!! I read all the messages I receive, if I didn’t respond, it’s because you didn’t read my bio !!
let my username speak for itself~ I’m an all-around praise slut & good girl, looking for her next opportunity to serve a Dom/me that will challenge me to become a better version of myself through discipline and reward. I am a switch as well and love experimenting and exploring new kinks/scene ideas.
Non-negotiables for any dynamic I consider:
-no long distance whatsoever. if you’re willing to drive far for me/fly me out that’s one thing, but I am not at all interested in any form of online exclusivity. I will not respond to messages from people over 200 miles away, if you’re hoping to be an exception please be very clear in your initial message that you ARE willing to travel/pay for my transportation in order to meet within the next month.
-trust and friendship are the foundations of any kinky dynamic ALWAYS. i only surround myself with people I genuinely look up to, and I make no exception for kink partners.
-at this very moment I recently left a long term relationship, I’m not looking for anything romantic long term yet (I will be eventually). I’m mostly focused on networking & rebuilding my standards for myself.
-headpats, forehead kisses and “good girl!” always!! I’m HUGE on physical touch and verbal affirmations, ask for consent first but don’t be shy 😊
-I’m not interested in monogamy at the moment, though I am clean & tested regularly and expect ALL potential partners to either show evidence of regular testing or use skin barriers (condoms, dental dams etc).
-I am quite experienced in this community despite my age, I’ve done kinky content creation, gone to dungeon events, explored rope bondage (both tying & being tied), restraints, impact play, many different forms of power exchange and roleplay, and played in many different group settings. I hope to meet someone with the same passion and enthusiasm for BDSM. Similar or greater experience level is a MASSIVE plus. please mention your experience level as we get acquainted.
-I have the most experience in roles such as: spoiled babygirl, princess, pet (fox, puppy, kitten), slave, rope slut, gentle Mommy, sweetly sadistic Domme and also some light experience as a rope top.
-I am VERY interested in women— especially dominant ones. please don’t be shy to message first.
-the best way to get my attention is to treat me with respect and dignity, and let the kinky stuff work itself out as time goes on. Nothing makes me block faster than describing a fantasy about me in your FIRST message to me. At least ask for permission ffs.
-sex isn’t the most important thing to me, perhaps not even top 5. kink & BDSM are MUCH more important to me than sex. if you’re trying to bust a nut, go find one of the millions of vanilla women out there looking for casual sex. if you’re looking to genuinely explore BDSM and all the wonderful & strange feelings and experiences that come with that— please introduce yourself.
#*IN YOUR INTRODUCTORY MESSAGE TO ME;*
Please include details about your past experiences, roles, general favorite kinks/fantasies, and what you’re looking for. I am PICKY about the people I choose to spend my time with. We will establish a kinky friendship before anything else, please have good communication skills and be honest and upfront about your wants and needs, I will naturally do the same. Thoroughness & thoughtfulness will take you far with me. I only surround myself with qualities I wouldn’t mind absorbing, so I have high standards. Zero tolerance policy for disrespect or abusing trust, you MIGHT get one chance, if you offend in a non malicious way, I will talk it through civilly before jumping to conclusions. Absolutely no nonconsensual *** allowed, there’s a lot of people that love me in this world and not a damn thing is going to let me tolerated be treated in a way they wouldn’t want for me.
#*Vetting process*
My Dom/Dommes generally are my protectors/guardians and are great people to reach out to about vetting/past experiences with me. Please be extremely respectful, do NOT make a fool of yourself or me. My Dominants always are massive on trust and respect. They can also answer questions around my limits/boundaries as they’re very familiar with them. Pls let me know if you’re wanting to reach out to a specific one ahead of time.
#*IF I DIDN'T RESPOND;*
Your message was probably too short or vague, you didn’t read my bio at all, or if it is long & thorough, I missed it in my DMs and feel free to follow up or bump your message.
