Kinky women in Illinois

Hello and thank you for visiting my profile. I’m new to experiencing this type of thing but am not new to liking or being interested in it. I am very shy and will open up after a while. Partly for why I hid my face in my profile. I’m looking for friends mostly. I’m not able to drive because of my disability. I also live with my parents because of my disability. Sorry if this is a dealbreaker. I’m looking for couples and singles right now.

I'm bi and a switch😋( I'm mostly a subby😉) I'm most defently a book girlly📚📚 (like a lady I read my smut) I me love a good old fashion hand necklace anytime the're the best accessory 🤭 I don't mind playing or more 😋 send a message and I might just reply but be RESPECTFUL about it 😉 ps I most defently have a weakness for voice notes 🥴 and I do smoke(and I get quite bratty and sassy when I do😝😉) TTok Kiki696🤭

Just a regular woman who enjoys showing herself off for her husband. We have fun taking our pics and they turn out too good not to share, right? I am never wanting any other cocks in my life. Nobody will 'own' me and nobody will ever control me. Not a slut, just sexy. I am submissive to my hubs because of 30 years of trust built up. I met my husband when I was 12. He was a family friend. It was love at first site. That love has grown every second of every day to this very sentence. We finally got together 8 years ago. Married 5 years ago and it's been the best thing that has ever happened to me. I still get butterflies when I think of him. He can still make me wet by just touching my arm. I am not going to fuck you - ever. I am not that type of girl; never have been. Posting is just a fun dirty little thing we do. We discuss it over a glass of wine or five when he is done with work. I don't do this for attention. I was a bartender for 20 years - I am over getting attention. I do it for him. Also, I do not share pics right away. Please don't just come on and ask for pics.

Needy, nerdy, and curvy Just looking for fun, flirty banter. Not really looking for more Not on as much. But if I’m here, I’m probably just horny. Getting to messages when I can. Not ignoring you 💗

