Find kinky women in Oxfordshire

I'm a bigger women. I'm not small or Petite except in height. I have a tummy, I have scars and stretch marks. I'm not thin or model like at all. I have thick thighs and a big chest. I need someone who is dominant, someone to take control in the bedroom. My sexual encounters have all been very vanilla and I need more than that. I am a bit of a Nympho so I need a man who can keep up with me, someone who will worship me and my pleasure as well as their own. I have a praise Kink so I love being told I'm a good girl, I need someone who is vocal in bed, dirty talk, praise, directing what is happening ect.
Female (30) Banbury, Oxfordshire
I am hmm who am I used to be a very out going now rather reserved outwardly. I am a large human lumps bumps and rolls but still human so be nice or move on . normally like walks bedroom exploring not always in the bedroom ect I'm pretty boring unless you are the right one to unlock and awaken parts of me size 22 ish have two kids needed to add that as sone seem shocked when I cant answer msgs ASAP ok so I met one fellow human im not cut out for this im supppppper awkward im shy can't don't know how to make first move this ain't the movies please don't ask who I am what I'm after I have no bloody clue I live 8n country side dobt see many humans im a nerd
Female (39) Wardington, Oxfordshire
A newbie sub with very little experience to the lifestyle but egar to learn&explore this beautiful world with a patient but trustworthy person. I'm looking for something that can become real life..not just online fun so please if that's all yoour looking for save yoour time for someone else.. also if yoour younger than me don't slide in I'd like mine older.. I also don't like skinny dudes (nothing personal I'd just be worried about breaking yoou) ?
Female (29) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I am a calm easy going person, I do not want any drama. I am at a point in my life were I just want some fun. I want to explore and find new kinks and like minded people. I believe honesty and trust are paramount and I don't have time for people who feel the need to lie. I am generous and kind by nature can't take the credit we are who we are but we can always better ourselves.
Female (57) Didcot, Oxfordshire
switchy princess looking for something longterm. i prefer things to begin non-sexual as In some ways that’s the most important part. mostly looking for dominant partners at the moment. women get first dibs x also, I get a lot of messages and I find texting random people annoying at the best of times since a lot of the time it ends up going nowhere. so just fyi, if you’re too far away I won’t reply, if you’re cheating I won’t reply, if you’re too old or too young for me I also won’t reply. don’t take it personally
Female (23) Headington, Oxfordshire
Cosplayer I am kinda new to this all as i dont have anyone around me to guide me through it all. I know what i like and dislike. a wishlist for outfits for cosplay photos. **Desires and Fantasies** I am not sure at the moment..its alll trying stuff right now.
Female (28) Oxford, Oxfordshire
looking to be owned and held and adored. I am a switch. Have a speckled past and need someone confident. might even relocate my life and start again I need. fresh start. the last few weeks I’ve felt like a curled up ball of fluff very cute submissive / nervey. not in that mistress mood right now sorry guys.
Female (41) Harwell, Oxfordshire
**Desires and Fantasies** I like watching people cum, particularly while I’m telling them what to do.
Female (30) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I'm never sure what to say here. but here goes. I am a bottom looking for a top. either male or female but they have to be older. I like being a little. and I have a school uniform I love to wear. I'm single and looking to meet Mr or Mrs right.
Female (45) Banbury, Oxfordshire
I would love to hook up and be dominated with lots of bondage and pain directed at me ;). I’d love to have you play with me and make be orgasm hard.
Female (18) Boars Hill, Oxfordshire
Hi there I am not new to the scene but not incredibly experienced. I am wanting to see if I can find the right person for a mix of vanilla and Ds...so that I can explore further with someone I trust.... I have a strong character and am 5.9 and would appreciate someone taller ? #aimingforthestars
Female (53) Abingdon, Oxfordshire
Have explored a few things and not keen to explore more about being a sub… Also bi curious and looking to have NSA with experienced woman and tick off my sexy bucket list.
