I'm 37. I've been single for a long time, but have gotten more involved in the online world exploring my curiosities on fulfilling my sub self. taking a step into the online word to see if I can meet the right dom to start me on my journey

I’m just back into bdsm and watching to explore. I need to say I was SA by an ex so am nervous to try but wanting to. I have a few hard limits but they can be discussed later. At work the app doesn’t load so if I go dark that’s why.

Hot MILF who loves to play rough with her subs.....but looks after them and likes when they look after her! Up for role swap and always up for trying now things. Enjoy, sexting, pic swaps, role play, GFE Cum say hi!

Just on to explore with my partner ScottishViking94 == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Non-monogamist 100% Rope bunny 100% Brat 98% Submissive 96% Experimentalist 94% Voyeur 91% Exhibitionist 75% Primal (Prey) 75% Masochist 72% Degradee 60% Switch 56% Rigger 47% Degrader 41% Sadist 35% Dominant 30% Vanilla 22% Brat tamer 20% Slave 14% Primal (Hunter) 13% Pet 6% Owner 4% Master/Mistress 0% Boy/Girl 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Ageplayer

I am a professional Dominant focused on high-protocol, psychological, and sensory dominance. My approach combines sophisticated authority with strict structure, catering to discerning submissives who value refined discipline, mental surrender, and impeccably maintained boundaries.

New to the scene, I’m just your average latex lover, lurker and local bitch with big repressed dreams of one day hurting you physically, emotionally and financially. Come a little closer so I can step on you x ~ A rigger without the skill set, a domme without the commitment, a fun night for the right person and a sadist all the time ~

I like conversation! It can take all forms from discussing the nuances of our day, to the best cheese on toast in the air fryer, to whether the world as we know it will be extinguished with a Trump, or if our councils will keep collecting our bins each week. Best not to get me started on potholes! The thing with good sex is, for me anyway, if I don't get you and you don't get me, then together our sex isn't going to be worth my time. And I really value my free time. I'm a maso so I enjoy *** with pleasure, and that can take many forms. I don't have a definitive list as much depends on the mood and my type of partner, but I've been a maso for most of sexual life so I'm certainly experienced and open to discussion. I'm not a submissive. Feel like I should caps or embolden that! Please don't assume that maso means sub. If you message me with demands, rudeness, expectations of sex or general incel type attitudes, then I will block. I'm probably likely to just block with copy/paste type messages or the crap 'hi' 'how are you' types too. I'm not looking for online contacts or play. My preference is to aim to meet up after messaging and connect in person to get a true feel for each other, so I'd love to hear from those close to me. As for me, I love a good netflix series and couch snuggles just as much as sea and woodland walks, or exploring old ruins, and waterfalls. Who can resist a stripping off shower under a freezing Scottish waterfall!

Awaiting the Dominant I'm compelled to obey. A real Daddy. A man who has mastered his divine masculine, a man with self awareness, self insight, a natural assertiveness/Dominant presence. An alchemist. Would be a very pleasing sub for the right "handler." I'm out to catch a marlin. Love attractive big hands on a man, a hirsute body but not too much, tall is mmm, dark hair is a favourite, don't let that turn you away if you're a silver fox though, a well groomed short beard and hair. Sucker for brown eyes. I prefer slim athletic builds, but appreciate muscle too. Witty banter n good humour essential!! Also think it would be fun to play with another woman I found attractive, to explore her mind and body and please her. A lesliebean friend kissed me while I was under the influence. I didn't stop her. It was a good kiss ? And curious to explore with a Ds couple :) I'll cook healthy, delicious dinners for you bring you refreshments. I like to bake, hope you enjoy. I'll do your laundry. I'll keep house earnestly, with the time and resources I will clean throughly, very frequently. I'll run you hot candlelit Epsom salt baths, I'll give you reflexology, massage you knowing the trigger muscles well due to some self study on the subject of bioenergetics. I'll teach you how to raise your own vibration. I'll be your muse. I will encourage you to be your best Self for your highest good. I will nurture your soul. Sirs, Masters, Daddies, fun couples... Come correct or don't cum at all: "Hey" or generic small talk will unlikely be responded to. With kind intention, if you need a template to start a conversation with me my personality will be too strong for you. Sorry x Don't ask for nudes. I do not owe you extra photos. If you are a stranger telling me "Make me cum" you will remain a stranger. I'm not your free porn doll, I'm a customer on a dating site. Don't call me whore or slut etc if you're contacting me initially. I will not engage with overly entitled or rude people. I don't want p*ssed on thanks. I don't want to watch a stranger jerk off through video calls either thanks. No time wasters, if you're a sub or want me to order you around here's my order: jog on luvvie. Anyone who eats sushi, as eating rotted corpses from underground is how a zombie apocalypse gets started. This is basic knowledge. The most *** I'll endure is an "mmm bop" & it shouldn't need saying but obviously ***s n kids. I don't dig man buns, skinny jeans (guys we can see your junk all squished up like a sandworm (you're jeopardizing your virility), & not a fan of tatts. If I really liked someone that superficial stuff would slide to the side however. Ultimately I'm seeking a good heart with a filthy mind, a kindred ? As for a LTR, I want what we all want; to feel loved, supported, cared for, adored, stimulated, inspired, valued, protected, seen, heard, respected. For this I will be yours and do as you ask of me. Sorry if i don't reply, it's a busy site! With optimistic horn ;p, Gilly Namaste

