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Busty Dom looking for male and female subs to worship me. Golden showers, needle play, foot worship, breast worship always encouraged. My interests include corsetry, hosiery, and pretty slaves of any gender
Female (41) Brighton, West Sussex
Just exploring the community for the moment! I'm not interested in dating, meeting up in person, anything like that, but I'd love to chat :) I'm particularly interested in talking with other plus sized women, subs, and queer folk, whether it's about kink or not! I'm asexual, and I'd love to talk with fellow kinky ace folks! If you're not ace, that's fine too, happy to talk about what being asexual and kinky means to me ? My kinks mostly revolve around different aspects of control and humiliation, but I'm not pursuing any real life encounters right now. If you want to talk about these things, please remember to treat me like a person first. I might be a submissive, but I'm not YOUR submissive. If you're rude or presumptive in your first message, I will just ignore you. I'm an introvert and a big old nerd, so if you are too let's chat about what you're reading at the moment, or what games you're playing!
Female (31) Crawley, West Sussex
Switch **Desires and Fantasies** Love rope and being restrained.
Female (21) Brighton, West Sussex
Hi! This is my first time on a site like this so excuse me if I'm shy. I've never tried any kinks other than daddy/mommy stuff (and apparently a breeding kink too) so I'm here to kinda see what else I'd maybe like :3 Also before you say anything; I'm still a virgin so I might be a bit awkward.
Female (18) Crawley, West Sussex
Hi, I am a Domme with jiggly bits. I dont take things too seriously but have a complicated private life. I might vanish and then re-appear. I am not looking for new subs at the moment, thank you. Thanks for reading this absolutely award winning description.
Female (54) Horsham, West Sussex
Hello All, I am currently looking for a Tall Dom (6ft 2' plus) who would be willing to train me further and explore different scenarios with me. I enjoy bondage (ropes and chains), impact play (floggers, paddles, whips, crops), teasing and orgasm control, rules and tasks and exhibitionism. I have attended many KK parties and fet parties but have yet to attend a Torture Garden party - which I would love to dress up for. I look forward to hearing from you - if this is of interest to you x **Desires and Fantasies** My main desire is to be 'owned'. To be used and cared for by someone who completely understands me. I want them to show me off in public and be proud of me and my unique abilities and in turn I will serve them and them alone.
Female (52) Southwick, West Sussex
Extremely ticklish, neurodivergent girl who gets seriously turned on by tickling! Love being tickled, but I also switch, so be prepared for merciless revenge! I would get my account verified but that means paying for a premium subscription, can’t afford that, sorry lads! IMPORTANT: Please be patient with me. I have a life outside of this. I do not log on here everyday. I am a woman showing off her feet - that means I get a LOT of men messaging me, and it can get overwhelming at times! Also, please don’t call me a time waster just because I just want to chat online and am reluctant to meet. My profile doesn’t specify meet-ups, so you should NOT expect them - BUT, they are not out of the question either! It depends on how I feel with the guy I’m chatting with. Pressure me, and it’s bye bye, bastard! I am a person, not your object. Respect me and be yourself (don’t pretend to be nice if you’re actually a complete git!) - that way you might actually get to have my feet for real ☺️ **Desires and Fantasies** To have my bare feet tickle tortured in the stocks. My toes would be individually tied back, stretching and exposing my arches, and exposing my most vulnerable spots: between and underneath my toes! Two guys would be tickling me. I would be driven absolutely wild as the ticklers explore my soles, using different tools and techniques to see what tickles the most! Afterwards, I would be tied to a bed, with my legs spread wide apart, exposing my dripping wet pussy. They would stroke my throbbing clit with a feather, driving me to an intense orgasm.
