Kinky women in West Sussex

I am a strict, intuitive, highly selective Goddess who values discipline, loyalty and mental submission above all else. I don't chase. I don't convince. I choose. I don't need to raise my voice to command you, my expectations speak for themselves. I want subs who crave direction, structure, and the privilege of pleasing a woman who knows her worth. If you think you're ready to serve a real mistress, start by speaking respectfully and introducing yourself properly.

Welcome to the forest. Where s CreepyTree lives in the night. Don't you just love it when it's black outside and chilly enough to walk. I have a really kind, caring nature. Though I am a Masochist. I'm a 36 year old alternative lady who loves bright dreadlocks, has piercings and over 50 tattoos. I'm not skinny and far from a Barbie doll, I'm a proper woman, buy me a drink but don't get me drunk. I require work, not a quick spank, fuck me and fall asleep. Nuh uh. I like long sessions, some hard play, praise if I'm your good sub. I'm intelligent, I read and love puzzles. If you don't want to challenge or get to know me a little then....off you pop! I have ADHD, Bipolar and I hear voices, my mind works differently. Come and learn about me. I have a very naughty side. Why don't you come and tell me what you're going to do to me. I look forward to it.

Switch **Desires and Fantasies** Love rope and being restrained. I’m ideally looking for a Dom and in the future a relationship but for the moment I just want a FWB situation

I'm different. not unique, but rare in what I like and how I like it. you had better be too. I'm just kinky. Dislike labels, but in this world of kink, there is a whole other language. I'm an intelligent but divvy blonde. Have my shit together and a busy, demanding job, so it would be nice to have someone who can massage the day away and insert a toy along the way. But, whatever you give, you shall also receive threefold? I love sharing sweet *** and leaving my tokens of affection on your skin. So, I am a Sadomasochistic, understanding Dom and I'm Affectionate with my aftercare. I'm nice, but do not be foolish and confuse that with soft. I like switching too, but never sub, just bottoming. I'm looking for a relationship/partner. An equal. A fellow Dom who likes to switch and share the dynamics, or perhaps an alpha sub/service top. I love a man who can wear female knickers, stockings, and a corset, but their masculinity still shines through. But lets be clear. whilst I love my sissy and CD friends, I am not into full sissification, CD or guys/girls who want their cock/clit locked in chastity permanently, unless it's transactional. Your whole body and cock will be mine to use as I see fit. if you are new, I'm not interested, unless you are exceptional, and let's be honest, you most probably aren't. I now also offer private client sessions for people who meet my prerequisites..... message me. I am also very particular in who I like, so don't be offended if I say no thank you. prerequisites: Intelligence Attention to detail Clean fingernails Confidence Availability Nice skin Shaven or waxed down in the fun zone, but ideally whole body, I like smooth. if you are in a relationship that's fine for sessional, but orherwise I'm not interested.

Just exploring the community for the moment, and I'd love to chat! I'm particularly interested in talking with other plus sized women, subs, and queer folk, whether it's about kink or not. I'm asexual, and I'd love to talk with fellow kinky ace folks! If you're not ace, that's fine too :) My kinks mostly revolve around different aspects of control and ***. While I'm interested in eventually exploring these kinks more, I'm a complete newbie for now; I will need to find out if I can handle a little spanking first! Protocol, discipline, and punishment might come later, but I just want to have fun and get comfortable for now. If you're rude or presumptive in your first message, I will just ignore you. I'm an introvert and a big old nerd, so if you are too let's chat about what you're reading at the moment, or what games you're playing! I'm currently rereading Emma, and replaying the Mass Effect trilogy.

Seeking a man (not a couple!) who is as passionate about bondage as I am. I do not follow any of the rules. If you're looking for an easy ride look elsewhere... Thinking about it I should really change my name as it's a bit misleading. I'm not that in to Shibari, but I thought the name sounded really cool! I love all sorts of bondage including pallet wrap, sleepsacks, leather straps and vetwrap. I'm not looking for a "Dom/Master"; I have no need for that sort of dynamic. I will submit to bondage, but outside of that you and I are equals. I have been in to bondage since early adulthood so I have lots of experience as a "bondage bottom". I have no interest in teaching anyone how to do Shibari as I don't switch. I am not a masochist. I'm not into receiving p@!n or being called names. If you want to degrade someone or cause them p@!n then please look elsewhere. P@!n and bondage are not intrinsically linked. For me, it's about that mental connection, initially flirting by *** whilst we discuss what might happen when we meet. Enough detail to know what's off limits, but not too much detail that means there's no surprises in store. There is a beauty and intensity in bondage that cannot be expressed in any other way. A passionate "dance" between two people, gripping them and enticing them in to experience more and more. You will be practical (even sensible!), but still imaginative even daring or challenging at the right times. I am not seeking 24/7, but I would hope we would be drinking buddies and restaurant companions as well as me being your bondage playmate. And when we were done we would laugh together and plan the next scene, exploring the wonderful world of bondage together. The mental connection is so important; you've got to like that person, want that person, respect that person, laugh with that person, and be very open with that person. The 'click', the same wavelength, the same needs and desires, are for me the most important. There has to be that trust there to be open with one another and to learn from, and teach each other. I am willful, passionate about everything I do and a hopeless romantic. That means that bondage is NOT an excuse for meaningless sex. You will have to win my heart before you get anywhere near my body. If you've got this far... well done! Thank you for taking the time to fully read my profile. **Desires and Fantasies** Being tied by someone who loves tying!

