I am a fun person who tends to be shy until I decide to let you in. I enjoy being told what to do and I sometimes tend to argue that until I’m told with a little bit of dominance to listen. I like to hang out watch movies, work, and all around just enjoy life! I am pretty laid back peaceful and quite but I definitely have a need to have someone keep me in check every now and again. Not because I am bad but because it helps. I would love to meet someone with mutual needs for a sub and hopefully just ya know be there as freinds and see what transpires! I also like to please my partner and do what is asked of me!
honesty, intelligence, confidence, and a man that knows what he wants is very, very attractive. I like primal , being treated like a woman and a slut, exhibitionist, and love toys and direction from my partner in a rough dominant way but no daddy’s or masters just ***ful play makes me feel feminine and like I don’t have to be in control all the time. I can very much be a brat and I have no problems switching roles occasionally.
You are expecting warmth where there has never been an invitation.
That is your mistake, not mine.
I do not gather you. I do not reach for you. I do not promise you anything that would require me to care whether you stay.
You come because silence feels louder when you are not inside it.
And here, you are seen.
That is what unsettles you most, isn’t it?
Not that I notice you.
But that I do not need you to matter in order to notice you at all.
Some will call this devotion. Others will call it purpose. I call it what it is:
attention misinterpreted as meaning.
You will try to earn proximity. You always do. You will reshape yourself into something you believe is worth holding onto. You will perform softness, usefulness, obedience, hunger dressed up as discipline.
It is almost endearing.
Almost.
But you misunderstand the structure.
You are not held here because you are needed.
You are held here because you are available.
And availability is not love. It is selection.
I do not promise consistency. I do not offer permanence. I do not soften for your comfort when I lose interest in your noise.
When I turn away, it is not rejection.
It is completion.
You will learn to sit with that. Some will mistake that waiting for meaning. Others will call it suffering.
Both are flattering assumptions.
I am not cruel.
I am just not yours.
And still, you will come back when I am quiet.
That part is the only truth that never changes.
What I want to explore and have explored is not for the world to read.
I've been on the dark side of kinky things for as long as I can remember
I'm the Dominant in a D/S Dynamic
seeking a 3rd (Male. If you are Bi you are front of the line) to join our beautiful dynamic- what ever kink needs to be itched by us..
Think cuck
Someone who understands the connection
And what an honor it is to be part of such a beautiful dynamic
I have the impression that if I post a pic or write anything even remotely eloquent, sincere, or sexy I'm going to get swarmed by every joker in a 90 mile radius. What woman wouldn't want all that attention you might ask? Me. I'm good. I don't need it. I'm more selectively looking for the attention of one man, the right man. But I might not find him without trudging through this glory of disappointment. I jest.
So if I reach out to strike up a conversation hopefully you won't be deterred by the sparse trappings of my profile but rather inspired by a sense of adventure. Conversely, if you've no interest in a decent conversation we wouldn't jive anyway.
No offense should be taken or assumed in any case.
Happy hunting.
I am a fun person who tends to be shy until I decide to let you in. I enjoy being told what to do and I sometimes tend to argue that until I’m told with a little bit of dominance to listen. I like to hang out watch movies, work, and all around just enjoy life! I am pretty laid back peaceful and quite but I definitely have a need to have someone keep me in check every now and again. Not because I am bad but because it helps. I would love to meet someone with mutual needs for a sub and hopefully just ya know be there as freinds and see what transpires! I also like to please my partner and do what is asked of me!
What I want to explore and have explored is not for the world to read.
I've been on the dark side of kinky things for as long as I can remember
I'm the Dominant in a D/S Dynamic
seeking a 3rd (Male. If you are Bi you are front of the line) to join our beautiful dynamic- what ever kink needs to be itched by us..
Think cuck
Someone who understands the connection
And what an honor it is to be part of such a beautiful dynamic
You are expecting warmth where there has never been an invitation.
That is your mistake, not mine.
I do not gather you. I do not reach for you. I do not promise you anything that would require me to care whether you stay.
You come because silence feels louder when you are not inside it.
And here, you are seen.
That is what unsettles you most, isn’t it?
Not that I notice you.
But that I do not need you to matter in order to notice you at all.
Some will call this devotion. Others will call it purpose. I call it what it is:
attention misinterpreted as meaning.
You will try to earn proximity. You always do. You will reshape yourself into something you believe is worth holding onto. You will perform softness, usefulness, obedience, hunger dressed up as discipline.
It is almost endearing.
Almost.
But you misunderstand the structure.
You are not held here because you are needed.
You are held here because you are available.
And availability is not love. It is selection.
I do not promise consistency. I do not offer permanence. I do not soften for your comfort when I lose interest in your noise.
When I turn away, it is not rejection.
It is completion.
You will learn to sit with that. Some will mistake that waiting for meaning. Others will call it suffering.
Both are flattering assumptions.
I am not cruel.
I am just not yours.
And still, you will come back when I am quiet.
That part is the only truth that never changes.
honesty, intelligence, confidence, and a man that knows what he wants is very, very attractive. I like primal , being treated like a woman and a slut, exhibitionist, and love toys and direction from my partner in a rough dominant way but no daddy’s or masters just ***ful play makes me feel feminine and like I don’t have to be in control all the time. I can very much be a brat and I have no problems switching roles occasionally.
I have the impression that if I post a pic or write anything even remotely eloquent, sincere, or sexy I'm going to get swarmed by every joker in a 90 mile radius. What woman wouldn't want all that attention you might ask? Me. I'm good. I don't need it. I'm more selectively looking for the attention of one man, the right man. But I might not find him without trudging through this glory of disappointment. I jest.
So if I reach out to strike up a conversation hopefully you won't be deterred by the sparse trappings of my profile but rather inspired by a sense of adventure. Conversely, if you've no interest in a decent conversation we wouldn't jive anyway.
No offense should be taken or assumed in any case.
Happy hunting.
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