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I am an older man with all parts working. As a submissive, with no bdsm experience, will be open to learning bdsm from a experienced male. Interests include, but not limited to flogging, cbt, nipple work, anal work (fisting) branding.
Male (72) Goshen, Indiana
Im 6 foot 7 and wear a chastity cage full time, looking for the right guy to hold the keys
Male (22) Columbia City, Indiana
Demisexual seeking a deep and powerful connection I've rewritten this profile more times than I care to admit, so at this point I'm just going to say what I actually mean. I'm here because I genuinely want to meet someone. Not collect messages, endlessly text, trade a few pictures, or have a conversation that disappears three days later. I'm demisexual, so connection matters tremendously to me. Attraction grows through trust, consistency, chemistry, emotional intimacy, and actually getting to know one another. Right now, I'm primarily looking for a playmate, someone I have genuine chemistry with, can explore with, and can develop trust and comfort with over time. I'm not expecting someone to walk into my life and immediately become my Dominant or partner. I'd actually rather let that develop naturally through our experiences together. If we enjoy playing together, genuinely like one another as people, build trust, and discover that there's something deeper between us, I'm absolutely open to that playmate becoming much more. Ultimately, I would love to find a Dominant with whom a meaningful power-exchange relationship develops. But I'm not interested in forcing a relationship into existence before we've had the opportunity to find out whether we're actually compatible. Power exchange means something to me. I want the kind of connection where the emotional bond makes the D/s more powerful, not one where D/s is simply something we turn on when it's convenient. And there's an important distinction here: my personality and my role are not the same thing. Outside of my submissive role, I'm independent, direct, opinionated, capable, and sometimes stubborn as hell. I have my own life, responsibilities, thoughts, and voice. Being submissive doesn't mean being meek, passive, ***, or incapable of standing my ground. My submission is something very different. With a man I deeply trust and respect, I want to be able to put down some, if not all, of that control. I want a Dominant whose character and leadership make me want to follow him. For me, surrender has meaning precisely because I'm not someone who simply surrenders to everybody. That's also why traditional leather values matter so much to me: integrity, respect, trust, loyalty, and honor. Those aren't just nice words for a profile. If you say you're going to do something, do it. If plans change, communicate. Be honest. Be dependable. Treat people with dignity. Let your actions back up what you say. I've been around long enough to know that calling yourself a Dominant or a leatherman doesn't automatically make someone either one. I'm interested in the man underneath the title. I'm also pretty friendly when you actually get to know me. I can joke around, laugh at myself, be affectionate, have ridiculous conversations, and genuinely enjoy someone's company. This profile is serious because I'm serious about what I'm looking for. It's been hard to find people interested in developing something substantial. So much of the interaction here feels hypersexual, transactional, disposable, or based entirely around texting. That's simply not what I'm looking for. I've been on and off this site for a very long time. I'm not interested in pretending that another empty interaction is somehow fulfilling just because it's better than nothing. I'd rather wait for something real. So, IF you're serious, I'm here. If you're a man who genuinely values connection, keeps his word, understands that trust is earned over time, and would like a playmate you can actually get to know, not just someone you meet once and forget about, I'd genuinely like to hear from you. Maybe we simply become great playmates. Maybe, with time, trust, chemistry, and shared experience, it develops into a deeper D/s relationship. I'm open to discovering that rather than demanding it from day one. I'm looking for substance, consistency, character, chemistry, and something that has the potential to grow. I'm here, willing to listen and follow.
Male (43) Indianapolis, Indiana
Hey I'm vers looking for fun. I'm pretty open to explore, just don't do *** or ***. I don't host, only travel. usually like to plan meet ups
Male (22) Logansport, Indiana
I’m looking for either a long-term relationship or genuine friendships. Not into hookups, conservatives, or anyone who voted for the deranged Cheeto. F’ 🧊 I love to cook, game, and binge watch the latest shows. If you’d want to go out and explore nature then I’m down for that too. However, I do try and avoid large groups of people. If you're someone who values meaningful connection and the occasional game night, we’ll probably get along great. Pan, emotionally driven.
Male (33) Camby, Indiana
Tie me up tight. Hood and gag me. Tickle, tease, and edge me. Humiliate me. Use me as a footrest. *** me to worship your feet. Love mummification, breath control, extended scenes. Don’t love giving oral. Not looking to be fucked.
