Search kinksters for BDSM dating in Walnut

I'm looking for a monogamous sub for ltr, vanilla dating hasn't been to kind to my search. Must value vanilla and kinky aspects, and must allow me to lead the relationship.

Also I prefer my subs to be a tiny bit bratty, I like the playful of having to tame a brat every day. If you like rope, spanking, throat grabs. We're probably a good match. If you like a little pet play or dressing up for your don, it's not required, but it's a nice bonus.

Looking for cis-female sub only. It's my preference.