Kinky Date BDSM contacts in Florida

I have been searching for a domme ever since I moved to Miami 2 years ago and just moved a little bit up north old the Ft. Lauderdale area for work. You would think that Miami would be a great and easy place to find a dome, however that is just not true. I'm a closet sissy and I have tried everything I can think of! Every girl who is down to do it expects like $1000..😐 I have no problem spoiling my domme and tributing to make her happy and as an act of submission, but all of the girls here want a "initial tribute" before we even get to know each other. From my past experience the best sub/done relationships come organically and tainting it with a trascactional vibe asking for some huge "initial tribute" is just such a turn off and makes me just feel gross about the whole thing. I never had this problem back home in the suburbs of PA. I would say that I'm a pretty good sissy sub as I have A LOT of experience with this stuff, from girls that I was just friends with in school, to dommes I've served strictly on a transactional basis, and even relationships where girlfriends totally supported it. I'm looking for something long term and special and I want us both to have fun with it, if you want *** it can be an extra cherry on top that would come in the form of gifts and tributes once we meet in person for the first time! I hope maybe someone can point me in the right direction towards find that special dome I've always wanted! 😁😁😁