Male (54) Single
Kinky life is the best life
I am a Dom who believes the way to a subs body is through her mind first! I have to have good two way conversation, communication, and ultimately a lot of kink mixed in with tons of passionate sex. Without those it's just vanilla. . .neither of us want that or we wouldn't be on 'this' site.
Submission isn't about doing what you're told, it's a journey, hopefully a lifelong one. Any Dom worth His weight should make you a better person, a little each day, and out of that your desire to please Him begins. The best space for any sub is happiness; pushing your boundaries and what that looks like for you; however you need to keep expanding that, while smiling your best smile ~ that's sexy as fuck! The kink is a much needed bonus. 
