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I like to think of myself as a blend of a kind soul and an analytical mind, always finding a balance between my professional dedication to helping people and my warm heart. I am a natural people person who values open communication and brings a positive, interesting energy to every conversation.
Male (45) Oakland, California
I am here looking for my slave, a submitive one, I am not here to play games and I do not want someone who would want to waste my time. only serious minded person is welcome to contact me.
I'm a top that is into trying anything at least once. if I don't like it then I'd stop. if I do like it then continue down those roads
Male (31) Sunnyvale, California
into Men only Be clean literally and medically speaking. i like all shape and sizes of men especially older men. I am chubby with long hair and boobs who lean a bit more to fem im kinda clueless alot so i dont understand signals, be direct with me I love when someone *** me to touch their junk in public or groping me. make me your slut get me drunk , stoned, even sober and have your way with me or we can do it the other way around (HMU first) into C,.N..,.C play, Dacryphilia, somnophilia, feet, pits, nipples and rimming. love to eat someone out and worship and suck their cock, nipples, smell and lick their feet and pits. Love Hairy body especially bushes. Love Being a slave for smelling and licking sweaty musky body part from hard day at work or after gym. the smell and taste of a man is what i live for. Latinos + Dads + Hairy + heavy loads + Quick cummers + I sadly don't have a car and can't host
Whats up. Definitely have a foot fetish and into foot bondage. But have a kink with casts! Love showing off my toes and being casted. Love the immobilization of it how it feels smells and looks. Also into others who wear them or are interested. Open to all but definitely looking for a male buddy who is into feet a casts or curious like me! Cute fit dudes to the front!
Male (35) Beaumont, California
i always thought i was straight until i met a Master online who informed me that i am a sexual submissive who craves to be used by Dominant Men. He made me his "hotel bitch" the very first time we met. summoned me to His suite, and without even a word of hello, ordered me to strip down to the lacy lingerie He required me to wear for His Pleasure. He complimented himself on finding "such an obedient slut", as He pinched and twisted my nipples, making me squirm. Then He bent me over a chair, lubed me, plugged me and fed me his Cock, chuckling to Himself as i gagged on His Girth. When He was ready to use my "pussy" , He demanded that i beg Him to bareback me, even though we had agreed in advance to only have safe sex. Surrendering to His Lust and accepting four loads of His Cum over hours of raw pounding made me feel used and humiliated. And now all i can think about is Cocks. And submitting to the Men who wield them.
Male (56) Los Angeles, California
I'm dominant in life and people compliment me on a daily basis for my work. Behind closed door I'm a sub pig who needs to admire a man and compliment him verbally, serve and worship him in an almost ritualistic way, while he humiliates and uses me in intense and weird scenarios. I'm very creative with lots of ideas and scenes. Do you find it hot to be admired? To feel superior and sexy? Even if you have a low self esteem, I'll make you feel good... Challenges turn me on... I'm very verbal, into sessions that are psychological more than physical. A starting point can be with me on my knees wearing tighty whites, with a dumb poppered face looking up at you, expressing my gratitude that I'm in your presence. Then we take from there into a deep intense session of ***, worship, mindfuck, brainwash. See tags for possibilites. NO to getting fucked, fisted, sucked, dad/son, minors, ***, CBT, hard ***. Essential for me are eye contact, transparency, and verbal communication. Sucking, feet, rimming, all of these are possible. Afterwards we move on with our day. Don't take it too seriously (even though I can be very intense). I'm super open minded so tell me what you like. TAGS: (they do not reflect my beliefs, it's roleplay!) #verbal #roleplay #feet #insults #*** #briefs #mindfuck #worship #power #sucking #brainwash #eyecontact #ws #side #s***do #voyeur #exhibition #admire #rejection #tease #denial #bodyshaming #fatshaming #circumcisionshaming #rectiledysfunctionshaming #dicksizeshaming #exposedfag #notabu #lockerrooms #*** #submission #uniforms #army #police #bodywriting #marker #uglification #presentation #raceplay #maga #rednecks #cowboys #ashtray #coach #public #underwear #pig #swallow #cumgames #relaxed #intense #fetish #facial #cleaning #domestic #houseslave #objectification #asscleaning #footstool #mocking #emotional #ritual #666 #devoted #technicaldomination #***amgroupsstreaming #games #trust #fun #smile - happy to send pics if you send me yours - I can't host, open to get a motel for long sessions - sometimes I enjoy giving tributes like ordering your food or beg to spoil you a bit. But I don't look for escorts. - Not interested in endless chats here - I want to meet for real. - No BS, no flakyness, no picture collectors - Healthy, tested, vaccinated.
