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Slutty white male gay seeking tops and vers tops that I can bttm for in one-on-one or group play. Also like playing with vers and other bottoms in group play or three ways as well I like all kinky fetish piggy play
i always thought i was straight until i met a Master online who informed me that i am a sexual submissive who craves to be used by Dominant Men. He made me his "hotel bitch" the very first time we met. summoned me to His suite, and without even a word of hello, ordered me to strip down to the lacy lingerie He required me to wear for His Pleasure. He complimented himself on finding "such an obedient slut", as He pinched and twisted my nipples, making me squirm. Then He bent me over a chair, lubed me, plugged me and fed me his Cock, chuckling to Himself as i gagged on His Girth. When He was ready to use my "pussy" , He demanded that i beg Him to bareback me, even though we had agreed in advance to only have safe sex. Surrendering to His Lust and accepting four loads of His Cum over hours of raw pounding made me feel used and humiliated. And now all i can think about is Cocks. And submitting to the Men who wield them.
Male (56) Los Angeles, California
into Men only Be clean literally and medically speaking. i like all shape and sizes of men especially older men. I am chubby with long hair and boobs who lean a bit more to fem im kinda clueless alot so i dont understand signals, be direct with me I love when someone *** me to touch their junk in public or groping me. make me your slut get me drunk , stoned, even sober and have your way with me or we can do it the other way around (HMU first) into C,.N..,.C play, Dacryphilia, somnophilia, feet, pits, nipples and rimming. love to eat someone out and worship and suck their cock, nipples, smell and lick their feet and pits. Love Hairy body especially bushes. Love Being a slave for smelling and licking sweaty musky body part from hard day at work or after gym. the smell and taste of a man is what i live for. Latinos + Dads + Hairy + heavy loads + Quick cummers + I sadly don't have a car and can't host
Super hungry power bottom looking for hung tops **Desires and Fantasies** Would love to bottom for groups and party's and take all the hard cocks that want to use my boi pussy
Male (47) San Diego, California
Curious, confident, and open-minded. I’m here to explore genuine chemistry, trust, and the kind of connection where both people feel comfortable being completely themselves. I enjoy discovering new sides of attraction and exploring fantasies with someone who values communication, respect, and mutual boundaries. I’m drawn to confidence, honesty, and a little mystery. If you’re genuine, adventurous, and know how to keep a conversation interesting, say hello. You might just have my attention.
older chubby man into crossdressing. love to find someone who wants to play with me. more of a bottom. would love to have a friend who would like to dres and show the way. older men but younger men with older minds. not into game.
Male (65) Pico Rivera, California
I train, own, and reshape whitebois, cucks, and snowbunnies into their proper place beneath superior Black cock. Seeking: Obedient white subs ready for real domination. Expect chastity locking, *** rituals, cuck training, sph, ***d bi tasks, breeding fantasies, and total surrender to BBC rule. Sessions: Online control, real-time meets or virtual ownership. All play strictly SSC limits discussed upfront, safewords mandatory, consent is non-negotiable. Approach protocol: Message with respect. Read my full profile. Verify yourself first if serious. No time-wasters or disrespect blocked instantly. Ready to kneel before the new order? Prove you're worthy. 🖤♠️
I’m looking for a warm, thoughtful man who is ready to build a meaningful, long-term relationship grounded in trust, respect, emotional maturity, and shared values.
