Kinky women in Alaska

A man has a special meaning for me. This is an important element of the moment in my life that I now miss so much. I strive for family life, a lonely life does not seduce my tender heart. It is my cherished desire to build a reliable loving family and supplement my life with love and tenderness.

let mommy take care of all your needs.. whether in brat mode or not.. I could be the slut of your dreams. you treat me like a princess I'll let you fuck me like a whore..

I'm a single domme and I have an interest in building a relationship with a Alpha Sub who has a extreme foot fetish, pussy worship, rimming fixation, and overall body worship fetish. Love to please on hours end? I am a selfish Domme, your needs don't come first. If I am in a good mood, I might allow you to finish. I am interested in impact play, rope bondage, ***, ***, sensation play, power exchange, total domination, strap-on play, domestication, collar and leash, and we could explore in the future depending on how we progress. Not interested in multiple partners.

All forms of submission for Daddy. 🤪 Mommy Domme for soft submissive women. 🖤 🚫I DON’T SHARE🚫 Talking me through it 🗣️ (sub) Somno 😴 Free Use⏰⏱️⏲️⌚️⏳⌛️ Making out 👩🏻‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏻 Oral fixation 🤤(sub & Domme) Dominance/submission 🙇🏻‍♀️ (sub) Master/slave 🧍🏼‍♂️🧎🏻‍♀️(slave) DDlg/MDlg 🍼(lg & MD) Physical ***/*** 👋🏼(sub) Cock worship/body worship🧎🏻‍♀️(sub) PRAISE 😍(sub & Domme) Facial impact (leaving marks) 😳(sub) Choking/breath play 😮‍💨 (sub & rarely Domme) Orgasm denial 🙅🏻‍♀️(Domme) Edging 💦🚫 (Domme) Hair pulling 💆🏻‍♀️(sub) Scratching 💅🏼(sub & Domme) Biting (sub & Domme) Knife play 🔪 (sub) Gun play 🔫 (sub) Being ***ed on/bathroom control 🚽(sub & rarely Domme) CNC ⛓️(sub & rarely Domme) Collars ⛓️‍💥(sub & Domme) Leashes 🪢 (sub & Domme) Kitten play 🥛🐱 (sub & Domme) Ageplay 🍭🍼 (sub & Domme) Roleplay 👙(mostly sub) Blackmail (no follow through) 💰(sub) Cute Girls Feet or you worship mine 🦶🏻 Breeding 🥛(sub) Masks 🎭 (sub) *** play 🩸(sub & Domme) Suckling 👸🏻(sub) Exhibitionism 🏕️ (sub & Domme) Voyeurism 👀 (Mostly Domme) Dollification 👧🏻 (Mostly Domme rarely sub) - I do not love you Gently - You came to me smelling of ruin and deceit, with hands that had held other storms, With eyes that did not promise safety, or truth. And I, foolishly knelt for you anyway. You are not a saint. Your past clings to you, Like prison walls that you cannot seem to escape. You carry ghosts in your pockets and, sometimes you speak to them instead of me. I have seen your ugliness, The wandering eyes you possess, Your half kept words, The part of you that always keeps one foot out the door. And still I find myself mending the scars left behind, by wounds I never even caused. There is something in you though, a broken flickering light, a hunger that mirrors my own at times. You do not love like a sweet boy offering a flower from a nearby field, You love like a man struggling to survive himself. I, myself am not without fault though. I love with questions, with a *** of abandonment that disguises itself as strength. I have tried to hold you tightly, To pray you into becoming something steadier than you were ready to be. We are not pure. We are not holy. We are two imperfect creatures, Standing together, broken in the wreckage, Clinging to one another despite the carnage. If you left, it would not erase what you were to me. If you stay, it will not be because I was blind to your faults. It will be because somewhere in the dark, between your shadow and mine, we found a flicker of light, That felt like home. Because despite our differences, we share one overwhelming feeling of insanity. I love you... and yet, Why do you fall silent when I reach for you? Why does your mouth close when mine trembles open? Do you not feel it? This violent, unholy, devotional love? Speak to me... Do not leave me constantly standing with my heart laid bare in my hand...

