Find kinky women in Oxfordshire

I am hmm who am I used to be a very out going now rather reserved outwardly. I am a large human lumps bumps and rolls but still human so be nice or move on . normally like walks bedroom exploring not always in the bedroom ect I'm pretty boring unless you are the right one to unlock and awaken parts of me size 16 ish have two kids needed to add that as sone seem shocked when I cant answer msgs ASAP ok so I met one fellow human im not cut out for this im supppppper awkward im shy can't don't know how to make first move this ain't the movies please don't ask who I am what I'm after I have no ***y clue I live 8n country side dobt see many humans im a nerd
Female (42) Wardington, Oxfordshire
I’ve been out of the dating scene for a little while so I thought it was time for an update (Jan 2026). I’m very much all or nothing. My ideal relationship would be a monogamous, TPE Male-led relationship. I am into traditional gender role relationships and really appreciate the values and benefits it has to both sides. I think both sides compliment each other very well. The lifestyle is more than just kink to me, it’s a comfort blanket and I feel safer with the rules, boundaries and structure around me. Im not here for casual hook ups, to find a play partner, or just for the kinky chats. Consistency is very important to me. I don’t work well with rules that are put in place just for the sake of it. If they don’t mean anything to you, and are not beneficial to the dynamic we are building, then they don’t mean anything to me either. Honesty and communication is also very important to me (as I am sure it is for most people). But if I don’t feel I can communicate with my partner, or that they aren’t communicating with me properly, this absolutely will not work. If you have got this far and feel as though the above resonates with you and what you are looking for, then by all means send a message and let’s see if we are compatible. Before exchanging personal details and arranging to meet, I prefer to vet through Fetlife as I find seeing people’s activity and how they interact with others says a lot about them. If you message and I don’t respond - please don’t be offended. It is nothing personal, just that I have read your profile and for one reason or another don’t believe we will be a good match. Just as I am not for everyone, everyone is not for me either. Thank you for taking the time to read 🌷🌸🧸
Female (38) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I'm a bigger women. I'm not small or Petite except in height. I have a tummy, I have scars and stretch marks. I'm not thin or model like at all. I have thick thighs and a big chest. I need someone who is dominant, someone to take control in the bedroom. My sexual encounters have all been very vanilla and I need more than that. I am a bit of a Nympho so I need a man who can keep up with me, someone who will worship me and my pleasure as well as their own. I have a praise Kink so I love being told I'm a good girl, I need someone who is vocal in bed, dirty talk, praise, directing what is happening ect.
Female (32) Banbury, Oxfordshire
Hi there I am not new to the scene but not incredibly experienced. I am wanting to see if I can find the right person for a mix of vanilla and Ds...so that I can explore further with someone I trust.... I have a strong character and am 5.9 and would appreciate someone taller ? #aimingforthestars
Female (55) Curbridge, Oxfordshire
Have explored a few things and not keen to explore more about being a sub… Also bi curious and looking to have NSA with experienced woman and tick off my sexy bucket list.
Female (45) Abingdon, Oxfordshire
cute alt girl looking to explore her submissive side and have a dom to take care of her
Female (35) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I dont exchange pictures or add as a friend if you are too far away or we arent going to meet. 😂 This isnt my list of kinks, just a description of myself. 😂 Curvy/chubby spontaneous exhibitionist werido, who loves nature, adrenaline, I'm very outgoing, bubbly, and I always want to please. I do ride motorbikes so i love to get my adrenaline going. 🥵😏 I'm hypermobile which means I'm very flexiable. I love lots sex, I'm not new to the kink scene just fet. I'll always try something once, im open minded. I'm a brat but I'm submissive and a switch when it comes to women. Im a size 14/16 and my bra size is 34GG.
