Kinky women in West Sussex

Seeking a man (not a couple!) who is as passionate about bondage as I am. I do not follow any of the rules. If you're looking for an easy ride look elsewhere... Thinking about it I should really change my name as it's a bit misleading. I'm not that in to Shibari, but I thought the name sounded really cool! I love all sorts of bondage including pallet wrap, sleepsacks, leather straps and vetwrap. I'm not looking for a "Dom/Master"; I have no need for that sort of dynamic. I will submit to bondage, but outside of that you and I are equals. I have been in to bondage since early adulthood so I have lots of experience as a "bondage bottom". I have no interest in teaching anyone how to do Shibari as I don't switch. I am not a masochist. I'm not into receiving p@!n or being called names. If you want to degrade someone or cause them p@!n then please look elsewhere. P@!n and bondage are not intrinsically linked. For me, it's about that mental connection, initially flirting by *** whilst we discuss what might happen when we meet. Enough detail to know what's off limits, but not too much detail that means there's no surprises in store. There is a beauty and intensity in bondage that cannot be expressed in any other way. A passionate "dance" between two people, gripping them and enticing them in to experience more and more. You will be practical (even sensible!), but still imaginative even daring or challenging at the right times. I am not seeking 24/7, but I would hope we would be drinking buddies and restaurant companions as well as me being your bondage playmate. And when we were done we would laugh together and plan the next scene, exploring the wonderful world of bondage together. The mental connection is so important; you've got to like that person, want that person, respect that person, laugh with that person, and be very open with that person. The 'click', the same wavelength, the same needs and desires, are for me the most important. There has to be that trust there to be open with one another and to learn from, and teach each other. I am willful, passionate about everything I do and a hopeless romantic. That means that bondage is NOT an excuse for meaningless sex. You will have to win my heart before you get anywhere near my body. If you've got this far... well done! Thank you for taking the time to fully read my profile. **Desires and Fantasies** Being tied by someone who loves tying!

Just exploring the community for the moment, and I'd love to chat! I'm particularly interested in talking with other plus sized women, subs, and queer folk, whether it's about kink or not. I'm asexual, and I'd love to talk with fellow kinky ace folks! If you're not ace, that's fine too :) My kinks mostly revolve around different aspects of control and ***. While I'm interested in eventually exploring these kinks more, I'm a complete newbie for now; I will need to find out if I can handle a little spanking first! Protocol, discipline, and punishment might come later, but I just want to have fun and get comfortable for now. If you're rude or presumptive in your first message, I will just ignore you. I'm an introvert and a big old nerd, so if you are too let's chat about what you're reading at the moment, or what games you're playing! I'm currently rereading Emma, and replaying the Mass Effect trilogy.

Busty Dom looking for male and female subs to worship me. ***s, needle play, foot worship, breast worship always encouraged. My interests include corsetry, hosiery, and pretty slaves of any gender

I am a strict, intuitive, highly selective Goddess who values discipline, loyalty and mental submission above all else. I don't chase. I don't convince. I choose. I don't need to raise my voice to command you, my expectations speak for themselves. I want subs who crave direction, structure, and the privilege of pleasing a woman who knows her worth. If you think you're ready to serve a real mistress, start by speaking respectfully and introducing yourself properly.