Male (41) New Whiteland, Indiana
big, happy, vers bottom, gay boi. who likes name calling,body contact, body hair, pits, light choking, dom/sub, and deep throating! looking for a long-term relationship. would like to find a dom top. or a vers dom/sub switch like myself. Into inclusive fwb for sexual safety reasons when trusting a dom to explore with. snap is adriaaannnn
Male (32) Muncie, Indiana
deaf guy who’s looking for fun and exploring kinkier side of things. I’m leaning towards submissive but like to switch every now and then. depends on the chemistry.
Male (33) Brooklyn, Indiana
I'm a chaotic, somewhat quiet guy with a lot of personality once I get comfortable. I have ADD and Asperger's, so my brain can be a little all over the place and old habits sometimes die hard. πŸ˜… I'm really into gaming, cooking, airsoft, music, and meeting new people. I'm usually pretty quiet at first, but once I'm comfortable, the chaos tends to come out. I'm here to meet people, make connections, have some fun, and see where things go. I'm pretty open-minded, but communication, respect, and knowing each other's boundaries matter to me.
Male (24) Greenwood, Indiana
I like men! I like a variety of men. men who dress up below the waist in pretty things and want me to remove them. men who just want to be used for fun. men who are muscled and who have dad bods, not in really large guys as I am smaller but love tall and short men. love underwear. love a clean guy and a rugged guy. top mostly and love a nice bubble butt
Male (41) Newburgh, Indiana
Lots of interests, open to many things. me - more of a daddy/dom type. enjoy working out in the home gym. generally like men smaller than me; skinny to HWP. interested in subs/bois.
Male (51) Indianapolis, Indiana
for the ones who made it this far I might look masc but baby lemme open my mouth before you judge me 😝 What I like in a sexual manner- making out, spitting, biting, I’m all about being marked haha. Nipple play drives me wild πŸ€ͺ, having my ass eaten, light choking, spanking (give me a nice handprint), I love pleasing you, so fucking my face and jerking you off won’t be a problem. Tie me up and use me however you want I’ve got some toys but definitely want more. 69 is a favorite, and honestly, I’m basically at your disposal if that makes sense
Male (29) Alexandria, Indiana
Direct interests include bondage, nipple play, edging, milking, sounding, sensory deprivation, breath play, pup handling, leather. Always willing to try most anything else. Twice.
Male (52) Indianapolis, Indiana
SC: Kodie2142 Into: Spanking, armpit hair, ***/pleasure, role-playing, kissing, oral, rimming, I only top, bandage, dress up, water sports, ***, cum, some feet I am 50/50 on dominant and submissive Fantasies: I would like to fuck a FTM with top done and ability to grow a beard. I want to try to DP a bottom. I would love to worship a young man by kissing, licking, and massaging him all over. It's even better if he doesn't pay attention to me or verbally humiliates me during. Tying a guy up and being allowed to do whatever I want to him. Different types of role-plays (ask) Blowing a guy fully clothed, him ***ing on me and sending me home in his ***. Having a guy's wife/gf tell me what to do to him Limits: ***, ***, illegal activities, weapons, beastiality, anything other than a tongue in my ass
Male (36) Staunton, Indiana
I am a 50-50 tickle switch excited about extended tickle scenes, and edging. Also turned on by electro. and nipple play
Male (55) Bloomington, Indiana
fellow autistic gay here πŸͺ© my hobbies and interests are anime, long walks, ***s/natural. info spong, so love dumping random info fun fact, black Panthers are just jaguars with their spotted fur being genetically mutated to look black due to a genetic condition called melanism I'm also a people pleaser despite my massive resting bitch face I do care a lot and we'll be there to listen to your problems even if it's at 4:00 a.m. I am also a massive cuddle buddy and enjoy physical contact I smoke nicotine and I don't mind a little drinking alcohol as long as we're indoors my kinks include biting , hair pulling, licking
Male (21) Indianapolis, Indiana
Recently divorced male/50 looking to explore sexuality as submissive bottom for kink and fetish play.
Male (54) Marion, Indiana
Cum eater, Ass eater and *** drinker, public, outdoors, and taking or making vids. All races prefer black and brown, freakier the better, can host too NE side Indy, nights and late nights best. Also kink for sleep play and drunks.
