Are you a medical professional or someone with lots of medical knowledge? Would you like to help an innocent writer write a naughty piece of literature? Dm me!

In exchange, I can educate you on the various kinks I have knowledge to offer in, I'm especially skilled in helping you find your dom or subsona and how to accentuate all those delicious traits in a way that feels very full, enticing and fun and easy to do and how to add easy everyday depth and flavor to your dynamic in a way that feels very personal to you. But I know quite a bit of technique as well, depending on the kink lol. Or just anything else I know or help you edit your book or whatever feels right for you!

Also: If anyone knows any obscure or old medical tools, I'm curious! I've never seen comprehensive lists or full explanation, just lists with the stuff that's in most doctors offices.

In this one, The doctor performs an actual reasonably accurate examination, I'm thinking a bit of the head to toe, a bit of heart and circulatory systems, a bit of brain stuff, and explains why they're doing certain parts of the exam (like explaining how theyre listening for the lub dub and moving through each part of the heart and what it does).

The doctor likes asmr, and so does the patient, so the doctor may perform some of the examination with artistic license, but still getting the same information as the protocol version, like perhaps moving the Stethoscope on the forehead as well or purposefully saying things to mess up the pulse, so I'm curious if you have any

Just so I know I did what I could about the unsolicited dms, I'm asexual, my kinky interest is not for using the doctors offices as a sexy backdrop and excuse to get naked, (to each their own). It's about how biology is fascinating, and doctors have available to them lots of information to enhance nonsexual *** play and mental closeness and exploring a patient for fun the same playful way you'd examine an open world game, the intimacy of fixing and changing things in another's body, the intimacy of being healed. And other delicious parts about the world of medicine itself.

BDSM/Fetish Family18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Chicago

This is what My conversation style is like so you can assess our call buddy compatibility.

I do tooons of other styles, and in reality its not usually formal (though I warn you: I am a scientific type of person that approaches social things in a spooky,,, unnatural,,, Organized way! (organized does not mean clinical, marriage, for instance: has a literal contract and vows but it feels quite warm if people write and follow the right vows for them lol) , customizing them to the individual, but this is like a trailer despite the fact that I have not met you at time of writing.

Starting the conversation with a simmer, warming both of us up exchanging life or research highlights and establishing a back and forth rhythm until we're in sync.

Chatting about progress or workshopping each others accountability buddy projects

Clearing the air by shaking out any heavy stuff if necessary. Perhaps starting a small rant or asking for advice and active listening with each other
(Starting off gentle as we get to know each other in order to feel out and not overstep boundaries) this isn't intended to be a mopey time, more of a healing and solution oriented one, so that our brains can think about we want to think about in this valuable shared time instead of being stuck on a problem.
I aim for my history: kvetching with a group of fellow silly jester detectives in such a style and mood, my deepest sorrows can only be accurately be described in stand-up, hearty laughter all round, close hugs, genuine and inventive suggestions approaching life like an experience engineer, because truly, even the most difficult things in this life,,, are not that serious.

Or perhaps inatead exchanging infodumping if I've just created a project or made a research breakthrough where I lead you through the epic candlelit internautical deep link cave spelunking

moving onto some practical planning and relationship housekeeping
Meaning:
checking up on our group projects, working on them on call

Asking about your areas of actualization and hobbies if we haven't already,

Planning hangouts, road trips, parties, scenes, altered state or spiritual endeavors

Asking what we've done well together, what we can do better and how, what we want to introduce to our connection, what we probably don't want to do again.
The mood of this is fun and curious, I only intend on entering connection negotiations with people who makr it fun and filled with structured liberty like myself :).

then when I'm feeling light and airy:
Bantering, flirting (platonically or romantically), riffing and nerding out, laughing our cheeks pink till we fall asleep

I am looking for someone I can meet or call 1+ hour a week
So: if you like this sort of thing or have other conversation styles you'd like to propose in my dms...
(I do lots of other cool diverse tricks like I can do full stand-up as an archetype you enjoy not breaking character for hours, you doing the same, I like to do call being read to or reading you my research project as I break the narration for us to put together the pieces (especially if you take notes!!!)

Inquire in my dms and we can get started! I am being so foreal with you I used to run a daily live streaming group ur bro is c o m m i t e d to chatting and vetting chat partners in a manner before unseen and that feels very easy breezy covergirl.

If you think we're kismet for kinship: You know who you are. I am exactly what I sound like, I've met my buddies a thousand times in a thousand summer camps, by now I know how to see the mark the stars gave you before we were sent falling to different parts of this funky little planet, your boy knows how to establish chemistry

(Don't worry: I've gotten to the point in buddism where you realize personality is an illusion (it has truth to it but it is not the whole truth) and everyone's the same so it doesn't feel fake to act in a way I enjoy, just fun and creative)

BDSM/Fetish Family18 to 80 years ● 15km around USA Chicago

I’m an experienced Dominant with over a decade in the lifestyle. I know what I’m doing — and more importantly, I know what you need. This offer is for a single, consensual scene: negotiated thoroughly, executed with precision, and left exactly where it belongs — in the realm of memory, intensity, and control.