I am a sub who is looking for an experienced Dom. Having intelligence is important to me as well as having good communication skills and being respectful. I need to build a connection before meeting. I would probably lean towards someone less strict, so maybe a soft/pleasure Dom. Although I am based in Sussex, I travel to London frequently.

Welcome to my corner ? I am 5ft 6. Size 10 UK clothing UK, feet 41. more importantly, I am a pretty decent, kind, smart, funny human. I don’t send pics or videos. Like me or don’t, just add to my life, be single or have a casual partner, I am hierarchical, I want a ltr and sorry I don’t switch. I am a professional, a mother and human with the demi submissive cuckquean under pinning all of those. I am busy. I am NOT as confident as I seem, however I do have self esteem and self belief. I have a very active professional profile on FetLife too as TheKinkShrink, you can follow me there :-) I dislike Debbie, prefer Deb, Debs, Deborah. I am not here to chat or make friends as such. I am Demi submissive, so no I don’t just say yes for your pleasure. Apologies if that offends and no point reaching out for a chat. No I won’t teach you, sighs. I have had a lot of good and bad experiences and learnt a lot over 42 years in kink, I am always open to learning more. However, the likelihood of me finding someone is low and I am happy as me and you'd have to add to my life as I will yours ? Please be age appropriate, close ‘enough’ to my age. As I said, I am a demi submissive cuckquean. That means I am monogamish emotionally and sometimes may join in with the others he (whomever he is) plays and sleeps with, and maybe have no connection, tis a spectrum and his choice. However if we are monogamous, I like comparison and that can be done with stories, not meeting others. Connection is what matters, the ability to communicate, I will not tolerate lies, manipulation etc. A second chance is rare, that'll depend on how you handle it, a third doesn't exist. I need to feel cared for, respected and at times a little aware of the power exchange, this is a great mix for me. I do not and will never want a sub, please stop trying to convert me. I DON’T SWITCH! I am caring, loving, loyal, affectionate, submissive, naturally servile, smart and funny, there as a sounding board. I am also his worthless whore, a cum dump, worthy of *** and to hear how much he enjoys his others (IF he wants any, as just us is good too). I am more of an emotional masochist than physical nowadays and wonder if I have faded into vanilla. I hate dressing up of all kinds and heels. Really isn’t me and that won’t change. Not interested in public, outdoors, illegal, non consensual or involving people that don’t consent it’s between us. I will not do anything that puts me on the sex offenders register or that will lose me my work. Yes I have had chemo and that has impacted me physically around right breast play (lumpectomy) anal (rarely an option) and right side, so also no smokers. Hate biting and pinching too! we No more choking out either and I welcome impact thuds n hurts. I know, demanding eh? ✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿ Him He will have control, slowly over time as trust and care develop. He will have my back, is my strength and my wise one to go to and share with. He will make me smile and I am content. He will lead me spiritually, intellectually and emotionally as I am his. He sees the girl who wants love, respect, support, tenderness, compassion and care and also the worthless whore who needs using, humiliating and respects the woman I am, as I respect the man he is. He is emotionally intelligent and can step up to be with me. Romance x I offer all I want too x Yachad in Hebrew, means together. When used for two people, it signifies their action of becoming one, not a static or passive unity. Control and manipulation are not dominance, it is a mutual and reciprocal dance. This is fundamental to me as I choose to follow his lead in this dance. He will be a natural leader, my mate, partner, soul mate, confidante, Sir, Daddy, Master, Top, King, Liege. He is also ***, present, caring and can lean on me too. He is experienced in life and closer to my age and reflective, emotionally articulate. I offer what I want too, to you, for you. Emotionally I am very stable and offer equality to gain authority. ✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿ If you want to know more about me: I am rare in my personality type in that I am an INFJ, this is me: https://www.16personalities.com/infj-personality People use words like articulate, wise, caring, intelligent, generous, however that's relative so please make your own mind up. I want to think I am self reflective and emotionally literate but I screw that up at times. I am an ambivert, I prefer home, family, a film and a musical. Life is great, precious and worked for and I reciprocate what is given, I tend to respond and follow vs lead. My sex and play drive are reactive. I am not keen on being bitten, so not so primal. Pinching nope too. If you hate women move on. I love the sea, holidays in the sun, to read (real books), theatre, OMG a musical, science fantasy, la prairie face cream, a mulberry bag, films, singing, singing well I'll have you know, my 3 dogs and two cats, to cook for and look after others and so importantly my family, those I love. ..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/.._______..)/..___ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯ Stroking my face is as important as slapping it Holding me is as important as holding me down Protecting me is as important as endangering me Bruising my heart is as important as bruising my body Respecting me is as important as humiliating me Spoiling me is as important as ruining me Loving me is as important as fucking her (or the fantasy) Caring for me is as important as humiliating me Saying I love you is as important as calling me a whore Looking after me is as important as using me Holding my hand is as important as grabbing me Kissing me is as important as brutally fucking me Valuing me is as important as devaluing me Respecting my rights is as important as respecting them My mind is as important as my body My emotions are as important as your disdain Asking about me is as important as telling me about you The psychological is as important as the physical (if not more) He knows these things and attempts to get them right (eventually) ..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/.._______..)/..___ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯ With love and respect

Looking for party pals and experienced bigs. Woods, wild men and stable folk step forward. Write me an erotic story/smut fiction. Convince me you're worth my submission.