A lingerie obsessed, passionate, devoted woman who loves to please her master. Not submissive by nature, but very much enjoy exploring that side of myself sexually. Love laughter. life can be harsh. You need to make the most of it.

Enjoy being silly, exploring places, wandering forests, graveyards and old historic buildings, embracing my pagan side with drums and fire. Love music, particularly metal but my taste is all over the place. Switch, but looking to explore my sub/brat side.

Hello I'm new here not new to the scene. I Consider myself as sub and prefer o have fun with people older than myself x

babydoll, this is +23, no younger. my life is full of discipline, rules and regulations that you should obey of. looking for a man of actions, not a yapper.

Tell me your fantasies, I love reading kinky thoughts im interested in exploring kink, have a major mask kink ATM (I blame ghost, konig, and ghostface for that)

An advocate for the scientific method, prone to puns, puppets and dressing up. Intersectional feminist killjoy Unlikely hiker From Yorkshire and moving back there. Small fat. Body, sex and kink positive Sun sign ADHD, rising sign Autistic. Auditory processing disorder makes phone calls hard for me Looking for a connection where we make each other laugh or sigh, in a good way Dogs always choose to sit by me at parties

i have two sides so please feel free to keep reading !! one side of me is my general sub space. i’m into bondage, ***, ***, probably some of the more wilder stuff too. i love being treated like a doll, no thoughts of feelings and no rights, i like to be completely dominated in all aspects. i know i can be a lot for some people, im big into CNC, ***d breeding etc etc more the “taboo” topics, so please be aware when messaging me. - my other side which comes out less often, i do go into little space. i just want to be treated like a little girl (mainly around 5/6 maybe a little older if that works) but i just want to feel a bit brainless and looked after while being spoken down on. i’m okay with both sexual and other little girl talks. - i’m not into meet ups ASAP. i like to get to know people, talk to them for a bit first etc. and yes i have toys.

I’m educated and filthy. I like DD/lg with TRUSTED play partners only. I’m interested in cyberfun. I rarely do meets as the promises and expectations rarely match the reality. Feel free to change my mind. 👀

Elevated Company | High Standards | Financial Power Exchange I am looking for generous, established men who appreciate refined company, high-end courtship, and clear power dynamics. I have zero interest in low-effort chats, casual "hangouts," or fast-paced hookups. My presence is an investment, and I treat it as such. What I Expect: Proper Courtship: Initial meetings take place over exquisite cocktails or fine dining at top-tier venues, fully hosted by you. Low-effort coffee grabs or home visits are non-negotiable nos. Generous Energy: Whether exploring financial submission (***) or taking on a generous benefactor role, you take pride in lavishing time, resources, and luxury experiences on a woman. Respect & Boundaries: Physical intimacy is on my terms and my timeline—it is never traded for a date, guaranteed, or rushed. Inbox Rules & Vetting: *** / Tribute: If you are reaching out regarding financial dominance, initial tribute (or a ***) with your opening message is required to guarantee a response. Unpaid messages regarding *** go straight to trash. Dating / Benefactors: Open your first message with genuine charm, a proper introduction, and what kind of high-end experience you’d like to host me for. If you know how to treat a woman like royalty, take charge of logistics, and respect hard boundaries, my inbox is open. Time-wasters, tire-kickers, and explicit hookup hunters will be blocked immediately.

