BDSM Dating in Birmingham

Shy guy looking to broaden his sexual desires, just as I think I know what I want. Need, desire ... it changes.
I’d like to meet guys like me looking to explore, have fun, make friends, not interested in any professionals so If your going to ask me for *** I’d rather you didn’t bother, I’m shy not stupid.
Would love to meet someone who is also into boots, heels and leather, either wearing or seeing someone dressed in