Welcome to my corner ? I am 5ft 6. Size 10 UK clothing UK, feet 41. more importantly, I am a pretty decent, kind, smart, funny human. I don’t send pics or videos. Like me or don’t, just add to my life, be single or have a casual partner, I am hierarchical, I want a ltr and sorry I don’t switch. I am a professional, a mother and human with the demi submissive cuckquean under pinning all of those. I am busy. I am NOT as confident as I seem, however I do have self esteem and self belief. I have a very active professional profile on FetLife too as TheKinkShrink, you can follow me there :-) I dislike Debbie, prefer Deb, Debs, Deborah. I am not here to chat or make friends as such. I am Demi submissive, so no I don’t just say yes for your pleasure. Apologies if that offends and no point reaching out for a chat. No I won’t teach you, sighs. I have had a lot of good and bad experiences and learnt a lot over 42 years in kink, I am always open to learning more. However, the likelihood of me finding someone is low and I am happy as me and you'd have to add to my life as I will yours ? Please be age appropriate, close ‘enough’ to my age. As I said, I am a demi submissive cuckquean. That means I am monogamish emotionally and sometimes may join in with the others he (whomever he is) plays and sleeps with, and maybe have no connection, tis a spectrum and his choice. However if we are monogamous, I like comparison and that can be done with stories, not meeting others. Connection is what matters, the ability to communicate, I will not tolerate lies, manipulation etc. A second chance is rare, that'll depend on how you handle it, a third doesn't exist. I need to feel cared for, respected and at times a little aware of the power exchange, this is a great mix for me. I do not and will never want a sub, please stop trying to convert me. I DON’T SWITCH! I am caring, loving, loyal, affectionate, submissive, naturally servile, smart and funny, there as a sounding board. I am also his worthless whore, a cum dump, worthy of *** and to hear how much he enjoys his others (IF he wants any, as just us is good too). I am more of an emotional masochist than physical nowadays and wonder if I have faded into vanilla. I hate dressing up of all kinds and heels. Really isn’t me and that won’t change. Not interested in public, outdoors, illegal, non consensual or involving people that don’t consent it’s between us. I will not do anything that puts me on the sex offenders register or that will lose me my work. Yes I have had chemo and that has impacted me physically around right breast play (lumpectomy) anal (rarely an option) and right side, so also no smokers. Hate biting and pinching too! we No more choking out either and I welcome impact thuds n hurts. I know, demanding eh? ✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿ Him He will have control, slowly over time as trust and care develop. He will have my back, is my strength and my wise one to go to and share with. He will make me smile and I am content. He will lead me spiritually, intellectually and emotionally as I am his. He sees the girl who wants love, respect, support, tenderness, compassion and care and also the worthless whore who needs using, humiliating and respects the woman I am, as I respect the man he is. He is emotionally intelligent and can step up to be with me. Romance x I offer all I want too x Yachad in Hebrew, means together. When used for two people, it signifies their action of becoming one, not a static or passive unity. Control and manipulation are not dominance, it is a mutual and reciprocal dance. This is fundamental to me as I choose to follow his lead in this dance. He will be a natural leader, my mate, partner, soul mate, confidante, Sir, Daddy, Master, Top, King, Liege. He is also ***, present, caring and can lean on me too. He is experienced in life and closer to my age and reflective, emotionally articulate. I offer what I want too, to you, for you. Emotionally I am very stable and offer equality to gain authority. ✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿ If you want to know more about me: I am rare in my personality type in that I am an INFJ, this is me: https://www.16personalities.com/infj-personality People use words like articulate, wise, caring, intelligent, generous, however that's relative so please make your own mind up. I want to think I am self reflective and emotionally literate but I screw that up at times. I am an ambivert, I prefer home, family, a film and a musical. Life is great, precious and worked for and I reciprocate what is given, I tend to respond and follow vs lead. My sex and play drive are reactive. I am not keen on being bitten, so not so primal. Pinching nope too. If you hate women move on. I love the sea, holidays in the sun, to read (real books), theatre, OMG a musical, science fantasy, la prairie face cream, a mulberry bag, films, singing, singing well I'll have you know, my 3 dogs and two cats, to cook for and look after others and so importantly my family, those I love. ..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/.._______..)/..___ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯ Stroking my face is as important as slapping it Holding me is as important as holding me down Protecting me is as important as endangering me Bruising my heart is as important as bruising my body Respecting me is as important as humiliating me Spoiling me is as important as ruining me Loving me is as important as fucking her (or the fantasy) Caring for me is as important as humiliating me Saying I love you is as important as calling me a whore Looking after me is as important as using me Holding my hand is as important as grabbing me Kissing me is as important as brutally fucking me Valuing me is as important as devaluing me Respecting my rights is as important as respecting them My mind is as important as my body My emotions are as important as your disdain Asking about me is as important as telling me about you The psychological is as important as the physical (if not more) He knows these things and attempts to get them right (eventually) ..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/.._______..)/..___ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯ With love and respect

I am a sub who is looking for an experienced Dom. Having intelligence is important to me as well as having good communication skills and being respectful. I need to build a connection before meeting. I would probably lean towards someone less strict, so maybe a soft/pleasure Dom. Although I am based in Sussex, I travel to London frequently.

Welcome to the forest. Where s CreepyTree lives in the night. Don't you just love it when it's black outside and chilly enough to walk. I have a really kind, caring nature. Though I am a Masochist. I'm a 36 year old alternative lady who loves bright dreadlocks, has piercings and over 50 tattoos. I'm not skinny and far from a Barbie doll, I'm a proper woman, buy me a drink but don't get me drunk. I require work, not a quick spank, fuck me and fall asleep. Nuh uh. I like long sessions, some hard play, praise if I'm your good sub. I'm intelligent, I read and love puzzles. If you don't want to challenge or get to know me a little then....off you pop! I have ADHD, Bipolar and I hear voices, my mind works differently. Come and learn about me. I have a very naughty side. Why don't you come and tell me what you're going to do to me. I look forward to it.

Fierce, independent, unrepentant powerhouse of a woman. Successful, hard working business owner, no time for low effort, low value, low achievers. Fun times with high effort, clear communication, honesty and respect are my biggest kinks. The rest will follow and develop organically with mutual trust and a willingness to both bring energy and effort to the party. If you aren’t bringing, you are taking, be that my time, energy or cognitive load. The patriarchy is dying, run along to your mamma/back under your rock if you disagree.

