Friends and (maybe) fun with people 21+
I'll chat with anyone and I may even share explicit photos of myself, if you ask, but let it be known that I don't require attraction to you for either of those things. I'm just an open and chatty person. The best way to find out if we might have some fun is to ask, but please don't be offended if I say "no". Just think of that as meaning we aren't compatible for any number of reasons and be ok with that.
I am down to chat/swap pics, but I'm very slow to get to someone well enough to fool around with someone.
I'm married and, yes, he knows I'm on scruff.
Below is a bit about myself as well as what I'm looking for.
- Gender identity of Cis male: pronouns are he/him/they/them
- Sexual identity of Queer, leaning Gay: seeking masculine, regardless of gender identity, but often attracted to my own gender.
- Interpersonal relationship preference of Non-monogamous/poly-friendly: I'm married to my husband, whom I love, deeply. But, I do not find it necessary to tether sexual experience/existence to a single person. I am open to my husband having other partners or a more permanent romantic partner(s), as long as that person is someone we both trust and fits our dynamic, though I am not likely to take on another permanent partner for myself. This leads to the husband being a potential hinge or "V" for me and the other person(s) in a kitchen table polyship. Reasoning explained in sexual posture. I won't say it's impossible, but more improbable.
- Sexual posture of Aromantic: I feel love and express love, but not often in a romantic way. Traditional "romantic" gestures or acts are not easy for me. Romantic feelings are possible, but only with one person. It's taxing on me and I find it difficult to keep up and match romantic energies. This is an area I am lacking in, and I am actively trying to remember to express affection and ensure my husband knows I love him and try to make him feel the romance as much as possible, but I acknowledge that this is not enough.
- Sexual positioning of power versatile. Top/bottom 40/60 split: Topping is fun and all, but between my cock size being average and the world being full of size queens, I tend to lean on my flexibility and ability to bottom. Plus, I think it's more rewarding to see my partner(s) enjoy my body and see them orgasm while inside me, not to mention I think it feels good.
- Control dynamic of switch brat: I tend to be a dominant sexual partner. I like to command, which is interesting for a primarily bottom person. Having said that, I will be submissive if I find you are a strong enough personality. Physical strength, alone, doesn't make you the dominant one. Match wits and then I will sub to you. And as you can tell from the description, I am a brat that will mouth off and push buttons if I have to. It's fun ;)
- Extra-curricular sexual interests/kinks: receiving and giving ass play (fisting, toys, fingering, rimming, etc), watersports, choking, light cbt (ball tapping, ball stretching, cock cages), nipple play, dirty talk, role play (CNC, father/son, etc), sounding, underwear, spanking, slapping, light impact play, rope play, food/feeding, groups, bareback (requires discussion), voyeurism, cuckold, small penis ***, exhibitionism.
- Open to: MMF, bondage, vore, fighting/wrestling, pup play, man stink, body exploration, anything else not on the limits list.
- Limits and turnoffs: I can describe in a dm
