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Sharp, self-directed, and fully aware of my value. I don’t perform for attention, I control it. Selective with my time and energy. I read people quickly and don’t entertain neediness, inconsistency, or anything ***d. There’s a grounded intensity to me. I can be warm and playful, but never careless. When I give attention, it means something. When I pull it back, that means something too. I prefer dynamics with structure, respect, and a natural understanding of roles. I don’t need constant presence or validation. Space is part of the dynamic. If you’re in my orbit, it’s earned and maintained, not assumed.
Female (39) Lenexa, Kansas
I enjoy exploring chemistry with people who know how to communicate and keep things respectful. I’m open-minded to new ideas of having fun. I like a bit of naughtiness, but with respect and chemistry.
Female (51) Lenexa, Kansas
"Some women, they only Dominate through ***. I think pleasure can be a greater ***." ~ Maitresse Madeline "Control is about power.......not position." ~ Me If you're not 100% single, don't contact me. Also, if you're a Republican and voted for tRump, move on. If you're younger then 36, or older then 58, please move on. The only reason I don't have a face pic on here is because of my job. I'm more then willing to share one once we've gotten to know each other better. I've never been a writer, for some reason I find it difficult to express myself in writing. Part of the problem is my brain is usually thinking at least 3 sentences ahead of my fingers, so I tend to get a little muddled, or ramble. So, that being said........ I'm a Mother, a BBW, and would love to gain some real life experience in the lifestyle. I identify myself as a BDSM Mistress/Domme, simply because the definition is more fluid for me. I'm a very easy-going type person, too many things have changed in my life suddenly, and sometimes for no reason, for me to get too hung up on changes. As long as I retain final say in all things, and hard limits arent breached, then everything else is negotiable. I've been told, more then once, that I rule with my heart. I believe that to be very true. There is nothing ***d, or fake about my Dominance, it simply....is. I prefer to guide along my path with Love, and praise, rather then rule with *** and ***, though, of course, I reserve the right to inflict *** as I see fit. I'm an extremely honest person, even if it does not benefit me, or hurts me, I'll tell the truth. Most people can't handle that. If you don't want the truth, then don't ask me. Okay, so, finally on to what I'm seeking in a boy...... I want someone who is able to fascinate me on an intellectual level, an achiever, successful, and confident. He is not weak, he does not need me to cope with life, he doesn't bend to everybody - but he gifts himself to me and submits to my wishes. He is my most treasured, precious possession, and though I will sometimes hurt him, I would never harm him. I'd prefer someone who is bi, or at least curious, but if you're not, its not a deal-breaker. If you dont live in Kansas, then you must be willing to relocate. Anything beyond that, well, we can discuss. And with that all being said......if you're still reading, you must be at least a little bit interested, so message me before you lose your nerve.........
Female (49) Lenexa, Kansas
i’m 5’7. i smoke wayyyy too much weed. idrk what im doing on here but im open to anything (i do sell spicy content for my freaks)
Female (24) Lenexa, Kansas
I'm a submissive booktok girlie. I'm shy until I'm not. I'm looking for a monogamous relationship that explores my kinks. I'm nerdy, dirty, inked and curvy.
Female (41) Lenexa, Kansas
hi, I'm tree . I'm looking for men who wanna be ***gies, dominatrix inquiries, .... I also ***t 🤷🏼🤌🏻 yes I make content, no I don't have a link other than my cash tag. $treesuhdude
Female (28) Lenexa, Kansas
Usually a sub personality, but sometimes feel in the mood to switch. Be warned, I'm an extremely sensual creature. I'm tired of lackluster efforts and immediate roughness. Be comfortable enough in your femininity/masculinity/energy to temper your hardness with soft moments, breathlessness, and silly giggles. Tie me up anytime, but do it with intentionality and care. Into bondage play and some impact and breath play. Just looking for some fun dalliances. Let's grab a bite, have a moment, and share some cuddles together. **if you are right-leaning, we definitely will not get along. please continue on**
Female (30) Lenexa, Kansas
New to this and working on figuring out what I'm into! Kind, smart, funny, open-minded. 😊
Female (27) Lenexa, Kansas
19 - Just got out a crappy relationship, be my rebound? Friends w benefits or casual sex pls and no older than 25! PLEASE BE ABLE TO HOST
Female (20) Lenexa, Kansas
I can be out going, life of the party type person, the quite people watcher, or even the bitch that takes no shit. I read the room and people to determine which side I'm gonna show. Now don't get me wrong, I also enjoy being playful, flirty, and a bit of a brat at times, but that's where you come in....you ready to dive down this rabbit hole and see what kind of adventures we can come up with? I'm not paying for this so you'll have to send me a message if you wanna chat!
Female (42) Lenexa, Kansas
My first relationship I was young and it was where I found out I enjoy voyeurism. My second relationship (who I married and was with for 18 years) was very vanilla and very little interaction. Now I’m single and I have been able to start exploring my curiosity and understanding what I like and what I don’t. Still very new to a lot and learning.