Female (28) Bicester, Oxfordshire
***New to Fetlife: diaperbabybunny Hey, just a little girl hoping to find her Daddy/CG I’m an avid ddlg fan and highly into age play. I like everything that comes with being a little baby. I want to be pampered, put in a nappy, dummy in my mouth, head pats and cuddles. But to be disciplined when needed. I’m hoping to find a kind, caring, nurturing daddy who enjoys that side just as much as the sexual side because I’m not always a sexual little. On the whole I’m a good little girl but can sometimes be a little bit bratty. I have a busy, “normal” every day life with responsibilities (like most) so this isn’t something I practice everyday. I’m looking for a good connection with someone so when we are together, we can be in a ddlg dynamic. I’m not here for “cyber fun”. Btw I’ve been in this lifestyle for many years now and can spot fakes from a mile off so please, let’s not waste each others time. Happy to send photo of my face once we’ve started chatting, thank you for reading.
Female (35) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I DO, IN FACT, HAVE A PARTNER😭 i am learning that no one ever scrolls that far, if you do not wish to talk with taken people, there is a filter you can turn on for that☺️ ——— 🖍️sfw likes: music, vintage fashion, gaming, ‘childish’ items, ikea plastic cutlery, tartan pattern, ducks, kitties, owls and pigeons. 📌nsfw likes: collaring (shocker ik), ddlg, infantilisation, dacryphilia, marking, breath play/control, physical *** (not verbal), grovelling, zelophilia, pet play, cgl, dollification, lingerie… ect
Female (21) Carterton, Oxfordshire
I am single. Non monogamous. I work hard so I value my free time incredibly and enjoy fitting in lots of playtime. I can host on certain days and also Happy to travel.
Female (53) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Submissive, cheeky, and a little bit naughty. I’m here for something real, not a one-time thing. I’m laid-back, love a good laugh, and I’m a sucker for someone who can communicate honestly (bonus points if you’re direct — I prefer truth over sugarcoating). Outside of kink, I’m into gaming, cocktails, and a good movie night. Music taste is all over the place — pop, rock, country… if it’s good, I’m in. Curvy girl, so you’ve got to be into that 😉
Female (25) Didcot, Oxfordshire
recently entered a relationship with a very kinky person and as a kink noob they have opened my eyes to a whole new world of pleasure and fun as well as structure and communication, openness and trust in relationships. he has brought me here to learn more about the community, find people I can talk to about different kinks and finding out about dom sub relationships. not looking for dick pics, ons, fwb just looking to make friends
Female (53) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Intelligent, grounded, occasionally savage. Love of deep convos,dark humour, planning events & organising chaos. I’m real, resilient, traditional, full of opinions, memes and to many mental tabs. looking for a long term relationship with someone kind, funny, emotionally switched on, assertive, dominant and a traditional gentleman who can put a brat in its place. I am a dominant lady in day to day life with work, looking after family etc. I love a man who can make me feel submissive and feminine outside of that. As much as I’m a brat I am not a little and not into ddlg. dating for my full time forever match, no flakey rubbish. Bring some positivity and nonsense and let’s laugh together.
Female (45) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I’m an owned submissive into BDSM and latex. Have played with other couples and single females. Looking to make friends with likeminded people and attend clubs and parties. As a couple we are keen to meet both male and female bi-sexual people for fun times.
Female (48) Blewbury, Oxfordshire
hi I'm a blank page waiting to be written on. I'm single and a widow. I'm abit Dom/sub right now I need some guidance.....
Female (54) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I am looking to connect with Doms to explore my submissive side. Connection and clear consistent communication are very important to me.
