BDSM Dating in Denver

I am an impact top in the Denver area looking for an enthusiastic bottom for regular impact play sessions. I’ve been practicing kink for many years and have been active in the local kink community for nearly two years. While I have experience across various aspects of BDSM, my main passion is impact play. I have a range of implements from stingy to thuddy, leather and wood. I value good technique, pacing, and attentive play.

Safety, consent, and communication are essential to me. Trust needs to be established before jumping into play, and I prefer spending time talking beforehand to make sure expectations, limits, and desires align. I take pride in reading unsaid physical cues, finding the right thresholds, riding that edge responsibly, and staying well within negotiated boundaries unless something else has been clearly discussed and consented to.

Impact play is where I express my sadism, but I believe should be intentional and mutually satisfying. I’m very comfortable with nonsexual impact sessions and often prefer starting that way. My primary goal is to find a compatible, reliable play partner with good communication and mutual respect. While I’m open to deeper connection, I’m not actively seeking a romantic relationship at this time unless it is an exceptional fit.

Experience level and body type aren’t important to me; curiosity, self awareness, and communication matter far more. I’m polyamorous and value autonomy and honesty in connections. I am seeking women or femme aligned bottoms only, and I ask that men please respect this boundary and not reach out.

If this resonates with you, let’s talk. If we vibe, we can plan to meet in a neutral, safe space and see how things feel in person.