Fierce, independent, unrepentant powerhouse of a woman. Successful, hard working business owner, no time for low effort, low value, low achievers. Fun times with high effort, clear communication, honesty and respect are my biggest kinks. The rest will follow and develop organically with mutual trust and a willingness to both bring energy and effort to the party. If you aren’t bringing, you are taking, be that my time, energy or cognitive load. The patriarchy is dying, run along to your mamma/back under your rock if you disagree.

I seek a Dom whose essence is rooted in something deeper - a man attuned to the sacred dance of polarity. You embody the Divine Masculine not as a performance, but as a presence. Stable, intentional, and aware of what the feminine truly needs to soften, open, receive, and thrive. You’re spiritually inclined - holding knowledge of the esoteric, emotionally intelligent, and mentally stimulating. I am sapiosexual. Words, wisdom, and self-awareness turn me on far more than aesthetics ever could. You’re someone who sees D/s for what it truly is: Not just roles and rituals, but a deeply intimate, evolving container of trust, clarity, friendship, and mutual devotion. You know when to lead and when to simply listen. You desire to discover me - not just my preferences, but my nervous system, my history, my soul. And I will do the same for you. Emotional availability is non-negotiable. I do not chase. I will not beg for presence, affection, or clarity. May beg for other things, though. Your consistency is your credibility. You are somewhat trauma + neurodivergence-informed, understand how it plays a role in these dynamics, and not threatened by depth, vulnerability, or silence (our lives can get unexpectedly busy) ~ I do not do polyamory. I value honesty over pretense - masks are only welcome if we’re playing. 😉 I see behind facades easily, so spare us both the performance. Therefore come as you are, even if it’s messy. I care for real over polished. Yes, I’m a masochist, but I will feel it in my bones if your sadism stems from wounded masculinity or the desire to dominate women without care. This is about power with, not power over. We are equals in different energetic roles, your leadership must be anchored in empathy, not ego. I am careful with whom I share sacred sexual energy with, and I am still a beginner in certain ways. Other subs may be more experienced and that may be your preference - follow it. Patience, consideration and aftercare are essential. Cuddle me. Play with my hair. Ground me. I’m not here for confusion, power games, or small talk. Not necessarily seeking conventional commitment, but do crave emotional presence. If you are emotionally absent I cannot flow as my authentic self. Show up with your heart space open, your energy grounded, and actions aligned. Casual energy often won’t meet me, I’m looking for something conscious and passionate. I require a partner who leads not just with dominance, but with discernment and depth. So whether we’re walking together for a season or a lifetime, I ask only that you walk with sincerity. Think: sacred connection without attachment to outcome I love to laugh. Please don’t message me unless you truly resonate with this energy, we will not be compatible. I am not for everyone - and I like it that way. ~ PS/About me section: I come across strong here because it’s necessary, but really… I am cutie patootie lil angelic ball of sunshine. Whilst the idea of a cool blade to my throat is thrilling, if you manage to coax out my inner little girl - the one who giggles, plays, and beams without restraint, you’ve won and will reap the rewards~ Deeply drawn to all things soul-led. Nature, meditation, breathwork, self-development, ***s, and insightful + reflective conversations. I am an alchemist, highly intuitive, and ‘Heyoka’ as they call it (although I have an aversion to labels) Movement is medicine to me, I dance to feel alive. I feel through music, it’s a love language - send me a tune you love. Fond of photography, travel, scenic walks, gaming when I have time, and the occasional joint (stoner days are over). Also enjoy the gym and have been on a tough yet disciplined weightloss journey. I can cook a steak that’ll ruin you for all others. I am South African/Italian. There’s an abundance of lightness here once you’ve earned your way past the gates.