Female (44) Wantage, Oxfordshire
Cute, short, and a bit of a nerd. Books, gaming, and late-night rabbit holes keep me busy. Tattooed and leaning toward the alternative side of life and music. Exploring my submissive side and drawn to confident, respectful Doms. Bonus points if you’re alt or tattooed too 😘
Female (26) Oxford, Oxfordshire
hey guys! new to the site. I’m a naturally dominant curvy female that loves to put her man in his place. I’m hugely into foot worship, I use to dance so have always had to take extra care of my feet, love getting pedicures and massages and spoiled rotten. love how feminine I feel when wearing stockings, heels and pretty lingerie. I do have a soft spot for a cheeky smile and strong arms💋
Female (47) Ambrosden, Oxfordshire
Im a tattoo artist and bass player near Oxford 🥰🥰 looking for an online dom or just a friend ❤️ all natural down there- if u don’t like it, don’t message me😘
Female (19) Bicester, Oxfordshire
Men younger than me: DO NOT CONTACT ME. Hopefully that's clear enough 😇 Quietly nerdy, emotionally intense, affectionate, and very selective about who I connect with. I’m looking for a calm, consistent, emotionally intelligent connection that feels safe, warm, and structured. I value communication, trust, and someone who can hold gentle authority in a steady, protective, and caring way rather than intensity or chaos. I’m not here for casual sex or sexual compatibility as the main focus. I’m looking for a relationship where intimacy grows from emotional safety and connection first. I’m on the asexual spectrum (aegosexual). For me, attraction and fantasy don’t automatically translate into wanting conventional sexual activity, and I’m not interested in sexual relationships that are primarily centred around penetrative sex or orgasm-focused dynamics. What I am interested in is closeness, affection, teasing energy, emotional connection, and power dynamics that are structured, consistent, and caregiving in nature. The dynamic I’m drawn to is a DD/ Caregiver Dom dynamic that is calm, protective, emotionally literate, and steady — more “guidance, reassurance, and structure” than punishment, chaos, or performance. - Guidance over ***. - Structure over chaos. I’m not looking for someone obsessed with pushing limits or collecting submissives. I want warmth, monogamy, consistency, communication, patience, and chemistry. I like deep conversations, humour, Buddhism, board games, video games, jigsaw puzzles, and reading sci-fi and fantasy. I’m drawn to warmth, emotional intelligence, and consistency over intensity or sexual bravado, and I take life seriously as well as valuing play, curiosity, and quiet joy. If you’re someone who leads with curiosity about a person rather than trying to immediately map sexual compatibility, we’ll probably get along.
Female (39) Abingdon, Oxfordshire
I’m a naturally submissive woman who finds fulfillment in structure, guidance, and the quiet strength of surrender. The D/s dynamic for me isn’t just a pastime — it’s a mindset and lifestyle centered around trust, mutual respect, and shared purpose. no idea how to stop the weird/insane messages! lol
Female (25) Dry Sandford, Oxfordshire
Submissive and can be bratty. Forming a connection and building trust is important, whilst having a sense of humour and being playful too. ideally seeking a long term partner however happy to explore and see where things go too.
Female (33) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Hi im switching it up! after a recent new experience, I'm looking for an older submissive man who likes to be degraded and told what to do by me! you still need to enjoy sucking on nipples, but I'm in charge now!
Female (22) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Sex is easy. Finding your person isn’t. I’m here looking for a genuine long-term connection with someone who wants chemistry, compatibility, adventure, and a little bit of mischief along the way. I have a high sex drive, a curious mind, and vanilla has never really been my thing. I started my kink journey as a submissive but discovered a love for switching, so I’m drawn to people who enjoy exploring, challenging themselves, and seeing where mutual trust and connection can lead. By day, I’m ambitious, professional, and driven. By night, I’m playful, passionate, and always up for a little trouble. I’d love to meet someone with a similar work-hard, play-hard outlook on life—someone who has their own goals, passions, and ambitions, but also knows how to let their hair down. Bonus points if you love travel, great food, culture, spontaneous adventures, and conversations that last far longer than planned. If you’re looking for a quick hookup, we’re probably not a match. If you’re looking for a partner in crime, a co-conspirator, and something real with plenty of sparks, say hello.
