My profile is long. If you read all of it and are not intimidated, you are already doing better than most. There is some good stuff in here if you are willing to get to the end. 😘
Many of you reach out, wanting to meet. At this time, my small circle of regular partners is mostly closed. I have an amazing husband, wonderful Daddy, and a few steady playmates. With work, IRL and wanting to make sure that my regular partners get the time they deserve, I simply do not have time to meet or play with anyone new most of the time.
That said, I am absolutely interest in meeting a female to add to my dynamic if she/you exist out there. for that matter, male, female or other, if you see me at an event or see I am attending an event, hit me up! I still adore meeting new people and good clean dirty play any chance I get. Lol I am just not making a lot of extra time for new dms and lovers at the moment, outside any in person events.
Few things up front:
- **Consent and right to choice. I will always respect yours no matter your chosen gender, creed, orientation or what have you. I am not asking for the same, I expect and demand it.**
- **I will not friend anyone I have not spoken to!**
- If you are married or otherwise in a relationship and your significant other does not know you are stepping out, with very few exceptions, I am probably not the play person you are looking for. I don’t judge, I just have personal issues that bar me from considering most assignations of that sort.
- I am unapologetically sexual, sex positive, pro casual and even anonymous sex and kink BUT I am not just giving away my cookies for free to the first taker. Please respect my right to be choosy, ask questions and protect myself with information. If that doesn’t make sense to you, this is not the profile you are looking for.
- Right now I am primarily looking for Male Doms and Female presenting persons of a more sub nature.
-That said, I enjoy mutual enjoyment more than anything and thus enjoy switching roles as is most pleasing for my lover in the moment.
- **I will not agree to meet you in person some place after just one quick chat on Fet. So do not bother asking**. That bears repeating!
- **I will not agree to meet you in person, at your house, just to hang out, sexual or otherwise with just one quick DM on Fet.** While I like meeting new people in general, and may want to meet at some point, I am not going to agree to any kind of meetup (casual, sexual or otherwise) just because you DM’ed me and asked. So please don’t come at me with that energy.
- Ladies or female presenting, I love a good, naughty gal pal, or friends w/ benefits. My switchy, more dominant nature comes out with female presenting and I just want to have my way with all of you. In this way I am closer to a pleasure Dom all about sharing and creating sensations. That said, all the same concepts listed here still apply. And I will always respect and stand up for your rights to choice and consent in return.
- While I usually respond to chats within 24 hrs, I have a very full IRL life that takes precedence over my kinky fun. This is separated from my kinkster life by design.
- If I reject or otherwise don’t respond to your dm at all, it is because I have read your profile and do not think you are what I am looking for. This is not a judgement call by any stretch. It has nothing to do with “nice”, looks, or any other personal issues. I am simply being very choosy right now in what niches I am looking for and if you don’t fall into that, I am out. No harm no foul. Please read below for more explanation on this.
- This is not a 24/7 thing for me. My InRealLife (IRL) family will always take priority over kinky fun. Please respect my privacy outside my Fet side.
And remember, as the **great** Terry Pratchett said “It's not worth doing something unless someone, somewhere, would much rather you weren't doing it.”
Housekeeping done.
**Hi all!** I am just going to put my Desires out there and if you see something you like, feel free to hit me up for a chat.
I am a spicy neurodivergent who is all for positive realism in life. Outside the playroom, I speak plainly and I mean what I say pretty much always, without malice or mercy, as the saying goes. Directly but kindly as possible. I request the same from those I hang with.
I am pretty much medium in looks. Medium brown hair, medium height. I am on the 1 to 2 X side of plus sizes but I take care of myself. I recently lost quite a bit of weight, with a little more I am still working off, however, so that means I have some extra curves, a tummy roll and imperfections here and there. That said, **I am responsive as fuck, and I cum easy and often as I am very in touch with myself,** my wants and needs and my body. Seriously, I cum ridiculously easily. I have been accused by people just watching or listening to me of being a performative and over the top faker. I can only laugh at those comments because if you are granted the pleasure of playing with me, you will quickly realize I am incapable of faking it. **I am truly that responsive.**
I request partners who show they respect themselves and listen to their bodies as well. Clean, healthy, hygienic and groomed. I am not concerned too much about looks, but I do want to see effort at respecting yourself and your own health.
Most importantly, I have two main men in my life you must be aware of accept as facts.
I am in a nearly 25 year, amazing, cis marriage to my best friend. While he is not fully interested in the kinky lifestyles, he knows and supports my needs and wants like the amazing champ he is. He is easily the love of my life for this and so many other reasons. He will not be participating or involved in my fun… mostly… probably.
I also have a Dom who rocks my world and owns me in the bedroom in every way. He does play in this world with me and on his own from time to time and he is also very understanding of, and gets off on, my needy/greedy sexual nature and allows me to play as I choose. BUT his Will and mandates will always come first. This is my choice as pleasing him pleases me. Mutual Desire, for the big win!
Based on the above, you see I am open to deeper relationships with the right person/people but, while I never completely close myself off to the unexpected, I am currently not expecting to find and am actively NOT looking for another Male permanent partner and would not jump into anything like that lightly or without fully involving my spouse and Dom.
Females… that is different. I would not mind finding another like minded female who fits the dynamic I already have going. I love to share, after all and my guys are worth sharing. Honestly, though, I am not really looking for anything or anyone more than a mutual good time and friendship.
My AuDHD super powers mean I am not super easy to really get to know. Thus, I like my sex, kink, and play based on how I feel In my best “Naughty” moments, when I just want to be masked and tied up and let my body be used and used hard by a master or mistress who knows what they are doing. OR, even better, looking for my “Gimmey” moments, when I want to lock down a willing cunt and lick it and flick it while she begs me for more. I’m a little all over the place and I like it that way.
For now, to give you an idea of my current mood, If I could arrange a PERFECT fantasy of an evening, meaning safe, clean, and Neg STI tests available. I love the idea of something like a reverse glory hole, but more. I want to be masked, bound and wearing ear plugs so I can’t see, can’t move away and can’t really hear unless it’s right beside my ear, but my mouth and other holes are still available for the taking. I want to be placed like an interactive art display with a posted sign of my hard boundaries beside an array of fun toys, whips, plugs and all else available so that anyone who came by could play with me and use me however they chose.
Daddy and/or my lovers would be right there to ensure no one ignores my boundaries, and getting off on the display. Praising me for taking everything they give me and are allowing me to take.
This would go on until I am thoroughly covered in cum and spit and every hole is spent, and I know I have been the best little slut fuck toy possible.
*Good Girl*
Now… *shiver* that is my favorite mental porn when I am riding solo. Anyone interested in maybe a little fantasy role playing with me?
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
100% Brat
100% Non-monogamist
100% Primal (Prey)
100% Rope bunny
100% Switch
100% Voyeur
100% Exhibitionist
94% Rigger
92% Submissive
92% Experimentalist
89% Masochist
88% Slave
82% Primal (Hunter)
81% Dominant
76% Master/Mistress
71% Brat tamer
65% Sadist
61% Degrader
38% Degradee
30% Owner
18% Vanilla
16% Pet
10% Daddy/Mommy
0% Ageplayer
0% Little