I’m definitely not new to the scene or the lifestyle. Had to delete my previous account because actual family found me. This time around I highly doubt I’ll post my face on anything and pictures will remain private for “friends only” because it blew chunks to lose 25+ years of pictures, writings and friendships but it is what it is. I’m a middle (physically 48 🤣 but mentally closer to 9-12ish when I regress). I’m seeking friendship only. I will slowly add people here because nope nope definitely not repeating what happened with my last account. I will likely add many folks I was previously friends with but I will be slow to add/respond to folks I don’t know who aren’t vetted with me. I will likely seek protection until I feel comfortable enough to get back in the groove. It’s a little better with a new account but I will be extremely cautious. I can be playful and silly/goofy and I often communicate via memes, music and writing. I will slowly add new writings and such again and rebuild. It will never be the same however and I know this. While I’m not new to the lifestyle I’m taking a new-ish approach so if you want to be added I’m returning to the basics and vetting (if I don’t already actually know you) is a REQUIREMENT. I’m protecting my peace and my sanity in doing it this way ❤. I seek a 24/7 TPE DDlg dynamic and no I don’t expect it to go 0-wedding bells BUT this is the end goal-I date for marriage not just a placeholder until better comes along. My friends on here have seen me endure some rough shit over the years but they’ve also seen me learn, grow and rise. I am 100% demisexual and sapiosexual-for those unfamiliar that means I have ZERO interest in the physical expression of BDSM if it lacks the mental and emotional connection FIRST. Aka if you’re just in it for sex you’re barking up the wrong tree. My Daddy becomes my entire universe (hence the slave label). I’m submissive by nature but I will only submit to one. I REQUIRE rules, ritual and consistency. If you’re not in a position to provide the structure that’s alright but you’re not going to be a good fit for me. I NEED this. The structure provides connection and consistency. I drive a semi longhaul so any relationship with me is going to be LDR/online to begin with and if things actually click I will consider hanging up the keys. What I am NOT: Your fuckdoll/toy to pick up when you’re bored/horny Do NOT use honorifics with me. Those are earned on both sides of the slash with the exception of me referring to an actual D type as Sir and that is out of respect-unless we already know each other and are on familiar terms at which point it’ll be how we’ve always referred to each other 🤭🤭🤭 Boundaries/hard limits: (Don’t cross these I will absolutely block you) Lie to me, ever FULL STOP I have zero patience or tolerance for liars Claim me unless you’re vetted and a dynamic has been established Try to get me to participate in hookup culture/scene play Casual/one and done-that’s a giant nope not gonna happen Use honorifics with me (unless we’re in a dynamic, obvs 🤣) or demand my instant submission-I will hurt your feelings and then block you Use silent treatment or any other form of coercive control/***. I will add as needed for more. As for hard limits for playtime: Lies to me. I don’t care if you lie to others but NEVER to me. I will instantly lose trust and confidence in you and every single bit of trust. No trust = nothing to continue on any level. Should go without saying but no minors! Actual incest of any kind! That’s a hard NO. *** play, scarification, breath play, *** or simulated drowning type play. I don’t judge those into it, but it’s not my kink. No emotional sadism! Sexual sadism is an affirmative full green light but emotional is 100% off limits! If you have questions, ask. What I seek: Actual connection, real and raw. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Protector/provider types that are able to calm my chaos gremlin brain and nervous system by providing safety-no I don’t care if you have a penny or millions in the bank. I love getting spoiled but my idea of being spoiled is time, attention and effort. I will 100% test your patience AND your stamina 😈 but only the one who earns the title Daddy gets that from me because that holds a special place in my heart and my mind. I’ll do a long list of dirty, sick twisted and depraved things, but only for Daddy. A little more about me since I’m feeling more comfortable with my new account: Born and raised in the south. I’m a true southern woman and I can dress out a buck in 15 minutes, bait my own hook-unless it’s stink bait 😂 Daddy can do that, love real camping ⛺ yes in a tent on the ground 😂, and I will absolutely holler “let’s go get stuck” to go mudding. I’m more comfortable hanging with the guys than I am other women mainly because I grew up in the country on a small farm and I don’t do the drama and chaos that many (not all) women come with nor do I partake in the gossip or fashion drama 🙄. I prefer ***s to most other humans. I value friendships as much as romantic relationships and I am the person they call when they need emotional support or a chaos gremlin to throw hands with them as backup for a fight. I know places to hide the pieces they’d never look. I work hard and I play hard. I love music, art, poetry and literature. Poe and Dickinson are my favorite poets and have been since childhood. I LOVE the theatre 🎭 and my dad has done Shakespearean theatre since before I was born! I love renaissance fairs, fairytales, and the mythical. I’m an eclectic pagan practitioner and I will never alter that because it’s who I am. I’m a “gray witch” which means I walk between the light and the shadows, each has its purpose. It boils down to I’m not seeking to harm, but I don’t take any shit either. As for critters I love horses, chickens-don’t EVER walk in the coop with flip flops because they WILL peck your toes off and they’re mean af, ducks, Pygmy goats, cows, iguanas, dogs, cats, mice, rats and snakes and ravens/crows are my favorite birds followed closely by owls, bats and African greys. Crows have been a favorite since childhood and they’re extremely intelligent creatures. I’m also a FT college student majoring in psychology currently on top of the 96 hour work week so if I don’t respond to a DM right away I likely haven’t seen it yet. I am also a gamer geek and will rock your shit with my half elf Druid Fizgignoduel on WoW. I also play tennis when I can although it’s been years so don’t get judgey if it takes me a hot minute to get back into it if we play 😂. Horseback riding is a favorite thing to do because riding in a wide open field at full gallop is freedom ❤. I should really go do that again soon ☺.

I'm looking for a Sexual Dom with whom i can experience the lifestyle in an ongoing way. I'm not looking for rough sex hook-ups. I'm looking for someone with experience who can mentor and guide me. I am married, and my husband is aware of, and ok with, this This is what I'm learning about myself so far: I'm definitely a sub In training, but think i have traits of all of these: bedroom sub, domestic discipline, princess, and brat

I’m a BBW straight up. If that’s an issue then please move on. Hopefully that will not be the case one day but for now it is. Looking to get my feet wet as a Sub. I like a man who tells me what to do. I like dirty talk- a man who tells me what a slut I am. I like being restrained and being used. If you play with my nipples a lot I will squirt. I love sucking cock, would love to try more face fucking. One of my fantasies is to be in a stockade and have one cock in my mouth and another in my pussy so I am open to a threesome (preferably 2 guys but willing to try another girl as well) in the future once I feel comfortable. Currently just into chatting. Husband knows I’m on here now. :) He’s ok with chats. PS-This is nothing personal but only into Doms (not open to switches right now). Also prefer to keep men in my age range (28-40ish).

Hello! Although I have explored in the bedroom a bit I am relatively new to most things in this community so first and foremost I am looking for someone I can safely explore with. Even though I am slut I am very big on respect and manners, so make sure you start with both! I love a good conversation, ***s, to cook, and read. Recommend your favorite book! I am also a full-time college student who is really looking forward to studying abroad in Greece. If anyone is feeling generous let me know!

Hard work has paved the way for my success, but I also want to enjoy the fun of life with my friends.

