My location isn’t accurate for discretion. If we hit it off I will share my general location
I’m in an a long-term ENM relationship.
I’m not currently adding romantic or spicy connections.
Wanna talk about astrology, book recommendations or really cool music I might not have heard of?
First timer and curious, have been interested in bdsm for a long time. I am not here for cyberfun sexting or pic exchange. Genuinely looking to find someone who can "show me the ropes."
I am an intellectual goddess who loves to explore her sexuality and have a good time. I’m looking for someone who can stimulate me mentally first then physically. Ideally someone +-8yrs age range. I’m somewhat of a sapiosexual. I’m witty and enjoy dry, sarcastic & dark humor. Polyam / ENM & pansexual. I promise I’m cute & curvy. I’m just a pretty popular gal around the community hence no face. Will show you my face if you’ll show me yours 😜
There’s a lot to get to know about me. I’m pretty open and ***, so I hope you are too. Feel free to ask me anything but don’t be surprised if I make you beg for the answer ..
Seeing where things go..
I am open to travel as that is something I enjoy and I would consider hosting for the right special person..
not looking to just chat with someone forever, would like to actually meet IRL and have some fun .
TLDR;
Nerdy, weird, open, and secretly an earth goddess. Pan, solo poly / ENM
100% switch.
INFJ
No cigs please.
It’s about the vibe. Hot mama. MILF. Bisexual and it’s not a phase. Into having fun and being silly and going a punky reggae party! Concert promoter, jewelry maker, and all around fun gal pal!! No pressure but looking for community. Be longterm minded as flings are not my thing.
live and love out loud!!
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I like to keep things direct and to the point.
I have limited time and space for others. I am a wife, mom, and have a full time career. I believe new friendships deserve the proper time and attention to grow, so I am slowly developing new interest.
I’m interested in….
Friendship, connection, chemistry, good communication, transparency, honesty, no drama, chill vibes.
When the above is met…. I’m open to developing a fun satisfying sexual relationship.
I’m open, adventurous, silly, fun…low maintenance, laid back, sarcastic and have dark humor.
I’m trustworthy and a safe space to be yourself.
You want to know something…. Just ask…I am direct And to the point (that can be hard for some☺️
EDM relationship. use my fetlife handle annatheleo to connect with me if you’re really interested. do not send me one liners about hooking up. I don’t check this app often.
in a rather interesting chapter of my life. looking to explore my kinks, fantasies, and sexuality further. tend to be submissive with masculine energy partners and tend to be dominant with feminine energy partners. but I’ll try almost anything once 😂🏻
I am a strong independent woman that loves running the show……
I except to be treated as the Queen I am.
Due to privacy for my profession- I will not send pictures.
I love being in control & pleasing on my terms …… no complaints to date
Who likes movies, boobs, and hugs? Looking for hugs and boob rubs comedy viewing.
If you’re shallow enough to require the emptiness of NSA, DO NOT CONTACT ME.
It is impossible to have intimacy free of strings. So if you're not irrational crazy on that level, it'd be mind blowing to hear from you :) who believes in strings and commitment even as a friend.
I’m a true submissive who is looking for a true dom. I enjoy being bred, CNC and being completely owned.
Clean, drug free, and healthy, high value woman my day, slave to the right man by night. I expect my owner to be a high value man as well. Meaning disciplined, hard working a man people respect.
Authenticity is ? Chemisrty is necessary! I have a twisted sense of humor, a dirty mind, and high stands. Lovers and Friends….Quote: *** is the shell that encapsulates wisdom. - J.G.
I’m looking for Mistress to explore, learn, and develop.
== My BDSM Test made on FET App ==
68% Submissive
43% Dominant
== My Roles ==
68% Little
43% Sadist
43% Master/Mistress
38% Slave
35% Brat Tamer
35% Brat
30% Degrader
30% Masochist
30% Caregiver
18% Rigger
18% Hunter
18% Prey
18% Pet Owner
18% Pet
10% Rope Bunny
0% Degradee
mommy with a fat 🐱😻💦
Spanks welcome 🍑👋
I don’t bite unless u want me to 😜
👻 - if u spark my interest, if not I’ll pass
📍not accurate because some of yall are weird a.f
I’m new to Fet, but I’ve always wanted to try it. I’m a short (5’0”), curvy woman who is looking to meet new friends. This year I want to get out of my comfort zone and start going on dates and experiencing new friends.