Neurodivergent sub seeking a complete power exchange with an experienced Dom who can both gently and firmly lead and nurture. I thrive on clear boundaries, gentle guidance, and structured support. If you are a patient, communicative Dom who enjoys providing structure and building deep trust, send me a message with how you approach aftercare and mentorship.

⚠️ BBW ⚠️ Unicorn goth with a little black soul, heart of neon, and *** of glitter. If you ghost, move on please. I have abandonment issues, I won't lie 😅 I'm more partial to night drives and rock hunting than I am to fancy outings and expensive gifts. Love languages are Physical Touch and Quality Time. Very low maintenance 😊 I don't wear makeup and I'm a leggings and hoodie girl... I do regular chores and cooking so the only nails I ***t are my toes 😆 Not a girly girl, tomboy vibes. 💜🦇💜🦇💜 As a Sub-Leaning Switch, when in control, I don't scare, humiliate or degrade my partner. To me sex in an artform. My partner is the canvas and each experience a new masterpiece. I study my partner like a sculptor would a block of marble chipping away and revealing the beautiful secrets hidden within. 💜🦇💜🦇💜 Please do not misunderstand my intentions. I'm not here for hookups, pic exchange or cyberfun. If your interest isn't in building a lasting connection, then you are not my Gomez. 💜🦇💜🦇💜

Hi, I'm Hayden. I love to travel and explore new things. My ideal relationship is MMF with a dom and a switch. I'm on the asexuality spectrum and prefer sensory play with bondage and sometimes *** over sex. Open to trying new things and seeing where things go!

VANILLA: I am a mature, independent, woman, and before I consider another into my life, they must first understand, respect, and accept that first and foremost. Some have noted that I don't do anything half-assed. Therefore, if the thought of my fully committing to the arrangement scares you, then I'm probably not the droid you're seeking. A few times I have allowed a "Dom" to get close, only to discover they will check out at the first sign of a challenge. It's ok to simply say you're into kinky stuff and let that be it. Therefore, if you're not able to walk the walk, then don't. Just don't. I sometimes tend to overthink things, so please be patient if I ask a lot of questions. I'm also an intellectual when it comes to learning about life, people, and what makes us all tick. Life is full of learning opportunities, and we're never too old to learn something new. KINKY: D/s resonates with me because of the deep connection it creates between a Dominant and submissive—especially the trust, open communication, and shared vulnerability it requires. In my everyday life, I’m confident, capable, and independent; my submission comes from a genuine, intentional place. It’s about wanting to support Daddy, to make His life a little easier, and to bring Him happiness in meaningful ways. For me, submission isn’t about losing myself or giving up control—it’s not about being passive or dependent. I’ll always think for myself and stand in my own strength. At its heart, my submission is about choosing to act with care, purpose, and devotion in a way that brings joy to someone I deeply value. I’m a friendly person who values meaningful connections with people who challenge my thinking and encourage growth. I don’t respond to generic messages, and I’m especially turned off by anything disrespectful, or messages that project someone else’s fantasies onto me. I prefer to take things slowly and allow connections to develop naturally and authentically. I want to be: Seen, not scanned. Chosen, not handled. Led, not hurried. And loved. I need to feel and express love. Hugs and kisses are important. Knowing that Daddy wants and appreciates these things too, is vital. I am into intense basorexia. Fetishes: Affection Aftercare Anal Sex Ass Play Bare Bottom Spanking Being called a good girl Being Overpowered Blindfolds Bondage Butt Plugs Cocksucking Collars Creampie Daddy/babygirl Discipline Doggy Style Domination Kissing Obedience Training Oral Sex Restraints Collar and Lead/Leash CNC Play Deep Throating Hair Pulling Multiple Orgasms Polyamory Predator/prey Primal Rough Sex Spreader I have a feeling there will be more to add at a later date.

I want to explore new kinks and dynamics. To expand more into the role of switch/dominate because Ive found I am simply not submissive. I am demisexual, so it is important to build a somewhat of a relationship. Trust is essential after all.