Female (43) Abingdon, Oxfordshire
I cant believe I have to add this but here we go. I am demisexual. if you send a sexually charged opening message, I will never interact with you. Hi! I’m Indy. I identify as a chaos gremlin in a flesh suit 90% of the time. I’m a submissive through and through with masochistic and service tendencies. I have a strong urge to serve and please but I also have a quick mouth and enjoy the trouble it gets me in. I thrive with high protocol but couldn’t do it all the time. I believe kink should be fun and enjoyable for all involved and try not to take myself too seriously. So be warned, I probably wont take you seriously either.
Female (36) Bicester, Oxfordshire
------------------------------------------------------ *My Keywords:* Busty - BBW - Brassy (brat & sassy) - only child - no kids - grown kid - down with the kids - humour - candour - foodie - music nerd - glasses - American - girlfriend with potential - silly at times - aloof at times - immature at times - knee high socks - love - open ~ open minded ~ more than you can handle - even more - gen X - gen Z wannabe ------------------------------------------------------ *Firsties:* Connection, communication abilities/aptitude and trust are superior. A stimulating D/s relationship is knowing me from the inside out, starting with my psyche. Tapping into my mental vibrations will ensure you get the best from me. My "scene" range is anywhere from sensual & passionate vanilla to rougher/verbal/boundaries pushed. I prefer you be in charge. I will trust that you will know how to handle your/my/our business. In the beginning I like for things to flow naturally & organically - don't come in hot. ----------------------------------------------------- *Immediate Turn Offs:* If I've said hello and we have been chatting, I DO NOT belong to you. What I am seeking is VERY specific and it's not that simple nor am I that thirsty. Being a Dom shouldn't mean that your "default mode" is "asshole mode." There is a way to be assertive & respectful, if you are an experienced/skilled Dom, you will have the ability to find that balance. Making assumptions and taking certain liberties before agreements/understandings are made will steer me to completely disengage. Blind incoming cold calls: If we mutually want to have a webcam call, let's set a time. You know, there's nothing wrong with giving a girl a "heads-up." Cold calling typically means you're not respecting my time so you get blocked. Please do not do this. Oh and my absolute favourite question (NOT!) "What is your dress size?" This will result in a block - I'm a top heavy curvy BBW with lots of fabulousness. If a "size" is your ultimate concern, we are not a match. I am not defined by a "size" unless we're talking about my personality. ------------------------------------------------------ *Setting Expectations:* I only do Fet Chat and What's App chat. Those are your choices. I'm not moving to different platforms for onesies and twosies - sorry - no Snappie, no Tellie, don't ask. If you ask, it's clear you haven't read my profile and you may get blocked. If we have connected on What's App, congratulations, we've progressed - but you still don't "own" me. There is more work to be done. Show me you know the difference between there, they're and their as well as your, you're and yours. ------------------------------------------------------ *Wishlist Items:* A Softer/Passionate/Caring/Daddy/Daddy-Bear/Dad/Dom who freely exercises passion & softness. Connection/conversations/common interests outside of kink. A Dom, who's default "everyday mode" is cool/calm/collected/respected. A long term vision of LTR/monogamy/ownership (I tend to lean more into a monogamous sitch, but may be open to certain scenarios or "scenes.") ------------------------------------------------------ *Non-Negotiables:* Being cool with Medicinal 420 - (Google if you don't know) Excellent body hygiene RACK/SSC & safe-word usage Good aftercare skills Praise, acknowledgement & reward ------------------------------------------------------ *Power Bottom Me:* I'm selfish with my time, so please make our time together worth while. I don't want to be in charge, but I DO know what I like and want, for the most part, but totally down for exploring and pushing boundaries. Not into "costuming" - don't get me wrong, I have a sexy leather corset and a couple paddles/floggers, but I'm not into Latex/PVC or kinks that require a whole "get up." There may be exceptions to this - a man in a work uniform seems to do things to me. I believe that being a D/s, we should know our places without a lot of props or speech, that's primal and sexy AF. I'm more stimulated by the things you say and do. ------------------------------------------------------ *Kink Interests:* Role Play ANR/ABF Breeding/Hucow Breath Play/Choking/Face Slapping CnC & Force Play/Training/Being Prey Impact Trainee Fisting ------------------------------------------------------
Female (52) Watlington, Oxfordshire
Hey, just a little girl hoping to find her Daddy. I’m an avid ddlg fan and highly into age play. I like everything that comes with being a little baby. I want to be pampered, put in a nappy, dummy in my mouth, head pats and cuddles. But to be disciplined when needed. I’m hoping to find a kind, caring, nurturing daddy who enjoys that side just as much as the sexual side because I’m not always a sexual little. On the whole I’m a good little girl but can sometimes be a little bit bratty. I have a busy, “normal” every day life with responsibilities (like most) so this isn’t something I practice everyday. I’m looking for a good connection with someone so when we are together, we can be in a ddlg dynamic. Btw I’ve been in this lifestyle for many years now and can spot fakes from a mile off so please, let’s not waste each others time. Happy to send photo of my face once we’ve started chatting, thank you for reading.
