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Foxerboi
Foxerboi
Heyaaa I'm a gay furry who loves being tied up and tickled and milked, hehe! I really love belly and bellybutton stuff too, love cuddles, and edging, post orgasm stuff too hehe. I really really wanna meet up with someone, I'd really love to have a tickle session hehe! Hmu!
Male (23) Los Angeles, California
Ryandoomstar
R**********r
I’m into: Cuddling, , boots, jockstraps, 69, rim jobs, fuck, cum, kissing, pits, flogging, dad & son play, spit, electro play, leather, bdsm, straight curious men, and a lot more to explore Snapchat: @iamcreatures
Male (34) Corona, California
Oreo_The_Puppy
O************y
Hi! I'm very new to kink and haven't done much at all in real life but I've seen stuff that I find interesting and would like to actually try. I'm very submissive but still a virgin. My biggest kink would have to be pup play, but also generally the idea of being owned and used. I would love just as much to basically be a slave as much as an owned pet. Chastity also seems pretty hot.
Male (18) Victorville, California
AccIonHave01
A**********1
Submissive here, looking to try some total power exchange for a few hours with a verbal dom. =) Loves: Pits, Sweat, Spit *NO PISS, FEET, OR SCAT*
Male (22) Redlands, California
SC1986
S****6
New to the fet community but exploring my desires and wants. Looking for open minded people to help explore and solidify my kinks.
Male (37) Bonny Doon, California
LittleGuyJimmy
L************y
Looking for an LTR and dating. trying to find someone I can build trust with. I love watching horror movies. I'm a bit of a chicken though and could definitely use someone to shield my eyes from the scary parts! pretty flexible when it comes to sex. I've tried a lot of different things.
Male (38) Chico, California
Elio37
E****7
New to the kink scene. Exploring my interests and hoping to find others that will help in doing do. Looking for friends, dates, and/or FWB 25-45yo.
Male (37) Granada Hills, California
MyKimBurr
M*******r
I am very new and very passable CROSS DRESSER. I am a cis man and pansexual/gay. I love to chat naughty and don’t be shy if you’ve ever been curious.
Male (33) Cathedral City, California
santa-clarita775
s**************5
I'm a nice guy and I absolutely enjoy meeting other nice guys. I'm attracted to young guys with Good personalities and hard bodies.
Male (70) Burbank, California
LockedLatinoCuck
L**************k
Cuckold, Sissy, Locked Nub, BIG COCK addicted, I fetishize everyone ❤️ love them all equally. #BNWO #MNWO #RedPilled #RP #Exhibitionist #Humiliation tell me your kinks Looking for an Experienced Key Master to take my Key ☺️ if your a Sub add me, let’s be friends and attend some kinky events together! STR8 MEN: No need for sex, I respect your orientation, just looking for someone to humiliate me and laugh me, you don’t even need to take your clothes off.
Male (25) Irvine, California
campo509
c******9
I'm just a 27 year old engaged gay male looking for some kinky experiences, open to trying most of anything, my partner (32 male) may want to watch or join in~
Male (28) Alpine, California
ken4men
k*****n
I'm a pretty laid back chill type of guy who just happens to be horny all of the time.
Male (31) San Francisco, California
DarionABDL
D********L
Hi. I live near San Jose, California and I am a non sexual ABDL, gay oriented. I am new to ABDL and are looking for friends to hang out with and/or caregivers for experience exchange. I have a partner. I am just looking for friends.
Male (42) San Jose, California
bj147
b***7
I am an older over-weight guy who learned that I really enjoy gay sex. I am a newbie with a desire to learn and experience the submissive side of me.
Male (64) Grass Valley, California
LAfootsub
L*******b
New here. Long day at work? Unwind while I work my tongue around every inch of your feet. Guys who like/are curious about having their feet worshipped say hi :) — Bottom sub here into role play, socks, nipples, pits, spit, spanking, wrestling, lingierie, ws, role play, age play, edging, frot — Masc/St8 + Older ++ Big Feet +++
Male (22) Los Angeles, California
Docuso
D****o
I mainly wanna just chill talk with people and maybe go out with some like minded kinksters, maybe find a little or a Cg near me to maybe set something up
Male (18) Cutler, California
SayItBack
S*******k