I seek a Dom whose essence is rooted in something deeper - a man attuned to the sacred dance of polarity. You embody the Divine Masculine not as a performance, but as a presence. Stable, intentional, and aware of what the feminine truly needs to soften, open, receive, and thrive. You’re spiritually inclined - holding knowledge of the esoteric, emotionally intelligent, and mentally stimulating. I am sapiosexual. Words, wisdom, and self-awareness turn me on far more than aesthetics ever could. You’re someone who sees D/s for what it truly is: Not just roles and rituals, but a deeply intimate, evolving container of trust, clarity, friendship, and mutual devotion. You know when to lead and when to simply listen. You desire to discover me - not just my preferences, but my nervous system, my history, my soul. And I will do the same for you. Emotional availability is non-negotiable. I do not chase. I will not beg for presence, affection, or clarity. May beg for other things, though. Your consistency is your credibility. You are somewhat trauma + neurodivergence-informed, understand how it plays a role in these dynamics, and not threatened by depth, vulnerability, or silence (our lives can get unexpectedly busy) ~ I do not do polyamory. I value honesty over pretense - masks are only welcome if we’re playing. 😉 I see behind facades easily, so spare us both the performance. Therefore come as you are, even if it’s messy. I care for real over polished. Yes, I’m a masochist, but I will feel it in my bones if your sadism stems from wounded masculinity or the desire to dominate women without care. This is about power with, not power over. We are equals in different energetic roles, your leadership must be anchored in empathy, not ego. I am careful with whom I share sacred sexual energy with, and I am still a beginner in certain ways. Other subs may be more experienced and that may be your preference - follow it. Patience, consideration and aftercare are essential. Cuddle me. Play with my hair. Ground me. I’m not here for confusion, power games, or small talk. Not necessarily seeking conventional commitment, but do crave emotional presence. If you are emotionally absent I cannot flow as my authentic self. Show up with your heart space open, your energy grounded, and actions aligned. Casual energy often won’t meet me, I’m looking for something conscious and passionate. I require a partner who leads not just with dominance, but with discernment and depth. So whether we’re walking together for a season or a lifetime, I ask only that you walk with sincerity. Think: sacred connection without attachment to outcome I love to laugh. Please don’t message me unless you truly resonate with this energy, we will not be compatible. I am not for everyone - and I like it that way. ~ PS/About me section: I come across strong here because it’s necessary, but really… I am cutie patootie lil angelic ball of sunshine. Whilst the idea of a cool blade to my throat is thrilling, if you manage to coax out my inner little girl - the one who giggles, plays, and beams without restraint, you’ve won and will reap the rewards~ Deeply drawn to all things soul-led. Nature, meditation, breathwork, self-development, ***s, and insightful + reflective conversations. I am an alchemist, highly intuitive, and ‘Heyoka’ as they call it (although I have an aversion to labels) Movement is medicine to me, I dance to feel alive. I feel through music, it’s a love language - send me a tune you love. Fond of photography, travel, scenic walks, gaming when I have time, and the occasional joint (stoner days are over). Also enjoy the gym and have been on a tough yet disciplined weightloss journey. I can cook a steak that’ll ruin you for all others. I am South African/Italian. There’s an abundance of lightness here once you’ve earned your way past the gates.

I’m a single female who’d like a monogamous but sexy relationship with a single guy who can accomodate . It seems that I’m not BDSM or have strong fetishes but I do have my kinks and like to hear about kinks and love sexual fantasies. I have a sexy imagination and curiosity. I seem to gravitate to Masters and Sirs although I may be out of my depth in their hands. I’m not vanilla either. I do like to worship a throbbing cock. Giving oral pleasure is definitely important to my sexual desire.

If you’ve been wondering how to show appreciation… This is a good place to start. No pressure — just a quiet way to turn interest into something a little more meaningful.🖤💗 https://***/missnora0 No face picture, no reply and if you push it it's an automatic block. I'm not talking to shadows, emojis or whatever you put as a profile picture. If you not ready to be yourself in the community, you not for me anyway. "I am the sin you crave, the temptation you cannot resist, the fire that will leave you scorched yet begging for more.." Lilith Welcome to my page You address me as Miss! I’m not here for endless messaging, cyber fantasies, or collectors of Dommes. I value intention, presence, and people who understand the difference between fantasy and devotion. I am an experienced Dominant woman with two decades immersed in the art of power exchange, seduction, and psychological play. What I offer is real connection, real chemistry, and encounters that leave a mark long after we part. I’m open to finding a dedicated submissive who enjoys accompanying me to events, sharing sessions, and building a dynamic based on trust, discipline, and mutual respect. If you approach me, do so properly. Polite, confident introductions get my attention. Lazy greetings like hi, hey, yoo sexy will get you ignored or blocked. Address me as Miss, and understand what that means. Respect. Awareness. And someone who understands that a Dominant woman’s time, attention, and energy are never taken for granted. Those who know how to show appreciation tend to receive far more of my attention. I’m not the playful kinky neighbour. I am the woman who rewires your habits, your discipline, and the way you think about control. My favourite flavours include: Chastity, caging, restraint, ***, leash & collar play, dress-up, occasional sissification, pegging, spanking (from teasing to brutal), CBT, orgasm denial, and psychological play. I enjoy the charged atmosphere of events, watching the world misbehave… then returning home knowing exactly who belongs at my feet. Before anything happens, we meet in person. I want to feel your energy, your tension, your curiosity. I want to see how your body reacts when I look at you. Hard limits Poor hygiene *** / Vomit Diapers Mutilation Cyber play Dreamers Timewasters People who cannot follow through Tell me: • your age • your experience level • what draws you to submission • what you believe you could offer in a dynamic with me If you seek discipline, depth, heat, and a dynamic that exists in the real world — not just online — approach slowly. Show me you understand generosity, appreciation, and how to value a Dominant woman’s presence. And maybe — just maybe — I’ll decide you’re worth my attention. WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a *** of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one

