important to me. I don’t work well with rules that are put in place just for the sake of it. If they don’t mean anything to you, and are not beneficial to the dynamic we are building, then they don’t mean anything to me either. Honesty and communication is also very important to me (as I am sure it is for most people). But if I don’t feel I can communicate with my partner, or that they aren’t communicating with me properly, this absolutely will not work. If you have got this far and feel as though the above resonates with you and what you are looking for, then by all means send a message and let’s see if we are compatible. Before exchanging personal details and arranging to meet, I prefer to vet through Fetlife as I find seeing people’s activity and how they interact with others says a lot about them. If you message and I don’t respond - please don’t be offended. It is nothing personal, just that I have read your profile and for one reason or another don’t believe we will be a good match. Just as I am not for everyone, everyone is not for me either. Thank you for taking the time to read 🌷🌸🧸
Female (38) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I am hmm who am I used to be a very out going now rather reserved outwardly. I am a large human lumps bumps and rolls but still human so be nice or move on . normally like walks bedroom exploring not always in the bedroom ect I'm pretty boring unless you are the right one to unlock and awaken parts of me size 16 ish have two kids needed to add that as sone seem shocked when I cant answer msgs ASAP ok so I met one fellow human im not cut out for this im supppppper awkward im shy can't don't know how to make first move this ain't the movies please don't ask who I am what I'm after I have no ***y clue I live 8n country side dobt see many humans im a nerd
Female (42) Wardington, Oxfordshire
Hi there I am not new to the scene but not incredibly experienced. I am wanting to see if I can find the right person for a mix of vanilla and Ds...so that I can explore further with someone I trust.... I have a strong character and am 5.9 and would appreciate someone taller ? #aimingforthestars
Female (55) Curbridge, Oxfordshire
hiii I’m zarr I’m a little and puppyyyy. I’m 18 and am a bbw so don’t think I’m skinny! In a dynamic first And foremost communication is key!!!! From telling me If youre uncomfortable, want to try out new stuff and talking to me just in general. I’m looking for someone who doesnt JUST care about sex but vanilla stuff aswell as quality time is a big thing for me and someone who I can just vibe with. Kink wise I’m into A LOT but the main things would be impact play, S/M, *** this is the same for dom or sub. but I can also be soft and want to just get taken care of. Vanilla life I love walks and picnics, movies (I’m a little bit of a nerd), a drive (love a road trip) and I am a big fan of history so if anyone wants to go on a museum date hit a girl up!!!!
Female (18) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Hi! You can call me BRB ☺️ I’m part hobbit, part gym rat, part asshole. Vanilla me I have a lot of plants and pets… and hayfever and a pet hair allergy. I like reading, whether an actual book or audiobook and I love exploring nature. I am a complete gym junkie and happily take part in everything from yoga to lifting. The dark side I am equal parts service sub and masochist. I enjoy kink and believe it should be fun for everyone. I can absolutely be a sarcastic cunt if the mood takes me, but I need to feel very safe with someone before they see that side. The serious stuff I don’t care what you want to do to me, random internet stranger. Sorrynotsorry. I don’t often engage in casual play, that tends to be a privilege for a select few close friends. Casual play is strictly non-sexual. I wont play with anyone who doesn’t have my phone number. If I don’t trust you with that, why would I trust you with my body?
Female (38) Bicester, Oxfordshire
New to this go easy on me 🤣😅 I am looking to meet women it is new ish to me so hoping I find someone who is more confident to take charge. I am abit shy so needs someone who take the lead and show me the ropes. love to make a genuine friend too no time wasters please 😅
Female (33) Launton, Oxfordshire
Unfortunately my boyfriend isn’t quite satisfying me so I’m looking for someone who can do his job. Also open to 3ways: MMF and FFM
Female (31) Banbury, Oxfordshire
I am a single 37 year old bi woman and I'm looking to meet someone into polyamory who would love to swing as well. Not into a one night stand or anyone already in a relationship so if that’s what you’re looking for I’m not the one for you. I’m very slow to meet up coz I want to know if the connection is right first so if you can bear with me we will get on.. Open to a poly relationship if it blossomed into that. If you go straight into the convo about what you want in the bedroom or send a dick pic without me asking you will probably be blocked sorry!! Just being honest!!