Female (33) Crawley, West Sussex
Seeking a man (not a couple!) who is as passionate about bondage as I am. I do not follow any of the rules. If you're looking for an easy ride look elsewhere... Thinking about it I should really change my name as it's a bit misleading. I'm not that in to Shibari, but I thought the name sounded really cool! I love all sorts of bondage including pallet wrap, sleepsacks, leather straps and vetwrap. I'm not looking for a "Dom/Master"; I have no need for that sort of dynamic. I will submit to bondage, but outside of that you and I are equals. I have been in to bondage since I was a teenager so I have lots of experience as a ' bondage bottom'. I have no interest in teaching anyone how to do Shibari as I don't switch. I am not a masochist. I'm not into receiving pain or being called names. If you want to degrade someone or cause them pain then please look elsewhere. Pain and bondage are not intrinsically linked. For me, it's about that mental connection, initially flirting by email whilst we discuss what might happen when we meet. Enough detail to know what's off limits, but not too much detail that means there's no surprises in store. There is a beauty and intensity in bondage that cannot be expressed in any other way. A passionate "dance" between two people, gripping them and enticing them in to experience more and more. You will be practical (even sensible!), but still imaginative even daring or challenging at the right times. I am not seeking 24/7, but I would hope we would be drinking buddies and restaurant companions as well as me being your bondage playmate. And when we were done we would laugh together and plan the next scene, exploring the wonderful world of bondage together. The mental connection is so important; you've got to like that person, want that person, respect that person, laugh with that person, and be very open with that person. The 'click', the same wavelength, the same needs and desires, are for me the most important. There has to be that trust there to be open with one another and to learn from, and teach each other. I am willful, passionate about everything I do and a hopeless romantic. That means that bondage is NOT an excuse for meaningless sex. You will have to win my heart before you get anywhere near my body. If you've got this far... well done! Thank you for taking the time to fully read my profile. **Desires and Fantasies** Being tied by someone who loves tying!
Female (55) Copthorne, West Sussex
Looking for party pals and experienced bigs. Woods, wild men and stable folk step forward. Write me an erotic story/smut fiction. Convince me you're worth my submission.
Female (36) Brighton, West Sussex
Welcome to my corner ? I am 5ft 6. Size 18 clothing UK, feet 41. Yep, I am no lie, so don't expect me to be shorter, thinner or younger lol, or buy me size 38 shoes, ha, like me for me. I am zaftig :-) I am not a 10 by far, nor do I expect you to be, and I like me. I don’t send pics or videos. Like me or don’t. Meh. Yes why am I single?? Standards. Add to my life. I am a professional, a mother and human with the demi submissive cuckquean under pinning all of those. I am busy. I am NOT as confident as I seem, however I do have self esteem and self belief. I have a very active professional profile on FetLife too as TheKinkShrink, you can follow me there :-) I dislike Debbie, prefer Deb, Debs, Deborah. I am not here to chat or make friends as such. Apologies if that offends and no point reaching out for a chat. Bad approaches are fodder to share anonymously as my professional persona on FetLife, 'TheKinkShrink' so be warned. I have had a lot of good and bad experiences and learnt a lot over 41 years in kink, I am always open to learning more. However, the likelihood of me finding someone is low and I am happy as me and you'd have to add to my life as I will yours ? Please be age appropriate, 8yrs either side tops! As I said, I am a demi submissive cuckquean. That means I am monogamish, emotionally and sometimes may join in with the others he plays and sleeps with, and maybe have no connection, tis a spectrum and his choice. However if we are monogamous I like comparison and that can be done with stories, not meeting others. Connection is what matters, the ability to communicate, I will not tolerate lies, manipulation etc. A second chance is rare, that'll depend on how you handle it, a third doesn't exist. I need to feel cared for, respected and at times a little aware of the power exchange, this is a great mix for me. I do not and will never want a sub, please stop trying to convert me. I am caring, ? loving, loyal, affectionate, submissive, naturally servile, smart and funny, there as a sounding board. I am also his worthless whore, a cum dump, worthy of humiliation and to hear how much he enjoys his others (IF he wants any, as just us is good too). I am more of an emotional masochist than physical nowadays and wonder if I have faded into vanilla. I hate dressing up of all kinds and heels. Really isn’t me and that