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I have a Daddy, just looking for friends & other family poly dynamics mainly an ABDL little but also into other stuff likeee BDSM, gangbangs & petplay;3 looking for subs rn
Female (25) Birmingham, West Midlands
I'm looking for fun, I want to try new things, push my boundaries and have great sex Discretion is paramount. Interested in new experiences with someone who knows what they want and it aligns with me.
Female (27) Birmingham, West Midlands
**Online play only*** Enjoy role play chat about Anal, Threesomes, Servitude, Dress up, Denial, light degrading, Modifiction, female cuck, cuckquean love to be compared to your partner and degraded. Pretty open minded
Female (43) Birmingham, West Midlands
Im back ....... well, kinda So what do i need fun πŸ’‹ or sugar daddy 😊 or both πŸ₯° All you need is me. Your wants and desires, im here for all of your needs. Definitely want to try new things .... So convince me ?
Female (29) Birmingham, West Midlands
I am an openminded women looking to have some fun and meet some new people...preferences are men but open to couples. I am 5ft 4inch size 8 dress with 34 c cup. Up for dates and seeing where things go. I do not charge for sex, but if we are going to a club or venue, you will be expected to pick up the costs.
Female (54) Birmingham, West Midlands
big lover of dogs, pubs and nerdy shit. not as aggressive as I seem. looking for dates/friends outside of my current relationship/dynamic. stop groveling in my inbox, you won't be indulged.
Female (28) Birmingham, West Midlands
Honestly, here because I was on the website and the pop ups kept ***ing me off. Sticking around for the potential opportunities and education. Not interested in being penetrated or dominated by men. Switchy but mostly interested in finding a sub.
Female (34) Birmingham, West Midlands
she/they 25 year old domme looking for a FLR with a sub. This domme gets off on the kinks of others, so would be best if you have some idea of what you like, however I am a person so speak to me like one. Meaning… Banned intros: -I’d love to try being with a domme -immediately telling me all your kinks and limits Bisexual looking guys to the front of the line. Gender benders to the front of the line (outside the bedroom as well as inside) Gym bros to the back of the line. being secure in your sub side is a YES from me, I’m not anyone’s dirty secret
Female (25) Birmingham, West Midlands
I am strong-willed and independent, with a clear sense of self-worth so do not have time for jokers who are only on here for chat. Are you ready for me to take charge and make you totally submit to me?
Female (43) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hi there, I'm one of the greeters here, I form part of the Community Team and am available for all your site/app related questions. **Please note I am not looking for kinky play, and I will only respond to messages relating to a genuine question about the site/app.** **ich spreche kein Deutsch** xxx
Female (38) Birmingham, West Midlands
I am exhibitionist with love for pinch of *** ,not looking to be submissive to Master , Dom or Switch. Looking to explore what I believe would like or imagine I would like in a safe environment. Just facts that I learn recently about myself ... I am monogamous and would look for the same ... No lies , no hiding , no withholding any emotion ....It’s hard for me to submit out of play ... is not natural for me ... in a play I would if I would like to please the person , pleasing myself at the same time . I would respect and would expect to be respected . The ideal would be to find someone who would dominate me in a play , but would be my friend , partner and mate when not in a scene .