Female (33) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Hi I’m an 18 year old girl looking to explore her daddy/daughter roleplay fetish. I’m looking for a daddy to teach me how to please and be gentle but forceful and dominant at the same time. I love the dynamic of a man old enough to be my father, who treats me as well as he would his own daughter, but also f*cks me exactly like a daddy would fuck his daughter. make no mistake, this isn’t an excuse to get abusive and hurtful! I want a kind daddy who takes things slow and is gentle, someone who is willing to teach a girl like me. please message if you would like to help x (also you have to love playing with nipples!?)
Female (20) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Totally new to fet and still figuring it out! Have some experience solo outside of my relationship In a happy ENM relationship with a straight male. looking to explore solo or as a couple Very open minded, excited to try new things Connection is super important, let’s talk about our turn ons together! Naturally very submissive, but can be a little bratty
Female (24) Bicester, Oxfordshire
✨ I am a brat so I am seeking my dom/daddy or mommy. I can be extremely bratty sometimes so I do need someone who’s dominant enough to put me in my place. ✨ If you have tattoos, piercings, a uniform, and/or are a biker.. please ruin me. ✨ Ideally wanting a LTR ✨ Aftercare is extremely important to me because even tho I’m a brat I am also a little. ✨ I don’t like being called mommy, miss, mistress, goddess, or anything with “little” i.e. little girl, little baby, little princess, etc.
Female (25) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Please read my bio before messaging. I’m a polyamorous female who is married to my husband of 7 years. I have realised I was bisexual for around the same time. Since then we have experimented with various sexual partners. Looking to find more people to connect with mostly on a 1 2 1 basis. I am a switch but will mostly take the domme role and I always get what I want. Unless you are a useless pathetic man with a tiny cock, then you better bow to me. With females it’s negotiable. I’m also a princess and definitely act like one 24/7! Even if I’m mostly into only being in the lifestyle in the bedroom. Any meet-ups will first need to be chaperoned anyone against that will be out. I will be very picky with whom I talk to so better start off interesting ☺️
Female (29) Oxford, Oxfordshire
curvy tatted gal I can squirt x exhibitionst dont be afraid to request my private x looking to explore kinks a bit more open to couples IF YOURE OLD ENOUGH TO BE MY DAD PLEASE DO NOT INTERACT WITH MY PAGE THANK YOU also not interested in people younger than me sorry x
Female (23) Oxford, Oxfordshire
i’m quite chaotic my hairs a wig bc i shaved my head a while ago and im growing out the buzz cut lol just a heads up tbh i want something more serious than just hooking up or fwb
Female (18) Warborough, Oxfordshire
I’m engaged. we are open. if that bothers you move on. I’m non binary afab. I’m a switch but I do prefer to bottom. I’m a masochist. rigger. rope bunny and more. WOMEN ONLY. IM A LESBIAN. MEN please stop I don’t want to see your Willy. go away. (mines bigger and comes in pretty colors?) message me
Female (22) Wantage, Oxfordshire
Fairly new to all this! I’m looking to explore more of my little side :) like to be dominated and praised/punished when necessary
Female (20) Oxford, Oxfordshire
hello! I’m divadomme and i’m looking for a loyal submissive. I like an exclusive dynamic so if you are interested, i would expect that you belong to me. You would be my main focus. I’m still looking for a sub, so don’t hesitate to message me. please be respectful.
