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Optimiser
Optimiser
I am hmm who am I used to be a very out going now rather reserved outwardly. I am a large human lumps bumps and rolls but still human so be nice or move on . normally like walks bedroom exploring not always in the bedroom ect I'm pretty boring unless you are the right one to unlock and awaken parts of me size 16 ish have two kids needed to add that as sone seem shocked when I cant answer msgs ASAP ok so I met one fellow human im not cut out for this im supppppper awkward im shy can't don't know how to make first move this ain't the movies please don't ask who I am what I'm after I have no ***y clue I live 8n country side dobt see many humans im a nerd
Female (41) Wardington, Oxfordshire
Luna93913
Luna93913
About Me: I’m a spirited, cheeky woman who loves to challenge the status quo—and sometimes test your patience (in the best way possible). I’m drawn to deep connections that allow for trust, laughter, and a little bit of teasing along the way. I appreciate a partner who can keep up with my mischievous side while understanding the value of balance and boundaries. Life’s about exploring both the sweet and the spicy, and I’m not afraid to venture into those tantalising places where passion and playfulness collide. If you know how to handle a bit of fire, you’ll find someone who’s fiercely loyal, endlessly curious, and full of energy. What I’m Looking For: Someone confident, compassionate, and not afraid to take charge when the moment calls for it. If you appreciate both spirited banter and quiet moments of vulnerability, we might just get along famously. Let’s Connect If: You enjoy a good laugh, know how to handle a challenge, and understand that trust is the foundation of all great adventures—no matter how daring they may be.
Female (32) Carterton, Oxfordshire
Woody1264
Woody1264
I am looking for a dominant man to explore this world of BDSM, Kink and Fetish. someone who is intelligent, articulate and has a good sense of humour but also is honest and has integrity. physical appearance is important - I accept that sounds shallow but I keep fit and healthy so I am being honest in what I find attractive. I don’t go for much younger men and prefer those around my own age so just scroll on if you are below 50 as I am just not interested.
Female (60) Benson, Oxfordshire
CftSamantha
CftSamantha
I am a married mother of two beautiful daughters, but I have recently realised how unsatisfied I am and I decided that I want to meet up with new people, try new things and experiment. I want to try everything once, so I currently have no limits. I can travel anywhere as long as you give me enough reason to. I will rarely upload pics or videos as I wish to stay fairly anonymous for now, but if we hit it off then I am more then happy to share pics of me. I am able to host at certain times of the year, while my partner is away.
Female (35) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Louise777
Louise777
Hi there I am not new to the scene but not incredibly experienced. I am wanting to see if I can find the right person for a mix of vanilla and Ds...so that I can explore further with someone I trust.... I have a strong character and am 5.9 and would appreciate someone taller ? #aimingforthestars
Female (54) Curbridge, Oxfordshire
Tinks-3780
Tinks-3780
Have explored a few things and not keen to explore more about being a sub… Also bi curious and looking to have NSA with experienced woman and tick off my sexy bucket list.
Female (44) Abingdon, Oxfordshire
Clairecurves
C**********s
heavy squirter looking for regular play mates, open to sharing. like men who are younger and in relationships love pegging and bi men or women if you require a cum dump message me with a face pic Breeding fetish
Female (36) Didcot, Oxfordshire
k_l_a_u_s
k*******s
I have a high sex drive. I believe sexual exhaustion is one of the best feelings. I been there, done that. But there is more to explore. Not into ONS, sorry.
Female (35) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Babygirl-101
B**********1
***New to Fetlife: diaperbabybunny Hey, just a little girl hoping to find her Daddy/CG I’m an avid ddlg fan and highly into age play. I like everything that comes with being a little baby. I want to be pampered, put in a nappy, dummy in my mouth, head pats and cuddles. But to be disciplined when needed. I’m hoping to find a kind, caring, nurturing daddy who enjoys that side just as much as the sexual side because I’m not always a sexual little. On the whole I’m a good little girl but can sometimes be a little bit bratty. I have a busy, “normal” every day life with responsibilities (like most) so this isn’t something I practice everyday. I’m looking for a good connection with someone so when we are together, we can be in a ddlg dynamic. I’m not here for “cyber fun”. Btw I’ve been in this lifestyle for many years now and can spot fakes from a mile off so please, let’s not waste each others time. Happy to send photo of my face once we’ve started chatting, thank you for reading.
