Kinky women in San Francisco

Hello there ~ I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with. Connections I'm interested in: - Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics. - Queer community folks and other femmes! - Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner. - Local community only. - Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends. - Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners! - Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with. - 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play). - Fire play and wax play lovers. - Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course). - Interesting people who can teach me new things. Connections I am NOT interested in: - No long distance. No online. No tourists. - No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole. - No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians. - No sissy fetishists. - No illegal/abusive activities. - No hookups for vanilla sex acts. - No swingers/unicorn hunting couples. - No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).

I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Last Tested: 01/28/26 D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.

Don’t be shy! message me. I am a little/ sub/ kitten and I’m looking for a daddy/ dom to play with me. I like to have rules and structure as a sub but it’s funny because I’m a brat?

I'm a free-spirited adventurer with a heart of gold, always chasing sunsets and new experiences. When I'm not working, you can find me trying new recipes or practicing yoga.

I'm finally looking to explore a long-time interest and get more involved in a community I think it's important to be able to laugh with a partner as well as enjoying hot sex. Generally nerdy - I love puzzles, board games, TRRPGs (any Pathfinder 2e fans out there?), movies, and reading. almost done getting a master's degree and working a job where I am in charge of things all the time and I'm Tired lol.

I’m 25, full of energy and optimism, and believe love should be built on trust, respect, and laughter. I enjoy spending time with family and friends, exploring new places, and finding joy in life’s little moments. I’m looking for someone genuine, loyal, and ready to share both everyday adventures and a meaningful future together.

I hope the younger ones stay away from me. I am not here to play games. If you greet me, I will just delete it.

I’m not here for dates, lunches, or casual hangouts. I prefer keeping things on MY terms. I enjoy control, teasing energy, and deep mental play. I appreciate those who understand that energy, attention, and generosity are part of the exchange. If you know how to show respect and appreciation, we’ll get along just fine💋 I also enjoy connecting with others in the community, building real friendships, and attending events that feed my curiosity. And yes,,I’m into wax play🔥. Sensual, slow, and just the right amount of sting😌

FROM WATER AND STARDUST. NOT RIB. Understand this: I am not the woman you’re looking for. The Cherub-Faced Charmer or Assassin, depending on who you ask. I am a Black, queer, pansexual woman. I walk the line(s) between sensualist, sadist, and - with a very select few - slut. (Don't ask to be apart of this few unless you want to anger me.) I crave a silver tongue and a pair of velvet lips skilled, reverent, and hungry. Lips that know their place between my thighs. The idea of a devoted yoni worshiper - unapologetically focused haunts my idle hours. Yes, I am nurturing. Yes, I am soft. But never mistake softness for weakness. I can be cruel and filthy with the willing, eager, and most of all, deserving. My philosophy is simple. Play should be alchemical: part chaos, part discovery. Liberation wrapped in tension. Reverence wrapped in ruin. But always, always grounded in respect and consent. My kinky interests include (but are not limited to): * Power play * Impact play (flogging, paddling) * Pegging * Pet play * Wax * Food play * Sensory deprivation * Burlesque * Ass and Yoni worship * Occasional group encounters I am in search of (unless I EXPLICITLY state otherwise): * Community (real connections with real people) * Educational Events and Opportunities to further my kinky education and skills * Play Events * Mentorship I AM NOT SEEKING (Unless I explicitly state otherwise): * One-on-one's * A Dom/ Daddy * Your validation or approval

I'm still pretty new to this whole scene, and honestly, I didn't expect to enjoy it so much. I’ve only experienced a few, but I hope to learn more and experience this lifestyle over time

I am a woman who knows how to appreciate the simple joys of life and find inspiration in the little things. I like to smile at the world and give positive emotions to people around me. I believe that happiness is not only big events, but also warm words, a look, care, attention. I am sincere, honest and open to communication, I love new acquaintances and interesting conversations, but at the same time I value stability and comfort. Spiritual closeness, the ability to listen and hear, as well as mutual respect are important to me. I love it when there is lightness and romance in a relationship, but at the same time - seriousness of intentions and reliability. I believe that true love is built on trust, respect and the ability to support each other in any situation.

