BDSM Dating in Santa Rosa

Basically what the ad says!
TLR - I basically want to be a gym and rope *** to someone who'll push me to be fitter, hotter, and sluttier. 😈

My progress so far:

I'm down from 240 to 180 just being on a caloric deficit and dropping a ton of dairy, fast food, and fizzy drinks from my diet.

I've discarded a lot of clothes that didn't fit me well and working on my style goals of being a vintage-inspired pin up girl.

I'm working on the mindset of using my body to get what I want, and following through with my goals and not letting them just be fantasies and dreams.

I want to be sluttier in the aspect of doing more with my sexual partner(s), not having sex with whoever moves in my direction. i.e. taking bigger toys, giving more oral, and pushing my physical limits to be a better sexual partner.

What I desire from you:
A person (or people) who helps me stay accountable and steady, and rewards me for working towards and meeting goals with sexual fantasy fulfillment, praise, and steadiness. Preferably someone who is already into fitness and is honest and practical about goals and rewards.