Kinky men in California

I train, own, and reshape whitebois, cucks, and snowbunnies into their proper place beneath superior Black cock. Seeking: Obedient white subs ready for real domination. Expect chastity locking, *** rituals, cuck training, sph, ***d bi tasks, breeding fantasies, and total surrender to BBC rule. Sessions: Online control, real-time meets or virtual ownership. All play strictly SSC limits discussed upfront, safewords mandatory, consent is non-negotiable. Approach protocol: Message with respect. Read my full profile. Verify yourself first if serious. No time-wasters or disrespect blocked instantly. Ready to kneel before the new order? Prove you're worthy. 🖤♠️

I am a vibrant man with a zest for life! I am energetic, always on the go. I am sociable and kind, always ready to offer a warm smile and listen attentively. I am cheerful and well balanced. Despite of my active and energetic nature I value honesty and sincerity in my relations with people.

into Men only Be clean literally and medically speaking. i like all shape and sizes of men especially older men. I am chubby with long hair and boobs who lean a bit more to fem im kinda clueless alot so i dont understand signals, be direct with me I love when someone *** me to touch their junk in public or groping me. make me your slut get me drunk , stoned, even sober and have your way with me or we can do it the other way around (HMU first) into C,.N..,.C play, Dacryphilia, somnophilia, feet, pits, nipples and rimming. love to eat someone out and worship and suck their cock, nipples, smell and lick their feet and pits. Love Hairy body especially bushes. Love Being a slave for smelling and licking sweaty musky body part from hard day at work or after gym. the smell and taste of a man is what i live for. Latinos + Dads + Hairy + heavy loads + Quick cummers + I sadly don't have a car and can't host

I am here looking for my slave, a submitive one, I am not here to play games and I do not want someone who would want to waste my time. only serious minded person is welcome to contact me.

I'm a top that is into trying anything at least once. if I don't like it then I'd stop. if I do like it then continue down those roads

I like to think of myself as a blend of a kind soul and an analytical mind, always finding a balance between my professional dedication to helping people and my warm heart. I am a natural people person who values open communication and brings a positive, interesting energy to every conversation.

i always thought i was straight until i met a Master online who informed me that i am a sexual submissive who craves to be used by Dominant Men. He made me his "hotel bitch" the very first time we met. summoned me to His suite, and without even a word of hello, ordered me to strip down to the lacy lingerie He required me to wear for His Pleasure. He complimented himself on finding "such an obedient slut", as He pinched and twisted my nipples, making me squirm. Then He bent me over a chair, lubed me, plugged me and fed me his Cock, chuckling to Himself as i gagged on His Girth. When He was ready to use my "pussy" , He demanded that i beg Him to bareback me, even though we had agreed in advance to only have safe sex. Surrendering to His Lust and accepting four loads of His Cum over hours of raw pounding made me feel used and humiliated. And now all i can think about is Cocks. And submitting to the Men who wield them.

I'm dominant in life and people compliment me on a daily basis for my work. Behind closed door I'm a sub pig who needs to admire a man and compliment him verbally, serve and worship him in an almost ritualistic way, while he humiliates and uses me in intense and weird scenarios. I'm very creative with lots of ideas and scenes. Do you find it hot to be admired? To feel superior and sexy? Even if you have a low self esteem, I'll make you feel good... Challenges turn me on... I'm very verbal, into sessions that are psychological more than physical. A starting point can be with me on my knees wearing tighty whites, with a dumb poppered face looking up at you, expressing my gratitude that I'm in your presence. Then we take from there into a deep intense session of ***, worship, mindfuck, brainwash. See tags for possibilites. NO to getting fucked, fisted, sucked, dad/son, minors, ***, CBT, hard ***. Essential for me are eye contact, transparency, and verbal communication. Sucking, feet, rimming, all of these are possible. Afterwards we move on with our day. Don't take it too seriously (even though I can be very intense). I'm super open minded so tell me what you like. TAGS: (they do not reflect my beliefs, it's roleplay!) #verbal #roleplay #feet #insults #*** #briefs #mindfuck #worship #power #sucking #brainwash #eyecontact #ws #side #s***do #voyeur #exhibition #admire #rejection #tease #denial #bodyshaming #fatshaming #circumcisionshaming #rectiledysfunctionshaming #dicksizeshaming #exposedfag #notabu #lockerrooms #*** #submission #uniforms #army #police #bodywriting #marker #uglification #presentation #raceplay #maga #rednecks #cowboys #ashtray #coach #public #underwear #pig #swallow #cumgames #relaxed #intense #fetish #facial #cleaning #domestic #houseslave #objectification #asscleaning #footstool #mocking #emotional #ritual #666 #devoted #technicaldomination #telegramgroupsstreaming #games #trust #fun #smile - happy to send pics if you send me yours - I can't host, open to get a motel for long sessions - sometimes I enjoy giving tributes like ordering your food or beg to spoil you a bit. But I don't look for escorts. - Not interested in endless chats here - I want to meet for real. - No BS, no flakyness, no picture collectors - Healthy, tested, vaccinated.