My profile on is u/davthedominant3 if you want to see my experience.
I bring skill, presence, and the kind of calm authority that doesn’t need to shout. You bring honesty, readiness, and the ability to communicate your limits clearly. I don't demand perfection — I demand truth. I will push you, safely. I will leave you marked, maybe not on your skin, but somewhere you’ll feel for days.

The first time we meet, i promise to make it the wettest night while keeping complete discretion. I am mostly into mentally dominating the person along with physical, so if you are someone who needs a mental angle to play we will be a good fit.

You want me to take you in My hand. You want me to feed you cock and cum. You enjoy being controlled and you absolutely love sucking cock - either one is enough for you to start getting wet.

So, fine, I'll take control. I'll have you kneel for me. Perhaps a hand on your throat. Not gripping or choking, but just steering you. Directing you down to your knees.

That hand stays in contact with you. Only breaking that contact briefly so that I can stand behind you and cuff your wrists together.

One hand holds your hair by its roots, and tilts your head back. And the other spreads across your mouth and nose. Hands directing your movement, controlling your positioning and your breathing. If I'm in control the choice isn't yours, remember?

No strings. No drama. Just a controlled fall into something darker, cleaner, and more exact than anything the everyday world allows.

This is for the submissive woman who wants to give up control — fully, for once — to someone who knows how to hold it.

If this resonates, speak. If it scares you a little, good. That means you're paying attention.

I have a busy life and understand you well too. I am looking to find a safe, discreet kinky space for us both to live our wildest kinks. My profile shows my experience and how scores of woman have felt fulfilled with me. I travel a lot for work and have made sluts across multiple countries.

Kinks for you are a way to experience life in new ways, and I will guide you in this journey. Imagine yourself as a pet in a maze of sexual experiences, running around trying to get out only to realize you love being in the maze.

You by now know that I am going to be a dom you crave, so why don’t you do the good job of introducing yourself?

Kinks: Hucow,
, ***, pet play, impact play, orgasm control, sexualisation of normal things, body watering and lots more

My reviews (Some of these girls are on my profile) "This is so addictive" "I have never been this wet so easily" "AAAA AAA" "Omg that was the best orgasm" Few of these girls verified pics are also up (I only post girls that consent to be posted)

(Safe words will be discussed at start)

NSA5km around USA Chicago

(I am new here, Idk wtf I am doing, please 🐻 with me)
(No Men, honestly not interested) 🥱



Hey! 😀 🏳️‍🌈
Thank you for clicking on my post, please read through the whole thing if you are contacting me... I would really appreciate that :) Here's a potato for you 🥔

Looking for AFAB, i really have no preference for gender identity and I have nothing against trans folks... I just have weird brain cells that I myself don't understand, it's a weird life. I am sorry if its yucky but I don't know how to explain it. Don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I am sorry if I am. I have no preference for body size/shape etc. No preference for Masc/Fem :) Just be a honest person. 🥰

This is for IRL (In Real Life) relationship... If you are in Chicago! Amazing! If you are nearby and willing to meet, amazing! I am not really looking for "online only relationship". 🥰


🍄 # Who the heck is this person? 🍄

So, ummmm... Hi... I am Alex. 32 F.

  • Sapiosexual (Brains and Intellectual connection is important to me) 🧠
  • Demisexusl (Emotional connection is also extremely important to me, I am extremely empathic) 💙
  • Nerdy! I guess that's self explanatory :) 🤓
  • Ambivert? But more of an Introvert. I am shy and quiet untill I get comfortable with you and then you will have to order me to stop talking lol 😆
  • I can spend everyday with you if you are one of my friend / loved ones... But strangers / casual friends... Meeting them drains me out and my social battery depletes really quickly. 😭
  • Love Computers. Honestly, don't wanna brag but I am kinda good at them and everything computers just come to me easily. 🖥️
  • Read a book, have a lazy weekend, spend cozy time, explore the city and earth over parties anyday! (I enjoy spending quality time, making memories, doing meaningful stuff over parties n clubbing... Crowds drain me) 📚
  • Extremely brutally honest, honestly can't lie to save my life. 🤔


    🍄 # Day to day life 🍄

    Masc presenting, cis Female :) (Golden Retriever Masc according to Tiktok lol)

  • Have my head in one or another project all the time.
  • Programming, Art, Science, Maths 😭, Animation, Development...
  • Games, Sports (Wanna join the Boxing club), Music (can't live without it), SPACE, History, Food, Mythology, Chess, Board Games, Books, DIY, Crafts etc.
  • Sleeping 😴


