BDSM Dating in North Lanarkshire

I’m a big man soft in the right places, strong where it matters with a gentleman’s heart and a calm, affectionate nature. I value honesty, respect, and emotional connection, and when that connection is there, I’m deeply sensual and attentive.

Touch, closeness, and slow-building intimacy mean a lot to me the kind that creates tension in the air rather than rushing to the finish line.

I’ve been single for a long time which hasn’t always been easy. I live with depression, anxiety, and insomnia, but I’m self-aware, emotionally open, and always working on myself. Evenings are usually free, I have my own place, and discretion is guaranteed.

Yes, I own a full-size doll not from obsession, but because loneliness can hit hard, and sometimes it helps to have something soft to hold at night. I believe in honesty, even when it’s ***.

I don’t drive, but I can host.
I share my home with a bearded dragon who silently judges everyone equally.

In terms of roles, I’m exploring who I am and who I’m becoming Adventurer, Evolving, and possibly Exhibitionist (still learning).

I’m seeking an experienced, patient teacher or mentor someone open-minded, kind, and confident to guide me gently and consensually as I explore intimacy and desire for the first time. I move step by step, with clear communication, mutual respect, and agreed boundaries.

Thank you for taking the time to read.
If this resonates, I’d genuinely enjoy hearing from you.