Female (22) Oxford, Oxfordshire

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I'm a bigger women. I'm not small or Petite except in height. I have a tummy, I have scars and stretch marks. I'm not thin or model like at all. I have thick thighs and a big chest. I need someone who is dominant, someone to take control in the bedroom. My sexual encounters have all been very vanilla and I need more than that. I am a bit of a Nympho so I need a man who can keep up with me, someone who will worship me and my pleasure as well as their own. I have a praise Kink so I love being told I'm a good girl, I need someone who is vocal in bed, dirty talk, praise, directing what is happening ect.
Female (30) Banbury, Oxfordshire
I would love to hook up and be dominated with lots of bondage and pain directed at me ;). I’d love to have you play with me and make be orgasm hard.
Female (18) Boars Hill, Oxfordshire
Have explored a few things and not keen to explore more about being a sub… Also bi curious and looking to have NSA with experienced woman and tick off my sexy bucket list.
Female (43) Abingdon, Oxfordshire
I'm never sure what to say here. but here goes. I am a bottom looking for a top. either male or female but they have to be older. I like being a little. and I have a school uniform I love to wear. I'm single and looking to meet Mr or Mrs right.
Female (45) Banbury, Oxfordshire
I am a calm easy going person, I do not want any drama. I am at a point in my life were I just want some fun. I want to explore and find new kinks and like minded people. I believe honesty and trust are paramount and I don't have time for people who feel the need to lie. I am generous and kind by nature can't take the credit we are who we are but we can always better ourselves.
Female (57) Didcot, Oxfordshire
A newbie sub with very little experience to the lifestyle but egar to learn&explore this beautiful world with a patient but trustworthy person. I'm looking for something that can become real life..not just online fun so please if that's all yoour looking for save yoour time for someone else.. also if yoour younger than me don't slide in I'd like mine older.. I also don't like skinny dudes (nothing personal I'd just be worried about breaking yoou) ?
Female (29) Oxford, Oxfordshire
**Desires and Fantasies** I like watching people cum, particularly while I’m telling them what to do.
Female (30) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Cosplayer I am kinda new to this all as i dont have anyone around me to guide me through it all. I know what i like and dislike. a wishlist for outfits for cosplay photos. **Desires and Fantasies** I am not sure at the moment..its alll trying stuff right now.
Female (28) Oxford, Oxfordshire
looking to be owned and held and adored. I am a switch. Have a speckled past and need someone confident. might even relocate my life and start again I need. fresh start. the last few weeks I’ve felt like a curled up ball of fluff very cute submissive / nervey. not in that mistress mood right now sorry guys.
Female (41) Harwell, Oxfordshire
I am hmm who am I used to be a very out going now rather reserved outwardly. I am a large human lumps bumps and rolls but still human so be nice or move on . normally like walks bedroom exploring not always in the bedroom ect I'm pretty boring unless you are the right one to unlock and awaken parts of me size 22 ish have two kids needed to add that as sone seem shocked when I cant answer msgs ASAP ok so I met one fellow human im not cut out for this im supppppper awkward im shy can't don't know how to make first move this ain't the movies please don't ask who I am what I'm after I have no bloody clue I live 8n country side dobt see many humans im a nerd
Female (39) Wardington, Oxfordshire
switchy princess looking for something longterm. i prefer things to begin non-sexual as In some ways that’s the most important part. mostly looking for dominant partners at the moment. women get first dibs x also, I get a lot of messages and I find texting random people annoying at the best of times since a lot of the time it ends up going nowhere. so just fyi, if you’re too far away I won’t reply, if you’re cheating I won’t reply, if you’re too old or too young for me I also won’t reply. don’t take it personally
Female (23) Headington, Oxfordshire
Hi there I am not new to the scene but not incredibly experienced. I am wanting to see if I can find the right person for a mix of vanilla and Ds...so that I can explore further with someone I trust.... I have a strong character and am 5.9 and would appreciate someone taller ? #aimingforthestars
Female (53) Abingdon, Oxfordshire
hello! I’m divadomme and i’m looking for a loyal submissive. I like an exclusive dynamic so if you are interested, i would expect that you belong to me. You would be my main focus. I’m still looking for a sub, so don’t hesitate to message me. please be respectful.