snap - Ella draisey 17 I’m a little/brat I want a daddy dom who lives close plz don’t add from far I do not do online relationships no one over 35 please 😇 if you add my snap send me a picture age and where your from please xox experienced daddy doms only plz if you have tattoos and a dad bod even better !!! I am looking for my forever daddy and want to settle down so don’t bother to message if u don’t feel the same xoxox

Hey, I’m jen! 📚🎮✈️ I’m all about books, drawing, gaming, and cooking. I love traveling and finding new spots to explore.🧚🏼‍♀️ I’m in a relationship and recently came out as bi. We’re looking for a third to join, for fun and good times🌈MJ fan🏻‍🏽 Also, I’m all about meeting new people. To chat with🏻‍🏽🥂 sc- Leia_jenx

Bit of a sadist.. Femdomme Bratty Attitude. Respect me and I’ll respect you enough to disrespect you ;) I like the subs who need the brat broken out of them xx

I'm a 5ft 9 BBW kinky SUB with 11 piercings and 5 tattoos, mostly hidden from view. In an ENM marriage with my vanilla husband who supports me and doesn't get involved with this part of my life. Recently collared by a wonderful Dom who actively encourages me to play and explore with other guys. He has my complete kink loyalty so please don't try to think that I'd be looking for a replacement. Beginning to think I'm looking for the holy grail - a guy that wants regular meets for kinky sex! Are you out there? I need someone that can dominate me mentally and physically which means I need you to be over 6ft. Seeing as I'm asking for the impossible a guy with tattoos and/or piercings are a major turn on for me. I don't have many hard no's but safe sex is a 100% requirement. Biggest of all - honesty - if we arrange to meet, don't be a prick and decide to ghost me. Have the balls to say actually, I don't fit what you want, or, can we just keep the dirty talk online. Im a big girl and will have way more respect for you.

Hey! I’ve pretty recently been lucky enough to have some kinky experiences that have left me craving more. I have very much discovered I identify as a true submissive and love pleasing my partner. I respond super well to praise and I am very attracted to charm and chivalry! I would love to get to know some likeminded kinky people and see what happens🥰

I will be clear straight off i am not looking for distance so to not waste time i just won't reply. nor do I want to be a Domme. Sultry switch with a wicked streak... Based in the West Sussex area and looking to connect with someone who can spark my mind before my body. I’ve spent years as a confident, commanding Domme—it's in my bones—but lately, I've been craving something different... a shift in power, a chance to surrender. At heart, I’m a brat: clever, teasing, and never one to make it easy. I’m seeking a dominant playmate who can handle my fire, earn my obedience, and enjoy the thrill of the chase. If you’re firm, intelligent, and know how to turn mental games into irresistible tension, we might just click. Let’s play—but only if you can keep up.

Very open minded, looking to explore my submission. Would like to have something regular to build up trust but happy to keep it casual. Looking for a person not a pen pal.

Switch looking for a switch. Looking for actual connection, decent communication emotional maturity and friendship. Not a casual or ONS kinda girl. Also Shibari. No fakes and don't even bother asking me if I want to fuck.

Domme female with an appetite for face sitting and using her thick big strap to make you spasm and 💦 . I'm looking for a loyal sub to own long term, subs with fat 🍑 get priority. I can drive and live alone

I'm 23,dark fantasy nerd that currently works full time. My job will always come first because I have bills to pay. My set day off is Monday. I'm more of a night owl so I'll be more active in the night. I'm generally submissive and I'm into a lot of things. What I'm looking for is to explore more kinks and see if I'm really into the things I fantasize about. I've been into kink for a very long time, been in a few m/s relationships but didn't work out due to distance. oh and I like to ramble when I'm passionate. just message me for my discord or if I seem at all interesting! I'm not judgey and I'm very open ;)

• Back after a long break. Interested in learning more and experiencing parts of kink I’ve not yet explored. • Exploring impact play as a sub and finding my soft and hard *** limits is exciting. *just because I’m a sub, does **NOT** mean I’m your sub. Please be respectful - no honorifics.

heyyyyy baby, I’m 18 British and looking for a daddy to treat me like his princess but also tie me up and use me in bed. I can cook, bake and clean and I’m also very clingy and obsessive 😘🥺

I'm just looking to see what this is all about and hopefully meet some like-minded people. Bratty middle with a praise kink. alternative, curvy, short ass.