Let me show you the dark side. I will use you and dominate you. I need men that will give themselves up to me physically, mentally, financially and emotionally. You are here to service me. I need you to be available when I want it. BDSM, edger, batebro, Popperbator, Sir. Look at me in the eyes and tell me what I want to hear while you have my spit dripping downs your face. You’re nothing but a hole and a temporary escape at my discretion. Spoil dad and feel my pain. ⛓️???
Male (36) Rialto, California
CliffRed
C******d
I am a Furry, looking for someone who is accepting of or is also a furry, I don't really want much just to be cared and loved, Im BiPoly and honestly just lonely, i am shy but I'm positive I'll get over it in due time, please be patient with me and I'll try my best ❤️
Male (20) Menifee, California
wrestleme32
w*********2
love wrestling ? being dominated by strong ? men who have power and control over me iPhone number 562-204-5638
Male (32) Hawthorne, California
nakedshot69
n*********9
I'm simply trying to enjoy my sexuality to the maximum. And I would like to find someone worthy so that I can take it to the next level. Drama free B.S. free and once I offer my friendship I'm loyal to a default.
Male (40) Orange, California
onemoredom
o********m
I am looking for a long term sub. Please understand that I am picky when it comes to choosing the right sub. I don’t want something purely sexual as I’m interested in the possibility for a future TPE situation. And I know that won’t happen with every sub, I’m looking for someone who I can grow with and who loves to give up control sexually and non-sexually. In terms of my experience, I’m more on the softer/gentler Dom side of things. But I do know what I want and when we are playing sexually or doing some edging training I tend to be more strict with rules and punishment. I will ask for you to send me two pics of you. One clothed and one naked. We will talk about experience and what we want to get out of this D/s relationship. I use Session, snap, or sometimes telegram. It is very very rare that I am able to go live on Skype, snap, etc… so if that is something you’re looking for I apologize but I won’t be the right Dom for you. Eventually I will be able to. But right not, it’s not really possible. I know this is going to sound vain, but physically I’m into twinks/fit guys for subs. I don’t care about cock size. Small is great, large is great. I love uncut cocks. But I also like to play with cut. Sexually, I identify more as a side and so I’m not really an ass focused dom. If you’re a bottom and like ass play I’m probably not the dom for you. I do enjoy it every now and again, but I’m much more focused on the front side of you. If interested DM me your stats: Age, Height, Weight, Body Type, Cock Size. Tell me: - What you’re looking for - Your experience level as a sub - Your kinks and limits Your Age: 18-33 Your body type: twink, skinny/athletic Sexually I’m into edging, cum control (anywhere from a couple hours to weeks or months), TPE, light cbt, chastity, humiliation, bondage, ball play, face (if we do become long term will be required), water sports (sometimes), body writing, I’m also open to your kinks and interests. Eventually I am interested in total control of you. Though that will take time. Limits: I’m really not too into femplay, feminisation, cross dressing, scat, extreme pain, ass play. Location: Preferable USA for ease of time difference. But if you think you’d be the right sub, anywhere in the world is okay.
Male (35) Oceanside, California
KinkTwink18
K*********8
honestly just a kinky twink looking for some fun. add me on snap: j.00ka preferably someone around my age, but not necessary not into trans, excessively hairy, or fat
Male (18) Laguna Hills, California
farthuffer
f********r
id love to find a guy into some/all my kinks which are: musk, pits, spit, light biting/hickeys, piss, breeding, felching, and farts. im vers and a switch. my snap is ravenchills24.
Male (19) Lincoln, California
ABDL_Chub
A*******b
hi there, I am a big gaymer looking to have some kinky fun. I have a husband but we are in an open relationship so open to just having fun and open to exploring new connections and see where things go. I like wearing diapers but have never really explored with little play but am very curious about. I would say some of my big kinks are feet play and piss play as well but also open to trying new things.
Male (27) Winchester, California