Female (37) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Hey I’m Angel, I’m am a sub leaning switch. I’m still quite new to kink but I’ll try anything that isn’t a limit
Female (23) Bicester, Oxfordshire
Sex is easy. Finding your person isn’t. I’m here looking for a genuine long-term connection with someone who wants chemistry, compatibility, adventure, and a little bit of mischief along the way. I have a high sex drive, a curious mind, and vanilla has never really been my thing. I started my kink journey as a submissive but discovered a love for switching, so I’m drawn to people who enjoy exploring, challenging themselves, and seeing where mutual trust and connection can lead. By day, I’m ambitious, professional, and driven. By night, I’m playful, passionate, and always up for a little trouble. I’d love to meet someone with a similar work-hard, play-hard outlook on life - someone who has their own goals, passions, and ambitions, but also knows how to let their hair down. Bonus points if you love travel, great food, culture, spontaneous adventures, and conversations that last far longer than planned. If you’re looking for a quick hookup, we’re probably not a match. If you’re looking for a partner in crime, a co-conspirator, and something real with plenty of sparks, say hello.
Female (39) Banbury, Oxfordshire
5ft 2 and curvy ⏳🍑 Sass and sarcasm 💁🏻‍♀️ Best friend assessment: “bubbly, charismatic, dangerous, addictive” I love someone who can challenge me and match my energy. Give it a go 😈 ✨ Lady by day, feral by night ✨ Open to all kinds of connections currently but just be upfront about your intentions please. Honesty, communication, respect and boundaries are essential for me. I’m not likely to message first, I like a gentleman who can assert his dominance so prove it by starting a conversation. Very open to exploring connections with women but it’s a relatively new area for me so guidance is always encouraged 💕
Female (29) Fewcott, Oxfordshire
cute alt girl looking to explore her submissive side and have a dom to take care of her
Female (36) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Curvy/chubby spontaneous exhibitionist werido, who loves nature, adrenaline, I'm very outgoing, bubbly, and I always want to please. I do ride motorbikes so i love to get my adrenaline going. 🥵😏 I can travel, I can't host. Im a size 14/16 and my bra size is 34H When you spicy photo shoot photos are finally here from 2 years ago and fet say they are to spicy for the app. 😂
Female (28) Steeple Aston, Oxfordshire
Cute, short, and a bit of a nerd. Books, gaming, and late-night rabbit holes keep me busy. Tattooed and leaning toward the alternative side of life and music. Exploring my submissive side and drawn to confident, respectful Doms. Bonus points if you’re alt or tattooed too 😘
Female (27) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I am single. Non monogamous. I work hard so I value my free time incredibly and enjoy fitting in lots of playtime. I can host on certain days and also Happy to travel.
Female (53) Oxford, Oxfordshire
recently entered a relationship with a very kinky person and as a kink noob they have opened my eyes to a whole new world of pleasure and fun as well as structure and communication, openness and trust in relationships. he has brought me here to learn more about the community, find people I can talk to about different kinks and finding out about dom sub relationships. not looking for dick pics, ons, fwb just looking to make friends
Female (53) Oxford, Oxfordshire
hey guys! new to the site. I’m a naturally dominant curvy female that loves to put her man in his place. I’m hugely into foot worship, I use to dance so have always had to take extra care of my feet, love getting pedicures and massages and spoiled rotten. love how feminine I feel when wearing stockings, heels and pretty lingerie. I do have a soft spot for a cheeky smile and strong arms💋
Female (47) Ambrosden, Oxfordshire
Im a tattoo artist and bass player near Oxford 🥰🥰 looking for an online dom or just a friend ❤️ all natural down there- if u don’t like it, don’t message me😘
Female (19) Bicester, Oxfordshire
Submissive, cheeky, and a little bit naughty. I’m here for something real, not a one-time thing. I’m laid-back, love a good laugh, and I’m a sucker for someone who can communicate honestly (bonus points if you’re direct — I prefer truth over sugarcoating). Outside of kink, I’m into gaming, cocktails, and a good movie night. Music taste is all over the place — pop, rock, country… if it’s good, I’m in. Curvy girl, so you’ve got to be into that 😉
Female (25) Didcot, Oxfordshire

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