    🍄 # The Kink side of life 🍄

  • Sub :) Identifies as Natural Sub, don't do it for the heck of it and kicks or what not. Need BDSM in my life to be content.
  • Been into it since I was a *** (stumbled on wrong websites lol) actively practicing it since 2017.
  • Into Lifestyle BDSM. It's not a game for me. I love the lifestyle. I take it seriously.
  • Masochist.
  • I have too many kinks and kinks change as per person... Will not write them here as a shopping list. Can be discussed in private.
  • I am willing to try everything once or thrice just to be sure if its for me or not unless it's an absolute hard limit.
  • Limits are extremely important to be respected at all times and must not be broken. Unless discussed otherwise.
  • Safe words and Aftercare is extremely important to me.
  • SSC and everything sane that comes under the umbrella.


    🍄 # What I am looking for :) 🍄

    A Domme / A Mistress (or whichever salutations you prefer :))

  • Honest ❤️
  • Trustworthy ❤️
  • Strict ❤️
  • Soft ❤️
  • Caring ❤️
  • Can be a Friend 😄
  • Open to Dating ❤️
  • An eventual partner ❤️
  • Donut Bonus if there's Attraction 🧲
  • Basically someone who is also looking to be a friend, domme and be a partner ❤️
  • Someone who is NOT an Asshole and resort to ghosting, manipulation, , mind fuck, drama, non-sense dom bullshit etc. (been through that, just leave me alone.) 🤷

    I don't want to be a mindless robot sub/slave/pet/toy/girl etc. The one that you come to when you are bored, have nothing better to do and ignore otherwise. I have been with awful doms and dommes, Sadly, I now know exactly what I have to avoid... Even the ones who look like angels are just spineless demons in disguise. I hate that people take so much advantage on name of submission... Honestly, please spare me if you are gonna do that... Target someone else please. 🤷

    I am an intellectual :) I am an empath... When i give myself to someone, I give myself completely... I don't know how to do things the half way... Its all or nothing. I devote so much of myself to my doms that honestly for the right person it can be amazing. Lemme care for you and make your life easier and make you happy :) Tell you all about space and science and computers and whatever the heck is topic of the day...
    I can make you any art or videos you want :) My phone is full of memes and thoughtful videos... Let's be friends and explore this life together! ❤️

    Be someone who can care for me be my friend but at same time won't hesitate to put me in my place if I am out of line. ❤️

    Let's go on dates :) Lemme cherish you and treat you like royalty :) You know you deserve it ❤️

    Honestly, if we click... It can be amazing ❤️

    Let's take this slow and see if we click and if we like the idea of each other... Who knows... Maybe this can be start of something beautiful ❤️

    NOT looking for poly. Done with that bullshit. Got only
    d in that scenario multiple times. 🤷

    NOT looking for short term. 🤷


    🍄 # Read all that? 🍄

    Well! We are almost done :)
    Somethings to keep in mind...

  • Tired of multiple platforms so, I will ask you to move to Dscrd once I feel comfortable.
  • I will ask you to verify by my personal method (after a while)... All sfw. If you are not okay with verifying... Please don't reach out. Idk about you but I don't wanna be catfished. It's good for both of us to get this out of the way.
  • I will reply to messages as I see them. I might not be able to reply instantly, please be patient.
  • Don't expect me to sub for you in first 11 minutes. Or a week. I am gonna take this slow. If you can't take this slow. Don't bother contacting me.
  • I am not a newbie. Just because you ars a dom doesn't mean you are automatically correct. Just makes you an asshole. If you have "I am a dom only I know better" ideology, please with all due respect fck off.
  • My bullshit radar is actually pretty good. So, honestly don't bother.
  • I was in an awful d/s relationship few months ago... My friends made me realise (after it ended) that it was actually hella bad one... So, I am healing and I might not be at my 100% right now. But I plan to give my all to you as much as I can.


    🍄 # How to reach out :)🍄

    Send a chat request with these things included... So that I know you can give me courtesy of at least agreeing to my tiny request of being Dmed in a certain way... Which just adds to the fact that if you can do this I can also take in account that you might also follow my request to respect my limits...

  • Your favorite planet/celestial body. Why did you choose that planet/celestial body?
  • Your Age, Sex, Location.
  • Why have you decided to message me?
  • A little info about you :) You just read a whole essay about me, I want to know a bit of you too :)

    🍄🍄

    That's all :) Only looking for IRL, or hybrid... As long as you are willing to meet a lot in real life. A LOT.
    Not just online.

    Please be around my age or age can be just a number.

    Have an amazing week!

    p.s. please only contact me if you are serious. 🍄

Kinky Date18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Chicago

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