* updated april 15th 24*
Hello all, welcome to my little kinky corner of fet.
Im 5 ft 9in and currently weigh 340 lbs
Below is my favorite quote:
* I am here . I have the courage to believe that matters. I have the strength to make a difference... To be different. Even with a empty hand, i have the means to give. I am free to become... To fail... To learn. I have the advantage of hope. I have the opportunity to love... To be loved. I have the wisdom to know its a gift... All. When i make my decision on how i am going to live this day, and it is a decision, i joyfully, responsibly, greatfully, face the world and say, i am here." Jodi hills.
This qoute also speaks volumes on how i view not only life but how i view bieing a sub.
For so long i have been going through life absent, not here. I have awoken and seen the beauty and power in failing... In love... In wisdom. I continue to learn and strive to face each day with new opportunities.
I am human i make mistakes. Especially with spelling and grammar please be patient with me.
Ive been in the kink world for almost 9 years now, munches, house parties, old gaurd ceremonyss and small events included.
Non kink wise i enjoy crafting, hiking. camping and gaming.
I have listened to the book " how to be a happy and healthy submissive" by Kate Kinsey, and recommend it to any one new or that needs a refesher on bdsm roots and simplicity. Though it does miss things like the leather community start amd view point is from a female sub and follows only SSC.
below is a list of things i have tried and i am into, in alphabetical order:
A: Affection, aftercare, age play, anal hooks, anal sex, anal training.
B: ball gags, bare handed spanking, bareback, bastinado, bathroom use control, bdsm, begging, being choked, being pinned against the wall and fingered, ben wa balls, biting, blindfolds, blow jobs, body paint, bondage, bondage tape ,boot worship, boudoir phototography, breast whipping, breast/nipple play, breath play, bruises, bullwhips, butt plugs.
C: caging/confinement, candle wax, caning, caressing, chains, choke me while you kiss me, choking play, clamps, claws, cling film, clit pumping, clit spanking, clothspins, cock milking, cock worship, cock sucking, collars, consensual nonconsent play, corset training, corsetry, creampie, crops, cross-dressing, cuddles, cuddling naked.
D: daddy pumping my clit and fucking my pussy, deep throating, dildos, discipline, doctor/nurse play, dollification, duct tape.
E: e-stim, eating pussy, edge play, edging, electrical play, erotic massage, erotic photography, exhibitionism, eye contact restrictions.
F: face fucking, face slapping, fear play, feet, fellatio, finger fucking her in a public place, fire cupping, fire play, fisting, flirting, flogging, feet, forehead kisses.
G: gagging/choked by cock, gags, gender play, golden shower.
H: hair bondage, hair pulling, handcuffs, high heels, high protocol, honesty, human doll, human furniture, humiliation in public.
I: ice cubes, impact play, inflatables, interrogation.
K: Kinky cosmetology, kissing, kitten petplay, kneeling.
L: leather, light bondage.
M: masochism, massages, master/slave, masturbation, mmf threesomes, multiple orgasms, mummification, mutual masturbation.
N: nipples, nudity, nylon rope.
O: obedience training, old guard slavery, older men, orgasam control, orgasam denial, outdoor sex.
P: paddling, pet play, piercings, polyamory, porn, power exchange, pressure points, protocol, public humiliation, pussy pumping.
R: remote-control devices, role play, rope bondage/suspension, rough sex.
S: sadism, sadistic chiropractors, saran wrap, schoolgirl uniform, scratching, self-bondage,sensation play, sensory deprivation, service-oriented submission, sex, sex in public, shibari, shower sex, single tail whips, slapping, sleepy sex, sluts, small tits, snuggling, spanking, speculums, spreader bars, submission, subspace, suspension, suspension bondage.
T: talking dirty, tattoos, tearing off clothing, teasing, tens unit, threesomes, tit fucking, tit slapping, toes, touching, toes, two-girl blowjobs.
U: urethral fucking, urethral sounds.
V: vacuum pumping, vaginal fisting, vaginal stretching, verbal humiliation and degradation, vibrators, violet wands, voyeurism.
W: wartenberg pinwheels, water sports & golden showers, wax play, whips, writing erotica.
Curious About:
A: abduction play (receiving), anal chastity.
F: fire flogging, foursomes.
G: gangbangs.
L: lactation.
M: making home movies, medical play, medieval devices, military interrogation.
N: needle play.
P: pony play.
R: racks.
S: strappado bondage.
T: thigh cuffs, triple penetration.
V: vacuum bed.
W: waterboarding, waterbondage.
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