Female (37) Lenexa, Kansas
couples where u at? lets have some fun 🥰 open relationship we play together and solo not down to just sext/want to meet and have some fun looking for people close by, not tryna travel far/ not interested in those who travel, would love to find ppl who live near by and want some consistency 😇😇😜🤭
Female (23) Lenexa, Kansas
Soft but strong, sweet with a little edge I know what I bring to the table and I’m not afraid to build it bigger. Looking for someone who’s about growth, fun, and real connection.
Female (39) Lenexa, Kansas
Sweet, grounded, and drama-free. I’m drawn to confident, established men who enjoy providing, spoiling, and being generous with someone who truly appreciates it. I value discretion, consistency, and a mutually beneficial dynamic built on respect, connection, and good energy. If generosity and taking care of your person isn’t your style, we’re probably not the right match. Looking for quality, not quantity.
Female (33) Lenexa, Kansas
hey! I’m Malloree, I’m 28, a mom to 4 and have the most handsome man that shares a 25 year age gap with me, we are looking to open up to more adventure in our intimate life and try new things!
Female (28) Lenexa, Kansas
MAKE SURE YOU READ THEE ENTIRE PROFILE!!! NO NEED TO WAIST TIME IF YOU ARE NOT INTO WHAT I'M INTO!!! I Am A Dom of Very Few Words! Feel Free To Ask What You Want Until I Say Otherwise!!!
Female (25) Lenexa, Kansas
I’m naturally pretty shy at first, but once I’m comfortable my personality comes out. I tend to be more on the quiet, soft-spoken side and I really appreciate someone who’s confident and knows how to take the lead. I’m drawn to people who are a little more dominant, protective, and sure of themselves—it helps balance me out. I love good conversation, laughing over random things, and spending time with someone who makes me feel safe being my authentic self.
Female (18) Lenexa, Kansas
The way to my heart is through massages. Looking for a pleasure ***/caregiver. I want to explore my submissive side, I’m a bit of a brat, and curious about being a little/middle. I’m pretty independent but struggle with making sure I take care of myself. Just looking to seeing what’s out there and if a relationship blooms I’d love with that. I do date to marry. Down to try many new things!! Not a huge on lots of *** but some is good. Nervous but I want try experiencing more of my little/middle side with the right person. I’m a booktok girly…do what you wish with that info. I also don’t mind sending a pic of myself once we get to chatting - too many creeps made me uncomfortable to have it public I’m sorry! I’m blonde with decently long hair, blueish green eyes, curvy with big thighs and stomach, decent smile, a few tattoos, and only pierced ears no other piercings (yet)!
Female (22) Lenexa, Kansas

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Sharp, self-directed, and fully aware of my value. I don’t perform for attention, I control it. Selective with my time and energy. I read people quickly and don’t entertain neediness, inconsistency, or anything ***d. There’s a grounded intensity to me. I can be warm and playful, but never careless. When I give attention, it means something. When I pull it back, that means something too. I prefer dynamics with structure, respect, and a natural understanding of roles. I don’t need constant presence or validation. Space is part of the dynamic. If you’re in my orbit, it’s earned and maintained, not assumed.
Female (39) Lenexa, Kansas
I enjoy exploring chemistry with people who know how to communicate and keep things respectful. I’m open-minded to new ideas of having fun. I like a bit of naughtiness, but with respect and chemistry.
Female (51) Lenexa, Kansas
hi, I'm tree . I'm looking for men who wanna be ***gies, dominatrix inquiries, .... I also ***t 🤷🏼🤌🏻 yes I make content, no I don't have a link other than my cash tag. $treesuhdude
Female (28) Lenexa, Kansas
I can be out going, life of the party type person, the quite people watcher, or even the bitch that takes no shit. I read the room and people to determine which side I'm gonna show. Now don't get me wrong, I also enjoy being playful, flirty, and a bit of a brat at times, but that's where you come in....you ready to dive down this rabbit hole and see what kind of adventures we can come up with? I'm not paying for this so you'll have to send me a message if you wanna chat!
Female (42) Lenexa, Kansas
I'm a submissive booktok girlie. I'm shy until I'm not. I'm looking for a monogamous relationship that explores my kinks. I'm nerdy, dirty, inked and curvy.
Female (41) Lenexa, Kansas
Soft but strong, sweet with a little edge I know what I bring to the table and I’m not afraid to build it bigger. Looking for someone who’s about growth, fun, and real connection.
Female (39) Lenexa, Kansas
I’m naturally pretty shy at first, but once I’m comfortable my personality comes out. I tend to be more on the quiet, soft-spoken side and I really appreciate someone who’s confident and knows how to take the lead. I’m drawn to people who are a little more dominant, protective, and sure of themselves—it helps balance me out. I love good conversation, laughing over random things, and spending time with someone who makes me feel safe being my authentic self.
Female (18) Lenexa, Kansas
My first relationship I was young and it was where I found out I enjoy voyeurism. My second relationship (who I married and was with for 18 years) was very vanilla and very little interaction. Now I’m single and I have been able to start exploring my curiosity and understanding what I like and what I don’t. Still very new to a lot and learning.