I'm kinda new at this stuff but I know I want a man who is willing and turned on by sharing me with other men. Whether he's there or not aka 3somes and etc. I would also like it if this man would be my partner in everything I'm trying to do. I'm trying to change my life for the better and I need a partner who will be supportive and understanding with me and my craziness. Hopefully that makes sense lol also not sure if this is allowed or not but I also have an onlyfans ask me about it NOT LOOKING FOR ANYTHING LONG DISTANCE!!!

Strong, independent woman. Bold, yet nurturing with a heavy splash of sass and sarcasm. Looking for a man to tame my feral side. A complete simp for strong, safe and confident leadership. Bring me safety, give me praise, with a side of spicy discipline and watch my guard fall as I deepen in my femininity. 😘

I have had a profile in the past and ended up deleting it. I’m back to meet like-minded people. I’ve been single for a long time but have recently wanted to get back into the dating scene. I’m a big nerd! I love reading, playing video games, crafting, and kink. I talk a lot and need someone who is going to match my energy! I love meeting nerdy people, and someone who can hold a conversation! I work in a public job and keep my face photos on private. Do not request access if you have said less than a handful of words to me. I want to meet kind people who want a long term relationship! I am into kink but it’s a small part of who I am and expect the people messaging me to understand that. And to be interested in me outside of kink, if you can’t do that we’re not going to continue the conversation.

Simple and easygoing 😊 I’m re-discovering myself :) I am VERY new to this, so to answer what I’m looking for is, I have no idea yet! I will probably mesh best with others happy to remain online, texting and swapping pictures (at least for now) I love taking sexy, fun photos. …I’ll update here as I learn more about this “new me.”

I prefer a sugar relationship. I'm also available for GFE. I like in person and not online arrangements. What I bring for you & how spending your time with me will make you feel appreciated and wanted: **High drive for fun **Very open-minded **Music fuels my soul so we can go to concerts together and flow with the vibes **Sports - baseball is my favorite and going to watch sporting events is a tons of fun **Love of Roadtrips - All the snacks & tunes with some pit stops for adult fun **Outdoor activities are the best **Relaxing near bodies of water is one of my favorite things to do **Cooking with each other and playing music and just enjoying each other's company I play softball and travel for tournaments (women's & coed) I love gym time as well. Working on me and loving the process. I know I'm not a small/petite woman but I love me and I'm hella fun to be with. No one else exist when I'm with you. Our time is valuable so let's be straightforward with what we want. Communication & honesty are very important. I'm able to work remotely which means I can accompany you on your trips and enjoy each other when you are done and I can help you relax.

I’m on here to explore my likes and dont likes. I’m looking for folks like me that want to explore but know I’m in safe place. meet new people make friendships maybe more …

Single by choice, Bi lesbian leaning, into swinging and BDSM as a masochist. squishy in all the right places.

Something causes me to pause when I see pictures, or read stories about the submissive lifestyle. I am a very strong woman in mind and body. This is new to me. Even the fact that I find this submissive side interesting makes parts of me squirm in a field of dirty feelings. I am not looking for someone to treat me like trash-- I am not trash; I will be respected, I will be loved, and I will be honored like everyone should be. Just because my profile says submissive, it does not mean that I will kneel for just anyone. That I will NOT do. You will have to earn that honor, and that may take a very long time... if ever. I am really looking to explore my feelings in this world, and to find like minded INTELLIGENT people to have amazing conversations. Yes, I am one of those. I get turned on by real conversation so do not message me with demands or orders. Be respectful and I will message you back. Respect, Honor, and Trust..... before anything else.