Male (53) Indianapolis, Indiana

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I am an older man with all parts working. As a submissive, with no bdsm experience, will be open to learning bdsm from a experienced male. Interests include, but not limited to flogging, cbt, nipple work, anal work (fisting) branding.
Male (72) Goshen, Indiana
Im 6 foot 7 and wear a chastity cage full time, looking for the right guy to hold the keys
Male (22) Columbia City, Indiana
fellow autistic gay here πŸͺ© my hobbies and interests are anime, long walks, ***s/natural. info spong, so love dumping random info fun fact, black Panthers are just jaguars with their spotted fur being genetically mutated to look black due to a genetic condition called melanism I'm also a people pleaser despite my massive resting bitch face I do care a lot and we'll be there to listen to your problems even if it's at 4:00 a.m. I am also a massive cuddle buddy and enjoy physical contact I smoke nicotine and I don't mind a little drinking alcohol as long as we're indoors my kinks include biting , hair pulling, licking
Male (21) Indianapolis, Indiana
Demisexual seeking a deep and powerful connection I've rewritten this profile more times than I care to admit, so at this point I'm just going to say what I actually mean. I'm here because I genuinely want to meet someone. Not collect messages, endlessly text, trade a few pictures, or have a conversation that disappears three days later. I'm demisexual, so connection matters tremendously to me. Attraction grows through trust, consistency, chemistry, emotional intimacy, and actually getting to know one another. Right now, I'm primarily looking for a playmate, someone I have genuine chemistry with, can explore with, and can develop trust and comfort with over time. I'm not expecting someone to walk into my life and immediately become my Dominant or partner. I'd actually rather let that develop naturally through our experiences together. If we enjoy playing together, genuinely like one another as people, build trust, and discover that there's something deeper between us, I'm absolutely open to that playmate becoming much more. Ultimately, I would love to find a Dominant with whom a meaningful power-exchange relationship develops. But I'm not interested in forcing a relationship into existence before we've had the opportunity to find out whether we're actually compatible. Power exchange means something to me. I want the kind of connection where the emotional bond makes the D/s more powerful, not one where D/s is simply something we turn on when it's convenient. And there's an important distinction here: my personality and my role are not the same thing. Outside of my submissive role, I'm independent, direct, opinionated, capable, and sometimes stubborn as hell. I have my own life, responsibilities, thoughts, and voice. Being submissive doesn't mean being meek, passive, ***, or incapable of standing my ground. My submission is something very different. With a man I deeply trust and respect, I want to be able to put down some, if not all, of that control. I want a Dominant whose character and leadership make me want to follow him. For me, surrender has meaning precisely because I'm not someone who simply surrenders to everybody. That's also why traditional leather values matter so much to me: integrity, respect, trust, loyalty, and honor. Those aren't just nice words for a profile. If you say you're going to do something, do it. If plans change, communicate. Be honest. Be dependable. Treat people with dignity. Let your actions back up what you say. I've been around long enough to know that calling yourself a Dominant or a leatherman doesn't automatically make someone either one. I'm interested in the man underneath the title. I'm also pretty friendly when you actually get to know me. I can joke around, laugh at myself, be affectionate, have ridiculous conversations, and genuinely enjoy someone's company. This profile is serious because I'm serious about what I'm looking for. It's been hard to find people interested in developing something substantial. So much of the interaction here feels hypersexual, transactional, disposable, or based entirely around texting. That's simply not what I'm looking for. I've been on and off this site for a very long time. I'm not interested in pretending that another empty interaction is somehow fulfilling just because it's better than nothing. I'd rather wait for something real. So, IF you're serious, I'm here. If you're a man who genuinely values connection, keeps his word, understands that trust is earned over time, and would like a playmate you can actually get to know, not just someone you meet once and forget about, I'd genuinely like to hear from you. Maybe we simply become great playmates. Maybe, with time, trust, chemistry, and shared experience, it develops into a deeper D/s relationship. I'm open to discovering that rather than demanding it from day one. I'm looking for substance, consistency, character, chemistry, and something that has the potential to grow. I'm here, willing to listen and follow.
Male (43) Indianapolis, Indiana
Cum eater, Ass eater and *** drinker, public, outdoors, and taking or making vids. All races prefer black and brown, freakier the better, can host too NE side Indy, nights and late nights best. Also kink for sleep play and drunks.