Very, very new to kink and fetish, so I’m hoping to meet some cool people to discuss, share, and potentially explore. Open-minded and excited to learn more about myself. especially interested in exploring socks/feet, ball stretchers/cock rings, and bondage, but very open to others!
i’m an adult filmmaker looking for partners to collab with! i love giving sloppy head, getting skullfucked, and i loooove swallowing cum (even my own lol).
Male (39) Oakland, California
older spanking stuff enthusiast...switch hitter..., 4 twenty enthusiast, (lol)... kinda beginner so ta speak. inquire within. Hirsute enthusiastic appreciater...
18-year-old femboy seeking a long-term relationship. Enjoys walks, movies, cons, and has been cosplaying since age 12. Very feminine.
Male (18) La Verne, California
Passionate ***less and Demanding. I’m here to show you what a real man feels like. Invite me into your bedroom and bring your fantasies to Life
180 LBS 5’ 9” verse/ switch for bondage play. I have gear. gags are one of my favorite parts about bondage.
Male (23) Downey, California
5'6", 190, Uncut 6.5, brown hair and blue eyes. Adventures, outgoing, kinky, and dominant
Male (52) Poway, California
new to BDAM but have always been interested open minded to many kinks. Looking to connect with a dom and bind together overtime. i currently do have chastity on but i do not have a keyholder. I have very little experience besides the usual vanilla.
Male (25) Los Angeles, California
im a sub bottom looking for something serious I’m looking for a masc dom long term bf pet qualities I look for are •verse/dom top •pet play •caring •clingy •knows what they want •also a good listener but those are things I just look for but I’d be open to meet you and get know you.
Male (28) South Gate, California
Looking for an alpha dom daddy to chat with. Absolutely love being a sub that obeys everything daddy tells him to do. Daddy/son roleplay is one of turn ons😈
Male (25) Anaheim, California
I like long make out sessions, body contact, lots of kissing, oral, edging, bottom if it goes there. would like jerk off buddy and/fwb. looking for first time experiences. babiediablo at yahoo dot com contact me Love horror/drama, ratchet reality tv, RnB/soul music, foodie, self care, nature, beach, no ***/420 friendly.