gay guy, submissive at heart and deeply drawn to power exchange. I crave the structure, discipline, and intense connection of a Master/slave dynamic being owned, trained, and used for my Master’s pleasure. I also have a strong pull toward Daddy-son relationships: the mix of care, authority, guidance, and raw dominance that comes with a strict but attentive Daddy who knows how to take control. What excites me most: total power exchange, bondage, impact play, chastity, leather/rubber gear, pup play, *** mixed with praise, service, and pushing my limits in a safe, consensual way. I love feeling small, owned, and completely surrendered whether it’s kneeling at my Master/Daddy’s feet, following rules, or being rewarded/punished as He sees fit.

San Diego based, queer, a little fem, and exploring somewhere new. I have a very real foot kink. Especially masculine feet, scent, worship, teasing, and the psychological side of being beneath someone. I’m drawn to confidence, playfulness, chemistry, and people who can communicate without killing the vibe. Vers, affectionate, and submissive-leaning, but not interested in forcing myself into one fixed role. Conversation and mutual attraction come first. Please approach me like a person

I'm a chub Master for something long term. Generally prefer younger and thinner than me. Taboo and perv slaves welcome. I enjoy desperation. I want you to need me and beg for me. Start with face and body pics. I like to chat at first and I like slaves that can do the same. Are you willing to be an object for me to explore?

Total newbie who seeks to explore himself with the right dom. I ask for understanding and patience mainly as I am still not really experienced. Mainly looking for either a romantic partner or friends with benefits I’m mainly into Daddies/Masters who seek to take control, both in and out the bedroom, who loves to tease and banter and cuddle while we hang out and play. Into Leather, Latex(particularly curious about slave/drone play), Lace/Lingerie, curious about kinks such as Chastity, Deprivation, total power exchange, and some others that I can’t remember right now.

I love twinks. I'm a volunteer supervisor with the San Diego Pride Festival. I'm here to build friendships and more and every now and then cuddle up with some hot twinks!

new to BDAM but have always been interested open minded to many kinks. Looking to connect with a dom and bind together overtime. i currently do have chastity on but i do not have a keyholder. I have very little experience besides the usual vanilla.

I’m a side who is enticed to the fun of it all haha. I am a gay man and I’m only into men. Im a huge gamer and love building Legos and stuff. I’m a huge ass eater and love my nipples licked. also very into musk and the dirty kinky side of fun.

im a sub bottom looking for something serious I’m looking for a masc dom long term bf pet qualities I look for are •verse/dom top •pet play •caring •clingy •knows what they want •also a good listener but those are things I just look for but I’d be open to meet you and get know you.

hey! I’m kat and I am secretly a pup, I am honestly into so many kinks but can’t remember them all so if you have any just tell me and I’ll let you know if I’m into them or not~if so I would be down to playing together or trying new things to see what I’m into my fav kinks being ***d (head locks) extreme bondage rough manhandled theirs way more than that but that’s just simple enough for now, don’t be shy to talk to me~I’ll try to be responsive but I tend to be busy with work and personal projects

