BDSM Dating in Oxnard

I am here because of my aching desire to serve and please. I am also hoping someone might tell me after 4 days of keeping myself locked in chastity, I'm unsure if I should unlock and allow myself release or edge while unlocked but locked back in after my edging, or if I should stay locked and orgasm, edge, or stay locked for at least for a duration told to by you.