Male (43) Sacramento, California
I've owned subs, houseboys, and slaves since I was in my mid 20s. I met my current husband, online, he was a 21 year old virgin from Arkansas. He sold his car and bought a one way greyhound ticket to Vegas just to meet me and be my sub houseboy just like this. We fell in love. We've been married for 10 years. I have a 20 acre private Ranch with a Lake. You will take care of my home, lite landscaping, be used as desired, disciplined as needed. Plenty of benefits like Vacations, Day Trips, Vegas, Camping, etc.. PM if interested
Male (58) Yermo, California
My main goals are to meet a few guys as friends (maybe a little more?) but primarily as friends who are onto some of the same "strange" things I am and some of the less "strange" things, as I've realized a lot of the people I went to school with have moved since graduation. 100% down for people to talk with and just share life. Only things I ask is that we don't only talk about kinks and that you be around my age (34 or younger). Because this is a kink site, I know I gotta post these: 1. Briefs (you in them) 2. Boxers (yours, on me) 3. Chastity (you, in a cage) 4. Childish clothing/diapers (mostly you in them) 5. Edging 6. Post-cum *** (you) 7. Wearing other guys clothes! 8. Kissing 9. Dom/Daddy/Big Brother role-play (with you as the sub/little) 10. Service (you serving me/cleaning my house/cooking, not a live-in slave - though I don't mind cooking for a good boy!) 11. Viagra play Curious: 1. Electro 2. Sounding In terms of sexual-escque interests, I'm mostly into lighter-skinned guys. I apparently have a weakness for fellow red-heads. Blue eyes are a huge plus. Mostly attracted to lighter-skinned guys. Really love blue eyes and blond or red hair. Literally any height. Outside of kink, I have a number of odd interests: 1. Building computers 2. Cocktails (making, drinking) 3. Cooking 4. Gardening 5. Gay literature 6. Simulation games 7. Strategy games If I'm not in San Diego (UTC area), I'm likely on vacation or just visiting. If we hit it off and I'm not at home, I might be down to meet if time permits (or we can keep up on ***am!) Lastly, the all-important BDSMTest: == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Daddy/Mommy 94% Rigger 93% Brat tamer 93% Switch 91% Degrader 90% Dominant 85% Experimentalist 85% Brat 81% Boy/Girl 80% Owner 79% Ageplayer 78% Master/Mistress 77% Rope bunny 75% Submissive 68% Voyeur 54% Vanilla 46% Masochist 45% Primal (Prey) 43% Sadist 37% Degradee 36% Non-monogamist 31% Primal (Hunter) 21% Pet 19% Exhibitionist 13% Slave http://bdsmtest.org/r/vBZ9GExK KinkTest: 90%Rigger 89%Daddy/Mommy 72%Degrader 68%Brat Tamer 65.5%Sadist 65%Dominant 60%Ageplayer 59%Switch 50%Girl/Boy 45%Experimentalist 44.5%Rope Bunny 42.5%Submissive 40%Owner 40%Primal (Hunter) 37%Vanilla 37%Master/Mistress 36%Degradee 35%Brat 27%Masochist 18%Voyeur 17%Non-monogamist 11%Primal (Prey) 11%Slave 9%Cuckold / Cuckqean 8%Pet 5%***me 4%Pay Pig 3%Exhibitionist 3%Swinger
only interested in cisgender men | 26yo male bottom, enjoy riding cock and getting bred I do use poppers and would like to get more into cnc play and the party lifestyle smoke me out, 420+ 🍄++
Male (27) Sun City, California
chastity faggot on the journey to become the best fuckable faggot, a fag could be! work and go to college so def a busy fag, but can make time for an ALPHA MAN. hiv undetectable
Hey, my name is Fen, I enjoy watching movies, playing videogames and listening to music, I am a rather large guy (Weight wise) and im not very impressive in any capacity.
Male (24) Fresno, California
I have a nice cock 81/2 uncut thick craved cock and im amazing and fun in bed 😉Who wants to and will come rough deep throat fuck my throat with head hanging off edge of bed RNRN.... wanna fuck super bad who's down and has smoke Who wants to kick it
Male (34) Fair Oaks, California

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I am here looking for my slave, a submitive one, I am not here to play games and I do not want someone who would want to waste my time. only serious minded person is welcome to contact me.
I like to think of myself as a blend of a kind soul and an analytical mind, always finding a balance between my professional dedication to helping people and my warm heart. I am a natural people person who values open communication and brings a positive, interesting energy to every conversation.
Male (45) Oakland, California
I'm a top that is into trying anything at least once. if I don't like it then I'd stop. if I do like it then continue down those roads
Male (31) Sunnyvale, California
Whats up. Definitely have a foot fetish and into foot bondage. But have a kink with casts! Love showing off my toes and being casted. Love the immobilization of it how it feels smells and looks. Also into others who wear them or are interested. Open to all but definitely looking for a male buddy who is into feet a casts or curious like me! Cute fit dudes to the front!