I am a strict, intuitive, highly selective Goddess who values discipline, loyalty and mental submission above all else. I don't chase. I don't convince. I choose. I don't need to raise my voice to command you, my expectations speak for themselves. I want subs who crave direction, structure, and the privilege of pleasing a woman who knows her worth. If you think you're ready to serve a real mistress, start by speaking respectfully and introducing yourself properly.

Welcome to the forest. Where s CreepyTree lives in the night. Don't you just love it when it's black outside and chilly enough to walk. I have a really kind, caring nature. Though I am a Masochist. I'm a 36 year old alternative lady who loves bright dreadlocks, has piercings and over 50 tattoos. I'm not skinny and far from a Barbie doll, I'm a proper woman, buy me a drink but don't get me drunk. I require work, not a quick spank, fuck me and fall asleep. Nuh uh. I like long sessions, some hard play, praise if I'm your good sub. I'm intelligent, I read and love puzzles. If you don't want to challenge or get to know me a little then....off you pop! I have ADHD, Bipolar and I hear voices, my mind works differently. Come and learn about me. I have a very naughty side. Why don't you come and tell me what you're going to do to me. I look forward to it.

Fierce, independent, unrepentant powerhouse of a woman. Successful, hard working business owner, no time for low effort, low value, low achievers. Fun times with high effort, clear communication, honesty and respect are my biggest kinks. The rest will follow and develop organically with mutual trust and a willingness to both bring energy and effort to the party. If you aren’t bringing, you are taking, be that my time, energy or cognitive load. The patriarchy is dying, run along to your mamma/back under your rock if you disagree.

Just exploring the community for the moment, and I'd love to chat! I'm particularly interested in talking with other plus sized women, subs, and queer folk, whether it's about kink or not. I'm asexual, and I'd love to talk with fellow kinky ace folks! If you're not ace, that's fine too :) My kinks mostly revolve around different aspects of control and ***. While I'm interested in eventually exploring these kinks more, I'm a complete newbie for now; I will need to find out if I can handle a little spanking first! Protocol, discipline, and punishment might come later, but I just want to have fun and get comfortable for now. If you're rude or presumptive in your first message, I will just ignore you. I'm an introvert and a big old nerd, so if you are too let's chat about what you're reading at the moment, or what games you're playing! I'm currently rereading Emma, and replaying the Mass Effect trilogy.

I am a sub who is looking for an experienced Dom. Having intelligence is important to me as well as having good communication skills and being respectful. I need to build a connection before meeting. I would probably lean towards someone less strict, so maybe a soft/pleasure Dom. Although I am based in Sussex, I travel to London frequently.

Seeking a man (not a couple!) who is as passionate about bondage as I am. I do not follow any of the rules. If you're looking for an easy ride look elsewhere... Thinking about it I should really change my name as it's a bit misleading. I'm not that in to Shibari, but I thought the name sounded really cool! I love all sorts of bondage including pallet wrap, sleepsacks, leather straps and vetwrap. I'm not looking for a "Dom/Master"; I have no need for that sort of dynamic. I will submit to bondage, but outside of that you and I are equals. I have been in to bondage since early adulthood so I have lots of experience as a "bondage bottom". I have no interest in teaching anyone how to do Shibari as I don't switch. I am not a masochist. I'm not into receiving p@!n or being called names. If you want to degrade someone or cause them p@!n then please look elsewhere. P@!n and bondage are not intrinsically linked. For me, it's about that mental connection, initially flirting by *** whilst we discuss what might happen when we meet. Enough detail to know what's off limits, but not too much detail that means there's no surprises in store. There is a beauty and intensity in bondage that cannot be expressed in any other way. A passionate "dance" between two people, gripping them and enticing them in to experience more and more. You will be practical (even sensible!), but still imaginative even daring or challenging at the right times. I am not seeking 24/7, but I would hope we would be drinking buddies and restaurant companions as well as me being your bondage playmate. And when we were done we would laugh together and plan the next scene, exploring the wonderful world of bondage together. The mental connection is so important; you've got to like that person, want that person, respect that person, laugh with that person, and be very open with that person. The 'click', the same wavelength, the same needs and desires, are for me the most important. There has to be that trust there to be open with one another and to learn from, and teach each other. I am willful, passionate about everything I do and a hopeless romantic. That means that bondage is NOT an excuse for meaningless sex. You will have to win my heart before you get anywhere near my body. If you've got this far... well done! Thank you for taking the time to fully read my profile. **Desires and Fantasies** Being tied by someone who loves tying!