Hey, I’m jen! 📚🎮✈️ I’m all about books, drawing, gaming, and cooking. I love traveling and finding new spots to explore.🧚🏼‍♀️ I’m in a relationship and recently came out as bi. We’re looking for a third to join, for fun and good times🌈MJ fan🏻‍🏽 Also, I’m all about meeting new people. To chat with🏻‍🏽🥂

No face picture, no reply and if you push it it's an automatic block. I'm not talking to shadows, emojis or whatever you put as a profile picture. If you not ready to be yourself in the community, you not for me anyway. "I am the sin you crave, the temptation you cannot resist, the fire that will leave you scorched yet begging for more.." Lilith Welcome to my page I’m searching for something real — a connection with an open-minded soul who can meet me in the shadows and on the vanilla side too. A switch at heart, someone who can take control when the moment calls… yet melt beautifully when I decide to claim them. I crave depth, chemistry, and the kind of energy that lingers on the skin long after we’ve parted. Approach me with intention. Polite, confident messages get my attention. Lazy greetings such as hi, hey, yoo sexy will get you blocked. If you don’t know how to present yourself, you will never be ready for me. Address me as Miss, and understand what that means — respect, presence, and a mind that stays open to everything we may explore together. I will reciprocate the respect I recive. I’ve spent two decades immersed in the art of dominance, seduction, and psychological play. I’m not the playful kinky neighbour. I am the woman who leaves fingerprints on your habits, your fantasies, your discipline… and your heart, if you dare let me. My favourite flavours include: Chastity,occasional sissification, caging, restraint, ***, leash & collar play,dress-up, pegging, spanking (from teasing to brutal), CBT, orgasm denial, and more. I love attending events, soaking in the atmosphere, watching the world misbehave… …then coming home to a warm sofa, my partner curled against me. Before anything happens, we meet in person. I want to feel your energy, your tension, your curiosity. I want to see how your body reacts when I look at you. Hard limits: Poor hygiene *** / Vomit Diapers Mutilation Cyber play Dreamers Timewasters People who can’t follow through If you’re ready for a connection that has heat, darkness, softness, and real intimacy, then step toward me slowly. Let me feel that you’re worth my time. And maybe — just maybe — I’ll let you closer. WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a *** of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one

sub-leaning switch. soft dom is my jam. casually looking for a man with the right vibe to give the lead to. 🐶🎀 too smart for my own good. ask me any question and I’ll answer honestly. unless it’s a boring question, in which case I won’t answer at all.

Lean more towards being submissive, love to please and serve but will sometimes misbehave and need to be put in my place 😜. Looking for a dom who knows the perfect balance of rough and caring. Very open to trying new things and just having kinky fun ☺️ x bonus points if you’re Irish 😘 x

I’m a demisexual sub, interested in LTR. ♡ I’m monogamous and straight/heterosexual. If this changes, I’ll let you know. I’m looking for my future Daddy Dom and I’m very picky, don’t take it personally :D I love bubblegum and pretty pink things and being praised, especially for things other than just physicalities. I can make homemade bread/garlic bread and I play piano if asked nicely. I can touch the floor with both palms and sustain difficult yoga poses, I can hold my breath for 2 minutes and I can tie my own harnesses and rope cuffs. I recently learned violin amongst the other instruments I play; willing to serenade you. I don’t have any experience and I’m saving myself for someone special. I’m 5”11 without high heels on, my daddy’s age range is 25-45. ♡ ★ Boundaries ★ ♡ ✩ Please don’t send me pictures of your genitals. ✩ Please don’t interact if your profile contains pictures of your genitals. ✩ Please don’t tell me about your past experiences with exes. ✩ Please don’t treat me like an outlet to tell your own urges, fantasies and desires. ✩ Please don’t threaten me with sadistic behaviour, I am not a masochist. ✩ Please don’t message me if you are over 49 years old, your message will be deleted unread and no, you are not the exception. ♡ It’s not consensual until I’ve consented!

heyyyyy baby, I’m 18 British and looking for a daddy to treat me like his princess but also tie me up and use me in bed. I can cook, bake and clean and I’m also very clingy and obsessive 😘🥺

snap - Ella draisey 17 I’m a little/brat I want a daddy dom who lives close plz don’t add from far I do not do online relationships no one over 35 please 😇 if you add my snap send me a picture age and where your from please xox experienced daddy doms only plz if you have tattoos and a dad bod even better !!! I am looking for my forever daddy and want to settle down so don’t bother to message if u don’t feel the same xoxox

currently on holiday in penrith, looking for now fun experiences. only here for a few days. I'm into so many things, from ddlg, to bdsm and many, many more.

Not super active here but I always come back to check messages. Like dom sub dynamics, choking, bondage, cnc, ddlg, face fucking and spanking but super open to most things. Always open to message ♡

Plus-size sub looking to explore👸🏻I appreciate a mix of tenderness and intensity. Let's chat if you're interested in building trust and exploring our desires. I like to get dolled up for my Daddy/Dom •DS relationship •Sensation play •DD/LG •praise •orgasm control •water sports •cnc

I will be clear straight off i am not looking for distance so to not waste time i just won't reply. nor do I want to be a Domme. Sultry switch with a wicked streak... Based in the West Sussex area and looking to connect with someone who can spark my mind before my body. I’ve spent years as a confident, commanding Domme—it's in my bones—but lately, I've been craving something different... a shift in power, a chance to surrender. At heart, I’m a brat: clever, teasing, and never one to make it easy. I’m seeking a dominant playmate who can handle my fire, earn my obedience, and enjoy the thrill of the chase. If you’re firm, intelligent, and know how to turn mental games into irresistible tension, we might just click. Let’s play—but only if you can keep up.