New members in California

Foxerboi
Foxerboi
Heyaaa I'm a gay furry who loves being tied up and tickled and milked, hehe! I really love belly and bellybutton stuff too, love cuddles, and edging, post orgasm stuff too hehe. I really really wanna meet up with someone, I'd really love to have a tickle session hehe! Hmu!
Male (23) Los Angeles, California
Elio37
E****7
New to the kink scene. Exploring my interests and hoping to find others that will help in doing do. Looking for friends, dates, and/or FWB 25-45yo.
Male (37) Granada Hills, California
labor_slave_IE
l************E
Owned slave available for unpaid labor/chores. I will send my slave to do any type of labor or chores, you may use it how you wish while it's there.
Male (36) Ontario, California
Oreo_The_Puppy
O************y
Hi! I'm very new to kink and haven't done much at all in real life but I've seen stuff that I find interesting and would like to actually try. I'm very submissive but still a virgin. My biggest kink would have to be pup play, but also generally the idea of being owned and used. I would love just as much to basically be a slave as much as an owned pet. Chastity also seems pretty hot.
Male (18) Victorville, California
SC1986
S****6
New to the fet community but exploring my desires and wants. Looking for open minded people to help explore and solidify my kinks.
Male (37) Bonny Doon, California
ABDL_Chub
A*******b
hi there, I am a big gaymer looking to have some kinky fun. I have a husband but we are in an open relationship so open to just having fun and open to exploring new connections and see where things go. I like wearing diapers but have never really explored with little play but am very curious about. I would say some of my big kinks are feet play and piss play as well but also open to trying new things.
Male (27) Winchester, California
LittleGuyJimmy
L************y
Looking for an LTR and dating. trying to find someone I can build trust with. I love watching horror movies. I'm a bit of a chicken though and could definitely use someone to shield my eyes from the scary parts! pretty flexible when it comes to sex. I've tried a lot of different things.
Male (38) Chico, California
LockedLittle
L**********e
I’m a 22 year old who’s locked in chastity for a few years now. I’m looking for someone who’s willing to take my keys away and not give them back. I’m also into ABDL and honestly down to try almost anything at lease once.
Male (22) Dodgertown, California
Quentin6989
Q*********9
I am very funny. A little bit of a brat but never an ass. Trust is everything to me, so I’m looking for someone who’s willing to let me in (emotionally only haha). I work as a behavioral technician. I plan on becoming a psychiatrist one day, and opening several urgent cares. I’d like to get to know you first before talking about sex
Male (21) Rancho Cucamonga, California
Ryandoomstar
R**********r
I’m into: Cuddling, , boots, jockstraps, 69, rim jobs, fuck, cum, kissing, pits, flogging, dad & son play, spit, electro play, leather, bdsm, straight curious men, and a lot more to explore Snapchat: @iamcreatures
Male (34) Corona, California
CubBoyMike92
C**********2
I am a submissive masochist who LOVES bondage, impact play, and degradation among other things. I am hoping to meet some guys I am attracted to who will help push me to my full fucked up and depraved potential. I can't host and would love to travel. my only real limits I can think of are blood and permanent marks. I have not had nearly as much kinky fun as I would like. I hope you like verbal hairy bottom boys ? love poppers, 420, and other kinds of smoke sess too. lets make it a party ?
Male (31) Long Beach, California
spidey888
s*******8
partnered here. looking for some solo fun exploration. open to singles, couples and group fun. respectful and kind and dirty in the dungeon. ?
Male (37) Los Angeles, California
BambiAlie
B*******e
submissive Bambi bot ready to serve their owner/user with all and any desired requests. Model Alie 5 foot 4 inches long brown hair blue eyes
Male (32) Berkeley, California
farthuffer
f********r
id love to find a guy into some/all my kinks which are: musk, pits, spit, light biting/hickeys, piss, breeding, felching, and farts. im vers and a switch. my snap is ravenchills24.
Male (19) Lincoln, California
onemoredom
o********m