Female (39) Banbury, Oxfordshire

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I'm a bigger women. I'm not small or Petite except in height. I have a tummy, I have scars and stretch marks. I'm not thin or model like at all. I have thick thighs and a big chest. I need someone who is dominant, someone to take control in the bedroom. My sexual encounters have all been very vanilla and I need more than that. I am a bit of a Nympho so I need a man who can keep up with me, someone who will worship me and my pleasure as well as their own. I have a praise Kink so I love being told I'm a good girl, I need someone who is vocal in bed, dirty talk, praise, directing what is happening ect.
Female (32) Banbury, Oxfordshire
Have explored a few things and not keen to explore more about being a sub… Also bi curious and looking to have NSA with experienced woman and tick off my sexy bucket list.
Female (45) Abingdon, Oxfordshire
I’ve been out of the dating scene for a little while so I thought it was time for an update (Jan 2026). I’m very much all or nothing. My ideal relationship would be a monogamous, TPE Male-led relationship. I am into traditional gender role relationships and really appreciate the values and benefits it has to both sides. I think both sides compliment each other very well. The lifestyle is more than just kink to me, it’s a comfort blanket and I feel safer with the rules, boundaries and structure around me. Im not here for casual hook ups, to find a play partner, or just for the kinky chats. Consistency is very important to me. I don’t work well with rules that are put in place just for the sake of it. If they don’t mean anything to you, and are not beneficial to the dynamic we are building, then they don’t mean anything to me either. Honesty and communication is also very important to me (as I am sure it is for most people). But if I don’t feel I can communicate with my partner, or that they aren’t communicating with me properly, this absolutely will not work. If you have got this far and feel as though the above resonates with you and what you are looking for, then by all means send a message and let’s see if we are compatible. Before exchanging personal details and arranging to meet, I prefer to vet through Fetlife as I find seeing people’s activity and how they interact with others says a lot about them. If you message and I don’t respond - please don’t be offended. It is nothing personal, just that I have read your profile and for one reason or another don’t believe we will be a good match. Just as I am not for everyone, everyone is not for me either. Thank you for taking the time to read 🌷🌸🧸
Female (38) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I am hmm who am I used to be a very out going now rather reserved outwardly. I am a large human lumps bumps and rolls but still human so be nice or move on . normally like walks bedroom exploring not always in the bedroom ect I'm pretty boring unless you are the right one to unlock and awaken parts of me size 16 ish have two kids needed to add that as sone seem shocked when I cant answer msgs ASAP ok so I met one fellow human im not cut out for this im supppppper awkward im shy can't don't know how to make first move this ain't the movies please don't ask who I am what I'm after I have no ***y clue I live 8n country side dobt see many humans im a nerd
Female (42) Wardington, Oxfordshire
Hi there I am not new to the scene but not incredibly experienced. I am wanting to see if I can find the right person for a mix of vanilla and Ds...so that I can explore further with someone I trust.... I have a strong character and am 5.9 and would appreciate someone taller ? #aimingforthestars
Female (55) Curbridge, Oxfordshire
Sex is easy. Finding your person isn’t. I’m here looking for a genuine long-term connection with someone who wants chemistry, compatibility, adventure, and a little bit of mischief along the way. I have a high sex drive, a curious mind, and vanilla has never really been my thing. I started my kink journey as a submissive but discovered a love for switching, so I’m drawn to people who enjoy exploring, challenging themselves, and seeing where mutual trust and connection can lead. By day, I’m ambitious, professional, and driven. By night, I’m playful, passionate, and always up for a little trouble. I’d love to meet someone with a similar work-hard, play-hard outlook on life—someone who has their own goals, passions, and ambitions, but also knows how to let their hair down. Bonus points if you love travel, great food, culture, spontaneous adventures, and conversations that last far longer than planned. If you’re looking for a quick hookup, we’re probably not a match. If you’re looking for a partner in crime, a co-conspirator, and something real with plenty of sparks, say hello.