Returning after awhile, not sure where I'm going onward. But would like some naughty friends~ Just someone who had pent up fantasies bottled in. Had some naughty experiences but still exploring kinks. I love dressing sexyy and cutee. I'm a hugee brat that loves to tease until you can't help but *** yourself inside me. I also have a big crush on older men. I've had some experiences with that as well. I've been fantasizing of being free-use stress relief with my body.. or cnc (:

My type: BWC 👩🏻‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏼 Tall & Muscular Big ass Affectionate Generous & loves to spoil me Goal oriented Loves to cuddle & give warm oil massages 💆🏻‍♀️ My kinks: Breastfeeding Pegging (occasionally)

I find beauty in contrasts ~ such as disciplined lightheartedness, sweet with an independent streak, driven by spontaneous planning ♥️ What’s your favorite contrast? We’re the same type of weird if you like libraries & tea; wonder about existence; want kids in the future; are kind at the core & intellectually curious.

✨ Brat First. Submissive Second. Always a handful. ✨ I’m a bold, curvy brat with a sharp tongue, a wicked giggle, and a deep craving for connection, correction, and control. I’ve just moved to San Francisco and I’m easing back into my kink life after a long break—thirsty, hungry, and ready to feel everything again. Spankings? Bare-bottomed and over the knee, please. I light up under dominant energy, sensual touch, teasing control, and playful tension. I’m not easy to tame—but if you know how to listen, lead, and leave your mark, I just might soften for you. Looking for play partners, events, classes, and kink mischief. Touch my mind first, then my body. I’m not here for games—I’m here to be explored, challenged, and cherished. Can you handle the brat?

5’9 Amazonian badass. Plays well with others 👫 I speak fluent Spanish. Big bark, small bite. I love to be submissive and let others take control when theres trust and familiarity.

looking to expand on community I am a bratty (don't mean to be its just in my nature) little looking for a caregiver I would love to find a partner to explore with rope I enjoy spanking impact play choking CNC primal play hair pulling

Girl with high IQ and low moral Ex-usuária do ICQ. . Sou Antissocial, não atendo telefone, tenho intolerância a gente egoista e inabilidade para lidar com hipocrisia e arrogância. . Odeio calor, blogueiros, crocs, janelas pop-up, pessoas, palestras motivacionais, anti vacinas, drama, mensagens de bom dia, funk, coaching , fanatismo, anime, feijão, religiosos, auto ajuda e terraplanistas. . Tenho décadas no BDSM, sem paciência para novatos e curiosos. Tive experiências maravilhosas e relacionamentos tenebrosos aqui. Pouca coisa me surpreende, pense bem antes de me enviar uma mensagem. Meu tempo é sagrado. . _______________________________________________________________ 💻Blog: kinkdiary.blogspot.com . 🔞FetLife: fetlife.com/Cacau_ . * ️ Perguntas anonimas - text me ngl.link/kink_diary2 . * _________________________________________________________________

NO OVER 35, or YOUNGER than 21

An update for those who think my wants are optional bratty babygirl with princess standards and a mouth that occasionally needs supervision. 💅 I’m strictly submissive (read that twice), not a domme, not a switch, and definitely not interested in couples or “let’s all share” situations. Been in the lifestyle 10+ years, never owned mostly because I don’t hand over the leash to just anyone. I want a Daddy Dom who knows the difference between discipline and control. Someone who can tame me with patience, not ego. If you’re not into DD/lg dynamics or you think “aftercare” is optional, you can exit stage left now, babe. 🚪✨ I’m not a pillow princess I give as good as I get but I expect mutual respect and emotional intelligence to match. I want a partnership where we understand our roles in and out of the bedroom (and yeah, you’ll probably still have to remind me who’s in charge sometimes 😇). Quick Summary for the attention-deficient: ✨ Brat, not bitch. ✨ Sub, not switch. ✨ Princess treatment required. ✨ Daddy energy only. If you can’t handle a handful, you don’t deserve a full-time brat. 💋

Professional Boss by day, sexy hot date at night. I love the company of a busy and successful man, who still finds time to make me feel super sexy and engaged. Tell me about your busy day, let me tell you how hot you are and how I can't wait to hang out again. Let's sext all day and keep each other wet. Be my club partner, sex party partner. Let's have fun!