won’t change. Not interested in public, outdoors, illegal, non consensual or involving people that don’t consent! it’s between us. I will not do anything that puts me on the sex offenders register or that will lose me my work. Yes I have had chemo and that has impacted me physically around right breast play (lumpectomy) anal (rarely an option) and right side, so also no smokers. Hate biting and pinching too! No more choking out either and I welcome impact thuds n hurts. I know, demanding eh? ✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿ Him He will have control, slowly over time as trust and care develop. He will have my back, is my strength and my wise one to go to and share with. He will make me smile and I am content. He will lead me spiritually, intellectually and emotionally as I am his. He sees the girl who wants love, respect, support, tenderness, compassion and care and also the worthless whore who needs using, humiliating and respects the woman I am, as I respect the man he is. He is emotionally intelligent and can step up to be with me. Romance x I offer all I want too x Yachad in Hebrew, means together. When used for two people, it signifies their action of becoming one, not a static or passive unity. Control and manipulation are not dominance, it is a mutual and reciprocal dance. This is fundamental to me I choose to follow his lead in this dance. He will be a natural leader, my mate, partner, soul mate, confidante, Sir, Daddy, Master, Top, King, Liege. He is also vulnerable, present, caring and can lean on me too. He is experienced in life and closer to my age and reflective, emotionally articulate. I offer what I want too, to you, for you. Emotionally I am very stable and offer equality? ✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿ If you want to know more about me: I am rare in my personality type in that I am an INFJ, this is me: https://www.16personalities.com/infj-personality People use words like articulate, wise, caring, intelligent ?, however that's relative so make your own mind up. I want to think I am self reflective and emotionally literate but I screw that up at times. I am an ambivert, I prefer home, family, a film and a musical. Life is great, precious and worked for ? and I reciprocate what is given, I tend to respond and follow vs lead. My sex and play drive are reactive. I am not keen on being bitten, so not so primal. Pinching nope too. If you hate women move on. I love the sea, holidays in the sun, to read (real books), theatre, OMG a musical, science fantasy, la prairie skin caviar face cream, a mulberry bag lol, films, singing, singing well, I'll have you know, my 3 dogs and two cats, to cook for and look after others and so importantly, family ? ..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/.._______..)/..___ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯ Stroking my face is as important as slapping it Holding me is as important as holding me down Protecting me is as important as endangering me Bruising my heart is as important as bruising my body Respecting me is as important as humiliating me Spoiling me is as important as ruining me Loving me is as important as fucking her (or the fantasy) Caring for me is as important as humiliating me Saying I love you is as important as calling me a whore Looking after me is as important as using me Holding my hand is as important as grabbing me Kissing me is as important as brutally fucking me Valuing me is as important as devaluing me Respecting my rights is as important as respecting them My mind is as important as my body My emotions are as important as your disdain Asking about me is as important as telling me about you The psychological is as important as the physical (if not more) He knows these things and attempts to get them right (eventually) ..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/.._______..)/..___ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯ With love and respect ?
Female (58) Lancing, West Sussex
Hot blonde in a relationship looking for a secret playmate. Into older guys to be my daddy and teach me a thing or two. **Desires and Fantasies** Fancy dress. Role play.
Female (35) Worthing, West Sussex
• Back after a long break. Interested in learning more and experiencing parts of kink I’ve not yet explored. • Exploring impact play as a sub and finding my soft and hard pain limits is exciting. *just because I’m a sub, does **NOT** mean I’m your sub. Please be respectful - no honorifics.
Female (50) Brighton, West Sussex
Choke me then make me dinner < 3 only message if you can handle my brat side ; ) likes- Restraints, impact pain, denial, *forced*, praise, group,
Female (24) Burgess Hill, West Sussex
Hey new here, I know what I like and I'd love to explore more but I've had no opportunity to express that side of me so I'd love to talk to some likeminded people ❤️ very sub so drop a message. Can I just be a cute housewife or something. Love bondage, teasing, cnc, deep throat, collars, always open to try new things.