Female (34) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Cotswold22692
C***********2
Submissive and can be bratty. Forming a connection and building trust is important, whilst having a sense of humour and being playful too. ideally seeking a long term partner however happy to explore and see where things go too.
Female (32) Oxford, Oxfordshire
BackRubsNBruises
B**************s
Hi! I’m Indy. I’ve been a submissive for many years now. I identify as a chaos gremlin in a flesh suit 90% of the time. I’m a submissive through and through with masochistic and service tendencies. I have a strong urge to serve and please but I also have a quick mouth and enjoy the trouble it gets me in. I thrive with high protocol but couldn’t do it all the time. I believe kink should be fun and enjoyable for all involved and try not to take myself too seriously. So be warned, I probably wont take you seriously either.
Female (37) Bicester, Oxfordshire
Lottiebby
L*******y
I’m a kinky, ethically non-monogamous queer who is looking for people to have a pleasurable and ***ful time with. If that sounds like what you are after then hmu ;)
Female (21) Banbury, Oxfordshire
littlegirl1301
l************1
Im a fun, enthusiastic *** lover, who adores a good book. looking to make friends and develop my know of the kink world and see what it has to offer. May only be young but don’t let that fool you, I know what I like and don’t like. Im happy to talk to all as long as your respectful. ?
Female (24) Oxford, Oxfordshire
ladyofpleasure
l************e
I'm looking to switch. I'm looking for a dom.....but then I think I'm half and half. love giving it and love receiving it.
Female (53) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Gg94127
G*****7
------------------------------------------------------ *My Keywords:* Trans - Straight Female Identifying - Somewhat Hetero Normative - Busty - BBW - Brassy (brat & sassy) - only child - no kids - grown kid - down with the kids - humour - candour - foodie - music nerd - glasses - American - girlfriend with potential - silly at times - aloof at times - immature at times - knee high socks - love - open - open minded - more than you can handle - even more - gen X - gen Z wannabe ------------------------------------------------------ *Firsties:* Connection, communication abilities/aptitude and trust are superior. A stimulating D/s relationship is knowing me from the inside out, starting with my psyche. Tapping into my mental vibrations will ensure you get the best from me. My "scene" range is anywhere from sensual & passionate vanilla to rougher/verbal/boundaries pushed. I prefer you be in charge. I will trust that you will know how to handle your/my/our business. In the beginning I like for things to flow naturally & organically - don't come in hot. ----------------------------------------------------- *Immediate Turn Offs:* If I've said hello and we have been chatting, I DO NOT belong to you. What I am seeking is VERY specific and it's not that simple nor am I that thirsty. Being a Dom shouldn't mean that your "default mode" is "asshole mode." There is a way to be assertive & respectful, if you are an experienced/skilled Dom, you will have the ability to find that balance. Making assumptions and taking certain liberties before agreements/understandings are made will steer me to completely disengage. Blind incoming cold calls: If we mutually want to have a webcam call, let's set a time. You know, there's nothing wrong with giving a girl a "heads-up." Cold calling typically means you're not respecting my time so you get blocked. Please do not do this. Oh and my absolute favourite question (NOT!) "What is your dress size?" This will result in a block - I'm a top heavy curvy BBW with lots of fabulousness. If a "size" is your ultimate concern, we are not a match. I am not defined by a "size" unless we're talking about my personality. ------------------------------------------------------ *Setting Expectations:* I only do Fet Chat and What's App chat. Those are your choices. I'm not moving to different platforms for onesies and twosies - sorry - no Snappie, no Tellie, don't ask. If you ask, it's clear