Female (22) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Totally new to fet and still figuring it out! Have some experience solo outside of my relationship In a happy ENM relationship with a straight male. looking to explore solo or as a couple Very open minded, excited to try new things Connection is super important, let’s talk about our turn ons together! Naturally very submissive, but can be a little bratty
Female (24) Bicester, Oxfordshire
i’m quite chaotic my hairs a wig bc i shaved my head a while ago and im growing out the buzz cut lol just a heads up tbh i want something more serious than just hooking up or fwb
Female (18) Warborough, Oxfordshire
------------------------------------------------------ *My Keywords:* Busty - BBW - Brassy (brat & sassy) - only child - no kids - grown kid - down with the kids - humour - candour - foodie - music nerd - glasses - American - girlfriend with potential - silly at times - aloof at times - immature at times - knee high socks - love - open ~ open minded ~ more than you can handle - even more - gen X - gen Z wannabe ------------------------------------------------------ *Firsties:* Connection, communication abilities/aptitude and trust are superior. A stimulating D/s relationship is knowing me from the inside out, starting with my psyche. Tapping into my mental vibrations will ensure you get the best from me. My "scene" range is anywhere from sensual & passionate vanilla to rougher/verbal/boundaries pushed. I prefer you be in charge. I will trust that you will know how to handle your/my/our business. In the beginning I like for things to flow naturally & organically - don't come in hot. ----------------------------------------------------- *Immediate Turn Offs:* If I've said hello and we have been chatting, I DO NOT belong to you. What I am seeking is VERY specific and it's not that simple nor am I that thirsty. Being a Dom shouldn't mean that your "default mode" is "asshole mode." There is a way to be assertive & respectful, if you are an experienced/skilled Dom, you will have the ability to find that balance. Making assumptions and taking certain liberties before agreements/understandings are made will steer me to completely disengage. Blind incoming cold calls: If we mutually want to have a webcam call, let's set a time. You know, there's nothing wrong with giving a girl a "heads-up." Cold calling typically means you're not respecting my time so you get blocked. Please do not do this. Oh and my absolute favourite question (NOT!) "What is your dress size?" This will result in a block - I'm a top heavy curvy BBW with lots of fabulousness. If a "size" is your ultimate concern, we are not a match. I am not defined by a "size" unless we're talking about my personality. ------------------------------------------------------ *Setting Expectations:* I only do Fet Chat and What's App chat. Those are your choices. I'm not moving to different platforms for onesies and twosies - sorry - no Snappie, no Tellie, don't ask. If you ask, it's clear you haven't read my profile and you may get blocked. If we have connected on What's App, congratulations, we've progressed - but you still don't "own" me. There is more work to be done. Show me you know the difference between there, they're and their as well as your, you're and yours. ------------------------------------------------------ *Wishlist Items:* A Softer/Passionate/Caring/Daddy/Daddy-Bear/Dad/Dom who freely exercises passion & softness. Connection/conversations/common interests outside of kink. A Dom, who's default "everyday mode" is cool/calm/collected/respected. A long term vision of LTR/monogamy/ownership (I tend to lean more into a monogamous sitch, but may be open to certain scenarios or "scenes.") ------------------------------------------------------ *Non-Negotiables:* Being cool with Medicinal 420 - (Google if you don't know) Excellent body hygiene RACK/SSC & safe-word usage Good aftercare skills Praise, acknowledgement & reward ------------------------------------------------------ *Power Bottom Me:* I'm selfish with my time, so please make our time together worth while. I don't want to be in charge, but I DO know what I like and want, for the most part, but totally down for exploring and pushing boundaries. Not into "costuming" - don't get me wrong, I have a sexy leather corset and a couple paddles/floggers, but I'm not into Latex/PVC or kinks that require a whole "get up." There may be exceptions to this - a man in a work uniform seems to do things to me. I believe that being a D/s, we should know our places without a lot of props or speech, that's primal and sexy AF. I'm more stimulated by the things you say and do. ------------------------------------------------------ *Kink Interests:* Role Play ANR/ABF Breeding/Hucow Breath Play/Choking/Face Slapping CnC & Force Play/Training/Being Prey Impact Trainee Fisting ------------------------------------------------------
Female (52) Watlington, Oxfordshire
✨ I am a brat so I am seeking my dom/daddy or mommy. I can be extremely bratty sometimes so I do need someone who’s dominant enough to put me in my place. ✨ If you have tattoos, piercings, a uniform, and/or are a biker.. please ruin me. ✨ Ideally wanting a LTR ✨ Aftercare is extremely important to me because even tho I’m a brat I am also a little. ✨ I don’t like being called mommy, miss, mistress, goddess, or anything with “little” i.e. little girl, little baby, little princess, etc.