Female (23) Worthing, West Sussex
I have been Dominant for many years I am now looking to explore my submissive side in more depth. I am only interested a very Dominant man who is very good at controlling brats.
Female (36) Horsham, West Sussex
I'm just looking to see what this is all about and hopefully meet some like-minded people. Bratty middle with a praise kink. alternative, curvy, short ass.
Female (27) Chichester, West Sussex
not sure what I'm looking for in the long run but for now some like minded people for a FWB situation. basics: tattoos, piercings, ADHD, introvert, sci-fi, coffee, cocktails, museums, aquariums, cats, fuck the tories more: sub but major brat. want to explore my primal side. bruising, biting, choking, aggression, play fighting
Female (27) Chichester, West Sussex
I am a curvy 34 ff who loves receiving breast/nipple play and more.... D) Im interested in many things **Desires and Fantasies** just being naughty ? Imagine ?
Female (59) Horsham, West Sussex
I'm fairly new to this, but that doesn't mean I haven't done my research. I am here to explore my submission. Looking for a person not a pen pal.
Female (34) Angmering, West Sussex
I’m happily married- we are interested in exploring our sexuality and adding some fun and adventure! I love BDSM - I’m a switch- I love having dirty sexting sessions and phone sex- more recently Skype calls. I sell stuff on allthingsworn and I just love exploring my kinkier sides
Female (30) Horsham, West Sussex
Thanks for visiting my page. Edit December 2022; In the Before Times I was very much a heavy masochist, very big on rope play, choking and anything at all to so with knives. Since then my own body won't allow me to take on those kinds of demanding challenges. I can't run events right now - I hope you weren't holding your breath for a R.A.C.K event any time soon! For now I'm mostly just chilling out and letting my body have the rest it needs. I'm not actively looking for a partner, I'm limited on how much I can physically offer someone. But if I met someone I liked who wanted a little disabled unicorn kitty to gently pet occasionally then I wouldn't rule it out either. I have my amazing and beautiful best friends/soulmates Lucy & Martin who are a major part of my life, love and happiness ❤️ Keep kinky, healthy and happy. Much love to you all ? Old profile; I'm Polyamorous, it's very important to me and I will not date anyone monogamous or who is in a monogamous relationship. I am always happy to make friends, you can probably find me in Fetish.com's chat room "The Lobby" If you don't have a face pic, I probably won't respond, I also filter messages by age and verification. I'm 4ft 11" Kink is a big part of my life but being a Mumma will always come first. My son is my world, nothing and no one will ever change that. If I had to label myself, it would be 'sadomasochist' but I'm so much more than that; A little bit little A little bit kitten A little bit unicorn A fair amount Sadist A hell of a lot Masochist All sorts of FUN! I'm not looking for a submissive. Thanks. Take care, be kinky!
Female (41) Portslade, West Sussex
I’m an affectionate Domme/Mistress, with an interest in power play, pegging, tease and denial, sensation play and I love having the power of being miles away, verbally edging my sub online until they’re squirming and creaming in public. Fairly open-minded and accommodating to sub’s kinks, I’ve had subs into degradation, humiliation, cross dressing, Latex, PVC, leather, exhibitionism, exposure, naked male/clothed female, boot worship, foot fetish, CBT, spanking, “forced” bi, etc… and can be a service top. Open to bondage and discipline, but holding off on breath play bc I’m not first aid trained. Still fairly new to this, had subs online since 2020, currently keeping two subs, whom I adore, but not much in-person experience. That may change, but also happy for online only. Interested in men, women, NB, all welcome, hopefully we’ll find some common interests.
Female (32) Brighton, West Sussex
Masochistic sub slut with exhibitionist tendencies. looking for kinky dating, regular play partners, or fun with couples. Poly. I'm a whimsical dreamer, a nurturer and empath. I'm fiercely protective of and loyal to people I care about. You're more likely to find me listening and absorbing than being the life of the party. I'm often found curled up with a cuppa and a good book. I find myself happy when I'm in a creative space, enjoying writing fiction, alongside crochet and collecting an unhealthy amount of plants.
