Kinky women in Oakland

Im an highly experienced dominatrix with seductive streak of Sadism and some addictive qualities, im searching for a submissive who’s eager to explore his submissive nature and deeply craves being put in his place through indulgence his kinks and fantasies. I enjoy newbies who are eager and passionate about exploring and learning

I am a family-oriented and trustworthy woman who embraces her feminine side with grace. At my core, I lead a simple life and cherish the little things; my greatest desire is to experience the profound connection that comes with mutual love. I truly believe in the magic of love and the warmth it brings to our lives.

New to kink so a lot to learn. I’m petite and curvy brunette with a small waist, thick thighs, full hips and a juicy 🍑. I’m a sub looking for someone to have regular D/s play sessions. I think desire starts in the mind so I want to be seduced. I Love lots of foreplay (verbal & physical), anticipation, tension, toys, dirty talk and ***fulness. I like to playfully resist and be subdued and overcome. discreet public teasing really excites me. If you lean towards being a pleasure Dom, enjoy the art of seduction, love to give more than receive and looking for a regular playmate then please reach out. I prefer an athletic build and no mustaches (beards can be sexy.) Please Send pics of face if not on your profile. Please dont message me, if you aren’t nearby or cant host. Im not interested in cyber sex, being friends or exchanging pics. Condoms, clear boundaries and good communication skills are nonnegotiable. I hold myself with respect and expect the same.

goddess treatment is non negotiable ideally would like to find a special someone to match freaks with, do life with and motivate eachother to be the best versions of ourselves ✨ i would love to be the possessive hotwife of a subby hubby💕 ~currently into exploring some of the following~ femme dom pleasure dom chastity cuck milking pegging + more i can be switchy or bratty too sometimes all in all very sexually fluid i have a demanding libido i am also into the idea of having two boyfriends...who are boyfriends ☺️

im Attracted to a chocolate man who can handle intensity, isn’t afraid of kink, and brings a natural dominant energy. If you know how to please and enjoy taking charge, we’ll get along just fine. 😌

I’m just a sub in desperate need of a dom to worship but don’t let that fool you i also really like pegging men ☺️I can be a good girl and follow instructions but i can also be a very strict dom I’ll train to be perfect for my dom. I’m really into CNC so I don’t mind being used and ***d Note that) I want an actual Dom that I can communicate with and have an actual Dom&Sub relationship with not just a quick fuck and that’s all. (bit of an anal slut🎀) (I prefer monogamy) ️️️️IN PERSON ONLY! I DONT LIKE ONLINE PLAY!!!️️️

5'3" BBW Mixed: White, Mexican, Native * Open minded to all but focused on finding an experienced Dom or Brat Tamer. Getting back to the scene after taking a few years off. * Communication and consistency are very important to me. If you are the type of person to ghost, do not message me.

I’m new to the D/s world, but I’m learning quickly what draws me in. I’m a quiet, sweet Domme with a calm kind of control the type that doesn’t need to raise my voice to be felt. I’m discovering that I enjoy patience, subtle command, and the kind of dynamic where someone genuinely wants to please. I appreciate effort, devotion, and someone who listens with intention. I have a soft approach, but very clear boundaries. Respect is nonnegotiable with me. If you want my attention, you show consistency. If you want my trust, you earn it. I’m still exploring, still figuring out my style, but I know I prefer a dynamic built on communication, respect, and genuine willingness; to be clear I’m a Domme in every sense, including financial. I expect devotion in all forms emotional, mental, and financial. If you serve me, you serve fully.… xoxo

**I value honesty, clarity, chemistry, communication, control, boundaries, and connection. Men who offer their power, and kneel with intention earn my respect.** Not here to perform. Look elsewhere for theatrics. Obedience is earned, not owed. Brats are welcome… if you’re clever. Defy me well, or don’t at all. Don’t test me twice. I value self-awareness over submission; silence over scrambling; plans over surprises; clarity over chaos. I provide care, not coddling. **If you message me, start with: *“Here’s how I value those I serve.”*** If you don’t know what that means, we’re not aligned.

dom side : I am a compassion dom looking for sweet and playful connections where sentry play is all about nurture , gentleness, and desire. sub side: can be very bratty, hard to submit but love someone stronger and smarter than me. I love worship and pampering

soft domme mommy in NorCal. Respect is mandatory. Do not message me with “hey,” “how are you,” or low-effort nonsense. If you approach me, be clear, intentional, and ready to serve appropriately. And yes — if you’re messaging me, you should already understand that my time and attention are not free.