I'm dominant in life and people compliment me on a daily basis for my work. Behind closed door I'm a sub pig who needs to admire a man and compliment him verbally, serve and worship him in an almost ritualistic way, while he humiliates and uses me in intense and weird scenarios. I'm very creative with lots of ideas and scenes. Do you find it hot to be admired? To feel superior and sexy? Even if you have a low self esteem, I'll make you feel good... Challenges turn me on... I'm very verbal, into sessions that are psychological more than physical. A starting point can be with me on my knees wearing tighty whites, with a dumb poppered face looking up at you, expressing my gratitude that I'm in your presence. Then we take from there into a deep intense session of ***, worship, mindfuck, brainwash. See tags for possibilites. NO to getting fucked, fisted, sucked, dad/son, minors, ***, CBT, hard ***. Essential for me are eye contact, transparency, and verbal communication. Sucking, feet, rimming, all of these are possible. Afterwards we move on with our day. Don't take it too seriously (even though I can be very intense). I'm super open minded so tell me what you like. TAGS: (they do not reflect my beliefs, it's roleplay!) #verbal #roleplay #feet #insults #*** #briefs #mindfuck #worship #power #sucking #brainwash #eyecontact #ws #side #s***do #voyeur #exhibition #admire #rejection #tease #denial #bodyshaming #fatshaming #circumcisionshaming #rectiledysfunctionshaming #dicksizeshaming #exposedfag #notabu #lockerrooms #*** #submission #uniforms #army #police #bodywriting #marker #uglification #presentation #raceplay #maga #rednecks #cowboys #ashtray #coach #public #underwear #pig #swallow #cumgames #relaxed #intense #fetish #facial #cleaning #domestic #houseslave #objectification #asscleaning #footstool #mocking #emotional #ritual #666 #devoted #technicaldomination #telegramgroupsstreaming #games #trust #fun #smile - happy to send pics if you send me yours - I can't host, open to get a motel for long sessions - sometimes I enjoy giving tributes like ordering your food or beg to spoil you a bit. But I don't look for escorts. - Not interested in endless chats here - I want to meet for real. - No BS, no flakyness, no picture collectors - Healthy, tested, vaccinated.
Easygoing, genuine, and looking for a meaningful connection. I enjoy good conversation, laughter, trying new things, and spending quality time with someone special. I’m here to meet someone honest, caring, and open to seeing where a real connection can lead.
Male (39) Sacramento, California
I am a gay white submissive service bottom (jack of spades) searching for a SUPERIOR BLACK MAN BNWO to serve, service, and obey for starters.
180 LBS 5’ 9” verse/ switch for bondage play. I have gear. gags are one of my favorite parts about bondage.
Male (23) Downey, California
Good boy here, looking to get to know men in the kinky community Masc hairy smokers to the FRONT of the line Side/bottom ️ For me, this is a lifestyle in which I actively commit to seeing my significant other as an authority figure. Heavy disciplinary control is welcome but earned through patience, vulnerability, & respect. LTR (21-42), friends, and hookups are ideal 🍁420+++🍁 • X is for retweets of interests: @Accionhave
Male (25) Redlands, California
I'm a fem gay man, 27 years old living in Los Angeles. kinks im interested in exploring: rimming: I'm actually not that into being rimmed myself, but i love eating verbal masc man ass (especially jocks with muscular and or plump juicy ass) hygiene must be impeccable (other than sweat which can be hott, i don't mind some hair either) farting/facesitting/getting ***ed on: being farted on seems hot to me in theory but i have zero experience with it. just need to find a person to help see if id actually like that. face sitting (minus farting) im almost CERTAIN ill enjoy. the more verbal, the better! anyway, if any of this interests you message me, if im online im probably looking for now. Limits my only limits so far are fisting and ***.
Male (27) Los Angeles, California
Happily engaged to my partner of almost 9 years! looking for new kinky friends/chat, possibly FWBs if the chemistry clicks! message me and we’ll find out ?
Male (36) Oakland, California
I'm here for friends, organic relationships, but also not one to turn down fun either. Let's drink and do karaoke ?️
Male (34) Auburn, California
im a sub bottom looking for something serious I’m looking for a masc dom long term bf pet qualities I look for are •verse/dom top •pet play •caring •clingy •knows what they want •also a good listener but those are things I just look for but I’d be open to meet you and get know you.
