Assertive yet submissive and no, that’s not a contradiction. It’s balance.
.
It’s fire and softness coexisting side by side.
I will absolutely dominate you if you give me nothing to follow. Confident-ish. Intelligent. Independent. I know how to take care of myself, so am never going to blindly hand over trust or energy to a man who doesn’t deserve it. My independence is how I survive the world. My submission is how I feel safe, I know the rules, the structure. It's predictable, it means that I can rest within it whilst testing the structure from time to time.
.
if you are truthful, respectful and grounded in the way that creates safety, not chaos and insecurity, I will submit, not out of weakness, but out of trust. Submission is a choice, not a default/starting position.
.
I require a man who knows where he’s going. A man with purpose, with presence, with consistency. I don’t and won't respond to control, I respond to clarity. I’m not impressed by power plays or ego. I want connection. Emotional leadership. Mutual respect. A D/s relationship starts with each party having equal power else, what power am I giving up when I surrender mine?
.
I will not follow a man who doesn’t value my mind, my heart, my soul. I will not shrink just to make you feel big. But I will soften, let my guard down, and become the biggest cheerleader you’ve ever known. I just need to feel safe enough to show that side.
.
I don’t need a man to control me. I need a man who knows how to lead, without loosing myself in the process.
.
I am 5'3
Size 12-14 (no flat stomach, stretch marks! 😬) That's me! 🤗
If you are a sub (male or female) - I would love to make sub friends 🤗
Single mother
I like rock music
I vape!
I would rather have a conversation than put everything in here. 🤗
University student
I am starting to learn line dancing!
I live in Bury St Edmunds
I work in Cambridge
She/Her.
36
Poly. I don’t do unicorn hunters and my partners and I all date separately but I enjoy the polycule shenanigans every once in awhile
Switch.
Sadomasochist.
Bi.
Married. (33 He/Him)
American in the UK
Lab Cat. (Radiochemistry Laboratory Technician)
Aspiring Crazy Cat Lady. (2 cats)
Originally from Miami,FL.
Latina. Colombian
LARPer, Table-topper and all around nerd.
Lover of food
Let’s explore a new restaurant together
Relationships I’m currently interested in
Friends (I don’t know many folx since moving to this country)
Play Partners (been sorely missing some kink time) ** caveat kink doesn’t necessarily mean sex to me so if you have to have sex with your kink then maybe I’m not the right person
Terrible at messaging first but good at answering if you do message me
MissCybrid on most social platforms
I don't play with anyone under 30!
I am in a poly D/s dynamic with Master Desire. Interested in casual but not disposible female Unicorns who want to play with us both. I can also play solo.
I'm a NeuroQueer solo poly submissive and plus sized beauty.
100% certified obedient good slave girl princess with soft primal prey tendencies. Ethically bratty only in casual play encounters.
Shibari practice both as bunny and rope Mistress has been my the***utic happy place for 3 years and I enjoy continuing to learn and expand skills in this area. My FemDom side has been described as affectionately sadistic, I enjoy the power of my divine femininity and being worshiped on the rare ocassions of me topping that way in casual play.
Non Kink wise, I work in the Arts & Human Rights. I love to travel and spend time in nature, art galleries, museums, theatre, festivals, music gigs, cinema, restaurants, book shops.
As submissive and slave, I abide by my paraphrased words from Mollena Williams - Haas' Prime Directive on the M/s dynamic for any D/s dynamic as well as her specific words on the M/s dynamic
**
"It is the primary responsibility of the submissive or slave to protect the Master or Dominant's property at all times, up to and including protecting the property from the Master or Dominant"
**
I'm enjoying and looking for meaningful connections who share similar kinktrests to see where we adventure on from there. Open to regular FWB, casual play partners both in short and long term. Relationship anarchy doesn't need to equate to chaos.
Primal Pleasure Daddy Doms and Pleasure Sadists are my submissive play vibes.