I'm just a tomboy who loves bondage, impact, being a pet, and exploring, but is also switchy with a mean sadistic streak! I'm nonbinary/trans, and I use she/they pronouns. Please ask me about it if you want to understand me more! I am lesbian/sapphic, but definitely take time to warm up - demisexual, a bit asexual at times. But always up for kinky times. If I'm honest, I'd love to find a partner (perhaps a submissive or dominant? 🤔) who loves bondage, impact, power dynamics, and sensation, as much as I do. And might occasionally like switching (though that could be something I get with another person!) Oh and, someone who matches my values - basically very leftist, community, mutual aid, liberation, end genocides 🍉 , land-back, uplift indigenous and Black folx, etc. ✊🏽

I am on this site because I do not want to limit my search to only my city or even my country. Maybe it is a too romantic or philosophical point of view, but I consider myself a tender, sweet and calm woman. I am a very romantic person. So, if you are looking for a good friend, a faithful wife, and passionate lover, you have found such a woman. Welcome to my wonderful world and if you are very caring, sincere, and loving - you have all the chances to win my heart and be the luckiest man! What do you think?

Looking for the Kurt Russel to my Goldie Hawn. Someone confident, funny, relaxed, and kind. Someone who likes to plunge the depths of philosophy, meta physics, and politics, but knows the value of a well-timed dick joke ;) No pictures here because my friends are on here and I don’t want anyone to know what I like lol - it’s going to get kind of explicit here - but happy to send pictures if you message. What I look like: Apparently Scotch-Irish, haha. Round, youthful face. Short (5’ 3”). Slim and working on getting back in shape. Wavy shoulder-length light brown hair, green/blue eyes, a couple of tattoos, 0g piercings. Mostly don’t wear makeup, described as naturally pretty. Love dressing with intention, sometimes funky, mostly a laid back NorCal vibe, usually in my carharrts or jeans, but I love an excuse to dress up - I’m dying for an occasion to wear my red satin dress and neon green 6” platform sandals. Sounds wild but I swear it works. Who I am: I’m a filmmaker, budding auto mechanic, and plant enthusiast. I have a strong personality, but never a desire to dominate a room or conversation. Over the years, I’ve been teaching myself to listen better and soften myself, to find balance. I like to drop into the flow. I like myself best when I’m at ease, and I have a mediation practice around being at peace with life. I believe in non-***, not from a place of naive idealism, but from a true understanding of the transformative, unsustainable nature of ***. I’m oriented towards repair, and enjoy connecting with everyone around me. I’m direct, confident, tender-hearted, logical, and sincere. I’m an absolute goofball. While I’m very selective on who comes into my life, I’m described as non-judgmental and compassionate - life is hard for all of us and as it is, I consider myself a reformed fuck-up haha. I love punk, neo-surf rock, and Asian/SE Asian psychedelic rock music - I love taking long drives discovering new music to decompress. I put myself at the intersection of environmentalism, anti-consumerism, and frugality. I live a pretty simple life, but know the value of something good quality. I consider myself working class and earn a deeper level of respect for others through a shared sense of labor - I deeply admire a strong work ethic and emotional awareness. If building a greenhouse with me sounds like your idea of fun, we’re on the same page ;) What I like / why I’m on Fet: I’ve never come with a partner before, I always take care of myself. I’d like to change that. I enjoy sex that is both a little rough and very respectful - I want to meet you as an equal. I’m on a journey of sexual discovery and I’m looking for experiences that are experimental, a little weird and fun, but at the heart very tender and authentic. I’ve been described as submissive, but see myself as more switchy. I love to give pleasure and be in control of that - love an uncut cock, love eating ass, love pretending I’m strong enough to pin you down and kiss you everywhere I want. I’m learning a lot about myself right now and what I like. I know I get turned on by the shifting dynamics of sex. It doesn’t matter to me as much how you look as how you are with me. Are we in step with each other? Are we working together to challenge and yield to each other? I like sex that is playful and safe. I like light choking, having my face slapped roughly but not ***fully, and having pressure on my body. Someone put their whole weight on me once and it just made me feel safe and open. In that vein, I like having my legs tied sometimes and I love wrestling with someone and having them pin me down and fuck me. Kinda a clumslut, enjoy anal and being double stuffed. Would love to have an experience with two men. Enjoy free use. Aftercare is non-negotiable. Who you might be: Confident and comfortable in yourself, curious and engaged. Empathetic, connected. Values driven. Masculine. I’m super open minded about what package that comes in but I know that I like men who are capable and give themselves projects, who work with their hands but are also intellectually and emotionally intelligent. I’m looking for a man who is around my age, uses substances minimally, and offers warmth. Bonus points if you’re Australian ;) Hope to hear from you