Female (39) Banbury, Oxfordshire
cute alt girl looking to explore her submissive side and have a dom to take care of her
Female (35) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I am looking to connect with Doms to explore my submissive side. Connection and clear consistent communication are very important to me.
Female (44) Wantage, Oxfordshire
Men younger than me: DO NOT CONTACT ME. Hopefully that's clear enough 😇 Quietly nerdy, emotionally intense, affectionate, and very selective about who I connect with. I’m looking for a calm, consistent, emotionally intelligent connection that feels safe, warm, and structured. I value communication, trust, and someone who can hold gentle authority in a steady, protective, and caring way rather than intensity or chaos. I’m not here for casual sex or sexual compatibility as the main focus. I’m looking for a relationship where intimacy grows from emotional safety and connection first. I’m on the asexual spectrum (aegosexual). For me, attraction and fantasy don’t automatically translate into wanting conventional sexual activity, and I’m not interested in sexual relationships that are primarily centred around penetrative sex or orgasm-focused dynamics. What I am interested in is closeness, affection, teasing energy, emotional connection, and power dynamics that are structured, consistent, and caregiving in nature. The dynamic I’m drawn to is a DD/ Caregiver Dom dynamic that is calm, protective, emotionally literate, and steady — more “guidance, reassurance, and structure” than punishment, chaos, or performance. - Guidance over ***. - Structure over chaos. I’m not looking for someone obsessed with pushing limits or collecting submissives. I want warmth, monogamy, consistency, communication, patience, and chemistry. I like deep conversations, humour, Buddhism, board games, video games, jigsaw puzzles, and reading sci-fi and fantasy. I’m drawn to warmth, emotional intelligence, and consistency over intensity or sexual bravado, and I take life seriously as well as valuing play, curiosity, and quiet joy. If you’re someone who leads with curiosity about a person rather than trying to immediately map sexual compatibility, we’ll probably get along.
Female (39) Abingdon, Oxfordshire
Tattooed and pierced, chaotic, neurodivergent girl. My personality is duality at its core, introvert/extravert, fierce/shy, cute/deviant etc Fairly experienced BDSM kinkster, IRL and online. Looking for a relationship-dynamic with an experienced Daddy Dom with a dark and soft side, who can handle a bratty little sub. (only looking for someone serious who is mid 30+ not random hook ups) A huge part of submission is mental, you have to be able to get my mind buzzing, wit and intelligence is vital. I have a lot of kinks many of which started young but only started learning about the lifestyle when I was in my early 20s. Never left the *** “it was just a phase” phase so I’ll probably be wearing black, listening to alt rock and metalcore. At home I read fantasy and smut, enjoy tv series, board/card/video games and spending time with my friends. Out and about I like doing fun activites, gigs, going on road trips and nature adventures. I just want to hang around in forests or float in the ocean.
Female (37) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I dont exchange pictures or add as a friend if you are too far away or we arent going to meet. 😂 This isnt my list of kinks, just a description of myself. 😂 Curvy/chubby spontaneous exhibitionist werido, who loves nature, adrenaline, I'm very outgoing, bubbly, and I always want to please. I do ride motorbikes so i love to get my adrenaline going. 🥵😏 I'm hypermobile which means I'm very flexiable. I love lots sex, I'm not new to the kink scene just fet. I'll always try something once, im open minded. I'm a brat but I'm submissive and a switch when it comes to women. Im a size 14/16 and my bra size is 34GG.
Female (28) Bicester, Oxfordshire
Cute, short, and a bit of a nerd. Books, gaming, and late-night rabbit holes keep me busy. Tattooed and leaning toward the alternative side of life and music. Exploring my submissive side and drawn to confident, respectful Doms. Bonus points if you’re alt or tattooed too 😘
Female (26) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I am single. Non monogamous. I work hard so I value my free time incredibly and enjoy fitting in lots of playtime. I can host on certain days and also Happy to travel.