Male (28) Anaheim, California
New to Submission- Eager for transformation through submissive service He/Him (open to She/Her in play) | 65 | Open-minded | Respectfully exploring At a point in life where I’m ready to stop ignoring the quiet truths I’ve carried for a long time. I’m here to explore submission, restraint, and expression with patience, honesty, and curiosity. This journey is still unfolding for me. I recently started experimenting with chastity and find the mental and emotional elements more compelling than I ever expected. The slow surrender of control, the shift in focus from release to discipline, and the psychological push and pull — these things draw me in. 🖤 About Me: I’m not high protocol or heavily into roleplay — at least not yet. I’m a thoughtful, introspective man who finds real satisfaction in connection, consistency, and being seen. I lean toward submission and obedience, especially when trust is earned, and communication is clear. Feminine expression has a quiet pull on me — not always about performance, but about feeling safe enough to soften. I’ve got a sissy side, but I don’t live in it all the time. 🖤 What I’m Looking For: More than anything, I’m looking to learn. I’d like to meet people who are patient, experienced (or also curious), and who value honesty over performance. A dominant partner would be wonderful — someone who enjoys structure, light control, guidance, and the slow build of trust and obedience. But I’m also open to friendships, advice, and simply connecting with others who understand that discovery doesn’t end at any age. 🖤 Interests & Exploration: Chastity (early days but committed to trying), light D/s, domestic service, mental teasing, obedience, discipline, sensual submission, ritual, feminization (gentle or structured), guided denial, and the psychological aspects of power exchange. I’m not looking for *** or *** — more aligned with service, structure, and surrender. 🖤 Beyond Kink: I enjoy cooking, good conversation, travel, and dry humor. I’m comfortable in many social settings and find joy in small rituals — especially those that rein*** purpose and intimacy. If any of this resonates with you — whether you’re experienced or also exploring — feel free to reach out. I’m here to learn, connect, and hopefully serve in the right dynamic, with the right intentions.
Male (66) Monte Rio, California
only interested in cisgender men | 26yo male bottom, enjoy riding cock and getting bred I do use poppers and would like to get more into cnc play and the party lifestyle smoke me out, 420+ 🍄++
Male (27) Sun City, California
want a buddy to share Folsom on the 28th in SF. come jon me. I really want to share the experience. I live along the Northern California coast in Fort Bragg California. I like getting naked and being open with who and what I am. I'm a very proud slut. I like real, honest people. I'm open to almost everything so please bring up your ideas. Sex should be fun, exciting, a little goofy and clumsy, of course nice and awkward and above all it should be what we want and not what we need to do for some other purpose. Let's not get all fucked up by the process let's just get fucked for fun.
Male (63) Fort Bragg, California
Single man Who has a dominant side but don’t mind being submissive. honestly I’m looking for singles & couples to have fun with. maybe in a regular basis. As far as exploring kinks… Sounding, Fisting, Pegging isn’t off the table. Bi couples? why not? but I am Gay, Tap in.
Male (33) Stockton, California
kinky guy looking for others into latex/nitrile/rubber gloves, medfet, jerking, kissing, BJs, hand over mouth, frotting and other side stuff.
Male (45) Avalon, California
I’m a quiet, eager bottom following a confident top who knows what he wants. I’m open-minded, respectful, and looking for someone dominant, calm, and sure of himself.
Male (33) San Jose, California

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Slutty white male gay seeking tops and vers tops that I can bttm for in one-on-one or group play. Also like playing with vers and other bottoms in group play or three ways as well I like all kinky fetish piggy play
Curious, confident, and open-minded. I’m here to explore genuine chemistry, trust, and the kind of connection where both people feel comfortable being completely themselves. I enjoy discovering new sides of attraction and exploring fantasies with someone who values communication, respect, and mutual boundaries. I’m drawn to confidence, honesty, and a little mystery. If you’re genuine, adventurous, and know how to keep a conversation interesting, say hello. You might just have my attention.
older chubby man into crossdressing. love to find someone who wants to play with me. more of a bottom. would love to have a friend who would like to dres and show the way. older men but younger men with older minds. not into game.
Male (65) Pico Rivera, California
Easygoing, genuine, and looking for a meaningful connection. I enjoy good conversation, laughter, trying new things, and spending quality time with someone special. I’m here to meet someone honest, caring, and open to seeing where a real connection can lead.
Male (39) Sacramento, California
I’m looking for a warm, thoughtful man who is ready to build a meaningful, long-term relationship grounded in trust, respect, emotional maturity, and shared values.