Male (35) Beaumont, California
i always thought i was straight until i met a Master online who informed me that i am a sexual submissive who craves to be used by Dominant Men. He made me his "hotel bitch" the very first time we met. summoned me to His suite, and without even a word of hello, ordered me to strip down to the lacy lingerie He required me to wear for His Pleasure. He complimented himself on finding "such an obedient slut", as He pinched and twisted my nipples, making me squirm. Then He bent me over a chair, lubed me, plugged me and fed me his Cock, chuckling to Himself as i gagged on His Girth. When He was ready to use my "pussy" , He demanded that i beg Him to bareback me, even though we had agreed in advance to only have safe sex. Surrendering to His Lust and accepting four loads of His Cum over hours of raw pounding made me feel used and humiliated. And now all i can think about is Cocks. And submitting to the Men who wield them.
Male (56) Los Angeles, California
into Men only Be clean literally and medically speaking. i like all shape and sizes of men especially older men. I am chubby with long hair and boobs who lean a bit more to fem im kinda clueless alot so i dont understand signals, be direct with me I love when someone *** me to touch their junk in public or groping me. make me your slut get me drunk , stoned, even sober and have your way with me or we can do it the other way around (HMU first) into C,.N..,.C play, Dacryphilia, somnophilia, feet, pits, nipples and rimming. love to eat someone out and worship and suck their cock, nipples, smell and lick their feet and pits. Love Hairy body especially bushes. Love Being a slave for smelling and licking sweaty musky body part from hard day at work or after gym. the smell and taste of a man is what i live for. Latinos + Dads + Hairy + heavy loads + Quick cummers + I sadly don't have a car and can't host
I'm dominant in life and people compliment me on a daily basis for my work. Behind closed door I'm a sub pig who needs to admire a man and compliment him verbally, serve and worship him in an almost ritualistic way, while he humiliates and uses me in intense and weird scenarios. I'm very creative with lots of ideas and scenes. Do you find it hot to be admired? To feel superior and sexy? Even if you have a low self esteem, I'll make you feel good... Challenges turn me on... I'm very verbal, into sessions that are psychological more than physical. A starting point can be with me on my knees wearing tighty whites, with a dumb poppered face looking up at you, expressing my gratitude that I'm in your presence. Then we take from there into a deep intense session of ***, worship, mindfuck, brainwash. See tags for possibilites. NO to getting fucked, fisted, sucked, dad/son, minors, ***, CBT, hard ***. Essential for me are eye contact, transparency, and verbal communication. Sucking, feet, rimming, all of these are possible. Afterwards we move on with our day. Don't take it too seriously (even though I can be very intense). I'm super open minded so tell me what you like. TAGS: (they do not reflect my beliefs, it's roleplay!) #verbal #roleplay #feet #insults #*** #briefs #mindfuck #worship #power #sucking #brainwash #eyecontact #ws #side #s***do #voyeur #exhibition #admire #rejection #tease #denial #bodyshaming #fatshaming #circumcisionshaming #rectiledysfunctionshaming #dicksizeshaming #exposedfag #notabu #lockerrooms #*** #submission #uniforms #army #police #bodywriting #marker #uglification #presentation #raceplay #maga #rednecks #cowboys #ashtray #coach #public #underwear #pig #swallow #cumgames #relaxed #intense #fetish #facial #cleaning #domestic #houseslave #objectification #asscleaning #footstool #mocking #emotional #ritual #666 #devoted #technicaldomination #***amgroupsstreaming #games #trust #fun #smile - happy to send pics if you send me yours - I can't host, open to get a motel for long sessions - sometimes I enjoy giving tributes like ordering your food or beg to spoil you a bit. But I don't look for escorts. - Not interested in endless chats here - I want to meet for real. - No BS, no flakyness, no picture collectors - Healthy, tested, vaccinated.
i’m an adult filmmaker looking for partners to collab with! i love giving sloppy head, getting skullfucked, and i loooove swallowing cum (even my own lol).