Female (53) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Intelligent, grounded, occasionally savage. Love of deep convos,dark humour, planning events & organising chaos. I’m real, resilient, traditional, full of opinions, memes and to many mental tabs. looking for a long term relationship with someone kind, funny, emotionally switched on, assertive, dominant and a traditional gentleman who can put a brat in its place. I am a dominant lady in day to day life with work, looking after family etc. I love a man who can make me feel submissive and feminine outside of that. As much as I’m a brat I am not a little and not into ddlg. dating for my full time forever match, no flakey rubbish. Bring some positivity and nonsense and let’s laugh together.
Female (45) Oxford, Oxfordshire
recently entered a relationship with a very kinky person and as a kink noob they have opened my eyes to a whole new world of pleasure and fun as well as structure and communication, openness and trust in relationships. he has brought me here to learn more about the community, find people I can talk to about different kinks and finding out about dom sub relationships. not looking for dick pics, ons, fwb just looking to make friends
Female (53) Oxford, Oxfordshire
hey guys! new to the site. I’m a naturally dominant curvy female that loves to put her man in his place. I’m hugely into foot worship, I use to dance so have always had to take extra care of my feet, love getting pedicures and massages and spoiled rotten. love how feminine I feel when wearing stockings, heels and pretty lingerie. I do have a soft spot for a cheeky smile and strong arms💋
Female (47) Ambrosden, Oxfordshire
Im a tattoo artist and bass player near Oxford 🥰🥰 looking for an online dom or just a friend ❤️ all natural down there- if u don’t like it, don’t message me😘
Female (19) Bicester, Oxfordshire
Submissive, cheeky, and a little bit naughty. I’m here for something real, not a one-time thing. I’m laid-back, love a good laugh, and I’m a sucker for someone who can communicate honestly (bonus points if you’re direct — I prefer truth over sugarcoating). Outside of kink, I’m into gaming, cocktails, and a good movie night. Music taste is all over the place — pop, rock, country… if it’s good, I’m in. Curvy girl, so you’ve got to be into that 😉
Female (25) Didcot, Oxfordshire
Social profile- I am not looking to meet anybody here, so please don't waste your time if you have ulterior motives! Now that's out of the way, I'm here because I'm new to kink, sex and relations in general and wanted to find a space to socialise that might also allow me to discuss that with others who can guide me with their experience.
Female (21) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Thoughtful gifts make me happy 🥰💖. Start there. I am a confident domme switch. I love to explore life, be adored, fully supported, and spoilt. I am looking for a naturally obedient, respectful, and eager to please man. Welcome X🖤 Wishlist: Throne ***
Female (32) Witney, Oxfordshire
Newbie to this… I want to experiment and see what it is that really excites me. I know I’ve always been a submissive but I’ve never found the right person to experiment with! I hope I can find someone to show me the ropes 😉
I DO, IN FACT, HAVE A PARTNER😭 i am learning that no one ever scrolls that far, if you do not wish to talk with taken people, there is a filter you can turn on for that☺️ ——— 🖍️sfw likes: music, vintage fashion, gaming, ‘childish’ items, ikea plastic cutlery, tartan pattern, ducks, kitties, owls and pigeons. 📌nsfw likes: collaring (shocker ik), ddlg, infantilisation, dacryphilia, marking, breath play/control, physical *** (not verbal), grovelling, zelophilia, pet play, cgl, dollification, lingerie… ect
Female (21) Carterton, Oxfordshire
hi I'm a blank page waiting to be written on. I'm single and a widow. I'm abit Dom/sub right now I need some guidance.....
Female (54) Oxford, Oxfordshire
I’m a naturally submissive woman who finds fulfillment in structure, guidance, and the quiet strength of surrender. The D/s dynamic for me isn’t just a pastime — it’s a mindset and lifestyle centered around trust, mutual respect, and shared purpose. no idea how to stop the weird/insane messages! lol
Female (25) Dry Sandford, Oxfordshire

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