Let me just be upfront and honest right out the gate. Communication is huge for me, so I’m happy to match that energy, lay it all out there, and see if our vibes align. I live in Iowa. As for what I'm looking for and who I am, here is the full, unfiltered rundown:
My Family & Relationship Dynamic
I’m a 5'10", 317lb (and losing) stay-at-home mom to two amazing daughters (7 and 9) who are my absolute world. Their dad is my best friend, my biggest supporter, and my boyfriend/fiancé of 10 years. We are happily Non-Monogamous/Polyamorous/Open (he is bisexual, and I am possibly bicurious).
What I'm looking for: Ultimately, I'm looking for a second male partner to build a genuine life with. I want someone to share love, attention, and goals with, and who wants to be part of our lives.
The Golden Rule: No man will ever replace the father of my ***. I value him endlessly, but I have plenty of love, care, and attention to dish out to someone who can match my effort.
My Vibe & Boundaries
I am a bubbly, ADHD mom who is a million different people in one—you never know exactly which personality you'll get, but I'm always genuine! I love the idea of catching a vibe, going with the flow, and building a snuggly connection.
The Dealbreakers: My patience runs thin for games. I’ve dealt with people who disappear the second I set a boundary, or who communicate poorly. Safety for me and my kids is paramount, so I have zero tolerance for dishonesty, hidden records, or people who are just after one thing.
Passions, Hobbies, & Favorites
Professionally, I have a BA in Human Services and almost had my MA but I trusted the wrong person and got burned hard. Right now, I'm just focusing on taking care of my family and figuring out my next steps. When I have free time, here is what I love:
Activities: The gym, hiking, video games, photography, baking, cookimg, cleaning, and visiting zoos, aquariums, and museums. I love to travel, as long as I don't have to do the driving.
Favorites: The color blue, sparkles, rainbows, elephants, fall weather (but summer clothes!), sushi, fruit, and nachos.
My Love Language: Romance, kissing in the rain, PDA, giant bear hugs, and being absolutely drowned in attention.
Oh, and just to give you an idea of my "types" to see if we match: think Jax Teller, Spencer Reid, Dean Winchester, Klaus Mikaelson, Christian Grey, and Adam Sandler, just to name a few 🤣.
How do your relationship goals and hobbies align with what I'm looking for?
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