I'm here to explore my interest in S/M mainly. I'm mostly new to kink and exploring so I guess I'll just paste my regular dating about me here for now! I’m a creative who loves sewing, designing, DIY anything, gardening, and dancing! Personal growth is super important to me, and I’m always up for a challenge. I’m all about deep chats, but I also love having stupid carefree fun. I take what matters seriously, but never myself too much.

I'm very laid back. Single woman. I'm horny very often and wanting a couple that would love to fuck on me and hang out semi often.

Single cis female. BBW. Independent and social. 420 XTC Friendly. Looking for a BBC or Ebony. Dreams of attending a Diddy party😜

I am a family-oriented and trustworthy woman who embraces her feminine side with grace. At my core, I lead a simple life and cherish the little things; my greatest desire is to experience the profound connection that comes with mutual love. I truly believe in the magic of love and the warmth it brings to our lives.

Im an highly experienced dominatrix with seductive streak of Sadism and some addictive qualities, im searching for a submissive who’s eager to explore his submissive nature and deeply craves being put in his place through indulgence his kinks and fantasies. I enjoy newbies who are eager and passionate about exploring and learning

goddess treatment is non negotiable ideally would like to find a special someone to match freaks with, do life with and motivate eachother to be the best versions of ourselves ✨ i would love to be the possessive hotwife of a subby hubby💕 ~currently into exploring some of the following~ femme dom pleasure dom chastity cuck milking pegging + more i can be switchy or bratty too sometimes all in all very sexually fluid i have a demanding libido i am also into the idea of having two boyfriends...who are boyfriends ☺️

soft domme mommy in NorCal. Respect is mandatory. Do not message me with “hey,” “how are you,” or low-effort nonsense. If you approach me, be clear, intentional, and ready to serve appropriately. And yes — if you’re messaging me, you should already understand that my time and attention are not free.

im Attracted to a chocolate man who can handle intensity, isn’t afraid of kink, and brings a natural dominant energy. If you know how to please and enjoy taking charge, we’ll get along just fine. 😌

I'm very laid back. Single woman. I'm horny very often and wanting a couple that would love to fuck on me and hang out semi often.