About me: currently deployed to Alaska to around February I am looking for friends , playmates and LTR. I’m not looking & Won’t be anyone’s side piece. If you are looking for someone, dainty, timid or sub servient that is not me - try another profile. I identify as straight. I am considered an Active First Responder in the Disaster Relief field

PLEASE READ THE WHOLE THING 🖤 Hello! I am Panda, I am a sweet and friendly submissive just looking for a dominant that can handle my high energy and needs for cuddles 🖤 I am an experimentalist at heart, if it isn't in my hard limits, I am willing to try it once! Nothing fuels me more than a few well places "Good girl" praises! *Thank you for looking at my profile, unfortunately I have some personal stuff going on until September of 2026, I will not be using this account until then. Be blessed 🖤 *I am polyamous and partnered*, my partner is very aware that I am on here. Please do not try to convince me to be monogamous. You can have a place in my heart without owning all of it. 🖤 Being a submissive does not mean I do not have autonomy, do not come into my DM's demanding my submission in the form of nudes, it will not work, and I will block you 🖤 I am not against long distances! There are plenty of ways to have a meaningful S/D dynamic without being in the same place! I am 420 friendly. (as in I smoke) I am actually a giant nerd, I will talk for hours about games and shows I'm passionate about. and I LOVE hearing other people talk about their interests! PLEASE Info dump on me also my bdsm test is wrong, it is saying 43% dominant but it's failing to take into account one crucial misunderstanding. I am not dominant, I am a service sub. I have removed this app from my phone for the time being. have an absolutely blessed day.

I’m hopeful and will find the 10% positive without being a Pollyanna . I take responsibility for my own well-being and can listen well, will only spend time with people who can do the same. I’ve done a million things and have a million more to go. If you haven’t, at least be curious with open mind looking for someone who is interested in goddess worship which usually is a non performative Dom but also can be a sub to a pleasure Dom. I’m Demisexual I do need some kind of emotional attachment and mutual respect before I will engage in a sexual conversation. if you are talking sex before we know each other I won’t engage. I’ll try anything and am extremely oral with a great love for ads play. no particularly interested in feet mine or others.

Switch but mainly submissive. Can top from the bottom if with a weak man. Gorean role player Of course, it all begins in the mind. If you can’t talk to me and ***t a picture in my mind, I seriously doubt you’ll be able to do anything on the phone, much less in the bedroom…Chuckles Tell me a story…show me your imaginative brain skills (may require knowledge of the literary arts) give it a go. I will not be interested at all, if you speak in acronyms.

I’m a cute sweet fun loving kitten. Loves pets and scritches. Looking for primal predators, masters and daddies. Want to be collared and owned permanently. I Love being dominated with consent. Lover and a biter. Im also a Cuddles/nuzzler. Follows commands well. Likea a bit of ***. Loves being marked and being bitten and scratched. Want to find my missing piece

Having a Dom interests me a lot and also ropes and impact play. I know of a few of my kinks but am more than certain I havent had the right partners to explore more. I have a cum kink (i love to swallow it, i love in me and/or on me) and as much as i love it my past partners seemed to be grossed out by their own cum (so that's not fun for me), i love to be face fucked. I love the idea of sensory deprivation, gangbang, orgasm denial (sorry I don't know if there's a more proper term) and CNC/ being hunted. Oh definitely a bottom/Sub, defiant brat that needs punishment. I am really looking for a Dom that i connect with, that can easily slip into that role (and not just pretend that they're into it and just say that they are). I've had enough vanilla sex to know now that even despite great orgasms, it still leaves me unsated and somewhat/mostly unsatisfied. I have a really high sex drive and just need MORE...

I’m a hot poly grandma. I’m discovering a lot about myself since separating from my life partner 2 years ago. I have always known that I like to fuck and that I am simply too much for one partner to satisfy all of the time. Now I’m learning about ethical non monogamy, the rules of consent and kink space, and that I am a serious but amateur rope bunny 🐰 looking for more experience with an experienced rigger. I have discovered that not only am I funny but sometimes I am downright hilarious and a whole bunch of fun! My daddy owns me but he does not restrict my play.

I'm a single domme and I have an interest in building a relationship with a Alpha Sub who has a extreme foot fetish, pussy worship, rimming fixation, and overall body worship fetish. Love to please on hours end? I am a selfish Domme, your needs don't come first. If I am in a good mood, I might allow you to finish. I am interested in impact play, rope bondage, ***, ***, sensation play, power exchange, total domination, strap-on play, domestication, collar and leash, and we could explore in the future depending on how we progress. Not interested in multiple partners.