you haven't read my profile and you may get blocked. If we have connected on What's App, congratulations, we've progressed - but you still don't "own" me. There is more work to be done. Show me you know the difference between there, they're and their as well as your, you're and yours. ------------------------------------------------------ *Wishlist Items:* A Softer/Passionate/Caring/Daddy/Daddy-Bear/Dad/Dom who freely exercises passion & softness. Connection/conversations/common interests outside of kink. A Dom, who's default "everyday mode" is cool/calm/collected/respected. ------------------------------------------------------ *Non-Negotiables:* Being cool with Medicinal 420 - (Google if you don't know) Excellent body hygiene RACK/SSC & safe-word usage Good aftercare skills Praise, acknowledgement & reward ------------------------------------------------------ *Power Bottom Me:* I'm selfish with my time, so please make our time together worth while. I don't want to be in charge, but I DO know what I like and want, for the most part, but totally down for exploring and pushing boundaries. Not into "costuming" - don't get me wrong, I have a sexy leather corset and a couple paddles/floggers, but I'm not into Latex/PVC or kinks that require a whole "get up." There may be exceptions to this - a man in a work uniform seems to do things to me. I believe that being a D/s, we should know our places without a lot of props or s***ch, that's primal and sexy AF. I'm more stimulated by the things you say and do. ------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------
Female (53) Watlington, Oxfordshire
obedientsubslut
o*************t
open to some fun with couples so feel free to drop me a message ideally looking for a relationship and a partner/owner if you are only looking for fun please don’t bother if you like me message as I rarely message first or respond to spanks😋
Female (24) Dry Sandford, Oxfordshire
LittleMissGigi
L************i
Sub/little looking for LTR/ boyfriend+dom Yays - hair pulling - choking - bruises - restraints - sensory deprivation - cuddles - affection Nays - cars - public - degredation - name calling - sharp *** Can't host but can drive
Female (28) Bicester, Oxfordshire
subbbyx
s*****x
chubby sub 😋❤️ request pics xo I get loads of messages so pls don’t be offended if I’m / have been online and don’t reply I’m not ignoring you ❤️
Female (21) Littlemore, Oxfordshire
VelvetQueen
V*********n
I am a vibrant, sensual, and playful submissive who loves to surrender but never loses her spark. For me, BDSM is about exploring boundaries, emotions, and trust on a deep level. I enjoy teasing, provoking, feeling control over me, and experiencing the strength that guides me. I love being led with confidence but also with an understanding of my nature. I am looking for an experienced Dominant who knows how to balance strictness with care, being mindful of the emotions and comfort of his submissive. It is important to me that the leader knows how to lead while being attentive and respecting my boundaries. If you know how to lead, rather than just demand, we might be a good match.
Female (40) Bicester, Oxfordshire
babybenee
b*******e
Hi I’m a 21 year old girl looking to explore her daddy/daughter roleplay fetish. I’m looking for a daddy (anyone 10 + years older really) to teach me how to please and be gentle but ***ful and dominant at the same time. I am looking for a man who wants to gently teach me how to please him as we discovering our loving sexual relationship as father and daughter. I am very into the idea of breeding/ being bred, having. round belly full of my siblings/***. Being bred also means having round full breasts full of baby milk. I love the idea of milking/breastfeeding for my daddy. I also love sloppy tongue kissing as I want my daddy to even dominate my mouth. I even am wanting to try a daddy taking me whilst I'm 'asleep'.🤭 make no mistake, this isn’t an excuse to get abusive and hurtful! I want a kind daddy who takes things slow and is gentle, someone who is willing to teach a girl like me. please message if you would like to help x (also you have to love playing with nipples!?)