Busty Dom looking for male and female subs to worship me. ***s, needle play, foot worship, breast worship always encouraged. My interests include corsetry, hosiery, and pretty slaves of any gender

Welcome to my corner ? I am 5ft 6. Size 10 UK clothing UK, feet 41. more importantly, I am a pretty decent, kind, smart, funny human. I don’t send pics or videos. Like me or don’t, just add to my life, be single or have a casual partner, I am hierarchical, I want a ltr and sorry I don’t switch. I am a professional, a mother and human with the demi submissive cuckquean under pinning all of those. I am busy. I am NOT as confident as I seem, however I do have self esteem and self belief. I have a very active professional profile on FetLife too as TheKinkShrink, you can follow me there :-) I dislike Debbie, prefer Deb, Debs, Deborah. I am not here to chat or make friends as such. I am Demi submissive, so no I don’t just say yes for your pleasure. Apologies if that offends and no point reaching out for a chat. No I won’t teach you, sighs. I have had a lot of good and bad experiences and learnt a lot over 42 years in kink, I am always open to learning more. However, the likelihood of me finding someone is low and I am happy as me and you'd have to add to my life as I will yours ? Please be age appropriate, close ‘enough’ to my age. As I said, I am a demi submissive cuckquean. That means I am monogamish emotionally and sometimes may join in with the others he (whomever he is) plays and sleeps with, and maybe have no connection, tis a spectrum and his choice. However if we are monogamous, I like comparison and that can be done with stories, not meeting others. Connection is what matters, the ability to communicate, I will not tolerate lies, manipulation etc. A second chance is rare, that'll depend on how you handle it, a third doesn't exist. I need to feel cared for, respected and at times a little aware of the power exchange, this is a great mix for me. I do not and will never want a sub, please stop trying to convert me. I DON’T SWITCH! I am caring, loving, loyal, affectionate, submissive, naturally servile, smart and funny, there as a sounding board. I am also his worthless whore, a cum dump, worthy of *** and to hear how much he enjoys his others (IF he wants any, as just us is good too). I am more of an emotional masochist than physical nowadays and wonder if I have faded into vanilla. I hate dressing up of all kinds and heels. Really isn’t me and that won’t change. Not interested in public, outdoors, illegal, non consensual or involving people that don’t consent it’s between us. I will not do anything that puts me on the sex offenders register or that will lose me my work. Yes I have had chemo and that has impacted me physically around right breast play (lumpectomy) anal (rarely an option) and right side, so also no smokers. Hate biting and pinching too! we No more choking out either and I welcome impact thuds n hurts. I know, demanding eh? ✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿ Him He will have control, slowly over time as trust and care develop. He will have my back, is my strength and my wise one to go to and share with. He will make me smile and I am content. He will lead me spiritually, intellectually and emotionally as I am his. He sees the girl who wants love, respect, support, tenderness, compassion and care and also the worthless whore who needs using, humiliating and respects the woman I am, as I respect the man he is. He is emotionally intelligent and can step up to be with me. Romance x I offer all I want too x Yachad in Hebrew, means together. When used for two people, it signifies their action of becoming one, not a static or passive unity. Control and manipulation are not dominance, it is a mutual and reciprocal dance. This is fundamental to me as I choose to follow his lead in this dance. He will be a natural leader, my mate, partner, soul mate, confidante, Sir, Daddy, Master, Top, King, Liege. He is also ***, present, caring and can lean on me too. He is experienced in life and closer to my age and reflective, emotionally articulate. I offer what I want too, to you, for you. Emotionally I am very stable and offer equality to gain authority. ✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿ If you want to know more about me: I am rare in my personality type in that I am an INFJ, this is me: https://www.16personalities.com/infj-personality People use words like articulate, wise, caring, intelligent, generous, however that's relative so please make your own mind up. I want to think I am self reflective and emotionally literate but I screw that up at times. I am an ambivert, I prefer home, family, a film and a musical. Life is great, precious and worked for and I reciprocate what is given, I tend to respond and follow vs lead. My sex and play drive are reactive. I am not keen on being bitten, so not so primal. Pinching nope too. If you hate women move on. I love the sea, holidays in the sun, to read (real books), theatre, OMG a musical, science fantasy, la prairie face cream, a mulberry bag, films, singing, singing well I'll have you know, my 3 dogs and two cats, to cook for and look after others and so importantly my family, those I love. ..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/.._______..)/..___ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯ Stroking my face is as important as slapping it Holding me is as important as holding me down Protecting me is as important as endangering me Bruising my heart is as important as bruising my body Respecting me is as important as humiliating me Spoiling me is as important as ruining me Loving me is as important as fucking her (or the fantasy) Caring for me is as important as humiliating me Saying I love you is as important as calling me a whore Looking after me is as important as using me Holding my hand is as important as grabbing me Kissing me is as important as brutally fucking me Valuing me is as important as devaluing me Respecting my rights is as important as respecting them My mind is as important as my body My emotions are as important as your disdain Asking about me is as important as telling me about you The psychological is as important as the physical (if not more) He knows these things and attempts to get them right (eventually) ..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/.._______..)/..___ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯ With love and respect