Male (53) Indianapolis, Indiana
I like men! I like a variety of men. men who dress up below the waist in pretty things and want me to remove them. men who just want to be used for fun. men who are muscled and who have dad bods, not in really large guys as I am smaller but love tall and short men. love underwear. love a clean guy and a rugged guy. top mostly and love a nice bubble butt
Male (41) Newburgh, Indiana
I'm a chaotic, somewhat quiet guy with a lot of personality once I get comfortable. I have ADD and Asperger's, so my brain can be a little all over the place and old habits sometimes die hard. πŸ˜… I'm really into gaming, cooking, airsoft, music, and meeting new people. I'm usually pretty quiet at first, but once I'm comfortable, the chaos tends to come out. I'm here to meet people, make connections, have some fun, and see where things go. I'm pretty open-minded, but communication, respect, and knowing each other's boundaries matter to me.
Male (24) Greenwood, Indiana
for the ones who made it this far I might look masc but baby lemme open my mouth before you judge me 😝 What I like in a sexual manner- making out, spitting, biting, I’m all about being marked haha. Nipple play drives me wild πŸ€ͺ, having my ass eaten, light choking, spanking (give me a nice handprint), I love pleasing you, so fucking my face and jerking you off won’t be a problem. Tie me up and use me however you want I’ve got some toys but definitely want more. 69 is a favorite, and honestly, I’m basically at your disposal if that makes sense
Male (29) Alexandria, Indiana
SC: Kodie2142 Into: Spanking, armpit hair, ***/pleasure, role-playing, kissing, oral, rimming, I only top, bandage, dress up, water sports, ***, cum, some feet I am 50/50 on dominant and submissive Fantasies: I would like to fuck a FTM with top done and ability to grow a beard. I want to try to DP a bottom. I would love to worship a young man by kissing, licking, and massaging him all over. It's even better if he doesn't pay attention to me or verbally humiliates me during. Tying a guy up and being allowed to do whatever I want to him. Different types of role-plays (ask) Blowing a guy fully clothed, him ***ing on me and sending me home in his ***. Having a guy's wife/gf tell me what to do to him Limits: ***, ***, illegal activities, weapons, beastiality, anything other than a tongue in my ass
Male (36) Staunton, Indiana
Lots of interests, open to many things. me - more of a daddy/dom type. enjoy working out in the home gym. generally like men smaller than me; skinny to HWP. interested in subs/bois.
Male (51) Indianapolis, Indiana
Tie me up tight. Hood and gag me. Tickle, tease, and edge me. Humiliate me. Use me as a footrest. *** me to worship your feet. Love mummification, breath control, extended scenes. Don’t love giving oral. Not looking to be fucked.
Male (41) New Whiteland, Indiana
deaf guy who’s looking for fun and exploring kinkier side of things. I’m leaning towards submissive but like to switch every now and then. depends on the chemistry.
Male (33) Brooklyn, Indiana
Direct interests include bondage, nipple play, edging, milking, sounding, sensory deprivation, breath play, pup handling, leather. Always willing to try most anything else. Twice.
Male (52) Indianapolis, Indiana
I am a 50-50 tickle switch excited about extended tickle scenes, and edging. Also turned on by electro. and nipple play
Male (55) Bloomington, Indiana
I’m looking for either a long-term relationship or genuine friendships. Not into hookups, conservatives, or anyone who voted for the deranged Cheeto. F’ 🧊 I love to cook, game, and binge watch the latest shows. If you’d want to go out and explore nature then I’m down for that too. However, I do try and avoid large groups of people. If you're someone who values meaningful connection and the occasional game night, we’ll probably get along great. Pan, emotionally driven.
Male (33) Camby, Indiana
Hey I'm vers looking for fun. I'm pretty open to explore, just don't do *** or ***. I don't host, only travel. usually like to plan meet ups
Male (22) Logansport, Indiana
Recently divorced male/50 looking to explore sexuality as submissive bottom for kink and fetish play.
Male (54) Marion, Indiana
big, happy, vers bottom, gay boi. who likes name calling,body contact, body hair, pits, light choking, dom/sub, and deep throating! looking for a long-term relationship. would like to find a dom top. or a vers dom/sub switch like myself. Into inclusive fwb for sexual safety reasons when trusting a dom to explore with. snap is adriaaannnn
Male (32) Muncie, Indiana

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