Female (21) Oxford, Oxfordshire
shysubwhore
s*********e
Please **NO** married men, younger men or people looking for 'online play'. I am **only** interested in **real life meets** with **experienced** older Dom's. # Kink: I am very inexperienced when it comes to BDSM - my only experiences have been with an older guy I was seeing on and off, he would _occasionally_ blindfold me, restrain me, spank/use a riding crop on me and be slightly rougher. Although still fairly vanilla, these experiences unlocked something in me, and since then I have realised that I am a submissive, and have craved nothing more than to explore this side of me fully. I am looking for an **experienced** Dom who would be willing to take his time to guide and train me on my submissive journey. A Dom who is caring, respectful, patient but also strict, firm and not afraid to take control. I am looking for a long term dynamic ultimately leading to a TPE/24/7 dynamic where my Dom has full sexual control over me, and a majority of control in my every day life. I have many, many kinks (some listed on my profile.) # Vanilla: I live alone in a sleepy little village in Oxfordshire. I work part time in an admin role. In my spare time I love spending time with my friends and family. I also love cooking, baking, long country walks, travelling and music! I am 5'3, curvy, have auburn hair, hazel eyes and wear glasses. I am a plain Jane for sure! # You should be aware - **I am autistic.** This does **NOT** hold me back in life. But it does mean I am very shy and anxious when meeting and even talking to new people. This is why it is very important to me to find a Dom who is patient and understanding and willing to take this at a slow and steady pace. I believe my autism plays a big part in my desire to be submissive - because of the routine, structure and not having to be in control/make decisions. I am only interested in talking to people who are serious, I don't respond to random "heys" - be creative! Let me know you've read my profile! I hope to hear from you... M x (on a similar site, under the same name) x
Female (26) Oxford, Oxfordshire
goodgirl0520
g**********0
a little looking for a daddy who can look after me. can be bratty so need someone to put me in my place occasionally🙈 ideally looking for something long-term, but also happy to go with the flow and see what happens (: face pics set to private but can be shared after talking x
Female (21) Oxford, Oxfordshire
ann_dance
a*******e
I'm a curious and open-minded submissive, brand new to the BDSM world but eager to explore and learn. I'm looking for a patient and understanding Dom to guide me through new experiences while building trust and communication. I’m excited to grow in this dynamic and discover all the possibilities that come with it.
Female (40) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Nusch
N***h
Recently returned here and looking for friends primarily. I’m a Switch, and in-person am always more Domme initially, I enjoy subbing too from time to time, with the right person. I also enjoy role-playing, particularly in cybersex, where I've found I'm into detailed sci-fi/fantasy/magic scenarios. This is something I’m enjoying a lot at the moment and would like to continue to explore more. I’m single, caring, sensitive, respectful and appreciate the same in others. I value integrity and honesty, kindness and humour highly. I keep my work and personal life separate. I like to take time and invest in the connections I make and what we do, and I enjoy and want others to do the same, it’s a turn-on. Trust, safety, and honesty are essential. I also enjoy being experimental with the right person. I’m attracted to people who are comfortable with themselves. Switches are my natural and preferred lover. Intelligence, thoughtfulness, emotional awareness, and physical attraction are qualities that catch my attention. **Desires and Fantasies** I like variety, giving and receiving sensory stimulation, power play, toys, bondage, beautiful lingerie and outfits. Love shibari/kinbaku/hojujitsu, cuffs and restraints, and dom/sub battles with someone I have a potent connection with. Currently learning how to master a whip, so I can capture my prey as it attempts to escape (particularly by the ankle, or wrist).
Female (47) Oxford, Oxfordshire

New members in Oxfordshire

Luna93913
Luna93913
About Me: I’m a spirited, cheeky woman who loves to challenge the status quo—and sometimes test your patience (in the best way possible). I’m drawn to deep connections that allow for trust, laughter, and a little bit of teasing along the way. I appreciate a partner who can keep up with my mischievous side while understanding the value of balance and boundaries. Life’s about exploring both the sweet and the spicy, and I’m not afraid to venture into those tantalising places where passion and playfulness collide. If you know how to handle a bit of fire, you’ll find someone who’s fiercely loyal, endlessly curious, and full of energy. What I’m Looking For: Someone confident, compassionate, and not afraid to take charge when the moment calls for it. If you appreciate both spirited banter and quiet moments of vulnerability, we might just get along famously. Let’s Connect If: You enjoy a good laugh, know how to handle a challenge, and understand that trust is the foundation of all great adventures—no matter how daring they may be.
Female (32) Carterton, Oxfordshire
Woody1264
Woody1264
I am looking for a dominant man to explore this world of BDSM, Kink and Fetish. someone who is intelligent, articulate and has a good sense of humour but also is honest and has integrity. physical appearance is important - I accept that sounds shallow but I keep fit and healthy so I am being honest in what I find attractive. I don’t go for much younger men and prefer those around my own age so just scroll on if you are below 50 as I am just not interested.
Female (60) Benson, Oxfordshire
CftSamantha
CftSamantha
I am a married mother of two beautiful daughters, but I have recently realised how unsatisfied I am and I decided that I want to meet up with new people, try new things and experiment. I want to try everything once, so I currently have no limits. I can travel anywhere as long as you give me enough reason to. I will rarely upload pics or videos as I wish to stay fairly anonymous for now, but if we hit it off then I am more then happy to share pics of me. I am able to host at certain times of the year, while my partner is away.