Female (40) Chichester, West Sussex
new to scene. Voyeur, exhibitionism, brat. Short, goofy, gamer girl, decent butt and boobs. Bright eyes. Curvy slim
Female (29) Littlehampton, West Sussex

New members in West Sussex

Hi! This is my first time on a site like this so excuse me if I'm shy. I've never tried any kinks other than daddy/mommy stuff (and apparently a breeding kink too) so I'm here to kinda see what else I'd maybe like :3 Also before you say anything; I'm still a virgin so I might be a bit awkward.
Female (18) Crawley, West Sussex
Just exploring the community for the moment! I'm not interested in dating, meeting up in person, anything like that, but I'd love to chat :) I'm particularly interested in talking with other plus sized women, subs, and queer folk, whether it's about kink or not! I'm asexual, and I'd love to talk with fellow kinky ace folks! If you're not ace, that's fine too, happy to talk about what being asexual and kinky means to me ? My kinks mostly revolve around different aspects of control and humiliation, but I'm not pursuing any real life encounters right now. If you want to talk about these things, please remember to treat me like a person first. I might be a submissive, but I'm not YOUR submissive. If you're rude or presumptive in your first message, I will just ignore you. I'm an introvert and a big old nerd, so if you are too let's chat about what you're reading at the moment, or what games you're playing!
Female (31) Crawley, West Sussex
Hi, I am a Domme with jiggly bits. I dont take things too seriously but have a complicated private life. I might vanish and then re-appear. I am not looking for new subs at the moment, thank you. Thanks for reading this absolutely award winning description.
Female (54) Horsham, West Sussex
Looking for party pals and experienced bigs. Woods, wild men and stable folk step forward. Write me an erotic story/smut fiction. Convince me you're worth my submission.
Female (36) Brighton, West Sussex
Switch **Desires and Fantasies** Love rope and being restrained.
Female (21) Brighton, West Sussex
Seeking a man (not a couple!) who is as passionate about bondage as I am. I do not follow any of the rules. If you're looking for an easy ride look elsewhere... Thinking about it I should really change my name as it's a bit misleading. I'm not that in to Shibari, but I thought the name sounded really cool! I love all sorts of bondage including pallet wrap, sleepsacks, leather straps and vetwrap. I'm not looking for a "Dom/Master"; I have no need for that sort of dynamic. I will submit to bondage, but outside of that you and I are equals. I have been in to bondage since I was a teenager so I have lots of experience as a ' bondage bottom'. I have no interest in teaching anyone how to do Shibari as I don't switch. I am not a masochist. I'm not into receiving pain or being called names. If you want to degrade someone or cause them pain then please look elsewhere. Pain and bondage are not intrinsically linked. For me, it's about that mental connection, initially flirting by email whilst we discuss what might happen when we meet. Enough detail to know what's off limits, but not too much detail that means there's no surprises in store. There is a beauty and intensity in bondage that cannot be expressed in any other way. A passionate "dance" between two people, gripping them and enticing them in to experience more and more. You will be practical (even sensible!), but still imaginative even daring or challenging at the right times. I am not seeking 24/7, but I would hope we would be drinking buddies and restaurant companions as well as me being your bondage playmate. And when we were done we would laugh together and plan the next scene, exploring the wonderful world of bondage together. The mental connection is so important; you've got to like that person, want that person, respect that person, laugh with that person, and be very open with that person. The 'click', the same wavelength, the same needs and desires, are for me the most important. There has to be that trust there to be open with one another and to learn from, and teach each other. I am willful, passionate about everything I do and a hopeless romantic. That means that bondage is NOT an excuse for meaningless sex. You will have to win my heart before you get anywhere near my body. If you've got this far... well done! Thank you for taking the time to fully read my profile. **Desires and Fantasies** Being tied by someone who loves tying!