I’m looking for a long term relationship or just new friends. I love exploring new.

Hey! I’ve pretty recently been lucky enough to have some kinky experiences that have left me craving more. I have very much discovered I identify as a true submissive and love pleasing my partner. I respond super well to praise and I am very attracted to charm and chivalry! I would love to get to know some likeminded kinky people and see what happens🥰

I am a strict, intuitive, highly selective Goddess who values discipline, loyalty and mental submission above all else. I don't chase. I don't convince. I choose. I don't need to raise my voice to command you, my expectations speak for themselves. I want subs who crave direction, structure, and the privilege of pleasing a woman who knows her worth. If you think you're ready to serve a real mistress, start by speaking respectfully and introducing yourself properly.

Welcome to the forest. Where s CreepyTree lives in the night. Don't you just love it when it's black outside and chilly enough to walk. I have a really kind, caring nature. Though I am a Masochist. I'm a 36 year old alternative lady who loves bright dreadlocks, has piercings and over 50 tattoos. I'm not skinny and far from a Barbie doll, I'm a proper woman, buy me a drink but don't get me drunk. I require work, not a quick spank, fuck me and fall asleep. Nuh uh. I like long sessions, some hard play, praise if I'm your good sub. I'm intelligent, I read and love puzzles. If you don't want to challenge or get to know me a little then....off you pop! I have ADHD, Bipolar and I hear voices, my mind works differently. Come and learn about me. I have a very naughty side. Why don't you come and tell me what you're going to do to me. I look forward to it.

Fierce, independent, unrepentant powerhouse of a woman. Successful, hard working business owner, no time for low effort, low value, low achievers. Fun times with high effort, clear communication, honesty and respect are my biggest kinks. The rest will follow and develop organically with mutual trust and a willingness to both bring energy and effort to the party. If you aren’t bringing, you are taking, be that my time, energy or cognitive load. The patriarchy is dying, run along to your mamma/back under your rock if you disagree.

Just exploring the community for the moment, and I'd love to chat! I'm particularly interested in talking with other plus sized women, subs, and queer folk, whether it's about kink or not. I'm asexual, and I'd love to talk with fellow kinky ace folks! If you're not ace, that's fine too :) My kinks mostly revolve around different aspects of control and ***. While I'm interested in eventually exploring these kinks more, I'm a complete newbie for now; I will need to find out if I can handle a little spanking first! Protocol, discipline, and punishment might come later, but I just want to have fun and get comfortable for now. If you're rude or presumptive in your first message, I will just ignore you. I'm an introvert and a big old nerd, so if you are too let's chat about what you're reading at the moment, or what games you're playing! I'm currently rereading Emma, and replaying the Mass Effect trilogy.

I am a sub who is looking for an experienced Dom. Having intelligence is important to me as well as having good communication skills and being respectful. I need to build a connection before meeting. I would probably lean towards someone less strict, so maybe a soft/pleasure Dom. Although I am based in Sussex, I travel to London frequently.

I'm different. not unique, but rare in what I like and how I like it. you had better be too. I'm just kinky. Dislike labels, but in this world of kink, there is a whole other language. I'm an intelligent but divvy blonde. Have my shit together and a busy, demanding job, so it would be nice to have someone who can massage the day away and insert a toy along the way. But, whatever you give, you shall also receive threefold? I love sharing sweet *** and leaving my tokens of affection on your skin. So, I am a Sadomasochistic, understanding Dom and I'm Affectionate with my aftercare. I'm nice, but do not be foolish and confuse that with soft. I like switching too, but never sub, just bottoming. I'm looking for a relationship/partner. An equal. A fellow Dom who likes to switch and share the dynamics, or perhaps an alpha sub/service top. I love a man who can wear female knickers, stockings, and a corset, but their masculinity still shines through. But lets be clear. whilst I love my sissy and CD friends, I am not into full sissification, CD or guys/girls who want their cock/clit locked in chastity permanently, unless it's transactional. Your whole body and cock will be mine to use as I see fit. if you are new, I'm not interested, unless you are exceptional, and let's be honest, you most probably aren't. I now also offer private client sessions for people who meet my prerequisites..... message me. I am also very particular in who I like, so don't be offended if I say no thank you. prerequisites: Intelligence Attention to detail Clean fingernails Confidence Availability Nice skin Shaven or waxed down in the fun zone, but ideally whole body, I like smooth. if you are in a relationship that's fine for sessional, but orherwise I'm not interested.

Looking for party pals and experienced bigs. Woods, wild men and stable folk step forward. Write me an erotic story/smut fiction. Convince me you're worth my submission.