A man has a special meaning for me. This is an important element of the moment in my life that I now miss so much. I strive for family life, a lonely life does not seduce my tender heart. It is my cherished desire to build a reliable loving family and supplement my life with love and tenderness.

let mommy take care of all your needs.. whether in brat mode or not.. I could be the slut of your dreams. you treat me like a princess I'll let you fuck me like a whore..

Neurodivergent sub seeking a complete power exchange with an experienced Dom who can both gently and firmly lead and nurture. I thrive on clear boundaries, gentle guidance, and structured support. If you are a patient, communicative Dom who enjoys providing structure and building deep trust, send me a message with how you approach aftercare and mentorship.

Strong, independent woman. Bold, yet nurturing with a heavy splash of sass and sarcasm. Looking for a man to tame my feral side. A complete simp for strong, safe and confident leadership. Bring me safety, give me praise, with a side of spicy discipline and watch my guard fall as I deepen in my femininity. 😘

I prefer a sugar relationship. I'm also available for GFE. I like in person and not online arrangements. What I bring for you & how spending your time with me will make you feel appreciated and wanted: **High drive for fun **Very open-minded **Music fuels my soul so we can go to concerts together and flow with the vibes **Sports - baseball is my favorite and going to watch sporting events is a tons of fun **Love of Roadtrips - All the snacks & tunes with some pit stops for adult fun **Outdoor activities are the best **Relaxing near bodies of water is one of my favorite things to do **Cooking with each other and playing music and just enjoying each other's company I play softball and travel for tournaments (women's & coed) I love gym time as well. Working on me and loving the process. I know I'm not a small/petite woman but I love me and I'm hella fun to be with. No one else exist when I'm with you. Our time is valuable so let's be straightforward with what we want. Communication & honesty are very important. I'm able to work remotely which means I can accompany you on your trips and enjoy each other when you are done and I can help you relax.

Single, curious, and here for good conversations, shared laughs, and genuine vibes. Looking for a friend who might grow into something more. If you’re kind, curious, and up for a little adventure, we’ll click.

⚠️ BBW ⚠️ Unicorn goth with a little black soul, heart of neon, and *** of glitter. If you ghost, move on please. I have abandonment issues, I won't lie 😅 I'm more partial to night drives and rock hunting than I am to fancy outings and expensive gifts. Love languages are Physical Touch and Quality Time. Very low maintenance 😊 I don't wear makeup and I'm a leggings and hoodie girl... I do regular chores and cooking so the only nails I ***t are my toes 😆 Not a girly girl, tomboy vibes. 💜🦇💜🦇💜 As a Sub-Leaning Switch, when in control, I don't scare, humiliate or degrade my partner. To me sex in an artform. My partner is the canvas and each experience a new masterpiece. I study my partner like a sculptor would a block of marble chipping away and revealing the beautiful secrets hidden within. 💜🦇💜🦇💜 Please do not misunderstand my intentions. I'm not here for hookups, pic exchange or cyberfun. If your interest isn't in building a lasting connection, then you are not my Gomez. 💜🦇💜🦇💜

Something causes me to pause when I see pictures, or read stories about the submissive lifestyle. I am a very strong woman in mind and body. This is new to me. Even the fact that I find this submissive side interesting makes parts of me squirm in a field of dirty feelings. I am not looking for someone to treat me like trash-- I am not trash; I will be respected, I will be loved, and I will be honored like everyone should be. Just because my profile says submissive, it does not mean that I will kneel for just anyone. That I will NOT do. You will have to earn that honor, and that may take a very long time... if ever. I am really looking to explore my feelings in this world, and to find like minded INTELLIGENT people to have amazing conversations. Yes, I am one of those. I get turned on by real conversation so do not message me with demands or orders. Be respectful and I will message you back. Respect, Honor, and Trust..... before anything else.

I'm in a poly relationship. but I'm looking for friendship and seeing where the road leads. I love to go camping, traveling, and love making others laugh. I'm not skinny by any means, but I have a heart of gold and love fiercely. I'm here for meaningful conversations first, get to know me before things lead to the bedroom lol.