BDSM for me is a beautiful partnership between the mind and body. It's empowering, healing, sexy, fun and more! I am facinated by and enjoy the exploration of desires on physical and psychological levels and how these evolve over time. Mutually honest and open communication, curiosity, playfulness, non judgemental, self awareness, informed and consensual negotiations, earning trust and respect matters to me. If you have gotten this far and want to reach out, put 'Beautiful Blossom' in your subject line so I know you've read my bio.
woman who is looking for kinky like minded people to enjoy kinky times with…..
I love sucking cock and get a kick from seeing a man loving his cock down my throat love to gag n deep throat a cock ….. don’t want sex on the phone you want sexy times then have them with me not my phone can be very discreet
If your gonna leave me halfway there’s an option not to hit me up x
if u ask me what I’m looking for I’ll be ***ed bc ITS ON MY PROFILE?
THATS about it 😛
Looking ? No.. . Playful leggy (6ft1) , few years out of long term vanilla relationship and more than ready to explore my sub side for the first real time..
No conventional relationship desired.
Quite a penchant for the silver fox currently..
I certainly cum with my brain and not a clumsy fumble of body bumps and tweaks. .. Hope to get into your head before I get into your pants
Heteroflexible CNC switch, sweet till I’m not. 😇😈
And I’m not because I want to see what you’ll do about it. 👋🍑🖤🔥
I adapt to energy.
Eye contact and confidence pull me in. Sensory and impact play keep my attention.
I melt for composure, patience that turns firm… and I enjoy pushing buttons and owning the consequences. 😝
I don’t belong to anyone but if you want to belong to me for a while, we can talk. 🔥
If you like being teased, challenged, or verbally handled with intention… we’ll get along just fine.
I know my limits and my kinks, and I’ll share them when the vibe is right.
😇😈🖤🔥🪢⛓️👑😏
Sapiosexual, demisexual, and submissive baby girl iso sweet and rough *local* Daddy Dom. I’m 5’9, green eyes, blonde hair, plus sized, easy smile, frequent laugh. I’m absolutely insatiable w the right partner and live to satisfy his every whim. A man who’s good with his words will open the door to oh-so-much more with me. Romantic heart with a filthy mind. ***I require connection before and after play. This is non-negotiable***
I will only respond to U rated openers.
Can’t wait to meet you 🥰
I primarily use this app to read the posts and stories, so even when I'm online I often don't see messages. I would be interested in finding a dominant play partner but there doesn't seem to be many suitable candidates nearby, so for now I'm quite happy to read and to learn.
I am not looking for; online, long distance, submissives, women or couples, people who cannot host - I prefer not to and only invite people into my home once I know them well.
I'm an independent, successful, professional, firey red head. That doesn't change. Put your hand to my throat and I melt into that lovely little space and fall to my knees.
I'm looking for a relationship. I'm looking for that right fit. Mutual respect, trust, communication. from there, you can build anything you want.
As well as kink interests, I love to travel and going to the gym💪. I enjoy dining out with some wine, hiking, being active and spending time with those important to me.
Kink wise, I love to be restrained, in a multitude of ways, ***d and spanked. I love alot of the psychological aspects of BDSM. I have many interests and and open to others, which is all a fun discussion 😊
please have some photos on your profile, or if you're messaging me, attach some there. im also willing to share face photos
Before diving into the following…. I have a lot of bandwidth in use with life commitments and existing relationships/connections so at present I’m not seeking, if something comes along and I’m super in to it then we’ll see, it’s like a meat counter ticket system only no one’s behind the counter right now for the most part.
*Identified Mostly Submissive Roles*
Primal Prey
Damsel in Distress
Pillow Queen
Pixie
Pet
Brat (Break-me)
Power Bottom
Pillow Queen
Sensualist
*Potential more Switch/Dominant Roles*
Cougar/Temptress
Domina
GFD/Mommy Domme
# *Creative with a passion for passion, ENM/CNM/Poly/Relationship Anarchist*
Push X Pull
Mental & Physical Intimacy
Levels of Transcendence
I like… the right voice & the right energy, I have great energy for the right people.
Neurodivergent, OCD and perhaps undiagnosed Bi-Polar 2, Fibromyalgia,
all managed pretty well.
All considered in terms of Consent/Risk Mitigation/Negotiation.