Female (39) Birmingham, West Midlands
hey, I hope you're having a wonderful day!! thought I'd start over again with my profile bio I'm still very inexperienced with BDSM, I am a submissive/brat I'm not wanting just fun. I am looking for a potential genuine dom, and hopefully, it'll turn into a safe dynamic, I am doing my own research if you expect me to fall at my knees for you without us even having some genuine conversations, then you will be blocked it's as simple as that πŸ™‚ I am a person first and want to be treated with respect and try earning my trust first before assuming I'm going to want to do anything if you would like to chat, then pop me a message speak soon == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Submissive 95% Rope bunny 90% Brat 84% Slave 72% Primal (Prey) 71% Masochist 68% Experimentalist 46% Vanilla 36% Voyeur 33% Non-monogamist 31% Degradee 18% Pet 7% Switch 5% Exhibitionist 0% Ageplayer 0% Boy/Girl
Female (33) Birmingham, West Midlands
β­οΈβš“οΈ Goddess Kira Secura βš“οΈβ­οΈ Here to lurk for munches, events and conventions (in Europe, mostly - travel to USA it is too dangerous). Networking with other Dommes, kinky women and erotic artists. My Domination style is playful, devious. Enjoy bit of roleplay sprinkled in, and material / clothing kinks (to wear and to make/watch others wear). ❀️ Some of my other interests that spark joy are Sci-fi, video games, cosplay, maritime history, absurd humor. College hogs up my time. βš“οΈ
Female (35) Birmingham, West Midlands
I am quite a fun and bubbly person. I'm highly communicative, and I expect the same from my potential partner. I use sarcasm a lot, so if you struggle with that, we might not get along so well, sorry! I enjoy a good night out, but I also love staying home and having a nice and cosy movie night in. I love walks and nature, so that's highly important. I prefer for my partner to also be quite mature in nature, as that's the way I am and will always be. I'm quite the classy lady, so please treat me like one, oh and for that, you'll enjoy my style of clothing!😊
Female (18) Birmingham, West Midlands
I am a Dominant young woman who is looking for a sub. I am looking for someone who is near close to my age, who has little to none experience. Oh and I am also a virgin. **Desires and Fantasies** I would like to dominate someone, I also would not mind pegging and role playing.
Female (25) Birmingham, West Midlands
hey there :) yes I get a lot of messages and I have no clue what I’m looking for, hence why I’m here ? I’m a bratty little sub who’s been on the scene for two years and been in two dynamics. Feel free to drop me a message and we can see what happens
Female (20) Birmingham, West Midlands
West Mids, UNITED KINGDOM based. NOT interested in anyone outside the UK. Polyamorous & NOT a unicorn. ME: Tattooed & pierced (not there, perves) mum of 2. Plus size/fat/chunky monkey, non smoker & 5' 2" last time I checked. Neurospicy, and often weird &/or awkward. Masochistic s-type with a Primal streak, with sometimes bratty & little/middle tendencies. Can be sadistic & somewhat switchy with women ONLY (but that's mainly unexplored territory). Polyamorous/RA. In a long term relationship; dating separately; open to playing as a couple. Open to: WOMEN - Polyamorous, Primal/ masochistic/ sadistic/ switchy with a preference for curvy/plus size, tattooed and/or have long hair (but not essential). MEN - Polyamorous, Primal/ sadistic/ Dominant, chunky, bearded and/or tattooed a definite bonus (but not essential). Couples - ONLY if it's to discuss a connection with both myself AND my partner (not on here). I tend to get along best with alt/neurospicy/weird people, but that’s not a hard and fast rule. Demi/Sapio/Bi-sexual. That means I'll need to take my time to get to know you. I have arthritis: I find some things difficult, but I'm stubborn & refuse to completely give in to it. Dark sense of humour. Memes are one of my love languages. β˜† Vanilla Likes/Interests: Wicked (the show and film). Action/thriller/comedy movies. Twinkly lights. Afternoon Tea. Heavy metal/rock music. Disney. History. Writing. Documentaries. Theatre. Rugby (the game). Harry Potter (NOT the author ☒️) Always open to new *genuine* friends (not those who want to be 'friends' solely with the goal of 'more'). Pass Go & collect Β£200 (Yes, I'm kidding!) if you can offer: β€’ Excellent communication β€’ Emotional intelligence β€’ KT/Non Hierarchical polyamory β€’ UK - Not too far away
Female (44) Birmingham, West Midlands
* Please note: I’m not looking for a master or a dom.* if you message telling me your a new master or looking for a new sub don’t expect a reply. If you can’t take the time to read my profile don’t expect me to take the time to reply to you. You will not restrain me or tell me what to do. Most importantly of all, i call the shots. Getting to know someone on a level i find is very important and most importantly… safe. I feel it’s important for people to click, get to know each other, understand each other and be aware of one anothers safe limitations as well as outlining aftercare because i feel mental health is very important BUT underestimated at times when it comes to kink.
