BDSM Dating in Tallapoosa

Ok 1st yes benefits would be very nice to have but thats not what im after I can't just meet someone and jump straight into bed there's gotta be some kind of connection or no matter how hard i try it just wont work... idk i know im fucking weird lmao...but I would rather get to know someone, have a real conversation, develop a connection which will make any benefits alot more intense, more intimate, and alot more passionate making it truly an amazing experience that is so much better than meaningless sex