(In relation to trauma and Fibro ***/arthritis, pretty flexible yogi but some glitchy bits, that being said, I like a lot of things firm and we’re talking a different type of *** anyway)
When I choose well, play sedates me and is almost medicinal for the above.
I classify myself as Noetisexual, in that much of the attraction I feel comes from the way a person’s mind works.
The attachments I have here some of the dearest to me, they’ve lead me through some dark times, broadened my mind and I believe I have broadened theirs. They are like a kind of family to me, with whom I have the deepest trust.
With these connections, I become more myself, find my way back to my best parts
in order to build them up again.
I manage a lot in my day to day, so can be hard for me to keep up with those I intend to have socials with or date, I’m always on a quest to find the most suitable candidates for my polycule/play sphere but it needs to be both practical and engaging so may not always be responsive on here due to bandwidth, real needs and wants.
# Writing not a joke memoir in disguise, Pillow Queen and the Army of Lovers, an erotic novella….
Overview: Curious, Cheeky, and learning to kneel - respectfully.
New to the scene, but not new to knowing what I enjoy: control, structure, and connection. I'm a natural sub in the right hands, and would probably be referred to as being rather bratty.
I have a busy home life (solo parent) and so realistically I’m looking for a consistent casual connection, with trust, communication, and boundaries, with meets a couple of times a month and lots of communication in between.
Having to be in charge in everyday life means I am happy to relinquish control when in safe hands. I’m eager to please, and learn, praise does wonders, call me your good girl and you’ll light me up in ways that will only add to your pleasure, I haven’t found someone I am comfortable with *** with. I am open to sensory deprivation, I enjoy breath play, I have never been bound but would be open to it again in the right hands.
I’m a lingerie lover, and also have a thing for wearing tights ☺️
Finally It’s important to note that I’m looking to find someone that can also make me laugh, and take care of me by communication when apart also, as that’s where the foreplay starts, aftercare is not optional. I am not looking for a ONS, I want to build something consistent with someone.
Taking things slow and getting to know myself. I suppose my long term goal would be to meet someone I have a proper connection with, and trust implicitly, to enable me to fully submit. Not looking for a one night stand or some quick fun. Looking for something deeper and meaningful, after all, BDSM is more than just sex!
i have a lot going on in my life so please be patient with me as i will be on and off a lot on here. especially if i take ages to respond to messages.
my profile is very basic for a reason. come get to know me and we can go from there.
i’m into exploring male chastity and cuckold (which I’ve never done) but not so much the sissy stuff. I am looking for a dominant guy, I am a switch but prefer to be a sub. I can dominate when needed too.
I’m not into hardcore BDSM so if thats your thing please don’t waste your time with me.
respect me and i’ll respect you.
I AM IN ENM MARRIAGE. Primary kink is BabyGirl/Pillow Princess, in other RP I’ll be bottom but with clear boundaries set. I have a primary DD so there would be a few conditions in place regarding honoraries etc.
NOT interested in meeting OR talking to MEN. Moved this to the top to help all the guys read this better, you’re welcome! Men who message without reading this will be subject to sarcasm and I’m not liable for emotional damages to your egos…. anyway!
I am not single, I am part of a couple. Together we’re looking to get to know, share pics and chat to about all things kinky with women and trans people.
Vanilla Alternative Club Member
I have been in and out of the kink lifestyle for a few years. I’m a switch, I love to be a sub for my partner, but I don’t mind switching things up occasionally and dominating my play partners… I love hearing those whimpers ;P
I love spanking, teasing, edging, praise, degredation, and making my play partner beg… amongst other things!
My partner and I love having kinky conversations, together and solo, but we are monogamous so no I won’t be cheating on my partner, and he won’t be cheating on me! We’re not into affairs or anything of that sort!
someone to can take care of me and treats me right I also have a thing for shoulders 🥰 you have to message first 😘
( I do have a face you just gotta match with me to see it )
want that Gomez and Mortisha kinda thing
✨ dad bod for the win ✨- I want someone who can scoop me up yfm
✨🗡️Princess in the streets slut in the sheets.🗡️✨
I'm here to explore my submissive side with someone who excites me, not only with their dominance but with the ability to hold an intelligent conversation. A sense of humour is also something that I enjoy.