Female (36) Birmingham, West Midlands
Plus size redhead Domme, looking to meet someone for some more casual fun but regular meet-ups, open to more if the connection is right, friendships or events. vanilla me is studying to become a gemmologist, love being in the countryside, Italian and Thai food, skiing, swimming and I’m a bit of a gamer. general kinks because I’m tired of being asked: Impact play, CBT, chastity, edging, orgasm denial, ruined orgasms, post orgasm ***, pegging, anal play, rimming, restraints, ***, ***, cuckolding, gagging, blindfolding, sensory deprivation, public ***, public play, free use, obviously I like to be worshipped, rough sex, but also gentle femdom as well. It can be varied it depends on my mood but adapt based on my subs limits.
Female (29) Birmingham, West Midlands
Happy go lucky, Neurospicy, ray of sunshine. Brown and round like a cookie.. so if that's not your thing ✌ New to this, I prefer people who are caring, dominant, kind, and affectionate. I'm big on humility, principles, and humanity, and I love a man that actually gives a f.. passion is key. Love deep convos about the world and conspiracies. I have many passions in life such as food, art, ***ting and drawing, Ps4, travelling, tarot, and spirituality, Cars (Muscle cars 😍✊🏽 but partial to jap cars too haha!)β™‘ Open-minded, but not into trans folks or bi men. Not into ONS or flings- I prefer meaningful connections and mental stimulation.
Female (29) Birmingham, West Midlands
I’m probably playing a game or smoking if I don’t Reply 🀣. I’m shy but I just like going with the vibes A size 18-20 so a big girlπŸ’• 5,8πŸŽ€ SubmissiveπŸŽ€ BratπŸŽ€ PupπŸŽ€ 🌚Switch/Subleaning🌝 more then likely no. I don’t wanna dom you.
Female (20) Birmingham, West Midlands
inactive for a bit, sorry yall inexperienced sub here. want to explore d/s dynamics and non-sexual age regression. also neurodivergent - patience is appreciated
Female (20) Birmingham, West Midlands
Curious about the world of Kink, I'm open minded and like to discover and learn what pleasures are out there waiting to be found. EDIT: I'm currently in a new relationship so not seeking. Though be nice to make Friendships with like minded people, to chat too, perhaps go to events and munches. I don't really fit into any one ideal in the kink world, I guess I'm a switch if I had to label myself. I love to try most things so I'm enjoying exploring at the moment. I know I enjoy watching and observing so I guess that's my voyeur side. I like seeing men tied up, spanked, gagged, pegged and dominated, this is my kink. Along with a bit of a hairy belly fetish. I'm quite a dominant woman, who enjoys inflicting ***. ;) Intelligence and a nice bottom really turn me on. *** **UPDATE** I must stress I am not a domme although i do have dominant traits. I'm not looking for a sub so please don't message me asking me to be your mistress. I respect honesty and don't like game players, I value people who don't take themselves too seriously, who are genuine and can laugh at themselves. I'm a curvy lady so if big boobies bums and wobbly bits arnt on your radar, then please move on :) Looking for fun friendly people to chat too. HARD LIMITS: ***s *** Vomit
Female (47) Birmingham, West Midlands
heyyyy I’m just here, trying something new, so I’m mostly looking for someone how doesn’t mind inexperienced women & is fine with me wanting to explore regarding our roles.
Female (21) Birmingham, West Midlands

New members in Birmingham

I am an openminded women looking to have some fun and meet some new people...preferences are men but open to couples. I am 5ft 4inch size 8 dress with 34 c cup. Up for dates and seeing where things go. I do not charge for sex, but if we are going to a club or venue, you will be expected to pick up the costs.
