BDSM Play Partner in California

Always wanted to get smothered by a nice ass, I also love eating pussy, anyone interested please hmu

6’2” athletic older guy (late 40s) seeking boss lady who knows her mind. Willing sub for service, pegging, tease/denial (limits: no , ). LA South Bay: discreet meets fit my schedule. What’s your command?

Greetings,
I appreciate those patient enough to read my ad fully, as I write this completely sincerely.

I sit here in my room, post Christmas celebration with friends and chosen family. I'm sober, not horny, and have a sense of clarity after a deep conversation with a dear friend.

I'm 5 years into my transition, 5 years of wild experiences and learning to love every aspect of myself, even the hard to love parts. I'm sick of mulling over and debating the ramifications vs rewards of what I truly want, I have a near-complete understanding of who I am and what I want, and I feel good about taking the next steps into what I want and who I want to be.

I crave submission in the aspect of being able to follow someone's instructions and requests to a T.

I was recently told, in a completely vanilla snd non-sexual context, to find something nice to wear and show up at an address. It felt natural to follow orders without thinking about it. Partially because I trust the person completely, partially because I find great purpose in serving.

So let me serve you.

I can cook, clean, create, and run errands. I will learn to please you in all the ways you enjoy, and take notes of what makes you especially happy, whether it be the way you like your coffee or a particular way you like being touched.

I'm searching for a Dominant person (or persons if the vibe is right) with a genuine desire for a long-term, subservient submissive.
I'm asking that you treat me well, are firm, kind, creative, and stable, and enjoy kink as much as I do. A mentor or guardian role is welcome, but not necessary. I'm not looking for equality here.

Kink is something that's becoming more important to me as I consider what I want out of a relationship.
I crave the general D/s vibes, but have specifics that I would like to have be aspects of our relationship. These include:

Bondage (from tied wrists to full binding suits)
Chastity (it simultaneously makes me calmer and hornier)
A ruleset and reward//punishment system
Clear communication
Aftercare for all parties
Free Use (within the agreements of the relationship)
Uniforms or other clothes/gear marking me in a role
Mutual fantasy fulfillment
In 2026, I have goals of self-care, self-love, and modifying my body, wardrobe, and lifestyle to match who I am. Help and cheerleading will be more than welcome in my goals, and I hope to give the same to you!

If you've gotten this far and are interested, feel free to shoot me a message request. Please be open, write with intent, and be clear and sure about what you want and who you are.
Thank you for your consideration. 🩷

I'm seeking a Dom who is unafraid of their sexuality, unabashed by who they are and what they desire, and desire deep control over a sub in scene.

Once I have a connection with someone, I ADORE it when they tell me when and where to show up, what to bring/wear, and are demanding and commanding in scene.

They call the shots, I follow orders, end of story.

If that sounds like something you're open to, dm me. I'd love to hear from you!

I want to meet a sub willing and ready for daddy

And it’s eachother 🗣️

Like the headline says, I'm in the market for more lovely masochistic playmates. Hit me up if you enjoy ~intense~ sensations. 😘
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Women, femmes, thems, and queers highly preferred. ♀️🩷♀️

Let unwrap each other and play. Then we can get Chinese food after 🤣

Just a Dom male looking for his good girl.
Cute, small, submissive and fun.
Get with me if you think you might be her…
True females only

text me🤭

If I could have a long term key holder as i’m into feminization of all sorts. I’ve also also been wanting to get pegged or to be included in group play. But the only one that is mandatory for me is to be feminized. I’m not looking for anyone specific just someone I can fulfill their needs and is relatively close so we can meet often.

Lets get naughty

Looking for a fun time.

Im just looking for someone whos into a bit of *** mixed into their pleasure. I would also like to put out there friends and adventures are more than welcome.

Would love to find someone chill to hang out and to play with occasionally. Mature, 420 friendly, curvy a++, switch or domme a +, but not essential.

Looking to tease and pleasure someone all night

Willing to travel for the right vibes. Language exchange is more than welcomed.

Heyo, I'm Chris! I'm new to the community and just starting to dip my toes into being part of it, but I've been wanting to give this stuff a shot for a few years. I'm 24-year-old California guy (Bay Area) with a plethora of odd skills, too many hobbies, a great sense of humor, an absurd range of interests (both kinky and mundane), and really just an all-around alright guy.

I wanna be shown the ropes. Explore things, experiment, have some fun and maybe share a few laughs— really just a chance to indulge in the kinkier side of life without getting degraded or beaten into submission. Being the pet of an owner who wants a pet to play with and give them the company they need after a rough day, having a friend who'd tie me to binge watch shows with them, being the plus one of nerdy guy or gal who wants to dress up in cosplay with someone with at the cost of having me crossdress, serving as the sub to a dominant who's just looking for that'd enjoy the simple feeling of being bound and basking in the company of another— it all works! I'm willing to explore it all! We can pursue it as casually or intense as we want. I'm after the connection and fun, not sexual pursuits and chasing after thrills.

If given the chance, you'll have a goofy, sweet sub on your hands who'll try to make your day better however he can, memorize your likes and dislikes, shower you with affection whenever you want or need it, and do his best to make you happy.

Looking for long-term and monogamous. I'd prefer getting to know each other first, preferably as friends or dating instead of get straight into it. Can't host, as I live with my family due to financial issues.

i’m new to bdsm and im looking for someone to help me with my rope work while also being dominated

Confident woman seeking another woman to explore chemistry with within a consensual F/M dynamic. Drawn to feminine energy, tension and intentional play. Kink-aware, consent-driven, selective. Conversation first- mutual desire always.

Open to ongoing connection if chemistry aligns. If you're curious, confident, and know what you want, message me.