Kinky Date in Stratford-upon-avon

Woman who are fun and have no limits

What is in surrender for me as a dominant?

in that moment she fully surrenders and is fully in her sub space I feel its the greatest gift she can give me, as in that moment I know she has fully let herself go into her body & soul trusting me to allow herself to leave her head & any s & hurts she may have. In that moment I feel like I am her superman there to protect the world more than that her world, in that moment I feel I have an unbreakable strength yet still feel the love & compassion to serve & protect & meet her needs. The way she looks at me & I look at her what the rest of the world thinks & what is happening doesn't matter, just that moment just us, her superman and her being my world to protect.

I like the anticipation and build up over the days before we get together also whilst we talk about some of the fun stuff we can do when we get together, and I love taking the time to care for her afterwards also, even just lying together resting with her head on my chest and her body held tight in my arms feeling proud of the good girl she has been.

Life is too short to hide from all the pleasures in life for the of what could go wrong...

"So Understand Don't waste your time searching for those wasted years,
Face up Make your Stand and realise you're living in the golden years"
(Adrian Smith - Iron Maiden)

I give honesty and expect it in return, this is a must for me, without honesty there is no trust without trust there is no relationship. That little girl inside her that she may have built barriers and walls around to "protect her" and limit her growth into who she really could be, I will break through these walls, and make sure she feels wanted, desired, loved, safe and protected not just the girl on the outside. I am on a journey of growth and she will grow to out of her own choice as she knows we will grow apart if she doesn't. Whilst her body maybe restrained at times her spirit is still free. Her inner slut and whore will be revealed to me, fully surrendered in the moment.

I have been playing with a few sub's over the last 10 years or more & now looking to train my own sub,.

Who am I?

I am a dominant man based in the centre of England hence the name Midlands Dom. I am evolving out of a box that no longer fits me and never will again. I am a dominant man and I am more than that, I am a Daddy and a coach/mentor though not for everyone. I don't fit in a pure dominant box, or a pure daddy box or a pure master box as there is part of all of them within me which will vary according to who I am with and what her needs and desires are. I am on a journey through life mind, body and soul I approach my friendships from a place of love as I desire to see the very best for everyone even when it does not include me. I came here through my personal development journey because some of my needs and experiences on this journey can not be fulfilled and satisfied down the traditional relationship path.

What first made me curious about kink?

The lyrics to a song when I was a ager - Guns N Roses "Pretty Tied Up"

"I know this chick she lives down on Melrose
She ain't satisfied without some
Friday night is goin' up inside her...again
Well crack the whip
'Cause that bitch is just insane
I'm serious
She's pretty tied up hangin' upside down
She's pretty tied up an you can ride her
She's pretty tied up hangin' upside down
I can't tell you she's the right one"

I wondered if women were actually liked that or if it was completely made up!



At this time I have no interest in knife play, ** or sports at this time pretty much all other things negotiable.


So who are you and what is it you seek in a dominant man? and why is that important to you?**


== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rigger
90% Daddy/Mommy
89% Dominant
83% Master/Mistress
76% Degrader
76% Owner
59% Voyeur
58% Sadist
58% Experimentalist
53% Non-monogamist
50% Exhibitionist
48% Primal (Hunter)
47% Ageplayer
42% Vanilla
25% Switch

Is anyone else looking for excited anticipation, connection, eye contact, urgency, freedom to express themselves, freedom to explore and be explored?

Bonus if you like aftercare, and time outdoors - I'm surrounded by countryside but also happy to travel.

For weekend activities. Would love some pussy squirting all over me

Couples who need a thrird

Text me meet me be mine today!

beginner or experienced, safe word, keeping to boundaries and aftercare are essential to keeping the whole thing fun… well, that's my belief anyway … A first date/meet is always about you, what you're looking for, your experience, what you like/dislike etc - unless you specifically want ti, any 'action' would be in another date/meet so zero pressure

Have a free night tonight

Is there anyone that might be interested in me writing a BDSM sex story about us?

The story would be personalised to your tastes and will only ever be seen by you and I, unless YOU decide to share it with anyone. I would need a list of triggers so that I ensure that they are NOT included in the story.

I would use your profile and public photos to provide detail within the story. Nothing would be taboo when it comes to your fantasies, unless they are illegal. The story will be told in the 1st person. You can decide which of us will be the narrator/protagonist. You will decide how much information you would like me to know. I will not ask, and do not want to know, any personally identifiable information, apart from, possibly, your first name (although this is completely optional).

LGBT are obviously welcome to get in touch but please note that the story might end up being a bit crap because I won't know what I'm talking about. In this instance I would need help and advice from you so that the story can be more compelling.

Please get in touch if you might be interested.

Anyone into medical play messages me

Looking a lady to have a relationship with, to talk get to know, flirt, play have fun and laughs, to explore share n explore

I want someting fresh

Hi there,
I'm kinda feeling like I'm somewhere inbetween the bdsm and vanilla world... Looking for someone kink friendly and accepting... but also not looking for someone who wants to be super sub every time we fuck... I like to fight for who gets to be on top

Have always loved the idea of having a little kitty as a pet...

Not super into role play, but I'm happy to give strokes and pets!
Signing up here has made me reallise that I have things for a lot of clothing- gloves, shoes, satin, wet look, leather, (shower) wet clothes etc. I like feet on me occasionally. I like my ass played with.... Maybe you do too!...

Bit of a switch.
I like to tease and be teased.

But looking for something very affectionate and vanilla most of the time.

Sound interesting?

We’re a couple still exploring and working out our boundaries looking for another couple to meet socially and get to know before seeing where it leads…

Whoever wants that tingle that feeling you can't get any where else.

Happy to detail but they are varied so say hello and let's discuss doing?

Would like to meet someone who is open has a kind nature heart as week as mind and looks deeper than the cover and sees the person inside

Looking for daytime activity with married ladies only, let’s put some excitement and orgasms into the day xx

Looking to find a dominant woman to date in a flr they can call all the shots and hopefully be interested in cucking me

Hey I’m ideally looking for a dominant woman who knows what she wants. Perfect scenario would be a FLR but I’m open to chatting and seeing what suits you. Super easy to talk to just drop me a message and let’s chat.

Hi there. Want to essentially own a little sub? I'm your guy
My fantasy is such. I'm looking for someone who wants to dress me up as certain female characters and *** me to your hearts content. I really want to get into bondage and stuff like that

Any women out there want to peg a caged submissive sissy?

Would love yo chat to any and all kinky and tab lovers out there.