I train, own, and reshape whitebois, cucks, and snowbunnies into their proper place beneath superior Black cock. Seeking: Obedient white subs ready for real domination. Expect chastity locking, *** rituals, cuck training, sph, ***d bi tasks, breeding fantasies, and total surrender to BBC rule. Sessions: Online control, real-time meets or virtual ownership. All play strictly SSC limits discussed upfront, safewords mandatory, consent is non-negotiable. Approach protocol: Message with respect. Read my full profile. Verify yourself first if serious. No time-wasters or disrespect blocked instantly. Ready to kneel before the new order? Prove you're worthy. 🖤♠️
i always thought i was straight until i met a Master online who informed me that i am a sexual submissive who craves to be used by Dominant Men. He made me his "hotel bitch" the very first time we met. summoned me to His suite, and without even a word of hello, ordered me to strip down to the lacy lingerie He required me to wear for His Pleasure. He complimented himself on finding "such an obedient slut", as He pinched and twisted my nipples, making me squirm. Then He bent me over a chair, lubed me, plugged me and fed me his Cock, chuckling to Himself as i gagged on His Girth. When He was ready to use my "pussy" , He demanded that i beg Him to bareback me, even though we had agreed in advance to only have safe sex. Surrendering to His Lust and accepting four loads of His Cum over hours of raw pounding made me feel used and humiliated. And now all i can think about is Cocks. And submitting to the Men who wield them.
Male (56) Los Angeles, California
into Men only Be clean literally and medically speaking. i like all shape and sizes of men especially older men. I am chubby with long hair and boobs who lean a bit more to fem im kinda clueless alot so i dont understand signals, be direct with me I love when someone *** me to touch their junk in public or groping me. make me your slut get me drunk , stoned, even sober and have your way with me or we can do it the other way around (HMU first) into C,.N..,.C play, Dacryphilia, somnophilia, feet, pits, nipples and rimming. love to eat someone out and worship and suck their cock, nipples, smell and lick their feet and pits. Love Hairy body especially bushes. Love Being a slave for smelling and licking sweaty musky body part from hard day at work or after gym. the smell and taste of a man is what i live for. Latinos + Dads + Hairy + heavy loads + Quick cummers + I sadly don't have a car and can't host
I'm dominant in life and people compliment me on a daily basis for my work. Behind closed door I'm a sub pig who needs to admire a man and compliment him verbally, serve and worship him in an almost ritualistic way, while he humiliates and uses me in intense and weird scenarios. I'm very creative with lots of ideas and scenes. Do you find it hot to be admired? To feel superior and sexy? Even if you have a low self esteem, I'll make you feel good... Challenges turn me on... I'm very verbal, into sessions that are psychological more than physical. A starting point can be with me on my knees wearing tighty whites, with a dumb poppered face looking up at you, expressing my gratitude that I'm in your presence. Then we take from there into a deep intense session of ***, worship, mindfuck, brainwash. See tags for possibilites. NO to getting fucked, fisted, sucked, dad/son, minors, ***, CBT, hard ***. Essential for me are eye contact, transparency, and verbal communication. Sucking, feet, rimming, all of these are possible. Afterwards we move on with our day. Don't take it too seriously (even though I can be very intense). I'm super open minded so tell me what you like. TAGS: (they do not reflect my beliefs, it's roleplay!) #verbal #roleplay #feet #insults #*** #briefs #mindfuck #worship #power #sucking #brainwash #eyecontact #ws #side #s***do #voyeur #exhibition #admire #rejection #tease #denial #bodyshaming #fatshaming #circumcisionshaming #rectiledysfunctionshaming #dicksizeshaming #exposedfag #notabu #lockerrooms #*** #submission #uniforms #army #police #bodywriting #marker #uglification #presentation #raceplay #maga #rednecks #cowboys #ashtray #coach #public #underwear #pig #swallow #cumgames #relaxed #intense #fetish #facial #cleaning #domestic #houseslave #objectification #asscleaning #footstool #mocking #emotional #ritual #666 #devoted #technicaldomination #telegramgroupsstreaming #games #trust #fun #smile - happy to send pics if you send me yours - I can't host, open to get a motel for long sessions - sometimes I enjoy giving tributes like ordering your food or beg to spoil you a bit. But I don't look for escorts. - Not interested in endless chats here - I want to meet for real. - No BS, no flakyness, no picture collectors - Healthy, tested, vaccinated.