Switch **Desires and Fantasies** Love rope and being restrained. I’m ideally looking for a Dom and in the future a relationship but for the moment I just want a FWB situation

Seeking a man (not a couple!) who is as passionate about bondage as I am. I do not follow any of the rules. If you're looking for an easy ride look elsewhere... Thinking about it I should really change my name as it's a bit misleading. I'm not that in to Shibari, but I thought the name sounded really cool! I love all sorts of bondage including pallet wrap, sleepsacks, leather straps and vetwrap. I'm not looking for a "Dom/Master"; I have no need for that sort of dynamic. I will submit to bondage, but outside of that you and I are equals. I have been in to bondage since early adulthood so I have lots of experience as a "bondage bottom". I have no interest in teaching anyone how to do Shibari as I don't switch. I am not a masochist. I'm not into receiving p@!n or being called names. If you want to degrade someone or cause them p@!n then please look elsewhere. P@!n and bondage are not intrinsically linked. For me, it's about that mental connection, initially flirting by *** whilst we discuss what might happen when we meet. Enough detail to know what's off limits, but not too much detail that means there's no surprises in store. There is a beauty and intensity in bondage that cannot be expressed in any other way. A passionate "dance" between two people, gripping them and enticing them in to experience more and more. You will be practical (even sensible!), but still imaginative even daring or challenging at the right times. I am not seeking 24/7, but I would hope we would be drinking buddies and restaurant companions as well as me being your bondage playmate. And when we were done we would laugh together and plan the next scene, exploring the wonderful world of bondage together. The mental connection is so important; you've got to like that person, want that person, respect that person, laugh with that person, and be very open with that person. The 'click', the same wavelength, the same needs and desires, are for me the most important. There has to be that trust there to be open with one another and to learn from, and teach each other. I am willful, passionate about everything I do and a hopeless romantic. That means that bondage is NOT an excuse for meaningless sex. You will have to win my heart before you get anywhere near my body. If you've got this far... well done! Thank you for taking the time to fully read my profile. **Desires and Fantasies** Being tied by someone who loves tying!

Welcome to my corner ? I am 5ft 6. Size 10 UK clothing UK, feet 41. more importantly, I am a pretty decent, kind, smart, funny human. I don’t send pics or videos. Like me or don’t, just add to my life, be single or have a casual partner, I am hierarchical, I want a ltr and sorry I don’t switch. I am a professional, a mother and human with the demi submissive cuckquean under pinning all of those. I am busy. I am NOT as confident as I seem, however I do have self esteem and self belief. I have a very active professional profile on FetLife too as TheKinkShrink, you can follow me there :-) I dislike Debbie, prefer Deb, Debs, Deborah. I am not here to chat or make friends as such. I am Demi submissive, so no I don’t just say yes for your pleasure. Apologies if that offends and no point reaching out for a chat. No I won’t teach you, sighs. I have had a lot of good and bad experiences and learnt a lot over 42 years in kink, I am always open to learning more. However, the likelihood of me finding someone is low and I am happy as me and you'd have to add to my life as I will yours ? Please be age appropriate, close ‘enough’ to my age. As I said, I am a demi submissive cuckquean. That means I am monogamish emotionally and sometimes may join in with the others he (whomever he is) plays and sleeps with, and maybe have no connection, tis a spectrum and his choice. However if we are monogamous, I like comparison and that can be done with stories, not meeting others. Connection is what matters, the ability to communicate, I will not tolerate lies, manipulation etc. A second chance is rare, that'll depend on how you handle it, a third doesn't exist. I need to feel cared for, respected and at times a little aware of the power exchange, this is a great mix for me. I do not and will never want a sub, please stop trying to convert me. I DON’T SWITCH! I am caring, loving, loyal, affectionate, submissive, naturally servile, smart and funny, there as a sounding board. I am also his worthless whore, a cum dump, worthy of *** and to hear how much he enjoys his others (IF he wants any, as just us is good too). I am more of an emotional masochist than physical nowadays and wonder if I have faded into vanilla. I hate dressing up of all kinds and heels. Really isn’t me and that won’t change. Not interested in public, outdoors, illegal, non consensual or involving people that don’t consent it’s between us. I will not do anything that puts me on the sex offenders register or that will lose me my work. Yes I have had chemo and that has impacted me physically around right breast play (lumpectomy) anal (rarely an option) and right side, so also no smokers. Hate biting and pinching too! we No more choking out either and I welcome impact thuds n hurts. I know, demanding eh? ✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿ Him He will have control, slowly over time as trust and care develop. He will have my back, is my strength and my wise one to go to and share with. He will make me smile and I am content. He will lead me spiritually, intellectually and emotionally as I am his. He sees the girl who wants love, respect, support, tenderness, compassion and care and also the worthless whore who needs using, humiliating and respects the woman I am, as I respect the man he is. He is emotionally intelligent and can step up to be with me. Romance x I offer all I want too x Yachad in Hebrew, means together. When used for two people, it signifies their action of becoming one, not a static or passive unity. Control and manipulation are not dominance, it is a mutual and reciprocal dance. This is fundamental to me as I choose to follow his lead in this dance. He will be a natural leader, my mate, partner, soul mate, confidante, Sir, Daddy, Master, Top, King, Liege. He is also ***, present, caring and can lean on me too. He is experienced in life and closer to my age and reflective, emotionally articulate. I offer what I want too, to you, for you. Emotionally I am very stable and offer equality to gain authority. ✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿ If you want to know more about me: I am rare in my personality type in that I am an INFJ, this is me: https://www.16personalities.com/infj-personality People use words like articulate, wise, caring, intelligent, generous, however that's relative so please make your own mind up. I want to think I am self reflective and emotionally literate but I screw that up at times. I am an ambivert, I prefer home, family, a film and a musical. Life is great, precious and worked for and I reciprocate what is given, I tend to respond and follow vs lead. My sex and play drive are reactive. I am not keen on being bitten, so not so primal. Pinching nope too. If you hate women move on. I love the sea, holidays in the sun, to read (real books), theatre, OMG a musical, science fantasy, la prairie face cream, a mulberry bag, films, singing, singing well I'll have you know, my 3 dogs and two cats, to cook for and look after others and so importantly my family, those I love. ..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/.._______..)/..___ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯ Stroking my face is as important as slapping it Holding me is as important as holding me down Protecting me is as important as endangering me Bruising my heart is as important as bruising my body Respecting me is as important as humiliating me Spoiling me is as important as ruining me Loving me is as important as fucking her (or the fantasy) Caring for me is as important as humiliating me Saying I love you is as important as calling me a whore Looking after me is as important as using me Holding my hand is as important as grabbing me Kissing me is as important as brutally fucking me Valuing me is as important as devaluing me Respecting my rights is as important as respecting them My mind is as important as my body My emotions are as important as your disdain Asking about me is as important as telling me about you The psychological is as important as the physical (if not more) He knows these things and attempts to get them right (eventually) ..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/.._______..)/..___ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯ With love and respect