I want to explore new kinks and dynamics. To expand more into the role of switch/dominate because Ive found I am simply not submissive. I am demisexual, so it is important to build a somewhat of a relationship. Trust is essential after all.

VANILLA: I am a mature, independent, woman, and before I consider another into my life, they must first understand, respect, and accept that first and foremost. Some have noted that I don't do anything half-assed. Therefore, if the thought of my fully committing to the arrangement scares you, then I'm probably not the droid you're seeking. A few times I have allowed a "Dom" to get close, only to discover they will check out at the first sign of a challenge. It's ok to simply say you're into kinky stuff and let that be it. Therefore, if you're not able to walk the walk, then don't. Just don't. I sometimes tend to overthink things, so please be patient if I ask a lot of questions. I'm also an intellectual when it comes to learning about life, people, and what makes us all tick. Life is full of learning opportunities, and we're never too old to learn something new. KINKY: D/s resonates with me because of the deep connection it creates between a Dominant and submissive—especially the trust, open communication, and shared vulnerability it requires. In my everyday life, I’m confident, capable, and independent; my submission comes from a genuine, intentional place. It’s about wanting to support Daddy, to make His life a little easier, and to bring Him happiness in meaningful ways. For me, submission isn’t about losing myself or giving up control—it’s not about being passive or dependent. I’ll always think for myself and stand in my own strength. At its heart, my submission is about choosing to act with care, purpose, and devotion in a way that brings joy to someone I deeply value. I’m a friendly person who values meaningful connections with people who challenge my thinking and encourage growth. I don’t respond to generic messages, and I’m especially turned off by anything disrespectful, or messages that project someone else’s fantasies onto me. I prefer to take things slowly and allow connections to develop naturally and authentically. I want to be: Seen, not scanned. Chosen, not handled. Led, not hurried. And loved. I need to feel and express love. Hugs and kisses are important. Knowing that Daddy wants and appreciates these things too, is vital. I am into intense basorexia. Fetishes: Affection Aftercare Anal Sex Ass Play Bare Bottom Spanking Being called a good girl Being Overpowered Blindfolds Bondage Butt Plugs Cocksucking Collars Creampie Daddy/babygirl Discipline Doggy Style Domination Kissing Obedience Training Oral Sex Restraints Collar and Lead/Leash CNC Play Deep Throating Hair Pulling Multiple Orgasms Polyamory Predator/prey Primal Rough Sex Spreader I have a feeling there will be more to add at a later date.

Simple and easygoing 😊 I’m re-discovering myself :) I am VERY new to this, so to answer what I’m looking for is, I have no idea yet! I will probably mesh best with others happy to remain online, texting and swapping pictures (at least for now) I love taking sexy, fun photos. …I’ll update here as I learn more about this “new me.”

Hi there! I’m a 48 year-old plus sized polyamorous woman who thrives on deep, authentic connections (i am demisexual, so connection is key for sex!). As a submissive, I find strength in surrender, and I’m drawn to relationships built on trust, respect, and open communication. I enjoy exploring new dynamics and always love learning more about myself and my partners in a safe, consensual space. I’m independent but value emotional connections and cherish intimacy that’s built on mutual understanding. Whether it's taking long drives while jamming out to good tunes, exploring places I've never been, or simply staying in and chilling, I appreciate both adventure and quiet moments. When I’m not exploring new places or enjoying the simple things, I’m probably lost in a good book, checking out new music, or just living in the moment. What I’m Looking For: I’m looking to meet like-minded, open-minded individuals who value clear communication, respect, and understanding in a polyamorous dynamic. I’m not looking for couples, just someone who’s ready for a meaningful connection that allows both of us to grow and explore together. If you'd read this far, no I dont want to hook up. If you’re up for fun drives, great conversations, and seeing where the journey takes us, I’d love to hear from you!

