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heya im Billie I’m a Berkeley local and super creative, love to be outdoors. I’d love to meet open minded kinky people and also looking for cool creative people to do art with and spend time with. interests: art, nature, shows/venues, stretching and yoga, diy, movies, plants, ***s, camping spending time with loved ones if u talk to me u should be open minded, accepting of everyone and respectfull of boundaries.
Female (20) Berkeley, California
I’m ALWAYS wet 💦 but I’m not friendly. before you message me ask yourself if your manhood is big enough for this body and if your wallet is big enough for this appetite 🤑 Snap: BBWMOON
Female (30) Berkeley, California
IF YOURE MESSAGING ME HAVE SUBSTANCE & XP send me your favorite playlist to fuck to SOMETHING I DONT WANT A "HEY" OR A "YOURE BEAUTIFUL" OR "HOW ARE YOU" GET THE BALL ROLLING, SHOOT YOUR SHOT IM NOT ENTERTAINING DULL BS -- BANTER WITH ME I’m a playful, bratty switch leaning submissive(but only if you earn it) who loves testing limits and exploring dynamics where trust, connection, and consent are front and center. I’m not here to be tamed, I’m here to be handled. I thrive with a skilled handler who can match my energy, keep me in check, and help me push boundaries safely. I love intensity, but aftercare and emotional connection are just as important as the play itself... because even brats need a soft landing. Outside of kink, I’m a goofy, creative, nature-loving, concert/festival-going traveler with a very alt mindset. I’ve hitchhiked, hopped freight trains, and have a dark sense of humor that sometimes pushes boundaries (cancellable, maybe, but worth the risk) Kink Interests: Bratting & tease/edge play dynamics Bondage, restraints, gags, and sensation/impact play Power exchange & Dom/sub dynamics Edging, orgasm control, teasing, and psychological play Oral & mutual masturbation CNC (consensual non-consent) What I’m Looking For: IRL MEET UPS ONLY Friends, with or without benefits. If you're interested in trying out for benefits access you need to HAVE EXPERIENCE, be confident, attentive, and emotionally literate Dom/handler who enjoys a little playful chaos, clear communication, and building trust through dynamic, consensual scenes. Bonus points if you can handle a brat with humor, patience, and just the right amount of mischief.
Female (31) Berkeley, California
Hi! love chatting with people not looking for anything specific, just seeing where connections hickiess >>>>> am a sub, so doms hit me up
Female (23) Berkeley, California
Please do not message me if you are younger than me - I’m interested in men 55+ - not sure they exist here…TBD… Mature, magnetic, and in full command of my world—I know exactly what I want—and how to reward those who please me. I’ve spent an entire career working with HNW men and am equally confident turning on my NJ attitude, my southern charm or west coast chill. 6’ 34A 28” 39”, thin high arched 8 1/2 size feet lead you to thin ankles and muscular fit calves and thighs, tatted for 30+ years though my culinary garden is hidden to the casual observer. All natural with a slight lean to tom boy. I have a stable open marriage and enjoy alcohol, tobacco and cannabis - no hard *** for me or you please. What I’m Looking For: I’m seeking one devoted, chivalrous, generou$ gentleman for a traditional SD-SB relationship/arrangement who finds joy in taking control, giving orders, making plans, and spoiling. You'll discover that pleasing me is its own deeply satisfying reward. Chase me - I will not message first. I prefer a LT arrangement but also open to arm candy occasions, intellectual/romantic nights over wine and dinner, companionship, shopping trips, to accompany you on business trips or if you are visiting NorCal and want to fill your evening with excitement.
Female (49) Berkeley, California
‘For me I struggle to find people who want me when my desire to submit is separate from sexual desire. Sometimes it can be smushed together, but before a serious connection it’s just a basic need I have sometimes. To be called a good girl and cared for and be looked upon as purely a submissive being instead of something sexual feels freeing to me.’ -what I wrote in one of the forums that I liked Not looking for a random hook up, I’m looking for trust and communication in whatever form that is but it requires time to get to know someone. I don’t want dick picks. Don’t try to start something via text without asking for consent first and talking boundaries. I want to safely explore kink with people who know what they’re doing and have good references.