I seek a Dom whose essence is rooted in something deeper - a man attuned to the sacred dance of polarity. You embody the Divine Masculine not as a performance, but as a presence. Stable, intentional, and aware of what the feminine truly needs to soften, open, receive, and thrive. You’re spiritually inclined - holding knowledge of the esoteric, emotionally intelligent, and mentally stimulating. I am sapiosexual. Words, wisdom, and self-awareness turn me on far more than aesthetics ever could. You’re someone who sees D/s for what it truly is: Not just roles and rituals, but a deeply intimate, evolving container of trust, clarity, friendship, and mutual devotion. You know when to lead and when to simply listen. You desire to discover me - not just my preferences, but my nervous system, my history, my soul. And I will do the same for you. Emotional availability is non-negotiable. I do not chase. I will not beg for presence, affection, or clarity. May beg for other things, though. Your consistency is your credibility. You are somewhat trauma + neurodivergence-informed, understand how it plays a role in these dynamics, and not threatened by depth, vulnerability, or silence (our lives can get unexpectedly busy) ~ I do not do polyamory. I value honesty over pretense - masks are only welcome if we’re playing. 😉 I see behind facades easily, so spare us both the performance. Therefore come as you are, even if it’s messy. I care for real over polished. Yes, I’m a masochist, but I will feel it in my bones if your sadism stems from wounded masculinity or the desire to dominate women without care. This is about power with, not power over. We are equals in different energetic roles, your leadership must be anchored in empathy, not ego. I am careful with whom I share sacred sexual energy with, and I am still a beginner in certain ways. Other subs may be more experienced and that may be your preference - follow it. Patience, consideration and aftercare are essential. Cuddle me. Play with my hair. Ground me. I’m not here for confusion, power games, or small talk. Not necessarily seeking conventional commitment, but do crave emotional presence. If you are emotionally absent I cannot flow as my authentic self. Show up with your heart space open, your energy grounded, and actions aligned. Casual energy often won’t meet me, I’m looking for something conscious and passionate. I require a partner who leads not just with dominance, but with discernment and depth. So whether we’re walking together for a season or a lifetime, I ask only that you walk with sincerity. Think: sacred connection without attachment to outcome I love to laugh. Please don’t message me unless you truly resonate with this energy, we will not be compatible. I am not for everyone - and I like it that way. ~ PS/About me section: I come across strong here because it’s necessary, but really… I am cutie patootie lil angelic ball of sunshine. Whilst the idea of a cool blade to my throat is thrilling, if you manage to coax out my inner little girl - the one who giggles, plays, and beams without restraint, you’ve won and will reap the rewards~ Deeply drawn to all things soul-led. Nature, meditation, breathwork, self-development, ***s, and insightful + reflective conversations. I am an alchemist, highly intuitive, and ‘Heyoka’ as they call it (although I have an aversion to labels) Movement is medicine to me, I dance to feel alive. I feel through music, it’s a love language - send me a tune you love. Fond of photography, travel, scenic walks, gaming when I have time, and the occasional joint (stoner days are over). Also enjoy the gym and have been on a tough yet disciplined weightloss journey. I can cook a steak that’ll ruin you for all others. I am South African/Italian. There’s an abundance of lightness here once you’ve earned your way past the gates.

sub-leaning switch. soft dom is my jam. casually looking for a man with the right vibe to give the lead to. 🐶🎀 too smart for my own good. ask me any question and I’ll answer honestly. unless it’s a boring question, in which case I won’t answer at all.