I'd love to hear from you if you think this sounds like you and look forward to the fun we could have together.
It's been too long since I've heard those words, good girl, you've pleased Sir.
Curvy, Kinky, Red-head looking for a female Dominatrix to join me in using and abusing my slave of a husband!
I've been his sole Dominatrix for 5 years, but we would both love to bring another into the mix for a very intense session for him...
Also looking to build any connections with full swap couples who are interested in a more regular agreement, rather than one offs.
Someone who thought knew what I liked, turns out I think there's a long list more. Im a mum of 3 so pretty good at multitasking but awful at keeping in touch. If you treat me well ill be your best friend! Ill chat to anyone as long as your not rude. Tattoos and motorbikes are a instant plus.
Into all things mystical and magical. I need a Dom to make sure I am making smart decisions and to challenge every now and then....I can't be perfect all the time!
I am 5'3
Size 12-14 (no flat stomach, stretch marks! 😬) That's me! 🤗
If you are a sub (male or female) - I would love to make sub friends 🤗
Single mother
I like rock music
I vape!
I would rather have a conversation than put everything in here. 🤗
University student
I am starting to learn line dancing!
I live in Bury St Edmunds
I work in Cambridge
She/Her.
36
Poly. I don’t do unicorn hunters and my partners and I all date separately but I enjoy the polycule shenanigans every once in awhile
Switch.
Sadomasochist.
Bi.
Married. (33 He/Him)
American in the UK
Lab Cat. (Radiochemistry Laboratory Technician)
Aspiring Crazy Cat Lady. (2 cats)
Originally from Miami,FL.
Latina. Colombian
LARPer, Table-topper and all around nerd.
Lover of food
Let’s explore a new restaurant together
Relationships I’m currently interested in
Friends (I don’t know many folx since moving to this country)
Play Partners (been sorely missing some kink time) ** caveat kink doesn’t necessarily mean sex to me so if you have to have sex with your kink then maybe I’m not the right person
Terrible at messaging first but good at answering if you do message me
MissCybrid on most social platforms
Assertive yet submissive and no, that’s not a contradiction. It’s balance.
.
It’s fire and softness coexisting side by side.
I will absolutely dominate you if you give me nothing to follow. Confident-ish. Intelligent. Independent. I know how to take care of myself, so am never going to blindly hand over trust or energy to a man who doesn’t deserve it. My independence is how I survive the world. My submission is how I feel safe, I know the rules, the structure. It's predictable, it means that I can rest within it whilst testing the structure from time to time.
.
if you are truthful, respectful and grounded in the way that creates safety, not chaos and insecurity, I will submit, not out of weakness, but out of trust. Submission is a choice, not a default/starting position.
.
I require a man who knows where he’s going. A man with purpose, with presence, with consistency. I don’t and won't respond to control, I respond to clarity. I’m not impressed by power plays or ego. I want connection. Emotional leadership. Mutual respect. A D/s relationship starts with each party having equal power else, what power am I giving up when I surrender mine?
.
I will not follow a man who doesn’t value my mind, my heart, my soul. I will not shrink just to make you feel big. But I will soften, let my guard down, and become the biggest cheerleader you’ve ever known. I just need to feel safe enough to show that side.
.
I don’t need a man to control me. I need a man who knows how to lead, without loosing myself in the process.
.
I don't play with anyone under 30!
I am in a poly D/s dynamic with Master Desire. Interested in casual but not disposible female Unicorns who want to play with us both. I can also play solo.
I'm a NeuroQueer solo poly submissive and plus sized beauty.
100% certified obedient good slave girl princess with soft primal prey tendencies. Ethically bratty only in casual play encounters.
Shibari practice both as bunny and rope Mistress has been my the***utic happy place for 3 years and I enjoy continuing to learn and expand skills in this area. My FemDom side has been described as affectionately sadistic, I enjoy the power of my divine femininity and being worshiped on the rare ocassions of me topping that way in casual play.