Female (54) Birmingham, West Midlands
I'm looking for fun, I want to try new things, push my boundaries and have great sex Discretion is paramount. Interested in new experiences with someone who knows what they want and it aligns with me.
Female (27) Birmingham, West Midlands
**Online play only*** Enjoy role play chat about Anal, Threesomes, Servitude, Dress up, Denial, light degrading, Modifiction, female cuck, cuckquean love to be compared to your partner and degraded. Pretty open minded
Female (43) Birmingham, West Midlands
I am strong-willed and independent, with a clear sense of self-worth so do not have time for jokers who are only on here for chat. Are you ready for me to take charge and make you totally submit to me?
Female (43) Birmingham, West Midlands
Im back ....... well, kinda So what do i need fun πŸ’‹ or sugar daddy 😊 or both πŸ₯° All you need is me. Your wants and desires, im here for all of your needs. Definitely want to try new things .... So convince me ?
Female (29) Birmingham, West Midlands
big lover of dogs, pubs and nerdy shit. not as aggressive as I seem. looking for dates/friends outside of my current relationship/dynamic. stop groveling in my inbox, you won't be indulged.
Female (28) Birmingham, West Midlands
Honestly, here because I was on the website and the pop ups kept ***ing me off. Sticking around for the potential opportunities and education. Not interested in being penetrated or dominated by men. Switchy but mostly interested in finding a sub.
Female (34) Birmingham, West Midlands
I have a Daddy, just looking for friends & other family poly dynamics mainly an ABDL little but also into other stuff likeee BDSM, gangbangs & petplay;3 looking for subs rn
Female (25) Birmingham, West Midlands
she/they 25 year old domme looking for a FLR with a sub. This domme gets off on the kinks of others, so would be best if you have some idea of what you like, however I am a person so speak to me like one. Meaning… Banned intros: -I’d love to try being with a domme -immediately telling me all your kinks and limits Bisexual looking guys to the front of the line. Gender benders to the front of the line (outside the bedroom as well as inside) Gym bros to the back of the line. being secure in your sub side is a YES from me, I’m not anyone’s dirty secret
Female (25) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hi there, I'm one of the greeters here, I form part of the Community Team and am available for all your site/app related questions. **Please note I am not looking for kinky play, and I will only respond to messages relating to a genuine question about the site/app.** **ich spreche kein Deutsch** xxx
Female (38) Birmingham, West Midlands
I am quite a fun and bubbly person. I'm highly communicative, and I expect the same from my potential partner. I use sarcasm a lot, so if you struggle with that, we might not get along so well, sorry! I enjoy a good night out, but I also love staying home and having a nice and cosy movie night in. I love walks and nature, so that's highly important. I prefer for my partner to also be quite mature in nature, as that's the way I am and will always be. I'm quite the classy lady, so please treat me like one, oh and for that, you'll enjoy my style of clothing!😊
Female (18) Birmingham, West Midlands
33 BBW (fat bitch, not thicc, don't get it twisted) Bisexual New to this app and looking to chat and have fun online and maybe meet in person if we click. I love big women and big dick. I'm a gamer and a stoner. I'm very submissive and constantly needy. love being edged, stretched, and teased. I love feeling used and worthless. Have masochistic tendencies. Breed me. Use me as a fat human fleshlight whilst you watch porn. Train my holes and throat. 🐽
Female (33) Birmingham, West Midlands
heyyyy I’m just here, trying something new, so I’m mostly looking for someone how doesn’t mind inexperienced women & is fine with me wanting to explore regarding our roles.
Female (21) Birmingham, West Midlands
inactive for a bit, sorry yall inexperienced sub here. want to explore d/s dynamics and non-sexual age regression. also neurodivergent - patience is appreciated
Female (20) Birmingham, West Midlands
I’m probably playing a game or smoking if I don’t Reply 🀣. I’m shy but I just like going with the vibes A size 18-20 so a big girlπŸ’• 5,8πŸŽ€ SubmissiveπŸŽ€ BratπŸŽ€ PupπŸŽ€ 🌚Switch/Subleaning🌝 more then likely no. I don’t wanna dom you.
