Male (45) Single
I don’t raise my voice to be obeyed — I use tone, presence, and intention.
I enjoy the kind of dynamic where submission is offered, not ***d.
Where you give me your mind before your body.
I’m drawn to:
• Service with sincerity
• Praise received with humility
• A little brat energy that wants to be tamed, not broken
I like to guide, not bulldoze.
To restrain, not restrict.
To build tension until your thoughts dissolve into need.
If we connect, I want:
• Eye contact you feel in your spine
• Your breathing telling me everything before your words do
• Soft “yes, Sir” energy that grows naturally, not demanded
I’m not looking for chaos or shallow play.
I want chemistry + trust + clarity — the rest comes easy.
✅ Kink Style / Philosophy
I enjoy control that feels like relief for you.
You relax.
You follow.
I handle the rest.
My style is:
• Calm tone
• Strong hands
• Rope, cuffs, restraint
• Impact that teaches your body to listen
• Hair in my fist when you forget who you’re giving yourself to
• Edging until your voice breaks and your back arches for permission
I don’t rush anything.
Slow burn > instant gratification.
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✅ What I’m Looking For
A woman who:
• Submits because it feels safe
• Enjoys a little teasing tension
• Likes aftercare just as much as the scene
• Can communicate her needs clearly
• Wants something real, slow-built, and deeply felt
Experience level doesn’t matter — authenticity does.
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✅ DM Me If:
You’ve read this slowly and felt something in your stomach.
Tell me one thing you crave more of in your life.
No one-word messages.
Confidence is the first act of submission.