Hi! Recently redownloaded this app after a hiatus. What I'm looking for: Open to dating and longer-term connections rather than casual play. (I don't think I have a casual bone in my body tbh 😅, I need a genuine connection with someone before attraction really starts to develop). I'm drawn to people who are kind, emotionally intelligent, take initiative and communicate well. I have a soft spot for affectionate, caring dynamics and people who combine warmth with clear direction. In short, if you're a good egg with decent communication skills, we'll probably get on just fine. I'm very much a slow-burn person. Good conversation, authenticity and shared values are far more likely to catch my attention than anything else. If we accidentally lose three hours to a conversation, that's usually a pretty good sign 😊. Neurospicy (AuDHD flavour to be precise) & cannot read between the lines for the life of me. Direct communication is sexy (and essential 🙃). (Side note: If you think feminism has gone too far, "not all men" is a compelling argument or basic human rights are up for debate, this isn't the profile for you.) About me: I love hiking with my dog, swimming, paddleboarding, kayaking, running and generally exploring all that Scotland has to offer. I'm an unashamed foodie and love discovering new places, trying out new restaurants and cafés and raiding every charity shop and vintage clothes shop within a five-mile radius. You'll usually find me somewhere between "slightly feral outdoors woman" and "flowery dress and Docs", with very little in between. If you ever find me indoors, I'm usually reading, singing, playing guitar or attempting (slowly) to write my first book. I occasionally write poetry too, usually when my brain decides feelings would be much more manageable if they rhymed. Coffee enthusiast - can usually be found with a coffee in hand, sat on my laptop using a coffee shop as my makeshift office or on my way to a coffee shop 😅. I love the creative side of my work, and the autonomy.

Looking for some discrete fun My husband has full access to this account 👀😏 I don't smoke so not interested in anyone that smokes

I’m an open ENM relationship, with someone I love very much. Preferably looking for a D/s dynamic, and nothing romantic really. Although I do need a connection with someone! I enjoy Lord of the Rings, and jigsaws. FYI, if you hate body hair, you won’t like me very much. I’m not interested in sexy chat and exchanging pics right off the bat, if ever.

Let's just put it out there: I want to chat and learn a bit more. I'm extremely happy with who I have in my life so I'm not into one off meets. I belong to my Dom, Yalsi and we are very happy so please don't ask me to be your Sub or Domme. That said, I am open to meets with my Dom, whether that be for a female Domme or a couple. Ok, I’m a fairly average, happily married woman. I don’t smoke, I like the occasional alcoholic drink and work part time in a job I love. I lead a very active busy life and I enjoy having fun and spending time with friends and family. What do I like? Lots of different things like learning, reading, crafting, diy and being independent. I like to get to know folk and find out if we have anything in common. I like men to be polite and have great manners – it’s always nice to be kind. What I don’t like includes false folk who like to live their lives on social media. Just be who you are and don’t pretend to be someone else. Please don’t be offended if I block you because you’ve gone straight for the jugular in your first message to me. I’m just not interested in juvenile smut – remember, manners don’t cost anything so please, be polite. Please also don’t be offended if I ignore you if you are under 35 or over 64 – I’m just not interested. My marriage is extremely important to me and any communication must be discreet. I'm quite new to BDSM so I'd really like to chat with like minded folk and hopefully learn more with a view to experimenting to find out what I like. **Desires and Fantasies** I'm enjoying being Sub to my Dom but am happy to switch if I/we meet up with a sub female. I sometimes like to be told what to do and for my sexual partner to take control. There is so much I haven't tried but I'm a quick learner and am finding out what I like. I do also like to take control at times so don't be fooled! I'm exploring my Domme interest and keen to learn.