Female (35) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Tinks-3780
Tinks-3780
Have explored a few things and not keen to explore more about being a sub… Also bi curious and looking to have NSA with experienced woman and tick off my sexy bucket list.
Female (44) Abingdon, Oxfordshire
Optimiser
Optimiser
I am hmm who am I used to be a very out going now rather reserved outwardly. I am a large human lumps bumps and rolls but still human so be nice or move on . normally like walks bedroom exploring not always in the bedroom ect I'm pretty boring unless you are the right one to unlock and awaken parts of me size 16 ish have two kids needed to add that as sone seem shocked when I cant answer msgs ASAP ok so I met one fellow human im not cut out for this im supppppper awkward im shy can't don't know how to make first move this ain't the movies please don't ask who I am what I'm after I have no ***y clue I live 8n country side dobt see many humans im a nerd
Female (41) Wardington, Oxfordshire
Louise777
Louise777
Hi there I am not new to the scene but not incredibly experienced. I am wanting to see if I can find the right person for a mix of vanilla and Ds...so that I can explore further with someone I trust.... I have a strong character and am 5.9 and would appreciate someone taller ? #aimingforthestars
Female (54) Curbridge, Oxfordshire
Clairecurves
C**********s
heavy squirter looking for regular play mates, open to sharing. like men who are younger and in relationships love pegging and bi men or women if you require a cum dump message me with a face pic Breeding fetish
Female (36) Didcot, Oxfordshire
VelvetQueen
V*********n
I am a vibrant, sensual, and playful submissive who loves to surrender but never loses her spark. For me, BDSM is about exploring boundaries, emotions, and trust on a deep level. I enjoy teasing, provoking, feeling control over me, and experiencing the strength that guides me. I love being led with confidence but also with an understanding of my nature. I am looking for an experienced Dominant who knows how to balance strictness with care, being mindful of the emotions and comfort of his submissive. It is important to me that the leader knows how to lead while being attentive and respecting my boundaries. If you know how to lead, rather than just demand, we might be a good match.
Female (40) Bicester, Oxfordshire
ladyofpleasure
l************e
I'm looking to switch. I'm looking for a dom.....but then I think I'm half and half. love giving it and love receiving it.
Female (53) Oxford, Oxfordshire
oxford779333
o**********3
I’ve come to realise that I love pleasurable *** (not ***). I’m still learning tolerance levels and want to try new experiences. Oh, forgot to say, I’ve got quite a ferocious sexual appetite, well compared to those I know, though I have no idea what the comparison is to people on this site is! 😂 Please note: i do not want to harm another intentionally and ultimately I am looking for a long term relationship ergo please do not contact me if you are already in a long term relationship. Thank you
Female (52) Oxford, Oxfordshire
ann_dance
a*******e
I'm a curious and open-minded submissive, brand new to the BDSM world but eager to explore and learn. I'm looking for a patient and understanding Dom to guide me through new experiences while building trust and communication. I’m excited to grow in this dynamic and discover all the possibilities that come with it.
Female (40) Oxford, Oxfordshire
shysubwhore
s*********e
Please **NO** married men, younger men or people looking for 'online play'. I am **only** interested in **real life meets** with **experienced** older Dom's. # Kink: I am very inexperienced when it comes to BDSM - my only experiences have been with an older guy I was seeing on and off, he would _occasionally_ blindfold me, restrain me, spank/use a riding crop on me and be slightly rougher. Although still fairly vanilla, these experiences unlocked something in me, and since then I have realised that I am a submissive, and have craved nothing more than to explore this side of me fully. I am looking for an **experienced** Dom who would be willing to take his time to guide and train me on my submissive journey. A Dom who is caring, respectful, patient but also strict, firm and not afraid to take control. I am looking for a long term dynamic ultimately leading to a TPE/24/7 dynamic where my Dom has full sexual control over me, and a majority of control in my every day life. I have many, many kinks (some listed on my profile.) # Vanilla: I live alone in a sleepy little village in Oxfordshire. I work part time in an admin role. In my spare time I love spending time with my friends and family. I also love cooking, baking, long country walks, travelling and music! I am 5'3, curvy, have auburn hair, hazel eyes and wear glasses. I am a plain Jane for sure! # You should be aware - **I am autistic.** This does **NOT** hold me back in life. But it does mean I am very shy and anxious when meeting and even talking to new people. This is why it is very important to me to find a Dom who is patient and understanding and willing to take this at a slow and steady pace. I believe my autism plays a big part in my desire to be submissive - because of the routine, structure and not having to be in control/make decisions. I am only interested in talking to people who are serious, I don't respond to random "heys" - be creative! Let me know you've read my profile! I hope to hear from you... M x (on a similar site, under the same name) x
Female (26) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Lottiebby
L*******y
I’m a kinky, ethically non-monogamous queer who is looking for people to have a pleasurable and ***ful time with. If that sounds like what you are after then hmu ;)
Female (21) Banbury, Oxfordshire
k_l_a_u_s
k*******s
I have a high sex drive. I believe sexual exhaustion is one of the best feelings. I been there, done that. But there is more to explore. Not into ONS, sorry.