Female (19) Berkeley, California
Submissive, baby girl, kitten Tongue in cheek, cheeky brat Looking for that mind meld Dominant, Word Master Who wants to play Scrabble! Sapiosexual, demisexual, goofy and geeky. I’d rather play sports than watch them. I love to learn, travel and explore. Nerdy and wordy, that’s me. I’m here hoping to find my dominant and make new friends. Maybe some fetish friends... feet, hair, anyone? I also really want to get into tying. I’m looking for a local rope bunny. Age, race, size, and gender do not matter. Don’t be shy. Say hello. **Desires and Fantasies** Intelligence and mental control make my stomach go all fluttery. I love the delicious submission that comes from a certain look, or a few well spoken words, from a dominant man. I am basically a romantic good girl looking for my one dominant partner. I am not in this for an easy hookup. It is not submission to me without a deep connection. At heart, I am a submissive. But I am also a sadist. Atypical combination, and yes, it can be confusing for other people to understand. I have mostly exercised it mentally but I would like to experience more on the physical side. I would love to indulge my inner sadist, and would be open to play with a masochist or someone wanting to explore p.a.i.n. (Apparently that word is not allowed anymore. WTH? Making me look like some kind of bad person, lol.) I have topped, and I enjoy it with the right partner. While I have a dominant alpha personality, I find someone who needs constant micromanaging to be very draining on me. A strong submissive does bring out my dominant side. I also have a foot fetish. I’m not looking for that in a relationship but I like to put it out there, in case anyone has questions about it. Too many people have shame about it, and they shouldn’t. But let’s keep it respectful, guys. I’m not here for dirty talk. I enjoy meeting people and good conversation. I find kinks and fetishes fascinating.
Female (57) Berkeley, California
Power is best when understood, trust is best when earned. Let’s see where the conversation takes us. I have a talent for reading people. Let’s see if you’re an open book or one worth deciphering I don’t bite. Unless you ask nicely 💋 I don’t chase—I decide. I don’t beg. I simply wait for those who understand
Female (23) Berkeley, California
I love to sub in the right vibe, though also have other interests and generally just want a good time with cool people who can communicate. dating from a sex positive, radical feminist perspective.
Female (49) Berkeley, California

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IF YOURE MESSAGING ME HAVE SUBSTANCE & XP send me your favorite playlist to fuck to SOMETHING I DONT WANT A "HEY" OR A "YOURE BEAUTIFUL" OR "HOW ARE YOU" GET THE BALL ROLLING, SHOOT YOUR SHOT IM NOT ENTERTAINING DULL BS -- BANTER WITH ME I’m a playful, bratty switch leaning submissive(but only if you earn it) who loves testing limits and exploring dynamics where trust, connection, and consent are front and center. I’m not here to be tamed, I’m here to be handled. I thrive with a skilled handler who can match my energy, keep me in check, and help me push boundaries safely. I love intensity, but aftercare and emotional connection are just as important as the play itself... because even brats need a soft landing. Outside of kink, I’m a goofy, creative, nature-loving, concert/festival-going traveler with a very alt mindset. I’ve hitchhiked, hopped freight trains, and have a dark sense of humor that sometimes pushes boundaries (cancellable, maybe, but worth the risk) Kink Interests: Bratting & tease/edge play dynamics Bondage, restraints, gags, and sensation/impact play Power exchange & Dom/sub dynamics Edging, orgasm control, teasing, and psychological play Oral & mutual masturbation CNC (consensual non-consent) What I’m Looking For: IRL MEET UPS ONLY Friends, with or without benefits. If you're interested in trying out for benefits access you need to HAVE EXPERIENCE, be confident, attentive, and emotionally literate Dom/handler who enjoys a little playful chaos, clear communication, and building trust through dynamic, consensual scenes. Bonus points if you can handle a brat with humor, patience, and just the right amount of mischief.
