DO NOT push your fantasies on to me - start a conversation, don't impose yourself. If your fetish is "an older woman who can teach me a thing or two" then please jog on. I can teach you nothing, other than how to do a tax return and make an acceptable pasta sauce with a perfectly ordinary any vegetable. I enjoy: Soft impact, bondage, rope, rules and instruction, kitty play, events, munches and being social. Innterested in: Friends, play partners and long term loving relationships. Not interested in... married people who's partners don't know they're here. Happy to talk to: Curious people who listen more than they talk, and ask good questions. I'd like to meet Dominant types with kindness, patience and understanding, as well as a wicked streak. Those with enough maturity to know how to treat people with respect and have a normal conversation Be prepared to do the groundwork of a healthy human interaction. Folks with lots of real experience of good practice in kink - negotiation, consent, boundaries and safety. Not looking for ONS, FWB, NSA, pic exchange, long distance or kinky chat. I am not Dominant and have no interest in being. I'm not necessarily looking for a sexual relationship, although with the right person it could go there. I'm not interested in teaching a beginner or "topping from the bottom". Please don't. Just don't. Of course, you can do anything you like. But the following things are likely to get you a "hide and no thanks." Please don't tell me you "love older women". I don't enjoy my age being fetishised. Do not ask for my submission, ask sexual questions or send explicit messages if I've not consented to this. I will not knowingly get involved with anyone who is cheating on a partner. Please don't ask me to.

DO NOT push your fantasies on to me - start a conversation, don't impose yourself. If your fetish is "an older woman who can teach me a thing or two" then please jog on. I can teach you nothing, other than how to do a tax return and make an acceptable pasta sauce with a perfectly ordinary any vegetable. I enjoy: Soft impact, bondage, rope, rules and instruction, kitty play, events, munches and being social. Innterested in: Friends, play partners and long term loving relationships. Not interested in... married people who's partners don't know they're here. Happy to talk to: Curious people who listen more than they talk, and ask good questions. I'd like to meet Dominant types with kindness, patience and understanding, as well as a wicked streak. Those with enough maturity to know how to treat people with respect and have a normal conversation Be prepared to do the groundwork of a healthy human interaction. Folks with lots of real experience of good practice in kink - negotiation, consent, boundaries and safety. Not looking for ONS, FWB, NSA, pic exchange, long distance or kinky chat. I am not Dominant and have no interest in being. I'm not necessarily looking for a sexual relationship, although with the right person it could go there. I'm not interested in teaching a beginner or "topping from the bottom". Please don't. Just don't. Of course, you can do anything you like. But the following things are likely to get you a "hide and no thanks." Please don't tell me you "love older women". I don't enjoy my age being fetishised. Do not ask for my submission, ask sexual questions or send explicit messages if I've not consented to this. I will not knowingly get involved with anyone who is cheating on a partner. Please don't ask me to.