Looking for the Kurt Russel to my Goldie Hawn. Someone confident, funny, relaxed, and kind. Someone who likes to plunge the depths of philosophy, meta physics, and politics, but knows the value of a well-timed dick joke ;) No pictures here because my friends are on here and I don’t want anyone to know what I like lol - it’s going to get kind of explicit here - but happy to send pictures if you message. What I look like: Apparently Scotch-Irish, haha. Round, youthful face. Short (5’ 3”). Slim and working on getting back in shape. Wavy shoulder-length light brown hair, green/blue eyes, a couple of tattoos, 0g piercings. Mostly don’t wear makeup, described as naturally pretty. Love dressing with intention, sometimes funky, mostly a laid back NorCal vibe, usually in my carharrts or jeans, but I love an excuse to dress up - I’m dying for an occasion to wear my red satin dress and neon green 6” platform sandals. Sounds wild but I swear it works. Who I am: I’m a filmmaker, budding auto mechanic, and plant enthusiast. I have a strong personality, but never a desire to dominate a room or conversation. Over the years, I’ve been teaching myself to listen better and soften myself, to find balance. I like to drop into the flow. I like myself best when I’m at ease, and I have a mediation practice around being at peace with life. I believe in non-***, not from a place of naive idealism, but from a true understanding of the transformative, unsustainable nature of ***. I’m oriented towards repair, and enjoy connecting with everyone around me. I’m direct, confident, tender-hearted, logical, and sincere. I’m an absolute goofball. While I’m very selective on who comes into my life, I’m described as non-judgmental and compassionate - life is hard for all of us and as it is, I consider myself a reformed fuck-up haha. I love punk, neo-surf rock, and Asian/SE Asian psychedelic rock music - I love taking long drives discovering new music to decompress. I put myself at the intersection of environmentalism, anti-consumerism, and frugality. I live a pretty simple life, but know the value of something good quality. I consider myself working class and earn a deeper level of respect for others through a shared sense of labor - I deeply admire a strong work ethic and emotional awareness. If building a greenhouse with me sounds like your idea of fun, we’re on the same page ;) What I like / why I’m on Fet: I’ve never come with a partner before, I always take care of myself. I’d like to change that. I enjoy sex that is both a little rough and very respectful - I want to meet you as an equal. I’m on a journey of sexual discovery and I’m looking for experiences that are experimental, a little weird and fun, but at the heart very tender and authentic. I’ve been described as submissive, but see myself as more switchy. I love to give pleasure and be in control of that - love an uncut cock, love eating ass, love pretending I’m strong enough to pin you down and kiss you everywhere I want. I’m learning a lot about myself right now and what I like. I know I get turned on by the shifting dynamics of sex. It doesn’t matter to me as much how you look as how you are with me. Are we in step with each other? Are we working together to challenge and yield to each other? I like sex that is playful and safe. I like light choking, having my face slapped roughly but not ***fully, and having pressure on my body. Someone put their whole weight on me once and it just made me feel safe and open. In that vein, I like having my legs tied sometimes and I love wrestling with someone and having them pin me down and fuck me. Kinda a clumslut, enjoy anal and being double stuffed. Would love to have an experience with two men. Enjoy free use. Aftercare is non-negotiable. Who you might be: Confident and comfortable in yourself, curious and engaged. Empathetic, connected. Values driven. Masculine. I’m super open minded about what package that comes in but I know that I like men who are capable and give themselves projects, who work with their hands but are also intellectually and emotionally intelligent. I’m looking for a man who is around my age, uses substances minimally, and offers warmth. Bonus points if you’re Australian ;) Hope to hear from you

**I value honesty, clarity, chemistry, communication, control, boundaries, and connection. Men who offer their power, and kneel with intention earn my respect.** Not here to perform. Look elsewhere for theatrics. Obedience is earned, not owed. Brats are welcome… if you’re clever. Defy me well, or don’t at all. Don’t test me twice. I value self-awareness over submission; silence over scrambling; plans over surprises; clarity over chaos. I provide care, not coddling. **If you message me, start with: *“Here’s how I value those I serve.”*** If you don’t know what that means, we’re not aligned.

