BDSM Dating in California

I like to be given jerk off instructions and I can send videos of myself jerking off and 💦 for you😩

Looking for fun

I Need tall and extremely well endowed man to dominate me and disrupt my busy, focused daily life. (endowment 8x6 minimum preferred 😈)

I want a man who will take what he wants from me and use me like the only thing I’m here for is for his pleasure…. until I’m so aroused and uncontrollably hungry that I try to take him, he needs to know how to put me back in my place again just right and give me what I deserve.. He needs to know how to talk to me, and when we’re done he needs to know how to care for me. I am a newly found size queen on the hunt for what I know I need and haven’t had yet. I am not promiscuous and I am vetting just the right one to meet in person (So please, if you ONLY want me to get you off and chat don’t even bother, The intent and willingness to meet in person is a prerequisite.). I am dominant, intimidating and aggressive by nature, I live this every day of my life and I need that offset. I need a man who is more powerful than me, Stronger than me, more financially secure than me (Or at least matches me/financially secure) AND is not afraid to dominate that kind of woman. Ideally if we get a chance to meet, if I go that far, we should be able to enjoy whatever we want wherever we want in the world and have our experiences. I have no idea where I want this to lead right now. I am very busy, I just know I need it and I’m going to get it and figure out what to do with it afterward. 😈

I will love to meet a good woman here

seeking a vampire for role-playing

Couple in the Bay area looking for a submissive or switch woman for play and preferably a long term situation. Have a variety of kinks and interests we would enjoy exploring. Hit us up to find out more!

Looking for a Dominant Master who wants to train a submissive that has a slave mindset

I want to find someone who’s actually wanting to take the time to get to know me and have a good time with me

Right now: I just want someone to whom I can tell (phone or live) my secrets, degrade myself for you, expose my darkest sides to you while you insult me. Interested?

Well grounded guy with a successful and fascinating life here, but behind closed doors I need to feel ashamed, pathetic, ugly and stupid.

I'm looking for a man that I can worship, compliment, and tell him he is the best, while he is being bad to me in several ways:

• verbal and psychological ***
• hard insults, like body shaming, not politically correct
• mocking and laughing at me
• uglification - throw some ugly rug or write degrading words on my body
• show me on live camera while i suck you or humiliate myself, even though i beg you not d do it, and you give me poppers and then *** me to
• make pictures with your smartphone and show me how I look, *** me to see myself
• feet worship
• s***do/underwear tease
• if you smoke, breath out on my face, or even throw ash on me
• spit all over me
• *** all over me
• write the name of someone you despise (your annoying boss) on me and use me as ab object of mockery and ***
  I have a successful great life but in front of you we are in a roleplay, in which you are a hot desirable hot man, and I'm a total fat loser who is only good to be mocked at, laughed at and bullied.

• open to more ideas/scenarios/fantasies!
  
  My favorite scenario: you look into my eyes and insult me while I'm taking poppers, and we are talking on how hot you are and how I'm not. Please, tell me, again and again, what a loser I am to you. Tell me I'm pathetic. Tell me I'm a fat pig, again and again and again. And I will admire you and worship you and tell you how amazing you are, compliment every part of you.
  
  I can also, as a part of the game, order you dinner something like that.
  
  I usually don't look for sex because the loser is unworthy for normal sex with you, but it's not a rule. It's possible that while I worship you, you look for someone else for sex, show my how you go on grindr and find someone better looking, making me feel bad, while using me as a coffee-table, footrest, or just something to laugh at.
  
  Facts:
  A man in underwear turns me on more than hung cocks.
  Poppers makes me stupid and weak and I want to show you
  I can also give you massage, we meet and I'm your masseur, there to please you and take care of you, and all I ask in return is that we will talk, communicate. I ask for nothing else.
  
  If you are not verbal I don't think it will work. But you can share with me some other fantasy, maybe I'd love to try.
  We can also have a session dedicated entirely to me working on your feet. Or giving you a bath... I'm open to anything fucked up and weird
  
  Get in touch with your expectations/ideas.
  I CAN'T host.
  Everything in consent and respect (except the meet itself ah ah!)
  I'm chubby and lately I started laser on my chest and abdomen. Feel free to laugh and mock at that.
  
  Eye contact and creativity are a big plus.
  
  I'm a guy that has a good job and life, educated, friendly, social... But sexually I'm messed up. Please let me show you.

Looking for a woman to come play with us! We are open to almost anything! Message if you are interested and can actually meet up!

I am switch looking for an adventurous partner who is willing to explore together both our kinky sides trust and respect and safe words ais a must no bs or ***

Newish and a natural - or so I’ve been told. Looking for a subby play partner to explore and play. I take giving baby pleasure seriously! I’m into breath play, restraints, impact play, spit play, edging over and over. Let’s play

Looking for regular meet ups
With other women who are into breast play

New to site . Looking to satisfy some fetishes .. Nice to find one partner to be completely myself with . Looking for a man who can appreciate a thick ass Italian women .

I'm only able to get interested in people I creat bonds with so having a friends with benefits thing with me is just fine. How ever I want to know u well before I take it that far. I really need to trust someone to let them see my body. Let alone explore it.

I'm a total tomboy dress for comfort kinda girl. And I'm trying to go to the gym atleast 4 days a week after work. ( Yes I'm overweight, but I'm trying to fix that and go after the toned body I've always wanted. (Like vi from arcane.))

Hmu if u wanna talk. Even if that's as far as it goes. I'm still glad to have someone to talk with.

I’m looking for someone who can be my dom I’m a 22 year old male I’m from Palm desert California and in need of a female dom who can treat me like a slave or a submissive. You can do anything you want to me I’ll do anything you ask.

I’m a successful, intelligent , fun guy who is kinky and looking for a girl that wants a real relationship but who is also kinky.

I have fantasies of being a slave , especially a foot slave. If you love having your feet worshipped and someone with superior oral skills then I may be your guy. I’m a partner that likes to please and like a dog I’ll be happy to be under your feet while you relax

Likes:
Being tied up
Blindfolded
Spanked
Face-fucked (if my mouth isn’t pleasing you, then gagged)
Light slapping/punishment
Dirty talk (being called a good girl, bad girl, dirty girl, as appropriate)
Being told what to do
Oral; I never tire of the feel of a tongue on my clit and prefer a slow start, but not a slow finish
Anal; also prefer a slow start, it’s tight - please be mindful of tearing

Unfulfilled fantasies:
1 cock in my ass while 1 cock is face-fucking me while tied up and blindfolded (w/spanking and dirty talk)
Intruder fantasy
Cop/avoid jail fantasy

Dislikes:
Vibrators
No poop, no ***

Hey there,

If you’re new to kink or interested in expanding your social circle and joining the local community, I’ll be happy to help you jump through the hoops.

Would love to meet more people and help welcome them into a community that has been extremely welcoming to me.

Message me if you’re interested.

Consistent and trusting sub, with an obsessive side doesn’t hurt either 😈👌🏼🖤

Ebony bbw rope bunny. Rope. Hitachi. Steel gspot wand. Hmu.🤙

Lookin for a women for kinky fun if the kinky are in the right places

Hey! I'm an experienced top leaning switch who's looking for a partner that's able to communicate what their wants & needs are for an exploratory, and hopefully long term relationship.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

Looking to become someone’s fart seat
LA local but hmu