New to Submission- Eager for transformation through submissive service He/Him (open to She/Her in play) | 65 | Open-minded | Respectfully exploring At a point in life where I’m ready to stop ignoring the quiet truths I’ve carried for a long time. I’m here to explore submission, restraint, and expression with patience, honesty, and curiosity. This journey is still unfolding for me. I recently started experimenting with chastity and find the mental and emotional elements more compelling than I ever expected. The slow surrender of control, the shift in focus from release to discipline, and the psychological push and pull — these things draw me in. 🖤 About Me: I’m not high protocol or heavily into roleplay — at least not yet. I’m a thoughtful, introspective man who finds real satisfaction in connection, consistency, and being seen. I lean toward submission and obedience, especially when trust is earned, and communication is clear. Feminine expression has a quiet pull on me — not always about performance, but about feeling safe enough to soften. I’ve got a sissy side, but I don’t live in it all the time. 🖤 What I’m Looking For: More than anything, I’m looking to learn. I’d like to meet people who are patient, experienced (or also curious), and who value honesty over performance. A dominant partner would be wonderful — someone who enjoys structure, light control, guidance, and the slow build of trust and obedience. But I’m also open to friendships, advice, and simply connecting with others who understand that discovery doesn’t end at any age. 🖤 Interests & Exploration: Chastity (early days but committed to trying), light D/s, domestic service, mental teasing, obedience, discipline, sensual submission, ritual, feminization (gentle or structured), guided denial, and the psychological aspects of power exchange. I’m not looking for *** or *** — more aligned with service, structure, and surrender. 🖤 Beyond Kink: I enjoy cooking, good conversation, travel, and dry humor. I’m comfortable in many social settings and find joy in small rituals — especially those that rein*** purpose and intimacy. If any of this resonates with you — whether you’re experienced or also exploring — feel free to reach out. I’m here to learn, connect, and hopefully serve in the right dynamic, with the right intentions.

Dom Dad type. I like subservient, submissive boys who aim to please. Interested in other dom friends and connections. Would be cool to meet up with someone to learn more on rope play. anyone with a playroom?

for friends i’m building a group of hot and nerdy friends to play D&D with. if this sounds like you, then you rolled onto the right DM’s profile. Say hi :) for fans i’m a 69” inch tall, toned guy. I notice when the room gets the lighting just right…. and that is honestly as much as I have thought to put on here. So hit me up if you want to do something. Maybe we’ll be naked with lots of sunshine. ;)

beta for something regular and long term. very into getting throat fucked. very oral and obedient. love pits and can fall asleep there and live there for the whole night. love ***: drinking even when I don't expect it. very into the idea of being an owned sub/slave in a relationship. live in San Diego so looking locally mostly but open to hot guys all over for kinky chat. typically into Latinos, blacks, asians, dark hair and dark eyes are my thing. also uncut++ love getting tied up but haven't had much experience. also love blindfolds and ear plugs and totally deprivation. breath play too.

brat. pillow prince vibes. extremely smart. I’m ready to explore sex in a safe, communicative dynamic

laid back. discreet. chill. in shape. love to watch. love to sit back and watch a couple fuck (gay or straight). love to watch a wife get used. love to watch a dominant man take control of his partner.

chastity faggot on the journey to become the best fuckable faggot, a fag could be! work and go to college so def a busy fag, but can make time for an ALPHA MAN. hiv undetectable

I am a vibrant man with a zest for life! I am energetic, always on the go. I am sociable and kind, always ready to offer a warm smile and listen attentively. I am cheerful and well balanced. Despite of my active and energetic nature I value honesty and sincerity in my relations with people.

I am here looking for my slave, a submitive one, I am not here to play games and I do not want someone who would want to waste my time. only serious minded person is welcome to contact me.

I like to think of myself as a blend of a kind soul and an analytical mind, always finding a balance between my professional dedication to helping people and my warm heart. I am a natural people person who values open communication and brings a positive, interesting energy to every conversation.