I just realized some of yall got it all wrong so let me get this straight. I have a nice bratty behavior which dominants find interesting but turning me on could be hard for softies or those who are new to the world of kink. Plus, I do not send nudes in first conversation because I simply don’t want to. At this point, I’m not looking for anything permanent (exceptions might happen) or too weird, Im open to roleplaying and sexting if we connect and vibe. I love sex toys and bondage equipments, thats kinda my favorite kink of all. In roleplays I like bdsm, r*peplay, maybe groupfuck (idk it sounds exciting unless you want me to be a dom) I have never flirted or sexted with any women before but I wanna try it out so that may work or not, consider me a newbie mistresses! Men/Women under 22 and above 35 please please do not waste your time texting me.

I’m an experienced lifestyle Femdom devoted to exploring the full spectrum of kink and fetish. As a sensual sadist, I thrive on the tension between ache and obedience, on that charged space where surrender becomes inevitable. My power is patient, precise, and inescapable, coiling around you until resistance dissolves. Pleasure for Me lies in guiding through the art of anticipation, the thrill of denial, and the freedom of consensually giving up control. Outside of fetish, I’m a goth/metal/neo-reggaeton enthusiast, erotic dancer, gamer, aspiring psychotherapist, fantasy nerd, scientist, and an unapologetic stoner who loves documentaries and horror films. Political awareness is the bare minimum for catching My interest. *mistressxevira everywhere

I am a 57 y/o mother of 4 adults, and grandmother of 8. I have MS but I don't let it hold me back. If you want to know just ask. **Desires and Fantasies** I am wanting to explore my submissive/kitten/princess side. Also CNC.

Hi 👋 Newish to this scene, I'm not looking for hookups. I'm looking for my forever freaky fella.. eventually. For now, I'm just enjoying taking to people and sharing photos. If you're younger than 35, please don't message me, I'm not going to respond (no offense, y'all just too young). Kinky gifts are appreciated 😍 JUST started an OF if you're interested, same name 😋

I’m new to this but very interested. I like to be told what to do. Looking to experience some of the things I only read about in smutty books. I don’t got no STDs if you got em stay away. Also i’m not necessarily plus size but i’m also not skinny, so if you only like skinny girls that’s not me sorry.

I’m a domme looking to gain friends within the bdsm space and talk with fellow dommes and subs to improve my techniques and be inspired. Ask me what I’m into.

You may call me Domina or Goddess. I'm a soft Domme who prefers to nurture and give praise but can be hard when pushed, if you wish to heal the disowned part of yourself and CLAIM your desire then you're in the right place at the right time.

Hi, I'm a little girl looking for a daddy and a mommy i love being in a diaper and using it i also love the idea of being tied up. I would love to try other kinks too so if interested please message me

Looking for like minded people to connect with. Particularly old or new subs... Taking another long break from here... Serious people only should hit me up on ***am..... HT_pegstorm

Last updated: 6/22/25 ! new account ! hii im vivie (vivian). im 19 and in an M/s dynamic. We are mostly monogamous, however I am allowed to have girlfriends/femme play partners. I am mostly on here looking for new friends in my area, as I've had a lot of success on this site in the past. let me make this abundantly clear-- I am not interested in ANY man other than my Master. I am his property first and foremost, and I will not be playing with anyone that my Master does not approve of. If you have further questions about using his property, his profile is linked below. Basic info: I'm very artistic, I love ***ting and making zines. I love to learn and watch lots of scientific/historical video essays. We are very 420 friendly, he doesn't partake but I do and I would love to have a smoking buddy. I'm a silly goose, I love making people laugh and having fun. My favorite show is Spongebob, I might have a slight obsession with it. Kinks: I am a sub leaning switch. I love the disciplinary/psychological aspects of BDSM. As a slave, I find fulfillment in serving my Master through many small but consistent tasks like cleaning and cooking. I'm very much so into taboo fantasies, like corruption and age gaps. Oh and if you couldn't tell, I'm a foxgirl! Being a kinkster is an important part of my identity for me, and there's so much more that I'm into that I'd love to discuss, but I'll leave that for you to ask about ;P What I'm looking for: As I said, I'm mostly looking for friends, however ideally I'd like a girlfriend. Bonus points if you are: -a cat owner -25+ years old (the older the better hehe) -familiar with BDSM and general community expectations -open to threesomes with me & my Master -a kemonomimi/pet player -a Mommy Domme -a stoner -willing to help me learn how to cook -a pretty girl that likes kissing pretty girls none of these things are required! please just be yourself and we will respect your boundaries

🔥 Playful switch with a wicked imagination & velvet touch. Love trading power, teasing limits, and turning fantasies into pulse-racing reality. Networking? Yes. Swinging? Maybe. Pic swaps? Only if you can handle the heat. 😈✨ Come say hi… if you dare keep up.