I am a conscience ethical Domme who is looking for subs,slaves,to play with in a ethical way I am aware that consent and ethics are to separate things and just because someone consents dose not make it ethical the choices I make are based on ethics. I am a unapologetic sadist who runs strict slave training.Do not contact me and waste my time if you are a Dom man or a switch I will never be your conquest period I only accept sub,slaves.

seeing what’s out there and who is nearby hoping to gain more bondage experience ( tying someone up or being tied up ) I am NOT looking for dating/ a master also open to chatting/online fun my butterfly in the first pic was a temporary one lol currently visiting San Francisco

hi I’m Mahogany and I’m a bit new. looking to meet someone who listens to commands. send me a message and let’s see how we connect.

I’m 25, full of energy and optimism, and believe love should be built on trust, respect, and laughter. I enjoy spending time with family and friends, exploring new places, and finding joy in life’s little moments. I’m looking for someone genuine, loyal, and ready to share both everyday adventures and a meaningful future together.

FROM WATER AND STARDUST. NOT RIB. Understand this: I am not the woman you’re looking for. The Cherub-Faced Charmer or Assassin, depending on who you ask. I am a Black, queer, pansexual woman. I walk the line(s) between sensualist, sadist, and - with a very select few - slut. (Don't ask to be apart of this few unless you want to anger me.) I crave a silver tongue and a pair of velvet lips skilled, reverent, and hungry. Lips that know their place between my thighs. The idea of a devoted yoni worshiper - unapologetically focused haunts my idle hours. Yes, I am nurturing. Yes, I am soft. But never mistake softness for weakness. I can be cruel and filthy with the willing, eager, and most of all, deserving. My philosophy is simple. Play should be alchemical: part chaos, part discovery. Liberation wrapped in tension. Reverence wrapped in ruin. But always, always grounded in respect and consent. My kinky interests include (but are not limited to): * Power play * Impact play (flogging, paddling) * Pegging * Pet play * Wax * Food play * Sensory deprivation * Burlesque * Ass and Yoni worship * Occasional group encounters I am in search of (unless I EXPLICITLY state otherwise): * Community (real connections with real people) * Educational Events and Opportunities to further my kinky education and skills * Play Events * Mentorship I AM NOT SEEKING (Unless I explicitly state otherwise): * One-on-one's * A Dom/ Daddy * Your validation or approval

I’m not here for dates, lunches, or casual hangouts. I prefer keeping things on MY terms. I enjoy control, teasing energy, and deep mental play. I appreciate those who understand that energy, attention, and generosity are part of the exchange. If you know how to show respect and appreciation, we’ll get along just fine💋 I also enjoy connecting with others in the community, building real friendships, and attending events that feed my curiosity. And yes,,I’m into wax play🔥. Sensual, slow, and just the right amount of sting😌

I'm finally looking to explore a long-time interest and get more involved in a community I think it's important to be able to laugh with a partner as well as enjoying hot sex. Generally nerdy - I love puzzles, board games, TRRPGs (any Pathfinder 2e fans out there?), movies, and reading. almost done getting a master's degree and working a job where I am in charge of things all the time and I'm Tired lol.

I am a woman who knows how to appreciate the simple joys of life and find inspiration in the little things. I like to smile at the world and give positive emotions to people around me. I believe that happiness is not only big events, but also warm words, a look, care, attention. I am sincere, honest and open to communication, I love new acquaintances and interesting conversations, but at the same time I value stability and comfort. Spiritual closeness, the ability to listen and hear, as well as mutual respect are important to me. I love it when there is lightness and romance in a relationship, but at the same time - seriousness of intentions and reliability. I believe that true love is built on trust, respect and the ability to support each other in any situation.

I'm still pretty new to this whole scene, and honestly, I didn't expect to enjoy it so much. I’ve only experienced a few, but I hope to learn more and experience this lifestyle over time

I'm a free-spirited adventurer with a heart of gold, always chasing sunsets and new experiences. When I'm not working, you can find me trying new recipes or practicing yoga.

I hope the younger ones stay away from me. I am not here to play games. If you greet me, I will just delete it.

Don’t be shy! message me. I am a little/ sub/ kitten and I’m looking for a daddy/ dom to play with me. I like to have rules and structure as a sub but it’s funny because I’m a brat?

I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Last Tested: 01/28/26 D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.