I am looking for a long term sub. Please understand that I am picky when it comes to choosing the right sub. I don’t want something purely sexual as I’m interested in the possibility for a future TPE situation. And I know that won’t happen with every sub, I’m looking for someone who I can grow with and who loves to give up control sexually and non-sexually. In terms of my experience, I’m more on the softer/gentler Dom side of things. But I do know what I want and when we are playing sexually or doing some edging training I tend to be more strict with rules and punishment. I will ask for you to send me two pics of you. One clothed and one naked. We will talk about experience and what we want to get out of this D/s relationship. I use Session, snap, or sometimes telegram. It is very very rare that I am able to go live on Skype, snap, etc… so if that is something you’re looking for I apologize but I won’t be the right Dom for you. Eventually I will be able to. But right not, it’s not really possible. I know this is going to sound vain, but physically I’m into twinks/fit guys for subs. I don’t care about cock size. Small is great, large is great. I love uncut cocks. But I also like to play with cut. Sexually, I identify more as a side and so I’m not really an ass focused dom. If you’re a bottom and like ass play I’m probably not the dom for you. I do enjoy it every now and again, but I’m much more focused on the front side of you. If interested DM me your stats: Age, Height, Weight, Body Type, Cock Size. Tell me: - What you’re looking for - Your experience level as a sub - Your kinks and limits Your Age: 18-33 Your body type: twink, skinny/athletic Sexually I’m into edging, cum control (anywhere from a couple hours to weeks or months), TPE, light cbt, chastity, humiliation, bondage, ball play, face (if we do become long term will be required), water sports (sometimes), body writing, I’m also open to your kinks and interests. Eventually I am interested in total control of you. Though that will take time. Limits: I’m really not too into femplay, feminisation, cross dressing, scat, extreme pain, ass play. Location: Preferable USA for ease of time difference. But if you think you’d be the right sub, anywhere in the world is okay.
Male (35) Oceanside, California
KinkTwink18
K*********8
honestly just a kinky twink looking for some fun. add me on snap: j.00ka preferably someone around my age, but not necessary not into trans, excessively hairy, or fat
Male (18) Laguna Hills, California
bj1479
b****9
Hi, I am a complete newbie, welling to learn the proper behaviors for a sub. i am pre-Medicare, slightly and over weight. i own make-up, fem clothes, heels and wig. i make a very fem sissy.
Male (64) Grass Valley, California
SayItBack
S*******k
Let me show you the dark side. I will use you and dominate you. I need men that will give themselves up to me physically, mentally, financially and emotionally. You are here to service me. I need you to be available when I want it. BDSM, edger, batebro, Popperbator, Sir. Look at me in the eyes and tell me what I want to hear while you have my spit dripping downs your face. You’re nothing but a hole and a temporary escape at my discretion. Spoil dad and feel my pain. ⛓️???
Male (36) Rialto, California
ExoticTopPlus
E***********s
Aware, exotic, and can be intimidating. Inlike to test the temperature of the ?..I like to pull you into my web. My touch, my kiss, will make you melt like a HotbHumid Day in Florida. LEVELs are important, and chemis.try facial hair stubble or scruffy faces I'd essential. 8x6 cut cock obsessed with intriguing men.
Male (49) Richmond, California
Docuso
D****o
I mainly wanna just chill talk with people and maybe go out with some like minded kinksters, maybe find a little or a Cg near me to maybe set something up
Male (18) Cutler, California
LAfootsub
L*******b
New here. Long day at work? Unwind while I work my tongue around every inch of your feet. Guys who like/are curious about having their feet worshipped say hi :) — Bottom sub here into role play, socks, nipples, pits, spit, spanking, wrestling, lingierie, ws, role play, age play, edging, frot — Masc/St8 + Older ++ Big Feet +++
Male (22) Los Angeles, California
MyKimBurr
M*******r
I am very new and very passable CROSS DRESSER. I am a cis man and pansexual/gay. I love to chat naughty and don’t be shy if you’ve ever been curious.
Male (33) Cathedral City, California
CliffRed
C******d
I am a Furry, looking for someone who is accepting of or is also a furry, I don't really want much just to be cared and loved, Im BiPoly and honestly just lonely, i am shy but I'm positive I'll get over it in due time, please be patient with me and I'll try my best ❤️
Male (20) Menifee, California
CubDaddySwitch
C************h
I am in a happy 20 gay marriage. My hubby is not into the same things that I am and has agreed to open things up for me. I am homoflexible, with a few kinks that I would like to explore with someone. An LTR ENM partner would be nice, but I am open to casual/NSA as well. I can host on certain days. HIV- as of March 2024 and on PrEP. Covid vaxxed 6x.
Male (54) Orcutt, California