I’m kinky as shit, what excites me is that when a guy touches my inner thigh and also when a guy bites my soft spot on my neck, it just makes me feel so excited and I’m also here to explore some new relationships that make me happy and all because why not.

very much a switch. looking to connect with someone that will ragdoll me then let me take control for round 2. or vice versa. Year of birth must start 198 or 199

I am a professional Dominant focused on high-protocol, psychological, and sensory dominance. My approach combines sophisticated authority with strict structure, catering to discerning submissives who value refined discipline, mental surrender, and impeccably maintained boundaries.

I’m just back into bdsm and watching to explore. I need to say I was SA by an ex so am nervous to try but wanting to. I have a few hard limits but they can be discussed later. At work the app doesn’t load so if I go dark that’s why.

Hot MILF who loves to play rough with her subs.....but looks after them and likes when they look after her! Up for role swap and always up for trying now things. Enjoy, sexting, pic swaps, role play, GFE Cum say hi!

I'm 37. I've been single for a long time, but have gotten more involved in the online world exploring my curiosities on fulfilling my sub self. taking a step into the online word to see if I can meet the right dom to start me on my journey

Just on to explore with my partner ScottishViking94 == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Non-monogamist 100% Rope bunny 100% Brat 98% Submissive 96% Experimentalist 94% Voyeur 91% Exhibitionist 75% Primal (Prey) 75% Masochist 72% Degradee 60% Switch 56% Rigger 47% Degrader 41% Sadist 35% Dominant 30% Vanilla 22% Brat tamer 20% Slave 14% Primal (Hunter) 13% Pet 6% Owner 4% Master/Mistress 0% Boy/Girl 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Ageplayer

New to the scene, I’m just your average latex lover, lurker and local bitch with big repressed dreams of one day hurting you physically, emotionally and financially. Come a little closer so I can step on you x ~ A rigger without the skill set, a domme without the commitment, a fun night for the right person and a sadist all the time ~

I like conversation! It can take all forms from discussing the nuances of our day, to the best cheese on toast in the air fryer, to whether the world as we know it will be extinguished with a Trump, or if our councils will keep collecting our bins each week. Best not to get me started on potholes! The thing with good sex is, for me anyway, if I don't get you and you don't get me, then together our sex isn't going to be worth my time. And I really value my free time. I'm a maso so I enjoy *** with pleasure, and that can take many forms. I don't have a definitive list as much depends on the mood and my type of partner, but I've been a maso for most of sexual life so I'm certainly experienced and open to discussion. I'm not a submissive. Feel like I should caps or embolden that! Please don't assume that maso means sub. If you message me with demands, rudeness, expectations of sex or general incel type attitudes, then I will block. I'm probably likely to just block with copy/paste type messages or the crap 'hi' 'how are you' types too. I'm not looking for online contacts or play. My preference is to aim to meet up after messaging and connect in person to get a true feel for each other, so I'd love to hear from those close to me. As for me, I love a good netflix series and couch snuggles just as much as sea and woodland walks, or exploring old ruins, and waterfalls. Who can resist a stripping off shower under a freezing Scottish waterfall!

New to this app, submissive looking for dominant, ideally relationship but would be open to more casual. In the bedroom only (unless some games carry on outside 😉). Big time rope bunny but any restraint will do, into all sorts. Not willing to put photos on here yet but can share in message. I am 5”5, gym fit and conventionally attractive.

Hiya, I’m a bigger gal who is looking for a bit of fun, chat and banter. New to here and just exploring feel free to say hi

Elevated Company | High Standards | Financial Power Exchange I am looking for generous, established men who appreciate refined company, high-end courtship, and clear power dynamics. I have zero interest in low-effort chats, casual "hangouts," or fast-paced hookups. My presence is an investment, and I treat it as such. What I Expect: Proper Courtship: Initial meetings take place over exquisite cocktails or fine dining at top-tier venues, fully hosted by you. Low-effort coffee grabs or home visits are non-negotiable nos. Generous Energy: Whether exploring financial submission (***) or taking on a generous benefactor role, you take pride in lavishing time, resources, and luxury experiences on a woman. Respect & Boundaries: Physical intimacy is on my terms and my timeline—it is never traded for a date, guaranteed, or rushed. Inbox Rules & Vetting: *** / Tribute: If you are reaching out regarding financial dominance, initial tribute (or a ***) with your opening message is required to guarantee a response. Unpaid messages regarding *** go straight to trash. Dating / Benefactors: Open your first message with genuine charm, a proper introduction, and what kind of high-end experience you’d like to host me for. If you know how to treat a woman like royalty, take charge of logistics, and respect hard boundaries, my inbox is open. Time-wasters, tire-kickers, and explicit hookup hunters will be blocked immediately.

