BDSM Dating in Thames Ditton

Looking to meet singles or couples to party and play with NSA. Up for swap, kinky play, or just a great fuck.

If you're up for fun, laughs, sexy times and nothing serious let us know!

Can't wait to hear from you xxx

I wish to be used by a Dominant lady
I enjoy dominant females.

Looking for a beautiful cheeky , funny women who would love to have some fun time with me online and of course have a great time and chat and see how we connect .

Anyone want to take my v card lowkey kinda sick of it

Open minded fun, funny, wild

Looking to get to know a couple scene and hopefully an FTM

Looking for a Female or a male...or a couple to have fun tonight with me and my friend (female) in Kingston!!!

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Blonde woman in lingerie

I am subservient well trained slave looking for a new owner male or female I don't care I do as I'm told I take my punishment if I'm bad need NEED NEW OWNER

Hi, I am looking for my loyal devote supporter slave.
Be and do and I told you to.
I am your ALL.

I am a few words Goddess
Chat with me.

I am not reading essays.

I'm a switch, mainly leaning towards sub. Text me to ask more

Just a lost sould in a big world. Looking for a long term relationship after a series of bad breakups. I know it sounds like an episode of skins, but that just my life. All I ask for is mutual love and respect and someone who is not afraid of the truth, giving it or receiving. I can be kinky but romance is my number 1 priority currently.

Only the best men are ready to submit. Strong, mature, and masculine men can admit their inner softness and surrender under the power of a confident woman.

Are you a submissive man who needs structure, comfort, and discipline?
Do you want a woman who sees your weakness, your guilt, your craving to be corrected — and takes control of it?
Can you be and still be in deep contact with your woman?
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I value depth, presence, trust and intentional connection. Not interested in surface-level play or fantasy-only dynamics.
For me, D/s is an emotional practice: clarity, honesty, and willingness to grow.
You'll feel my control in your body, in your mind, in the way you start structuring your day around pleasing me. That's not discipline — that's devotion.

I'm not looking for a boy to play with — I'm looking for a man who knows the joy of serving a woman, not because he is weak, but because he is strong and aware.
I love order, attention to detail, a taste for rituals, and the ability to anticipate without words.
If the word “service” sounds like art to you — maybe we should talk.
Daily rituals, rules, and obedience tasks
Loving correction when you fall short
A safe space to be … and owned.

I'm a Counsellor. I understand power dynamics deeply, both professionally and personally. In my private life, I'm looking for one man for a long-term D/s relationship.

Message me if you’re ready to give up control and be moulded into the good boy I know you want to be.

If this resonates, write to me. I'd like to know:
– Who you are (not just what you do)
– Where you live and what your life looks like
– What pulls you toward submission
– What you're looking for in a D/s relationship
– How you imagine serving, and what you hope to receive in return

If you're that man, don't wait. Thoughtful answers matter more than fast ones.
I choose carefully — but when I choose, I commit deeply.

I’m looking for a girl who has cute feet who will let me spoil them and adore them

I don’t chase I collar.
If you’re cute, obedient, and slightly unhinged, we’ll get along fine.
I’ll kiss your forehead, then redden your cheeks.
Soft voice, strict rules.
Drop me a like and let’s talk

Looking for someone who can sound me til I squirt everywhere

I'm looking for kinky experiences with females or couples... ideally a sub, but happy to see how it goes as I can switch if the circumstances are right too.

I like to chat and get together socially at first where possible, as mental connection and attraction is even more important than a physical one. I’m both sapiosexual and noetisexual.

Looking for a good time some good fun. My tongue is 😍. I’m into a lot of things I’d like to explore.

Fingers smooth like lace,
Placed in between her space,
Her lips glazed with her nectar
Taste like cloves and honey,
Laced with her amazing grace,
Not a single drop goes to waste.

Humans are creatures of comfort and familiarity.
I see you. The married woman browsing this app, dreaming of what could have been. The younger woman desperately seeking acceptance and acknowledgment in an ever growing world of options. The lonely woman pretending to be content living alone and having meaningless flings to fill the void.
Each story is different but tragically the same.
You lack the willpower to leave your narcissistic partner. You lack the courage to begin a journey if the path isn't already known. Day and night, you dream of the perfect partner, a Dominant that fits all of your criteria, to swoop in and rescue you from monotony.
Be honest with yourself. If happiness requires sacrifice, are you willing to take the step? Trust your instinct. Your heart knows what you want.
You just need to have faith in it. You are the reason you are searching. You are the reason you are lonely. You allow distance to hinder your happiness, yet planes exist. You allow your beliefs to cement your feet, yet don't take the time to understand another's.

A BDSM, D/s, DDIg, M/s dynamic is substantially more difficult than a vanilla relationship. Why make it more difficult with excuses. Trusting another enough to be completely *** is one of the most difficult things you can do.
Women/woman/girls, let your heart escape mediocrity. You only have a brief moment of existence on this ball of earth and water. Will you look back and smile at the life you had because you took a chance at happiness?