Female (55) Copthorne, West Sussex
Busty Dom looking for male and female subs to worship me. Golden showers, needle play, foot worship, breast worship always encouraged. My interests include corsetry, hosiery, and pretty slaves of any gender
Female (41) Brighton, West Sussex
Extremely ticklish, neurodivergent girl who gets seriously turned on by tickling! Love being tickled, but I also switch, so be prepared for merciless revenge! I would get my account verified but that means paying for a premium subscription, can’t afford that, sorry lads! IMPORTANT: Please be patient with me. I have a life outside of this. I do not log on here everyday. I am a woman showing off her feet - that means I get a LOT of men messaging me, and it can get overwhelming at times! Also, please don’t call me a time waster just because I just want to chat online and am reluctant to meet. My profile doesn’t specify meet-ups, so you should NOT expect them - BUT, they are not out of the question either! It depends on how I feel with the guy I’m chatting with. Pressure me, and it’s bye bye, bastard! I am a person, not your object. Respect me and be yourself (don’t pretend to be nice if you’re actually a complete git!) - that way you might actually get to have my feet for real ☺️ **Desires and Fantasies** To have my bare feet tickle tortured in the stocks. My toes would be individually tied back, stretching and exposing my arches, and exposing my most vulnerable spots: between and underneath my toes! Two guys would be tickling me. I would be driven absolutely wild as the ticklers explore my soles, using different tools and techniques to see what tickles the most! Afterwards, I would be tied to a bed, with my legs spread wide apart, exposing my dripping wet pussy. They would stroke my throbbing clit with a feather, driving me to an intense orgasm.
Female (33) Crawley, West Sussex
Hello All, I am currently looking for a Tall Dom (6ft 2' plus) who would be willing to train me further and explore different scenarios with me. I enjoy bondage (ropes and chains), impact play (floggers, paddles, whips, crops), teasing and orgasm control, rules and tasks and exhibitionism. I have attended many KK parties and fet parties but have yet to attend a Torture Garden party - which I would love to dress up for. I look forward to hearing from you - if this is of interest to you x **Desires and Fantasies** My main desire is to be 'owned'. To be used and cared for by someone who completely understands me. I want them to show me off in public and be proud of me and my unique abilities and in turn I will serve them and them alone.
Female (52) Southwick, West Sussex
Hot blonde in a relationship looking for a secret playmate. Into older guys to be my daddy and teach me a thing or two. **Desires and Fantasies** Fancy dress. Role play.
Female (35) Worthing, West Sussex
Welcome to my corner ? I am 5ft 6. Size 18 clothing UK, feet 41. Yep, I am no lie, so don't expect me to be shorter, thinner or younger lol, or buy me size 38 shoes, ha, like me for me. I am zaftig :-) I am not a 10 by far, nor do I expect you to be, and I like me. I don’t send pics or videos. Like me or don’t. Meh. Yes why am I single?? Standards. Add to my life. I am a professional, a mother and human with the demi submissive cuckquean under pinning all of those. I am busy. I am NOT as confident as I seem, however I do have self esteem and self belief. I have a very active professional profile on FetLife too as TheKinkShrink, you can follow me there :-) I dislike Debbie, prefer Deb, Debs, Deborah. I am not here to chat or make friends as such. Apologies if that offends and no point reaching out for a chat. Bad approaches are fodder to share anonymously as my professional persona on FetLife, 'TheKinkShrink' so be warned. I have had a lot of good and bad experiences and learnt a lot over 41 years in kink, I am always open to learning more. However, the likelihood of me finding someone is low and I am happy as me and you'd have to add to my life as I will yours ? Please be age appropriate, 8yrs either side tops! As I said, I am a demi submissive cuckquean. That means I am monogamish, emotionally and sometimes may join in with the others he plays and sleeps with, and maybe have no connection, tis a spectrum and his choice. However if we are monogamous I like comparison and that can be done with stories, not meeting others. Connection is what matters, the ability to communicate, I will not tolerate lies, manipulation etc. A second chance is rare, that'll depend on how you handle it, a third doesn't exist. I need to feel cared for, respected and at times a little aware of the power exchange, this is a great mix for me. I do not and will never want a sub, please stop trying to convert me. I