Super hungry power bottom looking for hung tops **Desires and Fantasies** Would love to bottom for groups and party's and take all the hard cocks that want to use my boi pussy
Male (47) San Diego, California
I am a gay white submissive service bottom (jack of spades) searching for a SUPERIOR BLACK MAN BNWO to serve, service, and obey for starters.
I'm a fem gay man, 27 years old living in Los Angeles. kinks im interested in exploring: rimming: I'm actually not that into being rimmed myself, but i love eating verbal masc man ass (especially jocks with muscular and or plump juicy ass) hygiene must be impeccable (other than sweat which can be hott, i don't mind some hair either) farting/facesitting/getting ***ed on: being farted on seems hot to me in theory but i have zero experience with it. just need to find a person to help see if id actually like that. face sitting (minus farting) im almost CERTAIN ill enjoy. the more verbal, the better! anyway, if any of this interests you message me, if im online im probably looking for now. Limits my only limits so far are fisting and ***.
Male (27) Los Angeles, California
Starving artist. Love to read, play games and just talk. I’m working on an erotic portrait and essay project at the moment.
Male (36) La Habra, California
Actively looking, But I like to meet in neutral ground first. I am also super shy sometimes. Don’t be surprised if you need to be the one to start the conversation. Once we get chatting, I’m usually pretty open. On Prep and disease free (last tested July 20th, 2026). Have both Covid 19 and Monkeypox Vaccines. Primarily looking for a LTR that would be my boyfriend on the streets and my dom or master in the sheets. Open to short term to start. Looking for guys around my age or younger who are not super overweight. I’m into edging, milking, cum-control, chastity, spanking, bondage, smothering, anal training, *** play, and much more. Soft limits (only with doms with experience in that play or trusted doms) are cnc, breath control, hypnosis, water-sports, and electro. Hard limits are ***, ***, permanent damage, electro above the waist, tpe, and ***. I’m currently working on my diet and have hired a personal trainer. I am hoping to be a muscle drone one day! I’m interested in finding someone who will help me train my hole. I am open to live-in scenarios. Open to being a member of a pup pack as well. I have no problems with group play. I am into chastity, but not long term denial. I like chastity as a way to make the build up to play time more fun. I’m down to be locked when not playing. I am into diapers insofar as I like the *** and loss of control aspects. I find having control over something so basic super hot. Also really enjoy the *** aspect of how they look when worn and full. I understand its not everyone’s cup of tea though and I can live without it as a kink if my partner is not into it. I have way too much gear to list here. The list has gotten wayyy too long lol. One of my friends likes to joke that I “own half of Mr. S. Leather’s stock”. Outside of kink, I am a software engineer as my day job (although i code as a hobby as well). I'm also a gamer and play a little of everything (but Kingdom Hearts and FFXIV are my favorites). I am also a D&D DM running Curse of Strahd for some friends atm. I'm a huge hockey fan as well (Go Sharks!). I also really like board games, reading, Disney, and Anime. If you are over my age limit or haven’t read my limits or kink interests in my bio, I will block you. https://obeytest.com/r/z5JvCJpJT1pq6U0qBFB4 https://***/dronedr4k0n
Male (36) Fremont, California
🎀🧸✨ Hewwooo! I’m a smol silly little nerdy boy with a big heart, big imagination, and a VERY big diaper stash! 🍼👉👈 I’m just looking for someone who might wanna be my favorite person to cuddle, be silly with, and go on lil adventures with! >w< 💕✨ Hewwooo! 🧸🍼💙 I’m a gay little/baby fur who just moved to California a few months ago! >w< I’m suuuper into ABDL and try to wear my dia***s as much as I can because being little makes me feel safe, comfy, and happy! 🥺🧸 I’ve been in the kink community since I was 18, but I found ABDL about 6 years ago and it quickly became my biggest kink. I’m also into SPH, chastity, *** & ***, so I’d love someone who’s comfy with my kinky side too. 🙈💕 When I’m not being a silly little, I’m a HUGE D&D nerdy boi 🎲🐉, love love LOVE anime (Madoka Magica is my favoritest! 💕✨), and I’m always getting lost in romantasy books. 📚🦄 I’m looking for work as a drug & alcohol technician and will be going to school to become a counselor! 🥰 I don’t drink or smoke, but I don’t mind if you do. I just feel a lot less little when I’m around drinking/smoking stuff. 🥺 Looking for a sweet, accepting, playful person who likes nerdy things, cuddles, and maybe having a very silly little boy around. 🧸💙🍼