I'm just a tomboy who loves bondage, impact, being a pet, and exploring, but is also switchy with a mean sadistic streak! I'm nonbinary/trans, and I use she/they pronouns. Please ask me about it if you want to understand me more! I am lesbian/sapphic, but definitely take time to warm up - demisexual, a bit asexual at times. But always up for kinky times. If I'm honest, I'd love to find a partner (perhaps a submissive or dominant? 🤔) who loves bondage, impact, power dynamics, and sensation, as much as I do. And might occasionally like switching (though that could be something I get with another person!) Oh and, someone who matches my values - basically very leftist, community, mutual aid, liberation, end genocides 🍉 , land-back, uplift indigenous and Black folx, etc. ✊🏽

I am on this site because I do not want to limit my search to only my city or even my country. Maybe it is a too romantic or philosophical point of view, but I consider myself a tender, sweet and calm woman. I am a very romantic person. So, if you are looking for a good friend, a faithful wife, and passionate lover, you have found such a woman. Welcome to my wonderful world and if you are very caring, sincere, and loving - you have all the chances to win my heart and be the luckiest man! What do you think?

Single cis female. BBW. Independent and social. 420 XTC Friendly. Looking for a BBC or Ebony. Dreams of attending a Diddy party😜

New to kink so a lot to learn. I’m petite and curvy brunette with a small waist, thick thighs, full hips and a juicy 🍑. I’m a sub looking for someone to have regular D/s play sessions. I think desire starts in the mind so I want to be seduced. I Love lots of foreplay (verbal & physical), anticipation, tension, toys, dirty talk and ***fulness. I like to playfully resist and be subdued and overcome. discreet public teasing really excites me. If you lean towards being a pleasure Dom, enjoy the art of seduction, love to give more than receive and looking for a regular playmate then please reach out. I prefer an athletic build and no mustaches (beards can be sexy.) Please Send pics of face if not on your profile. Please dont message me, if you aren’t nearby or cant host. Im not interested in cyber sex, being friends or exchanging pics. Condoms, clear boundaries and good communication skills are nonnegotiable. I hold myself with respect and expect the same.

I'm here to explore my interest in S/M mainly. I'm mostly new to kink and exploring so I guess I'll just paste my regular dating about me here for now! I’m a creative who loves sewing, designing, DIY anything, gardening, and dancing! Personal growth is super important to me, and I’m always up for a challenge. I’m all about deep chats, but I also love having stupid carefree fun. I take what matters seriously, but never myself too much.

5'3" BBW Mixed: White, Mexican, Native * Open minded to all but focused on finding an experienced Dom or Brat Tamer. Getting back to the scene after taking a few years off. * Communication and consistency are very important to me. If you are the type of person to ghost, do not message me.

I’m just a sub in desperate need of a dom to worship but don’t let that fool you i also really like pegging men ☺️I can be a good girl and follow instructions but i can also be a very strict dom I’ll train to be perfect for my dom. I’m really into CNC so I don’t mind being used and ***d Note that) I want an actual Dom that I can communicate with and have an actual Dom&Sub relationship with not just a quick fuck and that’s all. (bit of an anal slut🎀) (I prefer monogamy) ️️️️IN PERSON ONLY! I DONT LIKE ONLINE PLAY!!!️️️

dom side : I am a compassion dom looking for sweet and playful connections where sentry play is all about nurture , gentleness, and desire. sub side: can be very bratty, hard to submit but love someone stronger and smarter than me. I love worship and pampering

I’m new to the D/s world, but I’m learning quickly what draws me in. I’m a quiet, sweet Domme with a calm kind of control the type that doesn’t need to raise my voice to be felt. I’m discovering that I enjoy patience, subtle command, and the kind of dynamic where someone genuinely wants to please. I appreciate effort, devotion, and someone who listens with intention. I have a soft approach, but very clear boundaries. Respect is nonnegotiable with me. If you want my attention, you show consistency. If you want my trust, you earn it. I’m still exploring, still figuring out my style, but I know I prefer a dynamic built on communication, respect, and genuine willingness; to be clear I’m a Domme in every sense, including financial. I expect devotion in all forms emotional, mental, and financial. If you serve me, you serve fully.… xoxo