Find kinky women in Suffolk

If your looking for short-term then I'm afraid we don't match :) I am 5'3 Size 12-14 (no flat stomach, stretch marks! 😬) That's me! 🤗 If you are a sub (male or female) - I would love to make sub friends 🤗 Single mother Rock music I would rather have a conversation than put everything in here. 🤗 University student
Female (30) Dunwich, Suffolk
Assertive and submissive aren’t opposites to me, they’re balance. Strength and softness, side by side… like hot chocolate and marshmallows (or me sneaking the blanket and your last bit of Ben and Jerrys). . I’m confidentish, mostly intelligent, and very independent. I don’t hand over my trust or energy lightly. Independence is how I navigate the world; submission is how I feel safe, through clear structure, rules, and predictability. That structure lets me rest (and yes, I’ll test it occasionally, because a little mischief keeps life spicy). . If you lead with honesty, respect, and grounded presence, create safety not chaos, and can actually communicate effectively, without making me guess, I’ll submit. Not from weakness, but from trust. Submission is a choice, never a default, and definitely not something I hand out like Haribo. . I respond to clarity, not ambiguity. Purpose, consistency, and connection matter more than ego or power games (save the posturing). In D/s, power starts with me being equal to you, otherwise what am I actually surrendering? . I won’t shrink to make you feel bigger. But when I feel safe, I’ll soften completely and become your personal cheerleader, maybe with occasional jazz hands. . I don’t want to be controlled, I want to be led without losing myself. Bonus points if you can flirt back, laugh at my sarcasm, and maybe even keep up with my mischief. If you’re cheeky enough, I might even let you steal the ice cream. Sometimes. .
Female (47) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
I don't play with anyone under 30! I am in a poly D/s dynamic with Master Desire. Interested in casual but not disposible female Unicorns who want to play with us both. I can also play solo. I'm a NeuroQueer solo poly submissive and plus sized beauty. 100% certified obedient good slave girl princess with soft primal prey tendencies. Ethically bratty only in casual play encounters. Shibari practice both as bunny and rope Mistress has been my the***utic happy place for 3 years and I enjoy continuing to learn and expand skills in this area. My FemDom side has been described as affectionately sadistic, I enjoy the power of my divine femininity and being worshiped on the rare ocassions of me topping that way in casual play. Non Kink wise, I work in the Arts & Human Rights. I love to travel and spend time in nature, art galleries, museums, theatre, festivals, music gigs, cinema, restaurants, book shops. As submissive and slave, I abide by my paraphrased words from Mollena Williams - Haas' Prime Directive on the M/s dynamic for any D/s dynamic as well as her specific words on the M/s dynamic ** "It is the primary responsibility of the submissive or slave to protect the Master or Dominant's property at all times, up to and including protecting the property from the Master or Dominant" ** I'm enjoying and looking for meaningful connections who share similar kinktrests to see where we adventure on from there. Open to regular FWB, casual play partners both in short and long term. Relationship anarchy doesn't need to equate to chaos. Primal Pleasure Daddy Doms and Pleasure Sadists are my submissive play vibes. BDSM for me is a beautiful partnership between the mind and body. It's empowering, healing, sexy, fun and more! I am facinated by and enjoy the exploration of desires on physical and psychological levels and how these evolve over time. Mutually honest and open communication, curiosity, playfulness, non judgemental, self awareness, informed and consensual negotiations, earning trust and respect matters to me. If you have gotten this far and want to reach out, put 'Beautiful Blossom' in your subject line so I know you've read my bio.