Hello there ~ I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with. Connections I'm interested in: - Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics. - Queer community folks and other femmes! - Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner. - Local community only. - Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends. - Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners! - Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with. - 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play). - Fire play and wax play lovers. - Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course). - Interesting people who can teach me new things. Connections I am NOT interested in: - No long distance. No online. No tourists. - No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole. - No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians. - No sissy fetishists. - No illegal/abusive activities. - No hookups for vanilla sex acts. - No swingers/unicorn hunting couples. - No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).

Returning after awhile, not sure where I'm going onward. But would like some naughty friends~ Just someone who had pent up fantasies bottled in. Had some naughty experiences but still exploring kinks. I love dressing sexyy and cutee. I'm a hugee brat that loves to tease until you can't help but *** yourself inside me. I also have a big crush on older men. I've had some experiences with that as well. I've been fantasizing of being free-use stress relief with my body.. or cnc (:

I find beauty in contrasts ~ such as disciplined lightheartedness, sweet with an independent streak, driven by spontaneous planning ♥️ What’s your favorite contrast? We’re the same type of weird if you like libraries & tea; wonder about existence; want kids in the future; are kind at the core & intellectually curious.

My type: BWC 👩🏻‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏼 Tall & Muscular Big ass Affectionate Generous & loves to spoil me Goal oriented Loves to cuddle & give warm oil massages 💆🏻‍♀️ My kinks: Breastfeeding Pegging (occasionally)

I am an artist. I love the attire we get to wear in the scene. the leather the corsets the shoes the ropes the collars and the implements used. I believe I am a switch but am still getting that out. I want to explore shibari, device bondage, to experience a pleasure Dom, to learn the proper etiquette, and to make lifelong friends/ play partners. I'm into women and men and couples. I don't have a lot of experience due to lack of like-minded people and I'm a bit shy and often feel out of place but I get over that if made to feel welcome. I enjoy both sides of a flogger and love worshipping both cock and pussy so far but I'm still a newbie. looking for serious fun in SF.

5’9 Amazonian badass. Plays well with others 👫 I speak fluent Spanish. Big bark, small bite. I love to be submissive and let others take control when theres trust and familiarity.

I’m a City girl in all ways. Beauty and brilliance require discipline. Let's Go! If you're highly intelligent, and handsome, and take good care of yourself, let's establish chemistry, mental connection and build mutual trust. I want to feel your energy and passion for life and what you might have in store for me. My eyes are blue and compliment my blond hair 5'6" -fit!

looking for some people who can help me figure out what i like and try new things, i wanna try and am open to most things. I also really wanna try to do more anal

looking to expand on community I am a bratty (don't mean to be its just in my nature) little looking for a caregiver I would love to find a partner to explore with rope I enjoy spanking impact play choking CNC primal play hair pulling

hi I’m Mahogany and I’m a bit new. looking to meet someone who listens to commands. send me a message and let’s see how we connect.

Share who you are: I am that chick that feels its best to say she is "open" b/c I am "prioritizing" what I need to do to upgrade my life. I am in search of a new connection close to home preferably I'm actually very quiet AT FIRST and that's because it's the easiest way to pay attention. At first I have a hard time being playful, especially public displays of affection are not one of my love languages 😅👌. I'm mos def a one on one type interactions in the beginning. I like ice breakers/structure/itinerary for the most effective crash course on learning how we mesh. Not sure if any of that makes me more or less approachable....haha so yeah idunno... What excites me .... new challenges, being heard without judgement, pretty people with enough confidence in themselves they can still hang and maintain.

I am a woman who carries herself with grace, confidence, and purpose. I value self-growth, and building genuine connections. With a strong sense of professionalism, I approach life with poise and authenticity, knowing my worth and embracing my femininity. I enjoy surrounding myself with positivity, pursuing success, and living a life of balance, elegance, and intention.

- I'll add more pictures if this app turns out to not be another dud😇 - I can't do the whole sub/Dom thing with any random person. I've only ever enjoyed it with someone I'm dating. I'm not looking for 100% dominant man. not my flavor of kink. preferably, you are bi and down to be pegged. you also down to be shared(with another man). I'm of the mindset that if you have a good man(sub), they should be treated like royalty. I'm not going to buy you car but I'll swallow your cum and buy you dinner. 😈

interested to explore what’s out there wanna make friends and perhaps make content (: hit me up and let’s see if we connect 😝