I’m a walking contradiction in all the best ways—soft and spicy, nurturing and mischievous, emotionally deep but always ready with a dirty joke. I’m a mom, a protector, a giggler, a healer, and a little chaos tornado in a cozy hoodie.
I’ve been through more than most people realize—but instead of letting it make me hard, it made me compassionate, fierce, and full of radical empathy. I’m someone who believes in second chances, soul-deep connections, and the kind of love that makes you feel safe and seen.
One of My Dreams
I want to build a home that feels like a sanctuary—where softness isn’t weakness, and no one has to hide the parts of themselves that need extra care. I’d love to eventually create something community-oriented, whether that’s through writing, teaching, or creating safe spaces for others like me who’ve survived hard things and want to live out loud.
Also? I wanna go camping, sing karaoke, and maybe own a vintage motorcycle (and learn to ride it).
What I’m Looking For
I want connection that feels like exhale. Someone emotionally intelligent, protective without being possessive, who can hold space for me to be strong and small. Someone who values consent, communication, playfulness, and emotional safety.
Bonus points if you love cuddling but understands that cuddling, don’t run from emotional depth, and know the difference between dominance and control.
I’m open to poly or ethically non-monogamous connections, as long as respect, trust, and care are at the core.
What I’m Most Proud Of
I didn’t give up. Even when it would’ve been easier.
I’ve rebuilt my life piece by piece. I’ve raised *** with love, carved out space to heal from trauma, and I’m still growing. I’ve started telling my story—through writing, through connection, and by showing up fully as myself.
What People Often Misunderstand About Me
Because I’m playful and silly, people sometimes think I’m immature or naïve. But the truth is, I’m incredibly emotionally aware—and humor is how I breathe when life gets heavy.
Some also think I’m “too sensitive.” I prefer to think of it as finely tuned. I feel deeply because I care deeply—and that’s not something I’m willing to apologize for anymore.
My Story in a Nutshell
I’ve survived 20 years in a relationship where I didn’t feel seen, and I’ve finally made the brave decision to step away so I can build something better—not just for me, but for my kids, and the version of me that deserves joy.
I’m not looking for a rescue. I’m looking for a partner who meets me where I am, stands beside me when I’m strong, and holds me gently when I fall apart.