I’m an open ENM relationship, with someone I love very much. Preferably looking for a D/s dynamic, and nothing romantic really. Although I do need a connection with someone! I enjoy Lord of the Rings, and jigsaws. FYI, if you hate body hair, you won’t like me very much. I’m not interested in sexy chat and exchanging pics right off the bat, if ever.

Single busy redhead looking to connect with someone dominant. I like to give pleasure a lot more thsn get! I'm a smoker just a heads up and I look younger than my age so I've no problem sending pics after talking.

Looking for some discrete fun My husband has full access to this account 👀😏 I don't smoke so not interested in anyone that smokes

I’m kinky as shit, what excites me is that when a guy touches my inner thigh and also when a guy bites my soft spot on my neck, it just makes me feel so excited and I’m also here to explore some new relationships that make me happy and all because why not.

Hii!! I love books, flowers, and I’m deeply curious about the world, I love to learn! Semi-experienced, and very praise-motivated! I value consent, communication, and patience! Anything rushed or disrespectful is not for me.

I am an owned sub who is interested in no one else but Alex who is my daddy. All other men fuck off, and any attempt to contact me will result in you being blocked and reported.

Looking to build a connection with a confident, experienced Dom leading to a regular meets. Sapiosexual. Happy to share pics in chat. Would be lovely to make some kink friends too!

I’m educated and filthy. I like DD/lg with TRUSTED play partners only. I’m interested in cyberfun. I rarely do meets as the promises and expectations rarely match the reality. Feel free to change my mind. 👀

Hi! Recently redownloaded this app after a hiatus. What I'm looking for: Open to dating and longer-term connections rather than casual play. (I don't think I have a casual bone in my body tbh 😅, I need a genuine connection with someone before attraction really starts to develop). I'm drawn to people who are kind, emotionally intelligent, take initiative and communicate well. I have a soft spot for affectionate, caring dynamics and people who combine warmth with clear direction. In short, if you're a good egg with decent communication skills, we'll probably get on just fine. I'm very much a slow-burn person. Good conversation, authenticity and shared values are far more likely to catch my attention than anything else. If we accidentally lose three hours to a conversation, that's usually a pretty good sign 😊. Neurospicy (AuDHD flavour to be precise) & cannot read between the lines for the life of me. Direct communication is sexy (and essential 🙃). (Side note: If you think feminism has gone too far, "not all men" is a compelling argument or basic human rights are up for debate, this isn't the profile for you.) About me: I love hiking with my dog, swimming, paddleboarding, kayaking, running and generally exploring all that Scotland has to offer. I'm an unashamed foodie and love discovering new places, trying out new restaurants and cafés and raiding every charity shop and vintage clothes shop within a five-mile radius. You'll usually find me somewhere between "slightly feral outdoors woman" and "flowery dress and Docs", with very little in between. If you ever find me indoors, I'm usually reading, singing, playing guitar or attempting (slowly) to write my first book. I occasionally write poetry too, usually when my brain decides feelings would be much more manageable if they rhymed. Coffee enthusiast - can usually be found with a coffee in hand, sat on my laptop using a coffee shop as my makeshift office or on my way to a coffee shop 😅. I love the creative side of my work, and the autonomy.

Hello I'm new here not new to the scene. I Consider myself as sub and prefer o have fun with people older than myself x

babydoll, this is +23, no younger. my life is full of discipline, rules and regulations that you should obey of. looking for a man of actions, not a yapper.

very much a switch. looking to connect with someone that will ragdoll me then let me take control for round 2. or vice versa. Year of birth must start 198 or 199

In a very vanilla marriage, just hear to chat to like minded people and who knows...