Female (37) Ipswich, Suffolk
AWAY FOR A WEEK OR TWO ILL GET BACK TO MESSAGES SOON instagram @lilbambibat22 (all requests accepted and paid services available via insta as fet doesn’t allow ) Bambi trained 🌸 looking for friends, MMF situations/gang, maybe some kinda modelling, eventually a relationship if the right person comes along Maybe reenact my favourite dark romance book scenes 👉👈 so if grizzly bears are gonna eat me, why are they friend shaped??? hiiii i love everything whimsy and fun big fan of Tim burton movies, Disney, Adam Sandler, scooby doo, I like lots of horrors too I enjoy being out in nature, *** care, building Lego sets, crafts, *** hide tanning, bone collecting I got lots to ramble about Bdsm, dark romance, masked men, petplay,
Female (22) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
I’m not here to chase anyone. If you’ve found me, you’ve already done the hard part. I have a soft spot for confident people who understand respect, devotion, and earning attention rather than expecting it. Brat taming? No. Service? Absolutely. I enjoy dynamics where loyalty, patience and good behaviour are appreciated, and where admiration is shown through acts of service… 🏼 I love female-led dynamics. if you’re into ***, teasing, control, worship, and those who genuinely enjoy placing someone they admire on a pedestal. If the thought of kneeling at my feet and worshipping the ground I walk on makes you smile, we’ll probably get along just fine. Pansexual 🌈 Open-minded. Distance is never an obstacle for the right dynamic. Be memorable. I don’t reward mediocrity.
Female (29) Holton, Suffolk
I am Beatrix, I go by Goddess or Queen Bea. My attention is most definitely earned and certainly not given to everyone. I have a natural born brattiness and I am a F*n dom Queen, don’t like that - don’t message , although you will be missing out as I am new and generous. I’m here to meet genuine people who appreciate confidence, elegance and a consensual power exchange. I value loyalty, respect and those who understand that devotion is shown through actions, not empty words. I know my worth. I have little interest in chasing people—if our dynamic is right, it will develop naturally. Bring good manners, confidence and a sense of humour. We will get on if you like a dominant woman and if you like to worship feet and ensure you please your Queen 👑
Female (29) Holton, Suffolk
someone to can take care of me and treats me right I also have a thing for shoulders 🥰 you have to message first 😘 ( I do have a face you just gotta match with me to see it ) want that Gomez and Mortisha kinda thing ✨ dad bod for the win ✨- I want someone who can scoop me up yfm ✨🗡️Princess in the streets slut in the sheets.🗡️✨
Female (22) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
Elisa (Pronounced like Melissa but without the M) ENM. Looking for FWB, not just after ONS. Want to be friends too, films, hugs etc. Curvy female with a sense of humour that should be left in the gutter. Suit and tie is my weakness. Not interested in being your secret side piece, if your doing it behind your misses back no thanks. ?? I'm on the 'bigger built' side currently, however I am trying to lose some extra pounds. Please do not send the first message as a d**k pic. I would like to create a "connection" with the person first before meeting. Anyone fancy Truth or Dare? You get to ask me *5 Questions!*, no matter how crazy, inappropriate, or just random, and I promise to answer it 100% truthfully (that's the "truth" part) ....now I dare you to re-post this and see what people ask you. Give it a go its just fun.
Female (33) Trimley St Martin, Suffolk
I’m 19, from England. about it I guess. I think I’m looking for something genuine and real. something long term that won’t end until certain circumstances. If you definitely know your weird just don’t message at all lmao
Female (19) Ipswich, Suffolk
Before diving into the following…. I have a lot of bandwidth in use with life commitments and existing relationships/connections so at present I’m not seeking, if something comes along and I’m super in to it then we’ll see, it’s like a meat counter ticket system only no one’s behind the counter right now for the most part. *Identified Mostly Submissive Roles* Primal Prey Damsel in Distress Pillow Queen Pixie Pet Brat (Break-me) Power Bottom Pillow Queen Sensualist *Potential more Switch/Dominant Roles* Cougar/Temptress Domina GFD/Mommy Domme # *Creative with a passion for passion, ENM/CNM/Poly/Relationship Anarchist* Push X Pull Mental & Physical Intimacy Levels of Transcendence I like… the right voice & the right energy, I have great energy for the right people. Neurodivergent, OCD and perhaps undiagnosed Bi-Polar 2, Fibromyalgia, all managed pretty well. All considered in terms of Consent/Risk Mitigation/Negotiation. (In relation to trauma and Fibro ***/arthritis, pretty flexible yogi but some glitchy bits, that being said, I like a lot of things firm and we’re talking a different type of *** anyway) When I choose well, play sedates me and is almost medicinal for the above. I classify myself as Noetisexual, in that much of the attraction I feel comes from the way a person’s mind works. The attachments I have here some of the dearest to me, they’ve lead me through some dark times, broadened my mind and I believe I have broadened theirs. They are like a kind of family to me, with whom I have the deepest trust. With these connections, I become more myself, find my way back to my best parts in order to build them up again. I manage a lot in my day to day, so can be hard for me to keep up with those I intend to have socials with or date, I’m always on a quest to find the most suitable candidates for my polycule/play sphere but it needs to be both practical and engaging so may not always be responsive on here due to bandwidth, real needs and wants. # Writing not a joke memoir in disguise, Pillow Queen and the Army of Lovers, an erotic novella….