Female (37) Lenexa, Kansas
couples where u at? lets have some fun 🥰 open relationship we play together and solo not down to just sext/want to meet and have some fun looking for people close by, not tryna travel far/ not interested in those who travel, would love to find ppl who live near by and want some consistency 😇😇😜🤭
Female (23) Lenexa, Kansas
Sweet, grounded, and drama-free. I’m drawn to confident, established men who enjoy providing, spoiling, and being generous with someone who truly appreciates it. I value discretion, consistency, and a mutually beneficial dynamic built on respect, connection, and good energy. If generosity and taking care of your person isn’t your style, we’re probably not the right match. Looking for quality, not quantity.
Female (33) Lenexa, Kansas
MAKE SURE YOU READ THEE ENTIRE PROFILE!!! NO NEED TO WAIST TIME IF YOU ARE NOT INTO WHAT I'M INTO!!! I Am A Dom of Very Few Words! Feel Free To Ask What You Want Until I Say Otherwise!!!
Female (25) Lenexa, Kansas
i’m 5’7. i smoke wayyyy too much weed. idrk what im doing on here but im open to anything (i do sell spicy content for my freaks)
Female (24) Lenexa, Kansas
hey! I’m Malloree, I’m 28, a mom to 4 and have the most handsome man that shares a 25 year age gap with me, we are looking to open up to more adventure in our intimate life and try new things!
Female (28) Lenexa, Kansas
New to this and working on figuring out what I'm into! Kind, smart, funny, open-minded. 😊
Female (27) Lenexa, Kansas
"Some women, they only Dominate through ***. I think pleasure can be a greater ***." ~ Maitresse Madeline "Control is about power.......not position." ~ Me If you're not 100% single, don't contact me. Also, if you're a Republican and voted for tRump, move on. If you're younger then 36, or older then 58, please move on. The only reason I don't have a face pic on here is because of my job. I'm more then willing to share one once we've gotten to know each other better. I've never been a writer, for some reason I find it difficult to express myself in writing. Part of the problem is my brain is usually thinking at least 3 sentences ahead of my fingers, so I tend to get a little muddled, or ramble. So, that being said........ I'm a Mother, a BBW, and would love to gain some real life experience in the lifestyle. I identify myself as a BDSM Mistress/Domme, simply because the definition is more fluid for me. I'm a very easy-going type person, too many things have changed in my life suddenly, and sometimes for no reason, for me to get too hung up on changes. As long as I retain final say in all things, and hard limits arent breached, then everything else is negotiable. I've been told, more then once, that I rule with my heart. I believe that to be very true. There is nothing ***d, or fake about my Dominance, it simply....is. I prefer to guide along my path with Love, and praise, rather then rule with *** and ***, though, of course, I reserve the right to inflict *** as I see fit. I'm an extremely honest person, even if it does not benefit me, or hurts me, I'll tell the truth. Most people can't handle that. If you don't want the truth, then don't ask me. Okay, so, finally on to what I'm seeking in a boy...... I want someone who is able to fascinate me on an intellectual level, an achiever, successful, and confident. He is not weak, he does not need me to cope with life, he doesn't bend to everybody - but he gifts himself to me and submits to my wishes. He is my most treasured, precious possession, and though I will sometimes hurt him, I would never harm him. I'd prefer someone who is bi, or at least curious, but if you're not, its not a deal-breaker. If you dont live in Kansas, then you must be willing to relocate. Anything beyond that, well, we can discuss. And with that all being said......if you're still reading, you must be at least a little bit interested, so message me before you lose your nerve.........
Female (49) Lenexa, Kansas
19 - Just got out a crappy relationship, be my rebound? Friends w benefits or casual sex pls and no older than 25! PLEASE BE ABLE TO HOST
Female (20) Lenexa, Kansas
Usually a sub personality, but sometimes feel in the mood to switch. Be warned, I'm an extremely sensual creature. I'm tired of lackluster efforts and immediate roughness. Be comfortable enough in your femininity/masculinity/energy to temper your hardness with soft moments, breathlessness, and silly giggles. Tie me up anytime, but do it with intentionality and care. Into bondage play and some impact and breath play. Just looking for some fun dalliances. Let's grab a bite, have a moment, and share some cuddles together. **if you are right-leaning, we definitely will not get along. please continue on**
Female (30) Lenexa, Kansas
The way to my heart is through massages. Looking for a pleasure ***/caregiver. I want to explore my submissive side, I’m a bit of a brat, and curious about being a little/middle. I’m pretty independent but struggle with making sure I take care of myself. Just looking to seeing what’s out there and if a relationship blooms I’d love with that. I do date to marry. Down to try many new things!! Not a huge on lots of *** but some is good. Nervous but I want try experiencing more of my little/middle side with the right person. I’m a booktok girly…do what you wish with that info. I also don’t mind sending a pic of myself once we get to chatting - too many creeps made me uncomfortable to have it public I’m sorry! I’m blonde with decently long hair, blueish green eyes, curvy with big thighs and stomach, decent smile, a few tattoos, and only pierced ears no other piercings (yet)!
Female (22) Lenexa, Kansas

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