Just looking for friends and kink/ BDSM community related events in my area for me and my husband to attend

definitely a sub at heart, but some people don't like to know that it's really for my own dominance that I choose to be submissive. I control what you do to me because I can promise you that about 90% of what you want to do to me, I want it more. You can give acknowledgement and respect to my trauma for that. But that's where boundaries become very important. Especially if I'm gonna be your rope bunny. This is the ultimate level of trust for someone like me, but it's also non-negotiably required to have anything become a continuous privilege for whom it may concern. I will not tolerate being gaslit, manipulated, emotional ***, nor any other forms of *** whatsoever. That shit is exactly what made me the kind of submissive that I am. Dominantly submissive. At least I got something out of it. I'm a fucking brat. I am open to being actually dominant, but understand that for me, that idea is almost completely uncharted territory. Until recently I had never even considered stepping into the dom side of things but that is now a possibility. So if you wanna be my slave, have patience, Master. Because I won't negotiate on the requirement of someone earning my trust to make that happen by first busting my ass and making sure I don't regret it. All the ways. 😘 You better like ass more than titties if you want to pursue anything because this ass is what makes the world continue to spin. So everyone else take ya seat. I may be an expert on the submission /dominance kink, but I'm a newbie when it comes to it's practice. Basically I've never gotten the opportunity to pursue anything of the sort and/or previous partners just couldn't get low like I require of myself. Please, for the love of GOD, change that by being my Orion with your belt ready to be applied how I require. No religious/religious adjacent roleplay. At all. literally none. This is the most important boundary of mine. It matters to my soul. A lot. Yes our partners must be prioritized before God but we cannot be God to our partners nor our loved ones. So even entertaining this blasphemous idea is THE non-occurrence is all of existence. It just would be problematic, no? Yes. It would be extremely problematic.

I'm a woman who knows exactly what she wants, complete devotion. I don’t just command respect; I expect it. My ideal partner is someone who finds true happiness in following my lead, obeying without hesitation, and making my pleasure their priority.

Hello and thank you for visiting my profile. I’m new to experiencing this type of thing but am not new to liking or being interested in it. I am very shy and will open up after a while. Partly for why I hid my face in my profile. I’m looking for friends mostly. I’m not able to drive because of my disability. I also live with my parents because of my disability. Sorry if this is a dealbreaker. I’m looking for couples and singles right now.

Very nervous about being on here, I originally had nsa down but after consideration changed to ltr due to still being a virgin and wanting my first time not just as a pick up Would prefer people who are nearby and can meet in person (unless you are a tist who is interested in vc) Very into bdsm, hypnosis, and several other kinks (like soft *** and misogyny)

Simply adorable, young, positive, easy and not choosy, nor moody girl! I am communicative and have many good friends, but not so many close ones. I can say I am very loyal in friendship and relationship, I can't stand cheating at all. I know what it takes to have unbreakable love. I have very friendly big family who support me in everything and my parents are really the best example of happy family life I'd dream to have too. I think I deserve the best man by my side as when I am in love, I am very much the best woman in the world.

I’m a domme looking to gain friends within the bdsm space and talk with fellow dommes and subs to improve my techniques and be inspired. Ask me what I’m into.

I’m a BBW straight up. If that’s an issue then please move on. Hopefully that will not be the case one day but for now it is. Looking to get my feet wet as a Sub. I like a man who tells me what to do. I like dirty talk- a man who tells me what a slut I am. I like being restrained and being used. If you play with my nipples a lot I will squirt. I love sucking cock, would love to try more face fucking. One of my fantasies is to be in a stockade and have one cock in my mouth and another in my pussy so I am open to a threesome (preferably 2 guys but willing to try another girl as well) in the future once I feel comfortable. Currently just into chatting. Husband knows I’m on here now. :) He’s ok with chats. PS-This is nothing personal but only into Doms (not open to switches right now). Also prefer to keep men in my age range (28-40ish).

I am just new and curious out here seeking for something real and interesting ... I've got less idea of how things work on here and also the terms on here .. I am a matured and open minded woman who like to surround myself with positive minded individual as i pride myself as one.

A woman who knows how to be gentle, affectionate, like a cat, but I can also be a tigress when you need to protect your loved ones. I love comfort, walks, coffee in the morning and surprises. I love a bright life with emotions, a boring fresh life is not for me. Do you want such a woman to be next to you? Then write to me, we will definitely have something to talk about.

