Why give her a Yoni Massage?
Yoni massage or yonic massage, derived from the word Yoni, a representation of the vulva, which comes from the Shakti word that means sacred place. The Yoni massage is a type of Tantric full-. It primarily focuses on the breasts, thighs, and stomach and then focuses on the labia, perineum, clitoris, G-spot, cervix or C-spot, A-spot, which is behind the G-spot, and other erogenous zones. When done right, this is a healing, theutic massage.
Women's bodies are so used to being understimulated, overstimulated, disregarded, shamed, and penetrated too quickly.
You get to give her the gift of bringing conscious intimacy to this beautiful part of her body and give her the opportunity to fully relax and receive intimate touch without needing to worry about judgment, performing, giving someone an orgasm, having an orgasm, or faking an orgasm...the gift of pussy massage is allowing her body to feel safe to be held, seen, surrendered, and to feel whatever she feels and to have whatever experience she needs to have.
Regular pussy massage can:
- Help her get out of a performative mode in sex
- Help her get out of her head and become relaxed and present with her sensations
- (necessary for most women to have an orgasm)
- Help to heal "I'm taking too long" syndrome
- Open her up to new/unexplored sensations
- Increase intimacy between partners
- Help to release expectations of her body
- Help to release any need for external validation
- Help to heal a habit of faking orgasms
- Release shame around the appearance of her vulva
- Increase *** flow and circulation (important for natural wetness)
- Increase sensitivity
- Relax tight pelvic floor muscles, release tension and can help alleviate ***
- Intensify orgasm
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Reduce stress
Sharing the purpose and/or benefits of Yoni pussy massage with your partner can help you both to ground into why you'd like to have this experience together. Kindly remind her that this massage does not require her body to have any response. She is not expected to appear aroused, to be wet, or to have an orgasm. It is for pure relaxation for her body to fully surrender and receive and feel whatever she needs to feel. Invite her to be present with her body and sensations and to communicate if she wants any changes to the pressure, sd, or touch type. Your role is to honor her body's every request without question or judgment. Lovingly inform her that you will ask permission before penetrating her with your finger(s) and that she is free to say no. Penetration is not a necessary part of this message.
Set your intentions for the massage and the energy you're bringing with you. (ex. Total mental and physical relaxation; a chance to experience new kinds of sensual touch and sensations with no-pressure-to-perform [it is not about her having an orgasm]; creating a space for her to feel safe and surrendered in your loving hands, etc.)
Not many women have had a Yoni massage. I have a massage table. I have four sensual messages:
The Yoni massage which is focused on the front and builds up to the pussy massage. It is great for healing and making your pussy feel wanted and appreciated and even healing past sexual trauma. Also great, if you have issues reaching an orgasm, the Yoni can help; if you can't have multiple orgasms, the Yoni can help with that too.
The Tantric massage starts with the back and a bigger total massage and ends with a shorter version of the Yoni, but I use a vibrator for g-spot orgasms. This has a lot of edging before I give the multiple orgasms, and if you feel comfortable, you can squirt. I have special absorbent flat pads.
Chinese cupping massage I use vacuum cups on the back, and it leaves two rows of bruises from being pulled into the cups. I used to do fire cupping but my ex got the fire cups in our divorce. I now use vacuum cups which are more accurate and consistent. I also have cups for making nipples stand proud and a pussy pump cup that will fatten up your pussy, and swells with more liquid, and this makes your pussy more sensitive for sex toy play.
The Velvet Wand massage, which is an electric device invented 100+ years ago, this tool and its attachments are fun, but a body mode where my hands become electric or your body becomes electrified. There are many metal tools in the Velvet Wand kit for teasing your tits and pussy with electricity, it sounds ***ful, but the power is fully adjustable and is incredibly erotic.
These are all sensual and relaxing, but the Yoni can heal some sex trauma issues. I'm experienced with couples classes but not certified; there is no Yoni certification in the USA. I have done all of these many times. The Yoni is my favorite. But you can pick whichever you want.
Would you like to meet first in a public place or better a BDSM munch with other kinky people. Where in Atlanta do you live? I do not travel. Just a zip code is fine, then I can suggest a local munch or a good place to meet. I will travel to munches and a first meet.
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