Female (35) Oxford, Oxfordshire
LittleMissGigi
L************i
Sub/little looking for LTR/ boyfriend+dom Yays - hair pulling - choking - bruises - restraints - sensory deprivation - cuddles - affection Nays - cars - public - degredation - name calling - sharp *** Can't host but can drive
Female (28) Bicester, Oxfordshire
subbbyx
s*****x
chubby sub 😋❤️ request pics xo I get loads of messages so pls don’t be offended if I’m / have been online and don’t reply I’m not ignoring you ❤️
Female (21) Littlemore, Oxfordshire
obedientsubslut
o*************t
open to some fun with couples so feel free to drop me a message ideally looking for a relationship and a partner/owner if you are only looking for fun please don’t bother if you like me message as I rarely message first or respond to spanks😋
Female (24) Dry Sandford, Oxfordshire
Gg94127
G*****7
------------------------------------------------------ *My Keywords:* Trans - Straight Female Identifying - Somewhat Hetero Normative - Busty - BBW - Brassy (brat & sassy) - only child - no kids - grown kid - down with the kids - humour - candour - foodie - music nerd - glasses - American - girlfriend with potential - silly at times - aloof at times - immature at times - knee high socks - love - open - open minded - more than you can handle - even more - gen X - gen Z wannabe ------------------------------------------------------ *Firsties:* Connection, communication abilities/aptitude and trust are superior. A stimulating D/s relationship is knowing me from the inside out, starting with my psyche. Tapping into my mental vibrations will ensure you get the best from me. My "scene" range is anywhere from sensual & passionate vanilla to rougher/verbal/boundaries pushed. I prefer you be in charge. I will trust that you will know how to handle your/my/our business. In the beginning I like for things to flow naturally & organically - don't come in hot. ----------------------------------------------------- *Immediate Turn Offs:* If I've said hello and we have been chatting, I DO NOT belong to you. What I am seeking is VERY specific and it's not that simple nor am I that thirsty. Being a Dom shouldn't mean that your "default mode" is "asshole mode." There is a way to be assertive & respectful, if you are an experienced/skilled Dom, you will have the ability to find that balance. Making assumptions and taking certain liberties before agreements/understandings are made will steer me to completely disengage. Blind incoming cold calls: If we mutually want to have a webcam call, let's set a time. You know, there's nothing wrong with giving a girl a "heads-up." Cold calling typically means you're not respecting my time so you get blocked. Please do not do this. Oh and my absolute favourite question (NOT!) "What is your dress size?" This will result in a block - I'm a top heavy curvy BBW with lots of fabulousness. If a "size" is your ultimate concern, we are not a match. I am not defined by a "size" unless we're talking about my personality. ------------------------------------------------------ *Setting Expectations:* I only do Fet Chat and What's App chat. Those are your choices. I'm not moving to different platforms for onesies and twosies - sorry - no Snappie, no Tellie, don't ask. If you ask, it's clear you haven't read my profile and you may get blocked. If we have connected on What's App, congratulations, we've progressed - but you still don't "own" me. There is more work to be done. Show me you know the difference between there, they're and their as well as your, you're and yours. ------------------------------------------------------ *Wishlist Items:* A Softer/Passionate/Caring/Daddy/Daddy-Bear/Dad/Dom who freely exercises passion & softness. Connection/conversations/common interests outside of kink. A Dom, who's default "everyday mode" is cool/calm/collected/respected. ------------------------------------------------------ *Non-Negotiables:* Being cool with Medicinal 420 - (Google if you don't know) Excellent body hygiene RACK/SSC & safe-word usage Good aftercare skills Praise, acknowledgement & reward ------------------------------------------------------ *Power Bottom Me:* I'm selfish with my time, so please make our time together worth while. I don't want to be in charge, but I DO know what I like and want, for the most part, but totally down for exploring and pushing boundaries. Not into "costuming" - don't get me wrong, I have a sexy leather corset and a couple paddles/floggers, but I'm not into Latex/PVC or kinks that require a whole "get up." There may be exceptions to this - a man in a work uniform seems to do things to me. I believe that being a D/s, we should know our places without a lot of props or s***ch, that's primal and sexy AF. I'm more stimulated by the things you say and do. ------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------