I'm a top that is into trying anything at least once. if I don't like it then I'd stop. if I do like it then continue down those roads

I train, own, and reshape whitebois, cucks, and snowbunnies into their proper place beneath superior Black cock. Seeking: Obedient white subs ready for real domination. Expect chastity locking, *** rituals, cuck training, sph, ***d bi tasks, breeding fantasies, and total surrender to BBC rule. Sessions: Online control, real-time meets or virtual ownership. All play strictly SSC limits discussed upfront, safewords mandatory, consent is non-negotiable. Approach protocol: Message with respect. Read my full profile. Verify yourself first if serious. No time-wasters or disrespect blocked instantly. Ready to kneel before the new order? Prove you're worthy. 🖤♠️

i always thought i was straight until i met a Master online who informed me that i am a sexual submissive who craves to be used by Dominant Men. He made me his "hotel bitch" the very first time we met. summoned me to His suite, and without even a word of hello, ordered me to strip down to the lacy lingerie He required me to wear for His Pleasure. He complimented himself on finding "such an obedient slut", as He pinched and twisted my nipples, making me squirm. Then He bent me over a chair, lubed me, plugged me and fed me his Cock, chuckling to Himself as i gagged on His Girth. When He was ready to use my "pussy" , He demanded that i beg Him to bareback me, even though we had agreed in advance to only have safe sex. Surrendering to His Lust and accepting four loads of His Cum over hours of raw pounding made me feel used and humiliated. And now all i can think about is Cocks. And submitting to the Men who wield them.

into Men only Be clean literally and medically speaking. i like all shape and sizes of men especially older men. I am chubby with long hair and boobs who lean a bit more to fem im kinda clueless alot so i dont understand signals, be direct with me I love when someone *** me to touch their junk in public or groping me. make me your slut get me drunk , stoned, even sober and have your way with me or we can do it the other way around (HMU first) into C,.N..,.C play, Dacryphilia, somnophilia, feet, pits, nipples and rimming. love to eat someone out and worship and suck their cock, nipples, smell and lick their feet and pits. Love Hairy body especially bushes. Love Being a slave for smelling and licking sweaty musky body part from hard day at work or after gym. the smell and taste of a man is what i live for. Latinos + Dads + Hairy + heavy loads + Quick cummers + I sadly don't have a car and can't host

I'm dominant in life and people compliment me on a daily basis for my work. Behind closed door I'm a sub pig who needs to admire a man and compliment him verbally, serve and worship him in an almost ritualistic way, while he humiliates and uses me in intense and weird scenarios. I'm very creative with lots of ideas and scenes. Do you find it hot to be admired? To feel superior and sexy? Even if you have a low self esteem, I'll make you feel good... Challenges turn me on... I'm very verbal, into sessions that are psychological more than physical. A starting point can be with me on my knees wearing tighty whites, with a dumb poppered face looking up at you, expressing my gratitude that I'm in your presence. Then we take from there into a deep intense session of ***, worship, mindfuck, brainwash. See tags for possibilites. NO to getting fucked, fisted, sucked, dad/son, minors, ***, CBT, hard ***. Essential for me are eye contact, transparency, and verbal communication. Sucking, feet, rimming, all of these are possible. Afterwards we move on with our day. Don't take it too seriously (even though I can be very intense). I'm super open minded so tell me what you like. TAGS: (they do not reflect my beliefs, it's roleplay!) #verbal #roleplay #feet #insults #*** #briefs #mindfuck #worship #power #sucking #brainwash #eyecontact #ws #side #s***do #voyeur #exhibition #admire #rejection #tease #denial #bodyshaming #fatshaming #circumcisionshaming #rectiledysfunctionshaming #dicksizeshaming #exposedfag #notabu #lockerrooms #*** #submission #uniforms #army #police #bodywriting #marker #uglification #presentation #raceplay #maga #rednecks #cowboys #ashtray #coach #public #underwear #pig #swallow #cumgames #relaxed #intense #fetish #facial #cleaning #domestic #houseslave #objectification #asscleaning #footstool #mocking #emotional #ritual #666 #devoted #technicaldomination #telegramgroupsstreaming #games #trust #fun #smile - happy to send pics if you send me yours - I can't host, open to get a motel for long sessions - sometimes I enjoy giving tributes like ordering your food or beg to spoil you a bit. But I don't look for escorts. - Not interested in endless chats here - I want to meet for real. - No BS, no flakyness, no picture collectors - Healthy, tested, vaccinated.

gay guy, submissive at heart and deeply drawn to power exchange. I crave the structure, discipline, and intense connection of a Master/slave dynamic being owned, trained, and used for my Master’s pleasure. I also have a strong pull toward Daddy-son relationships: the mix of care, authority, guidance, and raw dominance that comes with a strict but attentive Daddy who knows how to take control. What excites me most: total power exchange, bondage, impact play, chastity, leather/rubber gear, pup play, *** mixed with praise, service, and pushing my limits in a safe, consensual way. I love feeling small, owned, and completely surrendered whether it’s kneeling at my Master/Daddy’s feet, following rules, or being rewarded/punished as He sees fit.

