[Updated: 6-18-2026]
UNSOLICITED FRIEND REQUESTS WILL BE IMMEDIATELY BLOCKED.
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Saying this once, if you don't adhere you will be IMMEDIATELY BLOCKED and NOT missed. I am cupiosexual- meaning I don't experience sexual attraction or get horny. Talking about sex genuinely repulses me. I am here for BDSM— not sex. If you don't understand the difference then please don't text me, you're NOT who I'm looking for. I have sex for the sensations and bonding experience- NOT because I crave it or am horny. I don't want to hear your gross fantasies, you're not going to turn me on by telling me about what you want to do to me, ! promise. DO NOT TALK TO ME ABOUT SEX. This is your one and final warning.
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The following bio is very clear about what I’m looking for & who I am. Before sending any message, I suggest if you have (or could have) romantic/sexual or even platonic intentions with me, read through the following thoroughly. It’s a 3-5 minute read, if that is too much of an inconvenience to you, please do not message me, I’m not interested in people who want to talk to me only because they find me physically attractive.
*Kinks*
I am a sub leaning switch. Fully bisexual 🏳️🌈, fully nonmonogamous ♾️, on the asexuality spectrum as a cupiosexual. I enjoy domestic discipline, bondage, petplay, ageplay, impact, electricity, sensory deprivation, chastity, dollification, and ***. Also a BIG fan of group play, dungeon events and all thinks kinky. BDSM is my life passion and I hope to be a kink educator one day.
I am a princess 💅 and love to be spoiled & pampered. I love a Dom/me that challenges me while still providing frequent opportunities to be a good girl. I like to earn praise, I’m a massive praise slut and will go to great lengths to get it. I don’t like praise being given easily, I’m extremely capable as a submissive and enjoy being able to prove so through completing difficult tasks. I’m an emotional/physical masochist so I love mindfucking and meaner/sadistic Dom/mes. Definitely an alpha sub, I like assisting my Dominant with logistical/administrative tasks. I’m ambitious and know exactly what I want and need and won’t budge on it. Not AT ALL interested in the more vanilla side of things (just fucking/bjs), that being said I love rough, hard sex and am a nympho 110%, I do prefer the power exchange and domestic discipline side of things more. I also love age gaps (always older) and prefer 30-60 ideally.
As a Domme I’m a sweetly sadistic Mommy Domme, I’m an emotional sadist and love gaslighting my sub, I’ll make them thank me for how loving and gentle Mommy is being while bruising and abusing them ;) Not really much of a verbal degrader, but I do like assigning degrading tasks/punishments.
*IN YOUR INTRODUCTORY MESSAGE TO ME;*
Please include details about your past experiences, roles, general favorite kinks/fantasies, and what you’re looking for. I am PICKY about the people I choose to spend my time with. We will establish a kinky friendship before anything else, please have good communication skills and be honest and upfront about your wants and needs, I will naturally do the same. Thoroughness & thoughtfulness will take you far with me. I only surround myself with qualities I wouldn’t mind absorbing, so I have high standards. Artists, poets/writers, scientists, historians, healthcare workers and service members/veterans to the front please 💙🇺🇸!!! Zero tolerance policy for disrespect or abusing trust, you MIGHT get one chance, if you offend in a non malicious way, I will talk it through civilly before jumping to conclusions. Absolutely no nonconsensual *** allowed, there’s a lot of people that love me in this world and not a damn thing is going to let me tolerated be treated in a way they wouldn’t want for me.
*Vetting process*
My Dom/Dommes generally are my protectors/guardians and are great people to reach out to about vetting/past experiences with me. Please be extremely respectful, do NOT make a fool of yourself or me. My Dominants always are massive on trust and respect. They can also answer questions around my limits/boundaries as they’re very familiar with them. Pls let me know if you’re wanting to reach out to a specific one ahead of time. Do not reach out to them to ask to play with me, I am fully autonomous and can speak for myself when it comes to that.
*IF I DIDN'T RESPOND;*
Your message was probably too short or vague, you didn’t read my bio (and said something that shows you didn’t), or if it is long & thorough, I more than likely missed it in my DMs and feel free to follow up or bump your message.