Female (45) Southwold, Suffolk
had an account before but won’t let me login! ltr ideally but also just wanting to explore my kinky side, need someone to come help me figure out my limits ;)
Female (20) Haughley, Suffolk
Curvy, Kinky, Red-head looking for a female Dominatrix to join me in using and abusing my slave of a husband! I've been his sole Dominatrix for 5 years, but we would both love to bring another into the mix for a very intense session for him... Also looking to build any connections with full swap couples who are interested in a more regular agreement, rather than one offs.
Female (31) Lowestoft, Suffolk
Bicurious Bunny Cuddle slut
Female (29) Newmarket, Suffolk
NOT interested in meeting OR talking to MEN. Moved this to the top to help all the guys read this better, you’re welcome! Men who message without reading this will be subject to sarcasm and I’m not liable for emotional damages to your egos…. anyway! I am not single, I am part of a couple. Together we’re looking to get to know, share pics and chat to about all things kinky with women and trans people. Vanilla Alternative Club Member I have been in and out of the kink lifestyle for a few years. I’m a switch, I love to be a sub for my partner, but I don’t mind switching things up occasionally and dominating my play partners… I love hearing those whimpers ;P I love spanking, teasing, edging, praise, degredation, and making my play partner beg… amongst other things! My partner and I love having kinky conversations, together and solo, but we are monogamous so no I won’t be cheating on my partner, and he won’t be cheating on me! We’re not into affairs or anything of that sort!
Female (26) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
Kinky in theory, inexperienced in practice:( Curvy girlie looking for some new friends, a partner, and/or some experience in the kink scene. Outside of reading like my life depends on it, I’m a foodie. I love trying new things (food and otherwise). *** lover, gamer, AuDHD. Non-smoker and social drinker. Happy to be casual, ideally would lead to something longer-term. Can’t host, but can travel. Not interested in ONS.