Hellloouhhhh, lowk new to this never done anything sexual frs but im bored and curious 🙂‍↕️, i play games if anyone cares so pls ask mee, also should recommend me new music fr, I’d say im open to trying most things at least once, take me out for food and buy me a new pen for 10 years of good luck 💆🏽‍♀️
Male (18) San Diego, California
Hi my name is Nathen I am most caring and helpful sweet and things I am super happy and blessed and loving caring kindness and I love anything and I love everyone and tell me do stuff and I feel comfortable talked to me just letting me know any request for you if you are interested in me Everytime talk to me I am opening for 25 hours days whats making you happy and enjoying with me❤️💯 just wanted be there for you I have big heart I am not interested in the *** talks and please add me on Snapchat is blushangel7
Male (19) Sacramento, California
Hi guys, I'm pretty new to all of this. I have been with a guy who was into ropes. I was mostly a sub and that excites me a lot, the letting go of control, and putting trust in someone else.
Male (53) San Diego, California
I’m ftm I’m just here for kinky chats I’m cringe rping basically =) I’m into petplay and breeding mostly but tbh just here for whatever 💕 My limits are *** and ageplay. Otherwise I’m here to try something new and get off on chatting about scenarios~~Not looking to meet up or anything! :3 NONE Of these photos are mine unless stated otherwise. They’re just the vibe I’m going for~
Male (19) Sacramento, California
mostly just looking for online connections to discuss our sexuality and kinks haha uhh chubby and hairy 5’10” loveeee ***
Male (23) Marina, California
I’m a 56 yo dom daddy. I prefer younger submissive men. I’m into bondage, bdsm, public, *** and watersporrs.
Male (55) Rocklin, California
enjoying exploring kink. 50, 230. muscle bear/huskular build. gym 3 days a week. versatile exploring both dom and sub. open to connections
Male (50) San Diego, California
I’m a gay man, androgynous leaning more fem most days. typically a bottom with some rare topping experience I’m not DL but i am being more discreet on here for obvious reasons lol. ask for pics, still debating on if ill be giving out face pics but i have a conventionally attractive face that i would humbly rate 7 out of 10 (ok maybe an LA 5, but back home im closer to 8😂). no racial hang ups, prefer somewhere between “shredded” and “retired firefighter” but also love a dad bod and certain twink builds. be able to hold a conversation outside of the kinky stuff, i like to also know the person, not just the kinks. kinks im interested in exploring: ABDL: this is a big one for me and what im mostly here to explore so if your a daddy definitely shoot your shot. I’m also interested in playing with other littles and exploring together. I’ve been interested in finding Daddies and other Littles for a long time but was too scared and didn’t know how. rimming: I’m actually not that into being rimmed myself, but i love eating verbal masc man ass (especially jocks with muscular and or plump juicy ass) hygiene must be impeccable (other than sweat which can be hott, i don’t mind some hair either) farting/facesitting/getting ***ed on: being farted on seems hot to me in theory but i have zero experience with it. just need to find a person to help see if id actually like that. face sitting (minus farting) im almost CERTAIN ill enjoy. the more verbal, the better! anyway, if any of this interests you message me, if im online im probably looking for now.
Male (27) Los Angeles, California
I am a 50 year-old White Guy. I am Tall 6 foot three stocky smooth I really enjoy being submissive with someone that is dominant and takes control. I like everything from discipline, water, sports, and bondage. Looking for a masculine top that can take control and make me obey.
Male (50) Sacramento, California

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