Non Kink wise, I work in the Arts & Human Rights. I love to travel and spend time in nature, art galleries, museums, theatre, festivals, music gigs, cinema, restaurants, book shops.
As submissive and slave, I abide by my paraphrased words from Mollena Williams - Haas' Prime Directive on the M/s dynamic for any D/s dynamic as well as her specific words on the M/s dynamic
**
"It is the primary responsibility of the submissive or slave to protect the Master or Dominant's property at all times, up to and including protecting the property from the Master or Dominant"
**
I'm enjoying and looking for meaningful connections who share similar kinktrests to see where we adventure on from there. Open to regular FWB, casual play partners both in short and long term. Relationship anarchy doesn't need to equate to chaos.
Primal Pleasure Daddy Doms and Pleasure Sadists are my submissive play vibes.
BDSM for me is a beautiful partnership between the mind and body. It's empowering, healing, sexy, fun and more! I am facinated by and enjoy the exploration of desires on physical and psychological levels and how these evolve over time. Mutually honest and open communication, curiosity, playfulness, non judgemental, self awareness, informed and consensual negotiations, earning trust and respect matters to me. If you have gotten this far and want to reach out, put 'Beautiful Blossom' in your subject line so I know you've read my bio.
woman who is looking for kinky like minded people to enjoy kinky times with…..
I love sucking cock and get a kick from seeing a man loving his cock down my throat love to gag n deep throat a cock ….. don’t want sex on the phone you want sexy times then have them with me not my phone can be very discreet
Heteroflexible CNC switch, sweet till I’m not. 😇😈
And I’m not because I want to see what you’ll do about it. 👋🍑🖤🔥
I adapt to energy.
Eye contact and confidence pull me in. Sensory and impact play keep my attention.
I melt for composure, patience that turns firm… and I enjoy pushing buttons and owning the consequences. 😝
I don’t belong to anyone but if you want to belong to me for a while, we can talk. 🔥
If you like being teased, challenged, or verbally handled with intention… we’ll get along just fine.
I know my limits and my kinks, and I’ll share them when the vibe is right.
😇😈🖤🔥🪢⛓️👑😏
If your gonna leave me halfway there’s an option not to hit me up x
if u ask me what I’m looking for I’ll be ***ed bc ITS ON MY PROFILE?
THATS about it 😛
Hewwooo 🧸🍰🍭🪀
It's nice to meet you. My nickname is Bambi as I keep my profile quite hidden.
I am a little who's lonely and looking for a caregiver and to be loved if possible.
I am not interested in any sexual dynamic so don't message me if that is you're intention.
I'm re exploring this after many years so I feel new to this again.
Sapiosexual, demisexual, and submissive baby girl iso sweet and rough *local* Daddy Dom. I’m 5’9, green eyes, blonde hair, plus sized, easy smile, frequent laugh. I’m absolutely insatiable w the right partner and live to satisfy his every whim. A man who’s good with his words will open the door to oh-so-much more with me. Romantic heart with a filthy mind. ***I require connection before and after play. This is non-negotiable***
I will only respond to U rated openers.
Can’t wait to meet you 🥰
Someone who thought knew what I liked, turns out I think there's a long list more. Im a mum of 3 so pretty good at multitasking but awful at keeping in touch. If you treat me well ill be your best friend! Ill chat to anyone as long as your not rude. Tattoos and motorbikes are a instant plus.
Overview: Curious, Cheeky, and learning to kneel - respectfully.
New to the scene, but not new to knowing what I enjoy: control, structure, and connection. I'm a natural sub in the right hands, and would probably be referred to as being rather bratty.
I have a busy home life (solo parent) and so realistically I’m looking for a consistent casual connection, with trust, communication, and boundaries, with meets a couple of times a month and lots of communication in between.
Having to be in charge in everyday life means I am happy to relinquish control when in safe hands. I’m eager to please, and learn, praise does wonders, call me your good girl and you’ll light me up in ways that will only add to your pleasure, I haven’t found someone I am comfortable with *** with. I am open to sensory deprivation, I enjoy breath play, I have never been bound but would be open to it again in the right hands.