Female (28) Lowestoft, Suffolk
Sapiosexual, demisexual, and deeply submissive baby girl iso sweet and ••rough•• *local* Daddy Dom. I’m 5’9, green eyes, blonde hair, plus sized, easy smile, frequent laugh. I’m absolutely insatiable w the right partner and live to satisfy his every whim. ***I need connection before and after play. This is non-negotiable*** I will only respond to U rated openers. Excellent conversationalists only. Can’t wait to meet you 🥰
Female (43) Newmarket, Suffolk
im a switch who leans more towards being a sub. yes im a giant brat but thats okay as most people cant tame it, maybe someone can change that
Female (21) Thetford, Suffolk
Me and my daddy are looking for either a female switch or domme to come join us. We are a long distance dynamic and daddy wants to make sure I know my place
Female (21) Cornard Tye, Suffolk
Hopeless romantic with a love for lazy Sunday mornings, deep conversations, and finding magic in the everyday. Searching for someone special to make some memories with. maybe even some naughty ones 🤭
Female (33) Thetford, Suffolk

New members in Suffolk

If your looking for short-term then I'm afraid we don't match :) I am 5'3 Size 12-14 (no flat stomach, stretch marks! 😬) That's me! 🤗 If you are a sub (male or female) - I would love to make sub friends 🤗 Single mother Rock music I would rather have a conversation than put everything in here. 🤗 University student
Female (30) Dunwich, Suffolk
Assertive and submissive aren’t opposites to me, they’re balance. Strength and softness, side by side… like hot chocolate and marshmallows (or me sneaking the blanket and your last bit of Ben and Jerrys). . I’m confidentish, mostly intelligent, and very independent. I don’t hand over my trust or energy lightly. Independence is how I navigate the world; submission is how I feel safe, through clear structure, rules, and predictability. That structure lets me rest (and yes, I’ll test it occasionally, because a little mischief keeps life spicy). . If you lead with honesty, respect, and grounded presence, create safety not chaos, and can actually communicate effectively, without making me guess, I’ll submit. Not from weakness, but from trust. Submission is a choice, never a default, and definitely not something I hand out like Haribo. . I respond to clarity, not ambiguity. Purpose, consistency, and connection matter more than ego or power games (save the posturing). In D/s, power starts with me being equal to you, otherwise what am I actually surrendering? . I won’t shrink to make you feel bigger. But when I feel safe, I’ll soften completely and become your personal cheerleader, maybe with occasional jazz hands. . I don’t want to be controlled, I want to be led without losing myself. Bonus points if you can flirt back, laugh at my sarcasm, and maybe even keep up with my mischief. If you’re cheeky enough, I might even let you steal the ice cream. Sometimes. .
Female (47) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
I don't play with anyone under 30! I am in a poly D/s dynamic with Master Desire. Interested in casual but not disposible female Unicorns who want to play with us both. I can also play solo. I'm a NeuroQueer solo poly submissive and plus sized beauty. 100% certified obedient good slave girl princess with soft primal prey tendencies. Ethically bratty only in casual play encounters. Shibari practice both as bunny and rope Mistress has been my the***utic happy place for 3 years and I enjoy continuing to learn and expand skills in this area. My FemDom side has been described as affectionately sadistic, I enjoy the power of my divine femininity and being worshiped on the rare ocassions of me topping that way in casual play. Non Kink wise, I work in the Arts & Human Rights. I love to travel and spend time in nature, art galleries, museums, theatre, festivals, music gigs, cinema, restaurants, book shops. As submissive and slave, I abide by my paraphrased words from Mollena Williams - Haas' Prime Directive on the M/s dynamic for any D/s dynamic as well as her specific words on the M/s dynamic ** "It is the primary responsibility of the submissive or slave to protect the Master or Dominant's property at all times, up to and including protecting the property from the Master or Dominant" ** I'm enjoying and looking for meaningful connections who share similar kinktrests to see where we adventure on from there. Open to regular FWB, casual play partners both in short and long term. Relationship anarchy doesn't need to equate to chaos. Primal Pleasure Daddy Doms and Pleasure Sadists are my submissive play vibes. BDSM for me is a beautiful partnership between the mind and body. It's empowering, healing, sexy, fun and more! I am facinated by and enjoy the exploration of desires on physical and psychological levels and how these evolve over time. Mutually honest and open communication, curiosity, playfulness, non judgemental, self awareness, informed and consensual negotiations, earning trust and respect matters to me. If you have gotten this far and want to reach out, put 'Beautiful Blossom' in your subject line so I know you've read my bio.