Female (53) Watlington, Oxfordshire
goodgirl0520
g**********0
a little looking for a daddy who can look after me. can be bratty so need someone to put me in my place occasionally🙈 ideally looking for something long-term, but also happy to go with the flow and see what happens (: face pics set to private but can be shared after talking x
Female (21) Oxford, Oxfordshire
BackRubsNBruises
B**************s
Hi! I’m Indy. I’ve been a submissive for many years now. I identify as a chaos gremlin in a flesh suit 90% of the time. I’m a submissive through and through with masochistic and service tendencies. I have a strong urge to serve and please but I also have a quick mouth and enjoy the trouble it gets me in. I thrive with high protocol but couldn’t do it all the time. I believe kink should be fun and enjoyable for all involved and try not to take myself too seriously. So be warned, I probably wont take you seriously either.
Female (37) Bicester, Oxfordshire
Babygirl-101
B**********1
***New to Fetlife: diaperbabybunny Hey, just a little girl hoping to find her Daddy/CG I’m an avid ddlg fan and highly into age play. I like everything that comes with being a little baby. I want to be pampered, put in a nappy, dummy in my mouth, head pats and cuddles. But to be disciplined when needed. I’m hoping to find a kind, caring, nurturing daddy who enjoys that side just as much as the sexual side because I’m not always a sexual little. On the whole I’m a good little girl but can sometimes be a little bit bratty. I have a busy, “normal” every day life with responsibilities (like most) so this isn’t something I practice everyday. I’m looking for a good connection with someone so when we are together, we can be in a ddlg dynamic. I’m not here for “cyber fun”. Btw I’ve been in this lifestyle for many years now and can spot fakes from a mile off so please, let’s not waste each others time. Happy to send photo of my face once we’ve started chatting, thank you for reading.
Female (34) Oxford, Oxfordshire
littlegirl1301
l************1
Im a fun, enthusiastic *** lover, who adores a good book. looking to make friends and develop my know of the kink world and see what it has to offer. May only be young but don’t let that fool you, I know what I like and don’t like. Im happy to talk to all as long as your respectful. ?
Female (24) Oxford, Oxfordshire
babybenee
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Hi I’m a 21 year old girl looking to explore her daddy/daughter roleplay fetish. I’m looking for a daddy (anyone 10 + years older really) to teach me how to please and be gentle but ***ful and dominant at the same time. I am looking for a man who wants to gently teach me how to please him as we discovering our loving sexual relationship as father and daughter. I am very into the idea of breeding/ being bred, having. round belly full of my siblings/***. Being bred also means having round full breasts full of baby milk. I love the idea of milking/breastfeeding for my daddy. I also love sloppy tongue kissing as I want my daddy to even dominate my mouth. I even am wanting to try a daddy taking me whilst I'm 'asleep'.🤭 make no mistake, this isn’t an excuse to get abusive and hurtful! I want a kind daddy who takes things slow and is gentle, someone who is willing to teach a girl like me. please message if you would like to help x (also you have to love playing with nipples!?)
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Cotswold22692
C***********2
Submissive and can be bratty. Forming a connection and building trust is important, whilst having a sense of humour and being playful too. ideally seeking a long term partner however happy to explore and see where things go too.
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