I seek a Dom whose essence is rooted in something deeper - a man attuned to the sacred dance of polarity. You embody the Divine Masculine not as a performance, but as a presence. Stable, intentional, and aware of what the feminine truly needs to soften, open, receive, and thrive. You’re spiritually inclined - holding knowledge of the esoteric, emotionally intelligent, and mentally stimulating. I am sapiosexual. Words, wisdom, and self-awareness turn me on far more than aesthetics ever could. You’re someone who sees D/s for what it truly is: Not just roles and rituals, but a deeply intimate, evolving container of trust, clarity, friendship, and mutual devotion. You know when to lead and when to simply listen. You desire to discover me - not just my preferences, but my nervous system, my history, my soul. And I will do the same for you. Emotional availability is non-negotiable. I do not chase. I will not beg for presence, affection, or clarity. May beg for other things, though. Your consistency is your credibility. You are somewhat trauma + neurodivergence-informed, understand how it plays a role in these dynamics, and not threatened by depth, vulnerability, or silence (our lives can get unexpectedly busy) ~ I do not do polyamory. I value honesty over pretense - masks are only welcome if we’re playing. 😉 I see behind facades easily, so spare us both the performance. Therefore come as you are, even if it’s messy. I care for real over polished. Yes, I’m a masochist, but I will feel it in my bones if your sadism stems from wounded masculinity or the desire to dominate women without care. This is about power with, not power over. We are equals in different energetic roles, your leadership must be anchored in empathy, not ego. I am careful with whom I share sacred sexual energy with, and I am still a beginner in certain ways. Other subs may be more experienced and that may be your preference - follow it. Patience, consideration and aftercare are essential. Cuddle me. Play with my hair. Ground me. I’m not here for confusion, power games, or small talk. Not necessarily seeking conventional commitment, but do crave emotional presence. If you are emotionally absent I cannot flow as my authentic self. Show up with your heart space open, your energy grounded, and actions aligned. Casual energy often won’t meet me, I’m looking for something conscious and passionate. I require a partner who leads not just with dominance, but with discernment and depth. So whether we’re walking together for a season or a lifetime, I ask only that you walk with sincerity. Think: sacred connection without attachment to outcome I love to laugh. Please don’t message me unless you truly resonate with this energy, we will not be compatible. I am not for everyone - and I like it that way. ~ PS/About me section: I come across strong here because it’s necessary, but really… I am cutie patootie lil angelic ball of sunshine. Whilst the idea of a cool blade to my throat is thrilling, if you manage to coax out my inner little girl - the one who giggles, plays, and beams without restraint, you’ve won and will reap the rewards~ Deeply drawn to all things soul-led. Nature, meditation, breathwork, self-development, ***s, and insightful + reflective conversations. I am an alchemist, highly intuitive, and ‘Heyoka’ as they call it (although I have an aversion to labels) Movement is medicine to me, I dance to feel alive. I feel through music, it’s a love language - send me a tune you love. Fond of photography, travel, scenic walks, gaming when I have time, and the occasional joint (stoner days are over). Also enjoy the gym and have been on a tough yet disciplined weightloss journey. I can cook a steak that’ll ruin you for all others. I am South African/Italian. There’s an abundance of lightness here once you’ve earned your way past the gates.

I’m a single female who’d like a monogamous but sexy relationship with a single guy who can accomodate . It seems that I’m not BDSM or have strong fetishes but I do have my kinks and like to hear about kinks and love sexual fantasies. I have a sexy imagination and curiosity. I seem to gravitate to Masters and Sirs although I may be out of my depth in their hands. I’m not vanilla either. I do like to worship a throbbing cock. Giving oral pleasure is definitely important to my sexual desire.

Bit of a sadist.. Femdomme Bratty Attitude. Respect me and I’ll respect you enough to disrespect you ;) I like the subs who need the brat broken out of them xx

I'm 23,dark fantasy nerd that currently works full time. My job will always come first because I have bills to pay. My set day off is Monday. I'm more of a night owl so I'll be more active in the night. I'm generally submissive and I'm into a lot of things. What I'm looking for is to explore more kinks and see if I'm really into the things I fantasize about. I've been into kink for a very long time, been in a few m/s relationships but didn't work out due to distance. oh and I like to ramble when I'm passionate. just message me for my discord or if I seem at all interesting! I'm not judgey and I'm very open ;)

Hiya! I'm a 20yr old curvy lady I'm from Brighton UK (I don't know why it says Dublin😂) I'm looking for friends, cyber fun, but mainly just going with the flow! what I'm looking for more depends on the person :) however I need a connection for something sexual (nothing romantic, basically just make me laugh and make an effort and perhaps I'll like you enough to fuck you ect) I'm super friendly come say hi! :))

Hey, Soft Domme from Worthing. I'm looking for a normal relationship with a D/s added. I'm demisexual so not wanting hookups or friends with benefits. I also don't want just a dynamic only. Please don't message me offering that. I won't reply to faceless profiles. I have a couple years experience as a Domme but was a sub previously. I likely won't sub again i just didn't like it. I have a good sense of humour and don't take myself seriously. I keep spiders, woodlice and Millipedes as pets. I also have two dogs.