Female (37) Ipswich, Suffolk
AWAY FOR A WEEK OR TWO ILL GET BACK TO MESSAGES SOON instagram @lilbambibat22 (all requests accepted and paid services available via insta as fet doesn’t allow ) Bambi trained 🌸 looking for friends, MMF situations/gang, maybe some kinda modelling, eventually a relationship if the right person comes along Maybe reenact my favourite dark romance book scenes 👉👈 so if grizzly bears are gonna eat me, why are they friend shaped??? hiiii i love everything whimsy and fun big fan of Tim burton movies, Disney, Adam Sandler, scooby doo, I like lots of horrors too I enjoy being out in nature, *** care, building Lego sets, crafts, *** hide tanning, bone collecting I got lots to ramble about Bdsm, dark romance, masked men, petplay,
Female (22) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
I’m not here to chase anyone. If you’ve found me, you’ve already done the hard part. I have a soft spot for confident people who understand respect, devotion, and earning attention rather than expecting it. Brat taming? No. Service? Absolutely. I enjoy dynamics where loyalty, patience and good behaviour are appreciated, and where admiration is shown through acts of service… 🏼 I love female-led dynamics. if you’re into ***, teasing, control, worship, and those who genuinely enjoy placing someone they admire on a pedestal. If the thought of kneeling at my feet and worshipping the ground I walk on makes you smile, we’ll probably get along just fine. Pansexual 🌈 Open-minded. Distance is never an obstacle for the right dynamic. Be memorable. I don’t reward mediocrity.
Female (29) Holton, Suffolk
Kinky in theory, inexperienced in practice:( Curvy girlie looking for some new friends, a partner, and/or some experience in the kink scene. Outside of reading like my life depends on it, I’m a foodie. I love trying new things (food and otherwise). *** lover, gamer, AuDHD. Non-smoker and social drinker. Happy to be casual, ideally would lead to something longer-term. Can’t host, but can travel. Not interested in ONS.
Female (28) Lowestoft, Suffolk
I am Beatrix, I go by Goddess or Queen Bea. My attention is most definitely earned and certainly not given to everyone. I have a natural born brattiness and I am a F*n dom Queen, don’t like that - don’t message , although you will be missing out as I am new and generous. I’m here to meet genuine people who appreciate confidence, elegance and a consensual power exchange. I value loyalty, respect and those who understand that devotion is shown through actions, not empty words. I know my worth. I have little interest in chasing people—if our dynamic is right, it will develop naturally. Bring good manners, confidence and a sense of humour. We will get on if you like a dominant woman and if you like to worship feet and ensure you please your Queen 👑
Female (29) Holton, Suffolk
Elisa (Pronounced like Melissa but without the M) ENM. Looking for FWB, not just after ONS. Want to be friends too, films, hugs etc. Curvy female with a sense of humour that should be left in the gutter. Suit and tie is my weakness. Not interested in being your secret side piece, if your doing it behind your misses back no thanks. ?? I'm on the 'bigger built' side currently, however I am trying to lose some extra pounds. Please do not send the first message as a d**k pic. I would like to create a "connection" with the person first before meeting. Anyone fancy Truth or Dare? You get to ask me *5 Questions!*, no matter how crazy, inappropriate, or just random, and I promise to answer it 100% truthfully (that's the "truth" part) ....now I dare you to re-post this and see what people ask you. Give it a go its just fun.
Female (33) Trimley St Martin, Suffolk
had an account before but won’t let me login! ltr ideally but also just wanting to explore my kinky side, need someone to come help me figure out my limits ;)
Female (20) Haughley, Suffolk
Bicurious Bunny Cuddle slut
Female (29) Newmarket, Suffolk
I’m 19, from England. about it I guess. I think I’m looking for something genuine and real. something long term that won’t end until certain circumstances. If you definitely know your weird just don’t message at all lmao
Female (19) Ipswich, Suffolk
Sapiosexual, demisexual, and deeply submissive baby girl iso sweet and ••rough•• *local* Daddy Dom. I’m 5’9, green eyes, blonde hair, plus sized, easy smile, frequent laugh. I’m absolutely insatiable w the right partner and live to satisfy his every whim. ***I need connection before and after play. This is non-negotiable*** I will only respond to U rated openers. Excellent conversationalists only. Can’t wait to meet you 🥰
Female (43) Newmarket, Suffolk
Hopeless romantic with a love for lazy Sunday mornings, deep conversations, and finding magic in the everyday. Searching for someone special to make some memories with. maybe even some naughty ones 🤭
Female (33) Thetford, Suffolk
Curvy, Kinky, Red-head looking for a female Dominatrix to join me in using and abusing my slave of a husband! I've been his sole Dominatrix for 5 years, but we would both love to bring another into the mix for a very intense session for him... Also looking to build any connections with full swap couples who are interested in a more regular agreement, rather than one offs.