Am a 90"s style lover, divorced for 6 years now with 2 kids a 23 years old boy and a 20 years old girl

I would like to find a gentleman who combines generosity of heart with emotional intelligence. A man who is fun, who knows how to laugh heartily and enjoy life's simple moments, while still maintaining depth in his thoughts and conversations. I greatly value the ability to make others feel good through empathy and good humor. I admire intelligence, not only in the form of knowledge, but also in the form of wisdom to make decisions with maturity and vision.

I consider myself a simple woman, nice, easy to get along with, kind, respectful, loyal and very romantic.

I enjoy watching a man soften under my voice. That split second when he goes from stubborn to obedient… that’s the moment I own him. add me on $*** aurvixq

open, honest and understanding dialogue with your partner is the best safety which extends beyond physical measures. Let's discuss what we are curious about and let's listen to our thoughts and feelings.

Kinda shy person but easy to get along well very simple lady who enjoys both in and outdoors ,*** and nature

Well, my parents taught me to appreciate every moment and cherish the people who matter most. I’m a widow with one beautiful daughter who means the world to me. Family and friends are a big part of my life, and I love to laugh, smile, and make beautiful memories. I’m passionate about cooking, dancing, and spending time near the water—whether it’s a day at the beach or a peaceful boat cruise. The ocean has a way of calming my soul. I believe in kindness, honesty, and enjoying the simple things that bring happiness. I’m looking for someone genuine who values love, laughter, and companionship—someone ready to share life’s adventures, both big and small.

I’m an experienced lifestyle Femdom devoted to exploring the full spectrum of kink and fetish. As a sensual sadist, I thrive on the tension between ache and obedience, on that charged space where surrender becomes inevitable. My power is patient, precise, and inescapable, coiling around you until resistance dissolves. Pleasure for Me lies in guiding through the art of anticipation, the thrill of denial, and the freedom of consensually giving up control. Outside of fetish, I’m a goth/metal/neo-reggaeton enthusiast, erotic dancer, gamer, aspiring psychotherapist, fantasy nerd, scientist, and an unapologetic stoner who loves documentaries and horror films. Political awareness is the bare minimum for catching My interest. *mistressxevira everywhere

I'm very open minded and I don't like to put people in a box before I really get to know them . I'm very spontaneous and a bit of risk taker . I love going to the gym and also enjoy surfing

I am a very open minded person, someone who accepts people as they are. I am a fair individual who adapts to changes in life and enjoys life to the fullest and looking to meet a man that i can spend the rest of my life with in good times and in bad times as well

I love being in control of muscular black men. Be submissive to me at all time no matter what i say or how I say it. get on your knees and kiss my feet. I love to slap men when they disagree

Open to kink, but always with trust, intention, and consent. I’m attracted to confident people who understand that the best experiences start with communication and respect. If you value emotional intelligence and a slow, intentional connection, we’re already speaking the same language.

Needy, nerdy, and curvy Just looking for fun, flirty banter. Not really looking for more Not on as much. But if I’m here, I’m probably just horny. Getting to messages when I can. Not ignoring you 💗

🔥 Playful switch with a wicked imagination & velvet touch. Love trading power, teasing limits, and turning fantasies into pulse-racing reality. Networking? Yes. Swinging? Maybe. Pic swaps? Only if you can handle the heat. 😈✨ Come say hi… if you dare keep up.

Hard work has paved the way for my success, but I also want to enjoy the fun of life with my friends.

I’m just really into the idea of being absolutely used and ***d by men woman couples I just wanna be shit on and *** on. I want you to make me eat and drink it. Just do everything and anything you want to me.

meowwwwwww =(^.^)= i’m ivie welcome to my page :’) it’s so nice of you to stop by! I’m a 27 yro full-time student who likes to try new things! i’ve been a dom, i’ve been a switch, and now i want to try to be a sub. releasing control can be hard for me :( so I’ll need someone who can really get my mind numb and make me feel safe. Vanilla: I value curiosity a lot so I’m always trying and learning something new! I’ve developed alot of interest and hobbies because of that. Some of my current loves are: Writing The Beatles Plaster sculpting Good food Cosplaying Anime Singing The Criterion Channel Kink: I am discovering what I am into all over again. I thought I was only into breath play, rough sex, ***, *** and leading, but I’m moving into a much softer era. I still want to be fucked roughly and somewhat degraded but I also want to give total subbing a try. I want forehead kisses while I get stretched. I am very interested in being a kitten and trying a ddlg dynamic. Not mandatory though still doing *** and cucking :’)