am caring, ? loving, loyal, affectionate, submissive, naturally servile, smart and funny, there as a sounding board. I am also his worthless whore, a cum dump, worthy of humiliation and to hear how much he enjoys his others (IF he wants any, as just us is good too). I am more of an emotional masochist than physical nowadays and wonder if I have faded into vanilla. I hate dressing up of all kinds and heels. Really isn’t me and that won’t change. Not interested in public, outdoors, illegal, non consensual or involving people that don’t consent! it’s between us. I will not do anything that puts me on the sex offenders register or that will lose me my work. Yes I have had chemo and that has impacted me physically around right breast play (lumpectomy) anal (rarely an option) and right side, so also no smokers. Hate biting and pinching too! No more choking out either and I welcome impact thuds n hurts. I know, demanding eh? ✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿ Him He will have control, slowly over time as trust and care develop. He will have my back, is my strength and my wise one to go to and share with. He will make me smile and I am content. He will lead me spiritually, intellectually and emotionally as I am his. He sees the girl who wants love, respect, support, tenderness, compassion and care and also the worthless whore who needs using, humiliating and respects the woman I am, as I respect the man he is. He is emotionally intelligent and can step up to be with me. Romance x I offer all I want too x Yachad in Hebrew, means together. When used for two people, it signifies their action of becoming one, not a static or passive unity. Control and manipulation are not dominance, it is a mutual and reciprocal dance. This is fundamental to me I choose to follow his lead in this dance. He will be a natural leader, my mate, partner, soul mate, confidante, Sir, Daddy, Master, Top, King, Liege. He is also vulnerable, present, caring and can lean on me too. He is experienced in life and closer to my age and reflective, emotionally articulate. I offer what I want too, to you, for you. Emotionally I am very stable and offer equality? ✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿ If you want to know more about me: I am rare in my personality type in that I am an INFJ, this is me: https://www.16personalities.com/infj-personality People use words like articulate, wise, caring, intelligent ?, however that's relative so make your own mind up. I want to think I am self reflective and emotionally literate but I screw that up at times. I am an ambivert, I prefer home, family, a film and a musical. Life is great, precious and worked for ? and I reciprocate what is given, I tend to respond and follow vs lead. My sex and play drive are reactive. I am not keen on being bitten, so not so primal. Pinching nope too. If you hate women move on. I love the sea, holidays in the sun, to read (real books), theatre, OMG a musical, science fantasy, la prairie skin caviar face cream, a mulberry bag lol, films, singing, singing well, I'll have you know, my 3 dogs and two cats, to cook for and look after others and so importantly, family ? ..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/.._______..)/..___ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯ Stroking my face is as important as slapping it Holding me is as important as holding me down Protecting me is as important as endangering me Bruising my heart is as important as bruising my body Respecting me is as important as humiliating me Spoiling me is as important as ruining me Loving me is as important as fucking her (or the fantasy) Caring for me is as important as humiliating me Saying I love you is as important as calling me a whore Looking after me is as important as using me Holding my hand is as important as grabbing me Kissing me is as important as brutally fucking me Valuing me is as important as devaluing me Respecting my rights is as important as respecting them My mind is as important as my body My emotions are as important as your disdain Asking about me is as important as telling me about you The psychological is as important as the physical (if not more) He knows these things and attempts to get them right (eventually) ..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/.._______..)/..___ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯ With love and respect ?
Female (58) Lancing, West Sussex
Hey new here, I know what I like and I'd love to explore more but I've had no opportunity to express that side of me so I'd love to talk to some likeminded people ❤️ very sub so drop a message. Can I just be a cute housewife or something. Love bondage, teasing, cnc, deep throat, collars, always open to try new things.