San Diego based, queer, a little fem, and exploring somewhere new. I have a very real foot kink. Especially masculine feet, scent, worship, teasing, and the psychological side of being beneath someone. I’m drawn to confidence, playfulness, chemistry, and people who can communicate without killing the vibe. Vers, affectionate, and submissive-leaning, but not interested in forcing myself into one fixed role. Conversation and mutual attraction come first. Please approach me like a person

Total newbie who seeks to explore himself with the right dom. I ask for understanding and patience mainly as I am still not really experienced. Mainly looking for either a romantic partner or friends with benefits I’m mainly into Daddies/Masters who seek to take control, both in and out the bedroom, who loves to tease and banter and cuddle while we hang out and play. Into Leather, Latex(particularly curious about slave/drone play), Lace/Lingerie, curious about kinks such as Chastity, Deprivation, total power exchange, and some others that I can’t remember right now.

I'm an Aussie sub, living in San Diego. Looking for a Dom, alpha partner. I'm in a asexual (nonsexual) relationship, and would love a regular, fun, kinky guy to belong too. Or guys.

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I love twinks. I'm a volunteer supervisor with the San Diego Pride Festival. I'm here to build friendships and more and every now and then cuddle up with some hot twinks!

Equal parts analytical thinker and easygoing adventurer. As a Life Path 7, I appreciate order, but I live life with a go-with-the-flow attitude. My 'already done it' list is massive, but I'm not finished exploring yet. When it comes to connections, I’m entirely partner-focused—your pleasure and happiness are my top priorities.

i’m an adult filmmaker looking for partners to collab with! i love giving sloppy head, getting skullfucked, and i loooove swallowing cum (even my own lol).

Very, very new to kink and fetish, so I’m hoping to meet some cool people to discuss, share, and potentially explore. Open-minded and excited to learn more about myself. especially interested in exploring socks/feet, ball stretchers/cock rings, and bondage, but very open to others!

newly single after a long relationship and have accepted that I am a chubby submissive diaper baby and I want that to be something I can explore with a new relationship. I always welcome chats and messages so feel free to chat with me, I’m a big gamer so tell me what games you’ve been playing if you are a gamer as well ☺️

I’m a side who is enticed to the fun of it all haha. I am a gay man and I’m only into men. Im a huge gamer and love building Legos and stuff. I’m a huge ass eater and love my nipples licked. also very into musk and the dirty kinky side of fun.

for friends i’m building a group of hot and nerdy friends to play D&D with. if this sounds like you, then you rolled onto the right DM’s profile. Say hi :) for fans i’m a 69” inch tall, toned guy. I notice when the room gets the lighting just right…. and that is honestly as much as I have thought to put on here. So hit me up if you want to do something. Maybe we’ll be naked with lots of sunshine. ;)

laid back. discreet. chill. in shape. love to watch. love to sit back and watch a couple fuck (gay or straight). love to watch a wife get used. love to watch a dominant man take control of his partner.

Soft, gentle energy — a bit cute, a bit shy, but also playful once you get to know me. I like taking care of people in quiet ways. Smooth skin, no body hair, more on the soft and delicate side. I tend to lean submissive — I’m into mutual care, emotional closeness, and soft dynamics rather than anything rigid. Also… I might pay a little extra attention to your feet.

brat. pillow prince vibes. extremely smart. I’m ready to explore sex in a safe, communicative dynamic

older spanking stuff enthusiast...switch hitter..., 4 twenty enthusiast, (lol)... kinda beginner so ta speak. inquire within. Hirsute enthusiastic appreciater...