I'm a 5ft 9 BBW kinky SUB with 11 piercings and 5 tattoos, mostly hidden from view. In an ENM marriage with my vanilla husband who supports me and doesn't get involved with this part of my life. Recently collared by a wonderful Dom who actively encourages me to play and explore with other guys. He has my complete kink loyalty so please don't try to think that I'd be looking for a replacement. Beginning to think I'm looking for the holy grail - a guy that wants regular meets for kinky sex! Are you out there? I need someone that can dominate me mentally and physically which means I need you to be over 6ft. Seeing as I'm asking for the impossible a guy with tattoos and/or piercings are a major turn on for me. I don't have many hard no's but safe sex is a 100% requirement. Biggest of all - honesty - if we arrange to meet, don't be a prick and decide to ghost me. Have the balls to say actually, I don't fit what you want, or, can we just keep the dirty talk online. Im a big girl and will have way more respect for you.

OWNED BY SIR Hi there my name is Sophie and I was wondering if any girls between the ages of 19-38 would like to join me and my Master in our adventures only if you are interested in joining that is we understand if it isn’t your thing 😊 If you would like to join please either send a Direct Message to me or if you can’t put a message on this post. Please be very active with your communication and communication is vital for me and my Master. Also please when we do message you please please please don’t ignore or ghost us after a few messages thank you. Can’t wait to hear from you all and hope everyone has a great rest of the week.

Hey, I’m jen! 📚🎮✈️ I’m all about books, drawing, gaming, and cooking. I love traveling and finding new spots to explore.🧚🏼‍♀️ I’m in a relationship and recently came out as bi. We’re looking for a third to join, for fun and good times🌈MJ fan🏻‍🏽 Also, I’m all about meeting new people. To chat with🏻‍🏽🥂 sc- Leia_jenx

A bratty loud mouthed sub looking for fellow kink minded friends, and maybe a Dom if the chemistry hits just right. Massive nerd who spends her days baking, video gaming and frolicking in the woods, all while being terrorised by the most adorable Kitten, who I ***, is developing toe biting fetish. Great.... In a Long Term Non Monogamous Relationship

heyyyyy baby, I’m 18 British and looking for a daddy to treat me like his princess but also tie me up and use me in bed. I can cook, bake and clean and I’m also very clingy and obsessive 😘🥺

If you’ve been wondering how to show appreciation… This is a good place to start. No pressure — just a quiet way to turn interest into something a little more meaningful.🖤💗 https://***/missnora0 No face picture, no reply and if you push it it's an automatic block. I'm not talking to shadows, emojis or whatever you put as a profile picture. If you not ready to be yourself in the community, you not for me anyway. "I am the sin you crave, the temptation you cannot resist, the fire that will leave you scorched yet begging for more.." Lilith Welcome to my page You address me as Miss! I’m not here for endless messaging, cyber fantasies, or collectors of Dommes. I value intention, presence, and people who understand the difference between fantasy and devotion. I am an experienced Dominant woman with two decades immersed in the art of power exchange, seduction, and psychological play. What I offer is real connection, real chemistry, and encounters that leave a mark long after we part. I’m open to finding a dedicated submissive who enjoys accompanying me to events, sharing sessions, and building a dynamic based on trust, discipline, and mutual respect. If you approach me, do so properly. Polite, confident introductions get my attention. Lazy greetings like hi, hey, yoo sexy will get you ignored or blocked. Address me as Miss, and understand what that means. Respect. Awareness. And someone who understands that a Dominant woman’s time, attention, and energy are never taken for granted. Those who know how to show appreciation tend to receive far more of my attention. I’m not the playful kinky neighbour. I am the woman who rewires your habits, your discipline, and the way you think about control. My favourite flavours include: Chastity, caging, restraint, ***, leash & collar play, dress-up, occasional sissification, pegging, spanking (from teasing to brutal), CBT, orgasm denial, and psychological play. I enjoy the charged atmosphere of events, watching the world misbehave… then returning home knowing exactly who belongs at my feet. Before anything happens, we meet in person. I want to feel your energy, your tension, your curiosity. I want to see how your body reacts when I look at you. Hard limits Poor hygiene *** / Vomit Diapers Mutilation Cyber play Dreamers Timewasters People who cannot follow through Tell me: • your age • your experience level • what draws you to submission • what you believe you could offer in a dynamic with me If you seek discipline, depth, heat, and a dynamic that exists in the real world — not just online — approach slowly. Show me you understand generosity, appreciation, and how to value a Dominant woman’s presence. And maybe — just maybe — I’ll decide you’re worth my attention. WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a *** of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one

Hey! I’ve pretty recently been lucky enough to have some kinky experiences that have left me craving more. I have very much discovered I identify as a true submissive and love pleasing my partner. I respond super well to praise and I am very attracted to charm and chivalry! I would love to get to know some likeminded kinky people and see what happens🥰

currently on holiday in penrith, looking for now fun experiences. only here for a few days. I'm into so many things, from ddlg, to bdsm and many, many more.

Domme female with an appetite for face sitting and using her thick big strap to make you spasm and 💦 . I'm looking for a loyal sub to own long term, subs with fat 🍑 get priority. I can drive and live alone

Very open minded, looking to explore my submission. Would like to have something regular to build up trust but happy to keep it casual. Looking for a person not a pen pal.