Female (20) Birmingham, West Midlands
Bi (with strong demi tendencies), poly, nerd, ADHD, ESTJ, sadomasochist, switch, exhibitionist. Lover of interesting dates with like minded folk, both kinky and not. Fan of questions. Hater of smalltalk.
Female (37) Birmingham, West Midlands
I um I’m kinda new to all this but wanted to put myself out there a bit so yeah, if I get praised I will most likely love you forever πŸ₯Ί
Female (19) Birmingham, West Midlands
looking for women to play with and my man to watch us 😩 I can play both roles just let me know what u want me to do to you, and for u to do things for me in exchange
Female (19) Birmingham, West Midlands
I’m not at all experienced with BDSM and would like to meet people who have are experienced to teach me more.
Female (19) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hi I’m chaos nice to meet you NOT INTERESTED IN MALES, COUPLES OR AMYONE WITH A PENIS SO DO NOT DM TRYING TO DATE OR FUCK ME
Female (21) Birmingham, West Midlands
❗physically too many messages to reply to all, apologies if I don't get back to you it's because unfortunately, I don't think we'd be a good connection??‍♀️ any rude of overtly sexual messages straight off the bat will be ignored❗ Part of an M/F Bisexual Polyamorous couple (mouthful, I know) Both on here, we're opening up more and would like to have more experiences like the ones we've been having recently. Be that together or apart! I'm pretty nerdy, so is he, I'm more an arty, coffee and book nerd but be warned I'm a coffee snob from working as a barista for 8 years? Love music, mostly rock/alternative but love a bit of the 80s and musical theatre. I tend to go more for women than men at the moment for solo experiences, but definitely not closed to men! However, I'm sure we can agree that women are just?✨ I'm submissive for the most part although have been exploring a more dominant side of myself which I find easier with women! I am not delicate so don't treat me as such, think of that scene from Brooklyn 99 with Pimento listing his limits... that's me without the a.ok to being stabbed??
Female (28) Birmingham, West Midlands
✨Aftercare, check ins & compassion✨ Aftercare is essential, not a bargaining chip or negotiating tool, to be used to secure your kink fantasies become reality. Spending time with me is like adopting a feral bratt raccoon. Attempt to keep me entertained, but not overly stimulated. Showing you care, without being overbearing or smothering. Giving me space, while knowing I probably just need a hug or a snack… alternatively holding my chin, looking into my eyes & saying what will happen, if I don’t settle down.. that’ll do it. ✨Let’s start with a none thirsty chat, to see if our kinks & interests mesh✨ Genuine question: β€œcaregiving/pleasure soft doms a myth?” I’ve only ever witnessed (#notall) those who love bomb & self serving. or on the flip side, they’re *** & unaware, they’re a service sub, with strong attachment styles, a deep need & desire to earn your affection and please you.
Female (32) Birmingham, West Midlands
Happy go lucky, Neurospicy, ray of sunshine. Brown and round like a cookie.. so if that's not your thing ✌ New to this, I prefer people who are caring, dominant, kind, and affectionate. I'm big on humility, principles, and humanity, and I love a man that actually gives a f.. passion is key. Love deep convos about the world and conspiracies. I have many passions in life such as food, art, ***ting and drawing, Ps4, travelling, tarot, and spirituality, Cars (Muscle cars 😍✊🏽 but partial to jap cars too haha!)β™‘ Open-minded, but not into trans folks or bi men. Not into ONS or flings- I prefer meaningful connections and mental stimulation.
Female (29) Birmingham, West Midlands
single sub 9 years experience as owned slave (unowned now) lingerie and latex addiction bondage/bdsm ⛓️ curvy love butt stuff bi curious in bedroom Fantasies- ffm, mmf, free use, kink clubs Not sure what I’m looking for but happy to see where anything goes. not looking to be owned. B
Female (30) Birmingham, West Midlands

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