I’m a lingerie lover, and also have a thing for wearing tights ☺️
Finally It’s important to note that I’m looking to find someone that can also make me laugh, and take care of me by communication when apart also, as that’s where the foreplay starts, aftercare is not optional. I am not looking for a ONS, I want to build something consistent with someone.
I'm an independent, successful, professional, firey red head. That doesn't change. Put your hand to my throat and I melt into that lovely little space and fall to my knees.
I'm looking for a relationship. I'm looking for that right fit. Mutual respect, trust, communication. from there, you can build anything you want.
As well as kink interests, I love to travel and going to the gym💪. I enjoy dining out with some wine, hiking, being active and spending time with those important to me.
Kink wise, I love to be restrained, in a multitude of ways, ***d and spanked. I love alot of the psychological aspects of BDSM. I have many interests and and open to others, which is all a fun discussion 😊
please have some photos on your profile, or if you're messaging me, attach some there. im also willing to share face photos
Curvy, Kinky, Red-head looking for a female Dominatrix to join me in using and abusing my slave of a husband!
I've been his sole Dominatrix for 5 years, but we would both love to bring another into the mix for a very intense session for him...
Also looking to build any connections with full swap couples who are interested in a more regular agreement, rather than one offs.
I AM IN ENM MARRIAGE. Primary kink is BabyGirl/Pillow Princess, in other RP I’ll be bottom but with clear boundaries set. I have a primary DD so there would be a few conditions in place regarding honoraries etc.
someone to can take care of me and treats me right I also have a thing for shoulders 🥰 you have to message first 😘
( I do have a face you just gotta match with me to see it )
want that Gomez and Mortisha kinda thing
✨ dad bod for the win ✨- I want someone who can scoop me up yfm
✨🗡️Princess in the streets slut in the sheets.🗡️✨
I'm here to explore my submissive side with someone who excites me, not only with their dominance but with the ability to hold an intelligent conversation. A sense of humour is also something that I enjoy.
I'd love to hear from you if you think this sounds like you and look forward to the fun we could have together.
It's been too long since I've heard those words, good girl, you've pleased Sir.
Into all things mystical and magical. I need a Dom to make sure I am making smart decisions and to challenge every now and then....I can't be perfect all the time!
Taking things slow and getting to know myself. I suppose my long term goal would be to meet someone I have a proper connection with, and trust implicitly, to enable me to fully submit. Not looking for a one night stand or some quick fun. Looking for something deeper and meaningful, after all, BDSM is more than just sex!
Looking ? No.. . Playful leggy (6ft1) , few years out of long term vanilla relationship and more than ready to explore my sub side for the first real time..
No conventional relationship desired.
Quite a penchant for the silver fox currently..
I certainly cum with my brain and not a clumsy fumble of body bumps and tweaks. .. Hope to get into your head before I get into your pants
i have a lot going on in my life so please be patient with me as i will be on and off a lot on here. especially if i take ages to respond to messages.
my profile is very basic for a reason. come get to know me and we can go from there.
i’m into exploring male chastity and cuckold (which I’ve never done) but not so much the sissy stuff. I am looking for a dominant guy, I am a switch but prefer to be a sub. I can dominate when needed too.
I’m not into hardcore BDSM so if thats your thing please don’t waste your time with me.
respect me and i’ll respect you.
NOT interested in meeting OR talking to MEN. Moved this to the top to help all the guys read this better, you’re welcome! Men who message without reading this will be subject to sarcasm and I’m not liable for emotional damages to your egos…. anyway!
I am not single, I am part of a couple. Together we’re looking to get to know, share pics and chat to about all things kinky with women and trans people.
Vanilla Alternative Club Member
I have been in and out of the kink lifestyle for a few years. I’m a switch, I love to be a sub for my partner, but I don’t mind switching things up occasionally and dominating my play partners… I love hearing those whimpers ;P
I love spanking, teasing, edging, praise, degredation, and making my play partner beg… amongst other things!
My partner and I love having kinky conversations, together and solo, but we are monogamous so no I won’t be cheating on my partner, and he won’t be cheating on me! We’re not into affairs or anything of that sort!
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