Hi there! I'm Kate, and I'm a little off beat, and on the introverted side. I'm 5'10", and on the BBW/curvy side (working to get healthier/fitter!) with blue eyes, glasses, black hair, and a gap-toothed smile. I pay the bills by selling antiques/collectibles and pet sitting so it's no surprise that I love antiquing/thrifting and spending time with ***s (especially my own two idiot cats). When I'm not working I enjoy reading, drawing/watercolor, and I'm starting to explore fiber arts. Like many a Coloradan I enjoy a hike or a slow trail run on occasion. However, right now my primary fitness outlet is aerial silks which I adore despite a staggering lack of skill and a tendency towards injuring myself.
WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR
I ultimately want a long term monogamous lifestyle D/s relationship. I'm hoping to find a dynamic that is as practically 24/7 TPE as is reasonable. I'm looking for a life partner that wants these same things.
I would like to find someone that's intrinsically dominant, creatively (but not too) sadistic, and whose company I enjoy. I value honesty, humor, intelligence, and forthright communication in a partner. If the words discipline, obedience, control, and strict resonate with you it's probable our interests align. (Ideally you will also want some fun, joy, and excitement in the mix too!) I need someone who is willing to make the time to build trust and connection both in and out of the bedroom.
Please be roughly between the ages of 40-60, and willing to meet should there appear to be potential. I am seeking an IRL connection, so I have a very strong preference for finding a partner within Colorado. That said, I realize I am looking for something very specific so long distance to start will be considered under the right circumstances.
I have no strong preference for my potential Dom's race, height, body type, etc. I am only looking for a partner with a penis, but am open to gender expression beyond cis-male.
THE KINKY OVERVIEW
I have a wide range of kinks. However I'm primarily interested in aspects of bondage, impact play, and control/power exchange. I enjoy having tasks, restrictions, rules, routines, and serving. Generally speaking, I like elements of struggle, challenge, and endurance. I'm happy to discuss specific activities and desires with prospective partners.
My philosophy as a submissive is that even though the power balance is skewed, the partnership and effort of both parties should be relatively equal. It's important to me to be of use, but I also want to be able to actively contribute within the context of my role. As a submissive I strive to be obedient, pleasing, thoughtful, and attentive.
LIMITS
***, vomit, urine, and ***. Serious bodily harm including choking, needles, fire, and permanent marks. Age play, pet play, and nonconsensual/illegal activities.
OTHER IMPORTANT STUFF
If you are currently married, partnered, ENM/poly, or just looking for something casual I wish you the best of luck in finding what you're looking for with someone else.
If you are conservative, Republican, or in any way support the current administration we are NOT compatible. Likewise, if you approach dominance from a misogynistic standpoint.
Smoking is a hard no (vaping too). Heavy drinking and substance use also don't work for me. (You don't need to be straight edge - occasional or medicinal use is fine.)
Lack of at least basic cleanliness in your living space, and/or poor hygiene.
I don't have or want ***. I don't mind if you have kids so long as you have time to pursue a relationship.
Please ask questions if you have them!