BDSM Dating in Indianapolis

I'm looking for a couple or for a dominant woman who has a very kinky desire. I'm a bi submissive crossdresser who mainly is a bottom although I switch if it's someone who is sexy and looks like female. Some of what I'm into is bondage++++, goldenshowers, , public/exhibition, group. The things I'm strict on being a no go is CBT, feet, , kissing men.im clean and disease free and wish to stay that way! I prefer to host but am mobile for right circumstance