Female (31) Lowestoft, Suffolk
im a switch who leans more towards being a sub. yes im a giant brat but thats okay as most people cant tame it, maybe someone can change that
Female (21) Thetford, Suffolk
someone to can take care of me and treats me right I also have a thing for shoulders 🥰 you have to message first 😘 ( I do have a face you just gotta match with me to see it ) want that Gomez and Mortisha kinda thing ✨ dad bod for the win ✨- I want someone who can scoop me up yfm ✨🗡️Princess in the streets slut in the sheets.🗡️✨
Female (22) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
NOT interested in meeting OR talking to MEN. Moved this to the top to help all the guys read this better, you’re welcome! Men who message without reading this will be subject to sarcasm and I’m not liable for emotional damages to your egos…. anyway! I am not single, I am part of a couple. Together we’re looking to get to know, share pics and chat to about all things kinky with women and trans people. Vanilla Alternative Club Member I have been in and out of the kink lifestyle for a few years. I’m a switch, I love to be a sub for my partner, but I don’t mind switching things up occasionally and dominating my play partners… I love hearing those whimpers ;P I love spanking, teasing, edging, praise, degredation, and making my play partner beg… amongst other things! My partner and I love having kinky conversations, together and solo, but we are monogamous so no I won’t be cheating on my partner, and he won’t be cheating on me! We’re not into affairs or anything of that sort!
Female (26) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
Me and my daddy are looking for either a female switch or domme to come join us. We are a long distance dynamic and daddy wants to make sure I know my place
Female (21) Cornard Tye, Suffolk
Before diving into the following…. I have a lot of bandwidth in use with life commitments and existing relationships/connections so at present I’m not seeking, if something comes along and I’m super in to it then we’ll see, it’s like a meat counter ticket system only no one’s behind the counter right now for the most part. *Identified Mostly Submissive Roles* Primal Prey Damsel in Distress Pillow Queen Pixie Pet Brat (Break-me) Power Bottom Pillow Queen Sensualist *Potential more Switch/Dominant Roles* Cougar/Temptress Domina GFD/Mommy Domme # *Creative with a passion for passion, ENM/CNM/Poly/Relationship Anarchist* Push X Pull Mental & Physical Intimacy Levels of Transcendence I like… the right voice & the right energy, I have great energy for the right people. Neurodivergent, OCD and perhaps undiagnosed Bi-Polar 2, Fibromyalgia, all managed pretty well. All considered in terms of Consent/Risk Mitigation/Negotiation. (In relation to trauma and Fibro ***/arthritis, pretty flexible yogi but some glitchy bits, that being said, I like a lot of things firm and we’re talking a different type of *** anyway) When I choose well, play sedates me and is almost medicinal for the above. I classify myself as Noetisexual, in that much of the attraction I feel comes from the way a person’s mind works. The attachments I have here some of the dearest to me, they’ve lead me through some dark times, broadened my mind and I believe I have broadened theirs. They are like a kind of family to me, with whom I have the deepest trust. With these connections, I become more myself, find my way back to my best parts in order to build them up again. I manage a lot in my day to day, so can be hard for me to keep up with those I intend to have socials with or date, I’m always on a quest to find the most suitable candidates for my polycule/play sphere but it needs to be both practical and engaging so may not always be responsive on here due to bandwidth, real needs and wants. # Writing not a joke memoir in disguise, Pillow Queen and the Army of Lovers, an erotic novella….
Female (45) Southwold, Suffolk

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