I’m a curious brat who loves to push limits and test boundaries, so if you’re looking for someone who’ll just behave…well, bye . I’m very new to both sex and BDSM, and honestly, I can’t wait to explore it all. Expect lots of questions, about everything.
I’m up for almost anything once (or twice), but here are my firm nope zones: anything involving vomit, ***, feces, pet play, race play or age play. Otherwise? Let’s see what happens. I can be a switch, but honestly, I want to be the submissive at least 80% of the time. I crave ***, nipple play, teasing, being bitten especially if you’re going to leave a mark as a souvenir (I also enjoy leaving my own marks), losing control, and being thoroughly dominated. Make me squirm.
Ideally, I’m looking for an actual relationship, not just a sexual relationship though maybe I could be convinced to try something casual if the chemistry is ridiculous. I can’t see myself doing a one night stand though especially because like I said, I’m here to learn. Either way, I expect my boundaries to be respected.
Communication is huge for me. Fair warning: I ramble and send long messages (case point, this description). Not because I’m mad, because I always want to be understood. I need someone who can handle honest conversations, give and take criticism without turning it into a competition or argument, and actually engage. Please don’t make me carry every single conversation or ask all the questions. If you’re interested, show me.
Outside the bedroom, I’m a total nerd who loves learning new things, wandering around small music festivals, and listening to everything from rock and Broadway to hip-hop and jazz. I can be a homebody, so I’d love someone who’ll gently drag me out to try new adventures but, who also enjoys cozy nights in. I can cook us a nice meal, we can cuddle in bed or on the couch while watching a TV show.
. I will add I am 5”10 so no offense but I’m not really interested in anyone under 6 feet. A very interesting 5”11 man may get my attention. Also, I am specifically looking for black or POC men.
While I’m submissive in the bedroom, I’m never going to be completely submissive in everyday life. I’ll always want my own agency.