Female (25) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Fairly new to all this! I’m looking to explore more of my little side :) like to be dominated and praised/punished when necessary
Female (20) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I’m engaged. we are open. if that bothers you move on. I’m non binary afab. I’m a switch but I do prefer to bottom. I’m a masochist. rigger. rope bunny and more. WOMEN ONLY. IM A LESBIAN. MEN please stop I don’t want to see your Willy. go away. (mines bigger and comes in pretty colors?) message me
Female (22) Wantage, Oxfordshire
curvy tatted gal I can squirt x exhibitionst dont be afraid to request my private x looking to explore kinks a bit more open to couples IF YOURE OLD ENOUGH TO BE MY DAD PLEASE DO NOT INTERACT WITH MY PAGE THANK YOU also not interested in people younger than me sorry x
Female (23) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I cant believe I have to add this but here we go. I am demisexual. if you send a sexually charged opening message, I will never interact with you. Hi! I’m Indy. I identify as a chaos gremlin in a flesh suit 90% of the time. I’m a submissive through and through with masochistic and service tendencies. I have a strong urge to serve and please but I also have a quick mouth and enjoy the trouble it gets me in. I thrive with high protocol but couldn’t do it all the time. I believe kink should be fun and enjoyable for all involved and try not to take myself too seriously. So be warned, I probably wont take you seriously either.
Female (36) Bicester, Oxfordshire
Please read my bio before messaging. I’m a polyamorous female who is married to my husband of 7 years. I have realised I was bisexual for around the same time. Since then we have experimented with various sexual partners. Looking to find more people to connect with mostly on a 1 2 1 basis. I am a switch but will mostly take the domme role and I always get what I want. Unless you are a useless pathetic man with a tiny cock, then you better bow to me. With females it’s negotiable. I’m also a princess and definitely act like one 24/7! Even if I’m mostly into only being in the lifestyle in the bedroom. Any meet-ups will first need to be chaperoned anyone against that will be out. I will be very picky with whom I talk to so better start off interesting ☺️
Female (29) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Hey, just a little girl hoping to find her Daddy. I’m an avid ddlg fan and highly into age play. I like everything that comes with being a little baby. I want to be pampered, put in a nappy, dummy in my mouth, head pats and cuddles. But to be disciplined when needed. I’m hoping to find a kind, caring, nurturing daddy who enjoys that side just as much as the sexual side because I’m not always a sexual little. On the whole I’m a good little girl but can sometimes be a little bit bratty. I have a busy, “normal” every day life with responsibilities (like most) so this isn’t something I practice everyday. I’m looking for a good connection with someone so when we are together, we can be in a ddlg dynamic. Btw I’ve been in this lifestyle for many years now and can spot fakes from a mile off so please, let’s not waste each others time. Happy to send photo of my face once we’ve started chatting, thank you for reading.
Female (33) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Hi I’m an 18 year old girl looking to explore her daddy/daughter roleplay fetish. I’m looking for a daddy to teach me how to please and be gentle but forceful and dominant at the same time. I love the dynamic of a man old enough to be my father, who treats me as well as he would his own daughter, but also f*cks me exactly like a daddy would fuck his daughter. make no mistake, this isn’t an excuse to get abusive and hurtful! I want a kind daddy who takes things slow and is gentle, someone who is willing to teach a girl like me. please message if you would like to help x (also you have to love playing with nipples!?)
Female (20) Oxford, Oxfordshire

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