Female (31) Berkeley, California
Please do not message me if you are younger than me - I’m interested in men 55+ - not sure they exist here…TBD… Mature, magnetic, and in full command of my world—I know exactly what I want—and how to reward those who please me. I’ve spent an entire career working with HNW men and am equally confident turning on my NJ attitude, my southern charm or west coast chill. 6’ 34A 28” 39”, thin high arched 8 1/2 size feet lead you to thin ankles and muscular fit calves and thighs, tatted for 30+ years though my culinary garden is hidden to the casual observer. All natural with a slight lean to tom boy. I have a stable open marriage and enjoy alcohol, tobacco and cannabis - no hard *** for me or you please. What I’m Looking For: I’m seeking one devoted, chivalrous, generou$ gentleman for a traditional SD-SB relationship/arrangement who finds joy in taking control, giving orders, making plans, and spoiling. You'll discover that pleasing me is its own deeply satisfying reward. Chase me - I will not message first. I prefer a LT arrangement but also open to arm candy occasions, intellectual/romantic nights over wine and dinner, companionship, shopping trips, to accompany you on business trips or if you are visiting NorCal and want to fill your evening with excitement.
Female (49) Berkeley, California
I’m ALWAYS wet 💦 but I’m not friendly. before you message me ask yourself if your manhood is big enough for this body and if your wallet is big enough for this appetite 🤑 Snap: BBWMOON
Female (30) Berkeley, California
I love to sub in the right vibe, though also have other interests and generally just want a good time with cool people who can communicate. dating from a sex positive, radical feminist perspective.
Female (49) Berkeley, California
Power is best when understood, trust is best when earned. Let’s see where the conversation takes us. I have a talent for reading people. Let’s see if you’re an open book or one worth deciphering I don’t bite. Unless you ask nicely 💋 I don’t chase—I decide. I don’t beg. I simply wait for those who understand
Female (23) Berkeley, California
‘For me I struggle to find people who want me when my desire to submit is separate from sexual desire. Sometimes it can be smushed together, but before a serious connection it’s just a basic need I have sometimes. To be called a good girl and cared for and be looked upon as purely a submissive being instead of something sexual feels freeing to me.’ -what I wrote in one of the forums that I liked Not looking for a random hook up, I’m looking for trust and communication in whatever form that is but it requires time to get to know someone. I don’t want dick picks. Don’t try to start something via text without asking for consent first and talking boundaries. I want to safely explore kink with people who know what they’re doing and have good references.
Female (19) Berkeley, California
heya im Billie I’m a Berkeley local and super creative, love to be outdoors. I’d love to meet open minded kinky people and also looking for cool creative people to do art with and spend time with. interests: art, nature, shows/venues, stretching and yoga, diy, movies, plants, ***s, camping spending time with loved ones if u talk to me u should be open minded, accepting of everyone and respectfull of boundaries.
Female (20) Berkeley, California
Hi! love chatting with people not looking for anything specific, just seeing where connections hickiess >>>>> am a sub, so doms hit me up
Female (23) Berkeley, California
Submissive, baby girl, kitten Tongue in cheek, cheeky brat Looking for that mind meld Dominant, Word Master Who wants to play Scrabble! Sapiosexual, demisexual, goofy and geeky. I’d rather play sports than watch them. I love to learn, travel and explore. Nerdy and wordy, that’s me. I’m here hoping to find my dominant and make new friends. Maybe some fetish friends... feet, hair, anyone? I also really want to get into tying. I’m looking for a local rope bunny. Age, race, size, and gender do not matter. Don’t be shy. Say hello. **Desires and Fantasies** Intelligence and mental control make my stomach go all fluttery. I love the delicious submission that comes from a certain look, or a few well spoken words, from a dominant man. I am basically a romantic good girl looking for my one dominant partner. I am not in this for an easy hookup. It is not submission to me without a deep connection. At heart, I am a submissive. But I am also a sadist. Atypical combination, and yes, it can be confusing for other people to understand. I have mostly exercised it mentally but I would like to experience more on the physical side. I would love to indulge my inner sadist, and would be open to play with a masochist or someone wanting to explore p.a.i.n. (Apparently that word is not allowed anymore. WTH? Making me look like some kind of bad person, lol.) I have topped, and I enjoy it with the right partner. While I have a dominant alpha personality, I find someone who needs constant micromanaging to be very draining on me. A strong submissive does bring out my dominant side. I also have a foot fetish. I’m not looking for that in a relationship but I like to put it out there, in case anyone has questions about it. Too many people have shame about it, and they shouldn’t. But let’s keep it respectful, guys. I’m not here for dirty talk. I enjoy meeting people and good conversation. I find kinks and fetishes fascinating.
Female (57) Berkeley, California

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