PLEASE READ THE WHOLE THING 🖤 Hello! I am Panda, I am a sweet and friendly submissive just looking for a dominant that can handle my high energy and needs for cuddles 🖤 I am an experimentalist at heart, if it isn't in my hard limits, I am willing to try it once! Nothing fuels me more than a few well places "Good girl" praises! *Thank you for looking at my profile, unfortunately I have some personal stuff going on until September of 2026, I will not be using this account until then. Be blessed 🖤 *I am polyamous and partnered*, my partner is very aware that I am on here. Please do not try to convince me to be monogamous. You can have a place in my heart without owning all of it. 🖤 Being a submissive does not mean I do not have autonomy, do not come into my DM's demanding my submission in the form of nudes, it will not work, and I will block you 🖤 I am not against long distances! There are plenty of ways to have a meaningful S/D dynamic without being in the same place! I am 420 friendly. (as in I smoke) I am actually a giant nerd, I will talk for hours about games and shows I'm passionate about. and I LOVE hearing other people talk about their interests! PLEASE Info dump on me also my bdsm test is wrong, it is saying 43% dominant but it's failing to take into account one crucial misunderstanding. I am not dominant, I am a service sub. I have removed this app from my phone for the time being. have an absolutely blessed day.

Hi, I'm Hayden. I love to travel and explore new things. My ideal relationship is MMF with a dom and a switch. I'm on the asexuality spectrum and prefer sensory play with bondage and sometimes *** over sex. Open to trying new things and seeing where things go!

Single by choice, Bi lesbian leaning, into swinging and BDSM as a masochist. squishy in all the right places.

looking for friends and hopefully a partner I’ll show my face once I get to know you! please no honorifics unless given consent limits *** *** play *** play

I’m 31yrs standing 5’4” and plus size! Trying to describe myself is not all that fun 🤣 I have some experience in BDSM but still pretty new to it as well! If I were to close my eyes and picture what my ideal “Fantasy” BDSM life would be, it would be something along the lines of: BDSM Relationship/Relationships living the life choices with said person or people. teaching/ learning new aspects of BDSM not afraid to show that ownership other than that I don’t know what to put here!

I really want to be tied up and used like the dirty mutt I am. super into heavy strict bondage and extreme gags. love to get dominated by women and men

Only looking for local To be honest I'm just now figuring out who I am. Up till recently I didn't have the time or energy to do so. I was who I needed to be, not who I wanted to be. A few years ago my health imploded and all that mattered was survival. I still have limitations and am considered disabled *have to use a wheelchair outside the house, AuDHD* there's more to it if you are interested. I would say some interests I have Smut books, Lord of the Rings, Anime, cooking, and Pagenism. I'm looking for Orange Cat personalities. Not quite Golden Retriever because I require a lot of Parallel play, and im picky about being touched. I'm more Black Cat energy during the day, and Bunny energy in bed 😏

Having a Dom interests me a lot and also ropes and impact play. I know of a few of my kinks but am more than certain I havent had the right partners to explore more. I have a cum kink (i love to swallow it, i love in me and/or on me) and as much as i love it my past partners seemed to be grossed out by their own cum (so that's not fun for me), i love to be face fucked. I love the idea of sensory deprivation, gangbang, orgasm denial (sorry I don't know if there's a more proper term) and CNC/ being hunted. Oh definitely a bottom/Sub, defiant brat that needs punishment. I am really looking for a Dom that i connect with, that can easily slip into that role (and not just pretend that they're into it and just say that they are). I've had enough vanilla sex to know now that even despite great orgasms, it still leaves me unsated and somewhat/mostly unsatisfied. I have a really high sex drive and just need MORE...

Thank you for checking out my page. I'm not here looking for a long-term relationship. I am here for like minded friends that like to have a good time in and outside of the bedroom. if the vibe is right. my husband and I are happily married that just like to spice it up sometimes. we are looking for down to earth people that have that show up attitude and can actually hold an adult conversation. We are fully transparent people in every aspect of our life. No game, No BS. I'm sorry boys if you are in your twenty's I'm probably not interested. I know what I like and I know what I want . This not my first rodeo lol If you can't handle my blunt sassy smart ass personality then move on. 🤪 I won't waste your time don't waste mine.

I’m not going to answer “so what you looking for here” Being creative; respecting boundaries; doing your own research/education is what I’m looking for in conversation the rest up based on the person.