Hey, I’m jen! 📚🎮✈️ I’m all about books, drawing, gaming, and cooking. I love traveling and finding new spots to explore.🧚🏼‍♀️ I’m in a relationship and recently came out as bi. We’re looking for a third to join, for fun and good times🌈MJ fan🏻‍🏽 Also, I’m all about meeting new people. To chat with🏻‍🏽🥂

I’m looking for a long term relationship or just new friends. I love exploring new.

A bratty loud mouthed sub looking for fellow kink minded friends, and maybe a Dom if the chemistry hits just right. Massive nerd who spends her days baking, video gaming and frolicking in the woods, all while being terrorised by the most adorable Kitten, who I ***, is developing toe biting fetish. Great.... In a Long Term Non Monogamous Relationship

Plus-size sub looking to explore👸🏻I appreciate a mix of tenderness and intensity. Let's chat if you're interested in building trust and exploring our desires. I like to get dolled up for my Daddy/Dom •DS relationship •Sensation play •DD/LG •praise •orgasm control •water sports •cnc

heyyyyy baby, I’m 18 British and looking for a daddy to treat me like his princess but also tie me up and use me in bed. I can cook, bake and clean and I’m also very clingy and obsessive 😘🥺

Expat living in Iceland, with little experience in D/s dynamics how wants to learn more and explore. Nice to meet you, my name is Luiza. I’m in vanilla polyamorous open relationship.

heyyy I'm baby I'm 18, thick I love CNC and DDLG and free use. I'm looking for a daddy to take care of me and use me when he desires but will always be affectionate and praise me x

I have been in the kink scene over a year and have been doing my homework, learning the lingo and shaking off my L plates. I am looking to broaden my experiences with people who have not forgotten how important mental stimulation is in the art of seduction, and in my case, submission! I think I fit the profile of an obedient sun seeking a caring dom who can be patient, validating and a good teacher with a passion for edging, ropes and toys. Bonus points for body hair and a dad bod. I would prefer to meet people who are open to taking on a Primary role in an ENM relationship. I only wish to experiment with people who are open to building rapport and regular meets conducive to a D/s dynamic. I do like the idea of building emotional intimacy/dating and pretending we are a vanilla couple to the outside world…sharing our dirty little secret. My experiences so far have taught me that chemistry and building trust are fundamental to good sex so I will not rush to get under the sheets even if I let my imagination run wild over messages. I am looking for a dom who can be verbal; give plenty of instruction; *** and praise. Dominant but kind; rough yet caring and will empower me to serve them and reap my rewards. I have particularly enjoyed edging; orgasm control; fisting; anal; oral; restraints; toys; to help fulfil my desire to serve and be praised. So please don’t waste our time if you’re just going to send dick pics and be prepared to socialise or video chat before getting naked.

No face picture, no reply and if you push it it's an automatic block. I'm not talking to shadows, emojis or whatever you put as a profile picture. If you not ready to be yourself in the community, you not for me anyway. "I am the sin you crave, the temptation you cannot resist, the fire that will leave you scorched yet begging for more.." Lilith Welcome to my page I’m searching for something real — a connection with an open-minded soul who can meet me in the shadows and on the vanilla side too. A switch at heart, someone who can take control when the moment calls… yet melt beautifully when I decide to claim them. I crave depth, chemistry, and the kind of energy that lingers on the skin long after we’ve parted. Approach me with intention. Polite, confident messages get my attention. Lazy greetings such as hi, hey, yoo sexy will get you blocked. If you don’t know how to present yourself, you will never be ready for me. Address me as Miss, and understand what that means — respect, presence, and a mind that stays open to everything we may explore together. I will reciprocate the respect I recive. I’ve spent two decades immersed in the art of dominance, seduction, and psychological play. I’m not the playful kinky neighbour. I am the woman who leaves fingerprints on your habits, your fantasies, your discipline… and your heart, if you dare let me. My favourite flavours include: Chastity,occasional sissification, caging, restraint, ***, leash & collar play,dress-up, pegging, spanking (from teasing to brutal), CBT, orgasm denial, and more. I love attending events, soaking in the atmosphere, watching the world misbehave… …then coming home to a warm sofa, my partner curled against me. Before anything happens, we meet in person. I want to feel your energy, your tension, your curiosity. I want to see how your body reacts when I look at you. Hard limits: Poor hygiene *** / Vomit Diapers Mutilation Cyber play Dreamers Timewasters People who can’t follow through If you’re ready for a connection that has heat, darkness, softness, and real intimacy, then step toward me slowly. Let me feel that you’re worth my time. And maybe — just maybe — I’ll let you closer. WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a *** of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one

Hey! I’ve pretty recently been lucky enough to have some kinky experiences that have left me craving more. I have very much discovered I identify as a true submissive and love pleasing my partner. I respond super well to praise and I am very attracted to charm and chivalry! I would love to get to know some likeminded kinky people and see what happens🥰

currently on holiday in penrith, looking for now fun experiences. only here for a few days. I'm into so many things, from ddlg, to bdsm and many, many more.

Domme female with an appetite for face sitting and using her thick big strap to make you spasm and 💦 . I'm looking for a loyal sub to own long term, subs with fat 🍑 get priority. I can drive and live alone