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Zevvs
Dom hoping to explore his sub side and be sissy

As title says, I’m usually the dom but hoping to find a female/femme/nb to try and put me in my place and encourage the sissy side.

I have outfits, heels, wig and plenty of toys at my disposal.
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 40 years UK, Coventry ● 35 minutes ago
Pmc
Please dominate me

Hi I’m 57 a single straight honest biker with a crossdressing and pvc Fetish and fantasies of serving a dominant woman
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 45 years ● 5km around UK, North Lanarkshire ● 50 minutes ago
idek2004
Relationship

I wanna meet someone who's fun and adventurous and that has a good personality and be a sub
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 29 years ● 165km around USA, Riegelwood ● 27.07.2024 - 09.08.2024
bridge-city528214
Hookup buddy needed

Looking for fun weekend
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 95km around USA, Bridge City ● 27.07.2024 - 22.08.2024
ahmad1122
Looking for fwb, North York

Looking for someone around my age for a fwb kinda situation, open to a short term relationship as well.
Hmu and lets see how well we vibe :)
Kinky Date ● 18 to 24 years ● 25km around Canada, North York ● 26.07.2024 - 23.08.2024
moisteggplant69
Need a webslut so bad😢

DESPERATE
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA, Sandstone ● 26.07.2024 - 17.08.2024
DontForgetX
In Fort Lauderdale Fr the night inna friend tn lik

Uh mermaid
Kinky Date ● 18 to 30 years ● 45km around USA, Fort Lauderdale ● one hour ago
enzlo78
Simplicity

Just looking for a movie date and see what happens next.
Simple
NSA ● 18 to 55 years ● 50km around USA, Arlington ● one hour ago
mchalli
looking for a sub that wants to explore with ropes

I am looking for a sub that would like to explore the ropes with me.... I have ropes here and I have started to learn a few different knots but I need a sub to practice the harness on.....
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 135km around USA, Sandown ● one hour ago
urfavoritebeta
Looking for a man with a lot of built up anger

I want someone to dm me whenever they need to release their anger on someone. Check my profile out for more details
Pro-Dom/me Session ● 18 to 49 years ● 25km around USA, Phoenix ● one hour ago
coralville58995
Super hunny and hungry for a snack,

anyone wanna sit on my face, and I mean really sit on my face I'm super hungry and I want you to suffocate me
Kinky Date ● 18 to 77 years ● 500km around USA, Coralville ● 26.07.2024 - 21.08.2024
chibwc225
Love giving head

Any ladies want someone to eat them out whenever they say? Just msg me and Im youre guy. If youre thicker, to the front please.
NSA ● 18 to 54 years ● 280km around USA, Oak Park ● 26.07.2024 - 04.08.2024
Oz_630
Need a naughty, depraved girl into cnc/freeuse. 😈

Any naughty girls local?
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA, Fox Valley ● 26.07.2024 - 22.08.2024
new-york722938
I want to love and be loved

Hello, I want to have a woman who will mean the world to me, a woman who knows what a true love is
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, New York ● one hour ago
jitywitty
tickling

wonder if there’s anybody out there who likes being tickled or likes tickling🤔
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● Blue Door Dungeon in UK, London ● one hour ago
pictures_in_motion
It’s my 35th birthday today

It’s my 35th birthday today, I’m stuck at home. I would love a hot little sub to keep me company and make me happy on my birthday. I’m a lot of fun and I love to talk
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 495km around USA, Holland ● 2 hours ago
YourOralPleasure
👀

Where are all the hard working si le mothers who just want to get tied up and get taken advantage of while you're dripping wet begging for more 💕
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA, Roseville ● 2 hours ago
nathan-sandiego
I am a sub just looking to get dominated

A woman dominator nothing off limits.
NSA ● 18 to 40 years ● 45km around USA, San Diego ● 26.07.2024 - 31.07.2024
bynum388022
I need a thick dick tranny to come make me feel my

I want a tranny to top me and not let me jack my dick or anything. But fuck me until I cum.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA, Anniston ● 26.07.2024 - 02.08.2024
RockyM95
Noob here!

An intelligent woman who I can worship and obey
Kinky Date ● 24 to 45 years ● 80km around UK, South Lanarkshire ● 2 hours ago
moonbear13
Pegging

I want to meet a female or females who will be gentle with me at first because I’m new to this but once I’m loosened up dominant me and tell me want to do for you
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK, Liverpool ● 2 hours ago
jakey2002
Athletic, switch, ABDL

Hey! I’m 22, athletic. I’m hoping to experiment and do some new things. I’m into ABDL and think I’m a switch but I’m open to new stuff and will try just about anything. Maybe hoping to find a mommy or female ABDL or trans woman to show me the ropes. HMU!
Kinky Date ● 18 to 50 years ● 160km around USA, Colorado Springs ● 26.07.2024 - 23.08.2024
YourOralPleasure
Question

69
Do you prefer being in the bottom or top?
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA, Roseville ● 2 hours ago
MrIndy
Looking in Indianapolis

Would like to meet woman who is a submissive/slave
Kinky Date ● 25 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, Indianapolis ● 3 hours ago

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