I’m new to BDSM and exploring this side of myself with curiosity and intention. I’m submissive-leaning and interested in being dominated, particularly drawn to consensual *** play within a safe, communicative dynamic. I value trust, boundaries, and aftercare, and I’m looking for someone experienced, patient, and respectful who enjoys guiding a willing submissive. Open communication and mutual consent are essential to me
First timer and curious, have been interested in bdsm for a long time. I am not here for cyberfun sexting or pic exchange. Genuinely looking to find someone who can "show me the ropes."
My location isn’t accurate for discretion. If we hit it off I will share my general location
I’m in an a long-term ENM relationship.
I’m not currently adding romantic or spicy connections.
Wanna talk about astrology, book recommendations or really cool music I might not have heard of?
I’m new to BDSM and exploring this side of myself with curiosity and intention. I’m submissive-leaning and interested in being dominated, particularly drawn to consensual *** play within a safe, communicative dynamic. I value trust, boundaries, and aftercare, and I’m looking for someone experienced, patient, and respectful who enjoys guiding a willing submissive. Open communication and mutual consent are essential to me
Who likes movies, boobs, and hugs? Looking for hugs and boob rubs comedy viewing.
If you’re shallow enough to require the emptiness of NSA, DO NOT CONTACT ME.
It is impossible to have intimacy free of strings. So if you're not irrational crazy on that level, it'd be mind blowing to hear from you :) who believes in strings and commitment even as a friend.
I make a million decisions everyday and I’m ***d to be in control of everything. I take care of everyone and everything. I’m here to find someone who can take control in the free moments I get to let go.
Curious switch looking for short- or long-term playmates who enjoy exploring both sides of power and pleasure. I like to take my time getting to know someone first—building a spark, teasing out chemistry, and letting the tension rise before we dive deeper. If we click, I can be playful, devoted, or demanding... slipping between control and surrender depending on the connection we create.
I value discretion, as my professional world demands it, but behind closed doors I crave freedom, intensity, and authenticity. I enjoy everything from slow-burn erotic chats that blur into something more, to bold, intoxicating D/s dynamics—whether with men, women, or both. Bisexuality feels liberating, and I love discovering where desire might take us.
If this stirs something in you, slide into my DMs. Let’s start with words, build the heat, and see just how far we’re willing to go together...
Open to solo and couples play.
I am a strong independent woman that loves running the show……
I except to be treated as the Queen I am.
Due to privacy for my profession- I will not send pictures.
I love being in control & pleasing on my terms …… no complaints to date
in a rather interesting chapter of my life. looking to explore my kinks, fantasies, and sexuality further. tend to be submissive with masculine energy partners and tend to be dominant with feminine energy partners. but I’ll try almost anything once 😂🏻
I’m a true submissive who is looking for a true dom. I enjoy being bred, CNC and being completely owned.
Clean, drug free, and healthy, high value woman my day, slave to the right man by night. I expect my owner to be a high value man as well. Meaning disciplined, hard working a man people respect.
mommy with a fat 🐱😻💦
Spanks welcome 🍑👋
I don’t bite unless u want me to 😜
👻 - if u spark my interest, if not I’ll pass
📍not accurate because some of yall are weird a.f
Goofy lil stoner... oh n horny
👋🏽Hello! uurrrmm kinda looking for a consistent lil freak to have on demand🥴 pot heads to the front!
nothing against those who dont smoke, just prefer my pleasure with a bowl/j/blunt😶🌫️
lets talk/hang see if we vibe!
EDM relationship. use my fetlife handle annatheleo to connect with me if you’re really interested. do not send me one liners about hooking up. I don’t check this app often.
I’m new to Fet, but I’ve always wanted to try it. I’m a short (5’0”), curvy woman who is looking to meet new friends. This year I want to get out of my comfort zone and start going on dates and experiencing new friends.
I like to keep things direct and to the point.
I have limited time and space for others. I am a wife, mom, and have a full time career. I believe new friendships deserve the proper time and attention to grow, so I am slowly developing new interest.
I’m interested in….
Friendship, connection, chemistry, good communication, transparency, honesty, no drama, chill vibes.
When the above is met…. I’m open to developing a fun satisfying sexual relationship.
I’m open, adventurous, silly, fun…low maintenance, laid back, sarcastic and have dark humor.
I’m trustworthy and a safe space to be yourself.
You want to know something…. Just ask…I am direct And to the point (that can be hard for some☺️
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