Male (39) Oakland, California
Very, very new to kink and fetish, so I’m hoping to meet some cool people to discuss, share, and potentially explore. Open-minded and excited to learn more about myself. especially interested in exploring socks/feet, ball stretchers/cock rings, and bondage, but very open to others!
newly single after a long relationship and have accepted that I am a chubby submissive diaper baby and I want that to be something I can explore with a new relationship. I always welcome chats and messages so feel free to chat with me, I’m a big gamer so tell me what games you’ve been playing if you are a gamer as well ☺️
Male (28) Winchester, California
I’m a side who is enticed to the fun of it all haha. I am a gay man and I’m only into men. Im a huge gamer and love building Legos and stuff. I’m a huge ass eater and love my nipples licked. also very into musk and the dirty kinky side of fun.
Male (24) Fresno, California
for friends i’m building a group of hot and nerdy friends to play D&D with. if this sounds like you, then you rolled onto the right DM’s profile. Say hi :) for fans i’m a 69” inch tall, toned guy. I notice when the room gets the lighting just right…. and that is honestly as much as I have thought to put on here. So hit me up if you want to do something. Maybe we’ll be naked with lots of sunshine. ;)
Male (27) Los Angeles, California
laid back. discreet. chill. in shape. love to watch. love to sit back and watch a couple fuck (gay or straight). love to watch a wife get used. love to watch a dominant man take control of his partner.
Male (40) San Diego, California
Soft, gentle energy — a bit cute, a bit shy, but also playful once you get to know me. I like taking care of people in quiet ways. Smooth skin, no body hair, more on the soft and delicate side. I tend to lean submissive — I’m into mutual care, emotional closeness, and soft dynamics rather than anything rigid. Also… I might pay a little extra attention to your feet.
Male (24) Los Angeles, California
brat. pillow prince vibes. extremely smart. I’m ready to explore sex in a safe, communicative dynamic
Male (27) Azusa, California
older spanking stuff enthusiast...switch hitter..., 4 twenty enthusiast, (lol)... kinda beginner so ta speak. inquire within. Hirsute enthusiastic appreciater...
beta for something regular and long term. very into getting throat fucked. very oral and obedient. love pits and can fall asleep there and live there for the whole night. love ***: drinking even when I don't expect it. very into the idea of being an owned sub/slave in a relationship. live in San Diego so looking locally mostly but open to hot guys all over for kinky chat. typically into Latinos, blacks, asians, dark hair and dark eyes are my thing. also uncut++ love getting tied up but haven't had much experience. also love blindfolds and ear plugs and totally deprivation. breath play too.
Male (39) San Diego, California
Dom Dad type. I like subservient, submissive boys who aim to please. Interested in other dom friends and connections. Would be cool to meet up with someone to learn more on rope play. anyone with a playroom?
Male (33) San Diego, California
18-year-old femboy seeking a long-term relationship. Enjoys walks, movies, cons, and has been cosplaying since age 12. Very feminine.
Male (18) La Verne, California
Pre-T trans guy. Put Man on my profile because I am genuinely sick of straight guys in my DMs thinking I am a woman, I am not.
Male (19) San Diego, California
I have a nice cock 81/2 uncut thick craved cock and im amazing and fun in bed 😉Who wants to and will come rough deep throat fuck my throat with head hanging off edge of bed RNRN.... wanna fuck super bad who's down and has smoke Who wants to kick it
Male (34) Fair Oaks, California
Hey, my name is Fen, I enjoy watching movies, playing videogames and listening to music, I am a rather large guy (Weight wise) and im not very impressive in any capacity.
Male (24) Fresno, California
An open minded femboy who enjoys deep conversations just as much as I enjoy a deep pounding 😘
Male (26) Fresno, California
kinky guy looking for others into latex/nitrile/rubber gloves, medfet, jerking, kissing, BJs, hand over mouth, frotting and other side stuff.
Male (45) Avalon, California

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