Female (23) Worthing, West Sussex
Choke me then make me dinner < 3 only message if you can handle my brat side ; ) likes- Restraints, impact pain, denial, *forced*, praise, group,
Female (24) Burgess Hill, West Sussex
I'm fairly new to this, but that doesn't mean I haven't done my research. I am here to explore my submission. Looking for a person not a pen pal.
Female (34) Angmering, West Sussex
not sure what I'm looking for in the long run but for now some like minded people for a FWB situation. basics: tattoos, piercings, ADHD, introvert, sci-fi, coffee, cocktails, museums, aquariums, cats, fuck the tories more: sub but major brat. want to explore my primal side. bruising, biting, choking, aggression, play fighting
Female (27) Chichester, West Sussex
I'm just looking to see what this is all about and hopefully meet some like-minded people. Bratty middle with a praise kink. alternative, curvy, short ass.
Female (27) Chichester, West Sussex
Important info, pls read :D ★ ★ ★ I’m a demisexual sub. I can be bratty but I like to be a good girl if I respect my Sir’s authority enough. ♡ Google “demisexual definition” if you don’t know what it means instead of asking me. I’m sick of explaining it to people just for it to not even go anywhere. Rant over >:( ♡ Don’t send me nudes, it’s weird and non consensual. ♡ I’m only interested in a long term monogamous relationship with a DDlg, D/s or CG/l dynamic; I am not a domme. ♡ I want to be spoiled and nurtured and trained into the best version of myself. ♡ Feel free to write me, I look forward to meeting you❀ ★ ★ ★ == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Submissive 94% Brat 91% Rope bunny 88% Girl 80% Slave 75% Pet 71% Masochist 67% Experimentalist 66% Degradee 65% Ageplayer 62% Primal (Prey) 53% Vanilla 3% Non-monogamist 2% Exhibitionist 0% Switch 0% Voyeur http://bdsmtest.org/r/kYjJ8t7P
Female (18) Chichester, West Sussex
'm naturally dominant in most areas of my life, highly educated and career driven. Kinks- MFF Brat taming Primal Findom Worship Chastity play I have particular dilections towards a suit wearing male or inked up female subs Hard Boundaries: Scat Blood Watersports Child play/nappy wearing Drugs
Female (39) Crawley, West Sussex
I have been Dominant for many years I am now looking to explore my submissive side in more depth. I am only interested a very Dominant man who is very good at controlling brats.
Female (36) Horsham, West Sussex
I’m happily married- we are interested in exploring our sexuality and adding some fun and adventure! I love BDSM - I’m a switch- I love having dirty sexting sessions and phone sex- more recently Skype calls. I sell stuff on allthingsworn and I just love exploring my kinkier sides
Female (30) Horsham, West Sussex
stand still , this is the second time this week you have been in my office, the spanking I administered to your bare bottom seems to have no effect as again you were caught cheating in your lesson , remove your trousers and pants, fetch me my cane,
Female (66) Crawley, West Sussex
new to scene. Voyeur, exhibitionism, brat. Short, goofy, gamer girl, decent butt and boobs. Bright eyes. Curvy slim
Female (29) Littlehampton, West Sussex
I’m a newbie and interested in exploring the fet world after years of vanilla s3x. Not sure what is it exactly I’m into but keen to try new things if I feel chemistry with someone.
Female (42) Chichester, West Sussex
Masochistic sub slut with exhibitionist tendencies. looking for kinky dating, regular play partners, or fun with couples. Poly. I'm a whimsical dreamer, a nurturer and empath. I'm fiercely protective of and loyal to people I care about. You're more likely to find me listening and absorbing than being the life of the party. I'm often found curled up with a cuppa and a good book. I find myself happy when I'm in a creative space, enjoying writing fiction, alongside crochet and collecting an unhealthy amount of plants.
Female (40) Chichester, West Sussex

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